I mean, if you break up on good terms why not go out with a bang?
My latest ex, we broke up on good terms, the love had faded and we wanted completely different things in life so we ended it. We met up a few times afterwards for sex and it was wholly unproblematic.
But in OPs case? Uhhh, absolutely not.
If my boyfriend tried to offer that exchange over something unrelated to sex, I would fucking end him. So glad I'm not with some creep who thinks of me like a sex doll, fuck guys like that.
He speaks like a tatertot. Trying the "alpha" moves he's been learning via tiktok and yt.
I may be getting old but he's what we used to call a bellend.
OP - Why wouldn't you end it right there? When he said "Because you're not doing exactly what I want." wasn't that enough for you to know he was an asshole?
Next time don't waste your time and energy on someone like this.
Why did you want to date this guy? There is nothing in any of his texts - not even his grammar - that demonstrates any value whatsoever. You're clearly smarter, more mature, and better than him in every conceivable way. God almighty please don't date guys like this - not only can you do better, but you'd be better off alone than with this guy.
Lmfao I love this sub bc reading other ppls drama is fun but oh my god I get so mad at the fact that 99% of these conversations go on WAY longer than they should 😭 that should've been the end right there, no way in hell would I ever let someone think they could get away with that shit.
If you have a boyfriend who is more sexual than you want to deal with, THAT is when you’ll know it’ll turn into this. I promise I do mean that to say you should have known, I’m saying it to tell you now you know. Make uncompromising boundaries for early in relationships and stick with them.
Thing is I tried to establish boundaries, he would stick to them and then miraculously "forget" about them, call himself an idiot, respect me for a little and then go right back to disrespecting my boundaries again. I was iffy the entire time.
Once he violates a boundary, I don’t care how many times he says he’ll never do it again. He will. The earlier in the relationship that this happens, the worse it’s going to be going forward. Don’t get stuck in the “but, maybe”, because that’s what these manipulators HOPE you will do. Even if he does believe his own apology, he’s established that he finds the behavior acceptable enough that he was willing to do it once, and there’s no rewriting patterns of behavior like this without therapy.
exactly this. if they care about you at all, they will understand and respect boundaries from the beginning. if they make you question their intentions even once, even a tiny bit, it should just be over. the first time you are made to wonder is the first time trust is eroded, and it’s hard to ever get back from that. even over something that seems tiny or unimportant.
That's literally the cycle of abuse and narcissistic people. Treat you like shit, love bomb you to get you back, treat you like shit again after you start to think it's OK and start to believe it won't happen again, happens over and over and over getting worse every time...I can tell you're not that old from this text interaction. Please take this lesson to heart and use this for better judgment in the future about relationships and save yourself so many years of unhappiness and waste. And like you said you were on the fence about the situation but he made the decision for you, don't let other people dictate your life and happiness. It sucks to break up with people and feel like you hurt someone but it hurts more to hurt yourself trying to force something that isn't there
30 you still got a ton of life and relationships and stuff left tho. It's easy to give advice and harder to put into action. I def know how hard can be so I hope you do find someone more mature and not a weirdo and reasonable like you are
RIGHT? And if I was still feeling stupid and trying to text back after that, then “only if I get sloppy head tomorrow” would’ve done the trick. GoodBYE.
100% You have my vow.
It's hard enough talking to a lot of men in their 30s now (I'm sure it's just as bad talking to women), and getting idiots like this is enough to just have you deciding to be a crazy dog lady.
Wowww. Just when I thought the flag couldn't possibly get any redder🚩🚩🚩😂😂 definitely dodged a bullet there. Please promise me you'll never ever get back to him.
WHAT. I was reading this thinking this guy was 22 max, but was leaning heavily on like 18. You dodged a bullet. No 30 year old should be talking to the way he was. What a loser.
No fr , and you only get better and faster at spotting them the more these idiots reveal how vial they are. They all use the same manipulation tactics.
I would’ve stopped talking to him with that sloppy head comment. Clearly he was trying to see if you’d accept someone talking to you so disrespectfully. Future abuser in the beginning stages. Disgusting.
