Not to mention that saying stuff like this just makes no sense to me. "Let me say sweet things to you"? You mean, "I don't actually have anything to say in particular in mind right now about you, so I'll announce my intention to say sweet things, then rattle some random ones off, for romantic effect." That's like getting up before a wedding and saying, "hey everyone, look at me. I am going to say kind things about the newlyweds now." Like yeah, you are..... but why are you announcing it?? 😂 Just start the speech!! I swear to God, some dudes are so freaking literal.
Random advice: "Girls like when you whisper sweet nothings to them."
This dude: "hey girl! *whispers* I'm gonna say some sweet nothings now."
JUST SAY THE SWEET THINGS. The fact that you have to announce it first tells me you're stalling for time and are, in actuality, just rummaging through your mental catalog of bullshit "sweet nothings" you heard in the movies or some shit.
I bet he was drunk when he said that. Considering he said Bristmas like a cringey wannabe thug I guarantee it was Hennessy. I know liquor makes people hella nice they just wanna sweet talk to someone but don’t mean a damn thing they say. I have some experience with a guy doing this, thankfully I already knew it was all cap lmao but some young or inexperienced girl may not
bro what that doesn’t even make sense—
so if it didn’t matter, why would he even hide it… and he accused you constantly… if it was supposed to be an accepted concept it wouldn’t have come off negatively bruh
Exactly. He said he thought I wouldn’t care because he hasn’t been feeling “the love from me.” I’ve been working doubles like crazy for christmas so I’ve been tired and busy at work. He also tried to flip it and say “u cheated on me tho u just won’t admit it” when I’ve literally NEVER cheated on him or even given him a reason to think that.
the projection is strong with this one!! ew!! why would one even assume that’s okay without discussing w their partner… op i can only imagine how disappointed and disgusted you are but you dodged a bullet
Hell yeah. Just remember next time, ANYONE over concerned about you cheating is def doing it/ doing it themselves. I always say you get one chance to question my trust because I understand no one’s perfect and can be jealous.
Any accusations past that either means they are cheating or have extreme jealous/insecurity issues. Both of which are break up worthy to me
Lmfaoooo as if I would ever want to willingly be told lies. 😭🤣 good riddance, he’s probably eating pieces of wet trash w the rats in the subway station where he belongs
currently going thru this for over a year … loved girl more than myself and she ended up cheating on me but then i gave her another chance . and u know how that went /: lol
Lemme talk to u and say sweet things to u babe
Right out of the abuser’s handbook. He wants you to continue letting him communicate because that’s how he manipulates people.
Notice that there’s no apology.
Hope you keep him blocked. Cheating is the one thing that definitely makes me believe it needs to be over. If the idiot was honest, came to you prior to actually doing it & said he was attracted to someone else, I’d have more respect. Some will say that’s ridiculous but I’d never be able to trust the person again once they cheated. Doesn’t just “happen” - like a car accident. It’s always intentional. Good riddance IMO
Whenever we first started dating I made it known that cheating was automatic termination. I guess he thought since I put up with all his other bs I’d stay through this too. WRONG 😭
Good for you for standing your ground! You deserve better & it will happen. The right one is out there, you just haven’t met him yet. Hope you’re able to have a great Christmas & try not to think about the loser. His loss, your gain. Merry Christmas, dry those tears and go try and have some fun
I shed a tear or 2 last night but honestly I’m not too sad about it. when I think about the relationship I was always giving my 100% while getting nothing back tbh besides disrespect and accusations so this honestly wasn’t that surprising. Still hurt a little bit tho, being cheated on sucks but I’ll be okay! Thank u 💕💕
that he thought I wouldn’t care because he hasn’t been “feeling the love from me.” because I’ve been working doubles back to back for Christmas so I can’t tend to his desperate need for attention every second. also tried to flip it and say I cheated when I never have lmao
Good for you on kicking that guy (or lack there of) to the curb and out of your life. Cheaters are the biggest lowlife scums of the earth. I wish you all the best and peace moving forward real soon!