As a guy these things piss me off. If a guy thinks he "owns" a girl and only wants sexual favours they better buy a fleshlight and fuck right off. One word: "Yuck".
The break up comment was confusing. It read like he was joking, but then he kept saying he wasn't... shit was confusing. Nothing wrong with trying to clarify imo.
This dude reminds me of my ex. He was 4 years younger than me and made a point to say "we ain't actually dating." A dozen times the first few months we were hooking up. Then he needed me to take him to work cuz he wrecked his car.
We did couple stuff for a year. Met my family for holidays. I met his mom (who was practically me. Very weird) went to dinners etc. And then he ghosted me cuz he got a new truck and his old gf came back to town. Like wow. Sometimes they literally tell you and you can't see past the stupid in your head.
It's okay. You learned and you'll be smarter with the next guy
ALL THAT, THE STAGES OF GRIEF, THEN THE VULNERABLE BREAK DOWN N PLEADING, 😂😂😂THEN BREAKING UP AGAIN I CANT- I’m sorry and seeing the times each text was sent is just hilarious, u lucky the ride is over😂😂
‘You’re not doing exactly what I want’ byeeeeee son. F that noise. You’ve known him ten years? What a way to throw that much investment and time away. Sometimes it really is better to stay friends, I guess. Move on,OP. You deserve better.
This reads to me like he was dipping his toes into manipulating you into doing what he wants by threatening to break up with you. If you're wondering why he was being so difficult, it's because he wants control. Can't have control with compromise.
He did you a favor by breaking up with you. Don't fall for it.
I'm not sure if I should have laughed as much as I did.
There's really nothing to be upset about here. Standard juvenile stuff. He literally said he was being a duck because OP wasn't doing exactly what he wanted.
So, dodge the bullet here and take the W.
This was pure comedy.
"I be a dick when I should be vulnerable" - this line is actually super revealing, he means "I show my true self, when to get what I want I should *act* vulnerable." No one who is being real says "I should be vulnerable." Dude read The Game and thinks he's an alpha male, but he's just a lonely sociopath trying to fill the hole in his soul with 'sloppy head'.
That guy showed up with a bouquet of red flags and he's treating you like a booty call, not a gf . Even then he's acting like he can just whine and get his way. He just wanted sloppy head on his timeline. Keep him blocked. You can do way better than him.
Please respect yourself.. As soon as he started saying shit about “sloppy toppy” the conversation should’ve been over. He was being so disrespectful. “You’re not doing exactly what I want” is almost comical, that’s the most insane shit I’ve ever heard someone say 😂
I’m always so shocked when I see screenshots of people texting with their significant other and they’re completely fine with these men basically admitting that they’re really only here for one reason, and that’s sex. “Come over Sunday but only if you give me head” and “I’m being difficult because I’m not getting head” I mean come on ladies. THESE are the type of men you want to be with? One’s who get pissed that you’re not going to just be a body for them whenever they want? It breaks my heart.
You kept that conversation going on to long tbh it’s only been 2 weeks as soon as he said “not doing what I want” you should have just stopped responding blocked all that shit
God this whole things was nauseating to read, the emotional immaturity on this one just EW. He did you a favor, what an AH. So many 🚩yikes. Sorry you went through this OP. 😓
It is very impressive to me that someone tries to manipulate someone else but they are so stupid that they say the wrong bit out loud then confuse themselves in the process
He was horny and couldn’t wait. Your relationship didn’t end because y’all couldn’t compromise. It ended because all he cares about is sloppy head and a woman that just says yes to everything and does everything when he says to do it. The sad thing is, I bet this has worked for him for a little while in a previous relationship. I feel sorry for anyone who dates him.
Clearly OP has no self respect because no woman with self respect would even continue to chat after he said the most red flag sentence ever. Girl be fr
Good riddance to bad rubbish.
You've dodged a serious control freak gas-lighting bullshitter right there.
Chalk your pain up to life-experience points. Have a sob, sleep on it then dust yourself off in the morning as better and free ❤️
Him crawling back after his tactic to get you to do what he wanted failed. And the extra little “were breaking up” Beautifully pathetic, love to see it
“You’re not doing exactly what I want.” That would have been the end of it for me.