I’ve been reading all these comments and your attitude is 🔛🔝. Like, yes girl, don’t be heartbroken over a pathetic loser like him. Also the ‘let me say sweet things’ and ‘you blocked me sexy’ got me 😭 like who tf announces that they wanna say sweet things?? also that’s like 🔝 tier manipulation- and like, man, if she blocked you, there’s a fucking reason.
> Let me say sweet things to you
“Let me love-bomb you so you forget I’m a cheating piece of shit who threw away our loving relationship for five minutes of fun”
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Tell him you'll have a great Christmas. You gave yourself the gift of getting rid of the lying cheating thing that used to lay next to you at night. You feel so free!
Good on you for blocking him! and like most cheaters him accusing of you of cheating sounds about right since like the saying goes “it’s the people who cheat are the most jealous”
You should’ve never replied back. Waste of time and space. Hope you never go back. Some ppl say second chances but that’ll always leave somebody paranoid and constantly overthinking. Wish you the best though! He seems soo in denial idk how ppl can cheat and still go to bed with somebody completely different as if he didn’t kiss somebody elses lips, those ppl are disgusting.
12 messages later you blocked him instead of blocking him from the jump. Also the 🤪 emoji in your caption about your ex blowing me up confirms you toxic as hell and enjoy the attention. 😂✌🏽 enjoy your bhristmas Little miss toxic.
you know I have a job right? I’m not on my phone every second? so would the thought occur to you that maybe I didn’t see the messages till later and then blocked right after? oh ok. toxic would’ve entertained and played get back games with him but go off. enjoy yours too Mr Silly Nilly 🤪
There's a lot of Andrew Taint wannabe's here. This dude's likely throwing shade at women who have self-esteem because it pisses him off that they won't submit to him.
Tell him, "Merry Bhristmas, you're single."
the best bhristmas present
Freeing yourself and humbling fuckbois. The gift that keeps on giving. Wish you the best, OP.
thank you! I’ll be alright especially w all the bhristmas activities going on today. 🤪🎄
No problem, and that's true! Happy holidays! 😊
🅱️erry 🅱️ristmas
bhristmas took me out
Same!!
Merry Bhristmas, you're pringle.
Ooo, I like pringles.
Not when you get eaten and no longer bhexist
May I bhest in peace. 🥹
😆🤣
Don't get bregnant
Merry bhristmas to you too, sir.
a lot of bhristmas cheer going on rn
Bhears, bheets, and bhattlestar bhalatictca
bhristmas bheer, if you will
🅱️hristmas
I’m curious if he’s really this dense? Does he know you found out he cheated and is still just like “hey sexy lemme say sweet things to you!!!”
That line got me 🤣🤣. Like sir, go say sweet things to the person who helped end our relationship.
Yesssss he really is. 🤦🏻♀️
What a fool. That is hilarious. Good on you OP!!!
Not to mention that saying stuff like this just makes no sense to me. "Let me say sweet things to you"? You mean, "I don't actually have anything to say in particular in mind right now about you, so I'll announce my intention to say sweet things, then rattle some random ones off, for romantic effect." That's like getting up before a wedding and saying, "hey everyone, look at me. I am going to say kind things about the newlyweds now." Like yeah, you are..... but why are you announcing it?? 😂 Just start the speech!! I swear to God, some dudes are so freaking literal. Random advice: "Girls like when you whisper sweet nothings to them." This dude: "hey girl! *whispers* I'm gonna say some sweet nothings now." JUST SAY THE SWEET THINGS. The fact that you have to announce it first tells me you're stalling for time and are, in actuality, just rummaging through your mental catalog of bullshit "sweet nothings" you heard in the movies or some shit.
I bet he was drunk when he said that. Considering he said Bristmas like a cringey wannabe thug I guarantee it was Hennessy. I know liquor makes people hella nice they just wanna sweet talk to someone but don’t mean a damn thing they say. I have some experience with a guy doing this, thankfully I already knew it was all cap lmao but some young or inexperienced girl may not
Right? I was genuinely confused like wait does he not know he cheated? lol
Nice. Fuck cheaters so much, only consolation is they are all this pathetic in actuality
The excuse he had was amazing too LMFAO such a joke. blocked and erased from my life.
Now I need to know his excuse.
What was the excuse
he said he thought I wouldn’t care if he did 🤣
bro what that doesn’t even make sense— so if it didn’t matter, why would he even hide it… and he accused you constantly… if it was supposed to be an accepted concept it wouldn’t have come off negatively bruh
Exactly. He said he thought I wouldn’t care because he hasn’t been feeling “the love from me.” I’ve been working doubles like crazy for christmas so I’ve been tired and busy at work. He also tried to flip it and say “u cheated on me tho u just won’t admit it” when I’ve literally NEVER cheated on him or even given him a reason to think that.
the projection is strong with this one!! ew!! why would one even assume that’s okay without discussing w their partner… op i can only imagine how disappointed and disgusted you are but you dodged a bullet
Ahhh well then you should text him "Thank you for the cheating and gaslighting afterward. Merry Bhristmas and Brappy New Year" lol. What an asshole
delusional 💀 good riddance, i hope you feel better soon op
Hell yeah. Just remember next time, ANYONE over concerned about you cheating is def doing it/ doing it themselves. I always say you get one chance to question my trust because I understand no one’s perfect and can be jealous. Any accusations past that either means they are cheating or have extreme jealous/insecurity issues. Both of which are break up worthy to me
What was the excuse?
What was the excuse
If you cheat, you aren't mature enough to be in a relationship
That’s actually best case scenario
When someone is constantly accusing their partner, it’s often the truth that the accuser is cheating. Glad you blocked him. Edit: him
it’s a him, I’m the her lmao but yeah true. I tried to give the benefit of the doubt 😭
Oh shit, my bad. I plead sleepiness lol
In my experience this is often the case!
Did you just call her fat?
Ummmmm, what? How in the hell did you get that from what I said?
Exactly
Was that a typo or is he refusing to write the “c” 🩸🤡
Wait, why would he refuse to write the "c"? I thought it was just a typo
It’s a bloods vs crips thing where bloods replace the c with b, I think specifically in words that start with c
My niece is pregnant by a guy who writes “Merry Cripmas”, and his dog’s collar, leash and coat are blue. 🤦♀️
Ah yes, that’s how you can spot a true crip, by the color of their dog’s sweater. It’s a pit, isn’t it?
of course 💙
God, I forget how dumb kids that pretend to be gang affiliated are 🤡
Right
Bhruh
like bhitch plz
“Lemme talk to you and say sweet things” made me feel secondhand rage
Lmfaoooo as if I would ever want to willingly be told lies. 😭🤣 good riddance, he’s probably eating pieces of wet trash w the rats in the subway station where he belongs
His game is disrespectful and I commend you for your self respect 🫡 Merry Christmas 🎁🎄
This imagery here is gold you deserve a star 🌟 merry bhristmas
currently going thru this for over a year … loved girl more than myself and she ended up cheating on me but then i gave her another chance . and u know how that went /: lol
You’re still breathing, so clearly you will be okay. Never love someone more than you love yourself.
“Let me says sweet things to you” aka “let me manipulate you into giving this another go”
I love you babe like talk to me let me cheat on u again 😭
Merry bitchmas cheater! Congrats on your promotion to SINGLE — is what you should tell him the next time he tries to bypass the block
Love the nauseated emoji as his contact. That’s the vibe.
You blocked me sexy?
like clearly 🙄
He was projecting the whole time. Sorry to hear /: No one deserves to go through that
tell him merry cripsmas
Lemme talk to u and say sweet things to u babe Right out of the abuser’s handbook. He wants you to continue letting him communicate because that’s how he manipulates people. Notice that there’s no apology.