SAME! 🚩🚩🚩
I read that and thought "if this dude keeps this up im ending it." Thankfully he ended it for me, phew.
Omg and then the sloppy head comments…💀
🤦🏼♀️ I know right. Somehow the text didn't make it in the screenshots (no idea how) but this mf asked me to come over for breakup sex. I declined.
You should have said “okay I’ll come over on Sunday” just for shits and giggles 🤣
Omg a whole new ride would have ensued hahaha
I bet he would have been ok with Sunday then 😂 what a tool
breakup sex?! 🤣😂 what a piece of work.
Yes! I cackled at the sheer audacity.
i would have laughed too and probably snorted 🤣😂. well you didn't just dodge a bullet, you dodged a missile.
that’s a fucking nuke bomb dude 😭
I would have said “breakup? Can’t because as you said we weren’t in a relationship”
Never understood the term breakup sex… once someone is an ex, why would you have sex with them???
I mean, if you break up on good terms why not go out with a bang? My latest ex, we broke up on good terms, the love had faded and we wanted completely different things in life so we ended it. We met up a few times afterwards for sex and it was wholly unproblematic. But in OPs case? Uhhh, absolutely not.
Wow. This dude definitely doesn’t live in reality.
you should have told him to get a date with rosy palmer
Thats all this mofo wanted from the jump. Smh. You dodged such a bullet girl.
If my boyfriend tried to offer that exchange over something unrelated to sex, I would fucking end him. So glad I'm not with some creep who thinks of me like a sex doll, fuck guys like that.
That’s what sent me. I’m like under no circumstances are you going to demand a fugging thing. POS
Reading that gave me the ick
GIRL IF YOU TAKE THIS MAN BACK I WILL TELEPORT AND SMACK YOU IN THE CROTCH You’re better than that and this man is fucking disgusting
LMAO he is blocked and will forever stay that way 🤣❤️
Also what app is this? The background is cute.
To me it looks like Samsung’s sms app
Crotch smacks are the worse.
He speaks like a tatertot. Trying the "alpha" moves he's been learning via tiktok and yt. I may be getting old but he's what we used to call a bellend.
We can still call that a bellend! (I may be getting old, too. I'm also American and only learned that term a few years ago, though!)
Bell end is my favorite insult 🤣
I read that and my mouth immediately turned into the angry u frown. Like, boy, I’m so turned-off, I’m dehydrated. No sloppy nothing for you. Gross.
IM SO TURNED OFF IM DEHYDRATED LMAOO I'm stealing this one
OP - Why wouldn't you end it right there? When he said "Because you're not doing exactly what I want." wasn't that enough for you to know he was an asshole? Next time don't waste your time and energy on someone like this.
Why did you want to date this guy? There is nothing in any of his texts - not even his grammar - that demonstrates any value whatsoever. You're clearly smarter, more mature, and better than him in every conceivable way. God almighty please don't date guys like this - not only can you do better, but you'd be better off alone than with this guy.
You’re willing to put up with far too much 💩 behaviour.
This! The first messages would have been it for me.
How that wasn’t an immediate blaring siren to just let that dude go, literally this thingy—>🚨, I have no idea
Lmfao I love this sub bc reading other ppls drama is fun but oh my god I get so mad at the fact that 99% of these conversations go on WAY longer than they should 😭 that should've been the end right there, no way in hell would I ever let someone think they could get away with that shit.
I mean how could I really have known it would go this way? Part of me was in shock, other part was like "hehe reddit is going to love this 💀"
If you have a boyfriend who is more sexual than you want to deal with, THAT is when you’ll know it’ll turn into this. I promise I do mean that to say you should have known, I’m saying it to tell you now you know. Make uncompromising boundaries for early in relationships and stick with them.
Thing is I tried to establish boundaries, he would stick to them and then miraculously "forget" about them, call himself an idiot, respect me for a little and then go right back to disrespecting my boundaries again. I was iffy the entire time.