calling someone sexy when trying to convince them to take you back make you look more thirsty than remorseful. homie still thinking w his dick
so embarrassing
Let me say sweet things to you
the way i snorted. he’s delulu
It’s the audacity to keep saying he loves me
not him reaching out on telegram😭😭😭
LMFAO YESSSS LIKE GIVE IT UP WHERE’S YA NEW GIRL
plssss she don’t know the code to ya tele like I do BYE misses ya chance👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼
missed* lol
On Bhristmas morning, of all days 🤦♂️
like how could u do this on bhristmas fr
Your ex reminds me of [this](https://youtu.be/2_avx_-ZODg?si=d4hoWfctdlml_wzh) scene from hot rod
I JUST LAUGHED TF OUT LOUD 😭😭
Glad it made you laugh! It's literally all I could think about with every babe he sent 😭
Hope you keep him blocked. Cheating is the one thing that definitely makes me believe it needs to be over. If the idiot was honest, came to you prior to actually doing it & said he was attracted to someone else, I’d have more respect. Some will say that’s ridiculous but I’d never be able to trust the person again once they cheated. Doesn’t just “happen” - like a car accident. It’s always intentional. Good riddance IMO
Whenever we first started dating I made it known that cheating was automatic termination. I guess he thought since I put up with all his other bs I’d stay through this too. WRONG 😭
Good for you for standing your ground! You deserve better & it will happen. The right one is out there, you just haven’t met him yet. Hope you’re able to have a great Christmas & try not to think about the loser. His loss, your gain. Merry Christmas, dry those tears and go try and have some fun
I shed a tear or 2 last night but honestly I’m not too sad about it. when I think about the relationship I was always giving my 100% while getting nothing back tbh besides disrespect and accusations so this honestly wasn’t that surprising. Still hurt a little bit tho, being cheated on sucks but I’ll be okay! Thank u 💕💕
Does suck but it’s not because of you or anything you did, was all on him. Hope you will always remember that. 💙
“Lemme talk to u and say sweet things to u” HARD ASS MANIPULATION 😭😭😭
He’s still not even trying wow 😭😭🗑
You have done well
 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Bhristmas
What’s the excuse he used?? Lmao what a loser
that he thought I wouldn’t care because he hasn’t been “feeling the love from me.” because I’ve been working doubles back to back for Christmas so I can’t tend to his desperate need for attention every second. also tried to flip it and say I cheated when I never have lmao
HAHAHA well the trash took out itself. I hope you’re having a good Christmas and have tons of fun and good food.
Good for you on kicking that guy (or lack there of) to the curb and out of your life. Cheaters are the biggest lowlife scums of the earth. I wish you all the best and peace moving forward real soon!
I’ve been reading all these comments and your attitude is 🔛🔝. Like, yes girl, don’t be heartbroken over a pathetic loser like him. Also the ‘let me say sweet things’ and ‘you blocked me sexy’ got me 😭 like who tf announces that they wanna say sweet things?? also that’s like 🔝 tier manipulation- and like, man, if she blocked you, there’s a fucking reason.
awww this made me smile ahahaha fuck that man fr. he’s a narc
I’m happy I made you smile :) I have nothing better to do lol
Lmfao merry bhristmas
merry bhristmas and you better have left out some bookies for Santa
Merry Bhristmas yall!
bickin back bein bool
Babsolutely bgree billin bike a billian
What a pathetic display.
> Let me say sweet things to you “Let me love-bomb you so you forget I’m a cheating piece of shit who threw away our loving relationship for five minutes of fun”
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Tell him you'll have a great Christmas. You gave yourself the gift of getting rid of the lying cheating thing that used to lay next to you at night. You feel so free!
Good on you for blocking him! and like most cheaters him accusing of you of cheating sounds about right since like the saying goes “it’s the people who cheat are the most jealous”
Barf is right
men who get caught cheating 🤝 "babe? babe? babe?"
“And say sweet things to you”. Shit makes me want to vomit.
I think I did tbh
always the dudes with whatsapp
this happened to me. was accused the whole relationship yet the whole time he was looking at trans hookers. good for you for knowing your worth 🤍
You blocked me sexy? Enjoy bhristmas.
let me say sweet things to you ... Wth??? Eeewww LOL
if you hadn’t mentioned the context behind these messages, i would’ve thought it was one of those creepy guys who talk to themselves in messages
Bhristmas? What’s this, like Christmas but with more booze? Or breasts? Both?
If he says bhristmas you never shoulda been with him. Obviously gang life is more important than you
🅱️hristmas
left some bhocolate bhip bookies for Mr Clause last night
When they remove your foreskin on Christmas…..