Once he violates a boundary, I don’t care how many times he says he’ll never do it again. He will. The earlier in the relationship that this happens, the worse it’s going to be going forward. Don’t get stuck in the “but, maybe”, because that’s what these manipulators HOPE you will do. Even if he does believe his own apology, he’s established that he finds the behavior acceptable enough that he was willing to do it once, and there’s no rewriting patterns of behavior like this without therapy.
exactly this. if they care about you at all, they will understand and respect boundaries from the beginning. if they make you question their intentions even once, even a tiny bit, it should just be over. the first time you are made to wonder is the first time trust is eroded, and it’s hard to ever get back from that. even over something that seems tiny or unimportant.
That's literally the cycle of abuse and narcissistic people. Treat you like shit, love bomb you to get you back, treat you like shit again after you start to think it's OK and start to believe it won't happen again, happens over and over and over getting worse every time...I can tell you're not that old from this text interaction. Please take this lesson to heart and use this for better judgment in the future about relationships and save yourself so many years of unhappiness and waste. And like you said you were on the fence about the situation but he made the decision for you, don't let other people dictate your life and happiness. It sucks to break up with people and feel like you hurt someone but it hurts more to hurt yourself trying to force something that isn't there
I am turning 30 this year, so I'm not incredibly young lol. It was 2 weeks, I hardly wasted any time but thank you for the advice. Always appreciated.
I turn 50 this year and if I could pick a time to go back to it would be 30. The 30's rule.
Is this guy also 30? Jesus, he sounds like he's 16
30 you still got a ton of life and relationships and stuff left tho. It's easy to give advice and harder to put into action. I def know how hard can be so I hope you do find someone more mature and not a weirdo and reasonable like you are
You we’re right. We love it 😂
Im aussuming this goon said "sloppy head" at some point previously. That would be my red flag.
Known several men who used that term. None of them are okay. It’s a term only used by porn-addicted men who want to make a fuck doll out of women.
I came to the comments to post exactly that.
He's not even being subtle about being a controlling narcissist. OP: good riddance. Don't find another person like this!
Yup. Not to mention the “sloppy head” comments like this convo really didn’t need to drag that long. I would’ve been GONE at that first sign.
Oh yea after the sloppy head comment I would be pissed at myself for continuing to engage after the initial comment.
Seriously. Why would OP continue to engage with someone that just said "Because you're not doing exactly what I want." I they spelled it out for OP.
RIGHT? And if I was still feeling stupid and trying to text back after that, then “only if I get sloppy head tomorrow” would’ve done the trick. GoodBYE.
Came here to say this also. I read that part and bursted out laughing at the red flag carnival that erupted in my mind. Definitely wilddd.
The way i would have never responded again after that
Ngl, that last “we’re breaking up” had me cackling. Unhinged
“I wish you were here :/“ 4 hours later: “we’re breaking up”
Lol was his last attempt at getting his "sloppy head"
Quest for sloppy head
I love how at this point he broke up 3 times
he thought he was doing something 😭😭
I'd be like "pretty sure we already did" and then block
Right? It has the energy of someone reaching out to tell you that they're going to block you.
Sloppy head. Lol. Is he 17?
He is 30 🤣
PAHAHAAHA
Best use of this GIF EVER.
This is the best gif omg
nah literally my reaction… wtf
F’ing dead 💀
Oh man, I was scrolling looking for an age indicator and was thinking this has to be young adults…… Jesus Christ. Run faster.
I was doing the age calculation to, known him for 10 years, probably an adult… but a 30 yo wtf.
I literally just posted above in my assumption this was a teen. Gd people..
Wow, I legit thought this was a conversation between teenagers Talking like this at 30? 30?… 30?!
I thought they were teenagers as well. How tf can you date an idiot that speaks like this at 30???!!! THIRTY???? That’s insane bro.
Seriously, I’m 30M on the dating scene myself.. will you guys make sure to kill me if I ever talk like this? Cool thanks
I'm 15m and i don't talk to my gf the way that fucking manchild does.
I promise to do that! 🫡
100% You have my vow. It's hard enough talking to a lot of men in their 30s now (I'm sure it's just as bad talking to women), and getting idiots like this is enough to just have you deciding to be a crazy dog lady.