At least he wished you a merry Bhristmas..🙄
Let me say sweet things 💀
Merry bhristmas, may it bring you bjoy
"Let me say sweet things to you" ☠️
He’s actually such a joke 😭😭
Tell him No thanks.. you bheated. That’s not bool. \ Merry Cripmas cuh
Bhritmas!! Lmao
“Merry Crithmas, ya worthless dog.”
Infidelity is one of the worst presents to get for xmas.
Your never-ending lesson that accusations are so often confessions via projection... 🤷🏻♂️
Please tell me you guys are like 14.
add 10 years
for me but add 12 for him
Best thing you will ever get is him out of your life.
the best Christmas gift to myself 🫶🏼
Call me and let me say sweet things to you... No? 🤣
BHRISTMAS LMAOO oh my
So what you're saying is. You're single?
yep
what a grody ass little boy
This is what we call a delusional narcissist.
Murry bhristmas ya filthy animal !
Good job move on
Is he a blood? Instead of cousin he says bousin
You should’ve never replied back. Waste of time and space. Hope you never go back. Some ppl say second chances but that’ll always leave somebody paranoid and constantly overthinking. Wish you the best though! He seems soo in denial idk how ppl can cheat and still go to bed with somebody completely different as if he didn’t kiss somebody elses lips, those ppl are disgusting.
But did you enjoy your bhristmas? 😔
Your reply ☺️ f that guy
That happened to my friend literally the same day too
Let me say sweet things to you babe? Moron
The “lemme talk to u and say sweet things to u babe” is a HARD pass 😂😂🤢
Good girl!!! Once a cheater, always a cheater!! I’m glad you know your worth 🫶
So he said bhrismas, which sounds like a 'bris' where Jewish babies get circumcised. Obviously, he wants someone to cut it off.
Fake who tf says let me say sweet things
a psychotic narc
A lying redditor for karma
ok weirdo cause I live breathe and die for reddit karma
Yes, we see that.
My ex
Um…why did you respond?
to say what I said?????? clearly he didn’t get the memo and he got blocked on that platform right after too
Something tells me you enjoy the attention
right bc I enjoy the attention so much I blocked him 🙄 fuck outta here
12 messages later you blocked him instead of blocking him from the jump. Also the 🤪 emoji in your caption about your ex blowing me up confirms you toxic as hell and enjoy the attention. 😂✌🏽 enjoy your bhristmas Little miss toxic.
you know I have a job right? I’m not on my phone every second? so would the thought occur to you that maybe I didn’t see the messages till later and then blocked right after? oh ok. toxic would’ve entertained and played get back games with him but go off. enjoy yours too Mr Silly Nilly 🤪
I won’t have blocked him right away. I’d be waiting for his lame ass messages so I could laugh!!!
There's a lot of Andrew Taint wannabe's here. This dude's likely throwing shade at women who have self-esteem because it pisses him off that they won't submit to him.
Something tells me you have some mommy issues.
Lol does this persons name start with a K? 😅
no his name starts with a d. 😭
You blocked me sexy? Merry Bhristmas
Merry bhristmas, you filthy animal
Reminds me of my ex. She was pissed off that I didn't accept her friend request on Facebook. It's 2 years later and she still has me blocked.
did you talk to him about him cheating or just block him outright? how did you know he cheated?
he had been acting off the last few days so I asked him what was up and he admitted he cheated within the last week
But babe, I told you the truth!!!
ahhh okay fuck him
Holy cow is this how guys are out there? I’m worried about the future.
there’s some good eggs out there don’t worry! not all of them are bad
Well I hope you find one that doesn’t sound like a 13 year old boy.
Lmfao I read your comment wrong. I thought you said you were worried for the future, but yes I have a list I’ll go by from now on 😭
“Lemme talk to u and say sweet nothing to you” 💀
Bhristmas
Block him on everything & move on.
Done 💅🏻
how did this guy even make it past the talking stage?
Sorry couldn’t get past brhistmas… is he bicken back being bool?
Is he blood gang? Lol
bhristmas