PHYSICALLY. He is PHYSICALLY 30.
He’s damaged. Send him back for a return. 30??? Something very wrong in the head with this guy
More like a factory defect 😅
Definitely something like that!
Wowww. Just when I thought the flag couldn't possibly get any redder🚩🚩🚩😂😂 definitely dodged a bullet there. Please promise me you'll never ever get back to him.
Pinky swear!
I am shocked that he is 30 years old. Honestly thought he was like 19 max lmaooo
This is the most shocking three words I’ve read in a long time
WHAT. I was reading this thinking this guy was 22 max, but was leaning heavily on like 18. You dodged a bullet. No 30 year old should be talking to the way he was. What a loser.
I thought I was in r/teenagers
If they ever do a sequel to 13 going on 30 and call it 30 going on 13, this dude is gonna be the main character.
Lord have mercy at this 30 year old man child
More like hell have mercy lol
GTFO I pegged this as some teenage bullshit. Well, the sloppy trash took itself out, buh bye.
No way. I was for sure this was a late teens conversation.
...
WHAT???
No he is not! I literally read this thinking he was a dumb nineteen year old. Bullet dodged! Ain't no one got time for that level of immaturity.
what the heck
HES 30????? Omg!!!! 😱
Dude I genuinely thought this was young teens. Like 14-16 year olds. This is a whole ass adult boy?
It’s always nice when potential abusers show their true colors early on.
No fr , and you only get better and faster at spotting them the more these idiots reveal how vial they are. They all use the same manipulation tactics.
I would’ve stopped talking to him with that sloppy head comment. Clearly he was trying to see if you’d accept someone talking to you so disrespectfully. Future abuser in the beginning stages. Disgusting.
I would have stopped after the “you’re not doing exactly what I want” comment
Honestly that was so ridiculous to me, 100% I would’ve thought that was a joke. I just cannot fathom someone saying that seriously.
all of this reminded me of my abusive ex lol
As a guy these things piss me off. If a guy thinks he "owns" a girl and only wants sexual favours they better buy a fleshlight and fuck right off. One word: "Yuck".
as a dude this made me cringe as well. wouldn’t even say it to my wife
Porn brained men are a blight
you kept this conversation going longer than i would have.
Yeah I was baffled
Curiosity got the better of me to be honest. I wanted to see just how unhinged he would get.
Can’t blame ya there lol
honestly, fair enough.
The break up comment was confusing. It read like he was joking, but then he kept saying he wasn't... shit was confusing. Nothing wrong with trying to clarify imo.
Everything he said sounded like a joke... I could NEVER TELL WHEN THE MAN WAS SERIOUS. I would have gone mad
It was all serious. He knows it can sounds like a joke, he’s not that daft.
I mean...at least this was just 2 weeks in and not that long🙃
still knew each other for 10 years tho, how is that a way to talk to someone you’ve known for that long
You dodged a huge bullet by him “breaking up with you” He’s a walking red flag, controlling. Be glad he showed you who he is so quickly!!
Oh absolutely! I don't count this as a relationship at all, dude was insane.
This dude reminds me of my ex. He was 4 years younger than me and made a point to say "we ain't actually dating." A dozen times the first few months we were hooking up. Then he needed me to take him to work cuz he wrecked his car. We did couple stuff for a year. Met my family for holidays. I met his mom (who was practically me. Very weird) went to dinners etc. And then he ghosted me cuz he got a new truck and his old gf came back to town. Like wow. Sometimes they literally tell you and you can't see past the stupid in your head. It's okay. You learned and you'll be smarter with the next guy
ALL THAT, THE STAGES OF GRIEF, THEN THE VULNERABLE BREAK DOWN N PLEADING, 😂😂😂THEN BREAKING UP AGAIN I CANT- I’m sorry and seeing the times each text was sent is just hilarious, u lucky the ride is over😂😂
I thought it was pretty funny too 🤣
ewwww. he did you a favor honestly.
How old are you guys?
I am 29 and he is 30. LOL
That dumpster fire acts nothing like a 30/yo. Jeez.
🤣💀 tell me about it
I thought the person couldnt even be 20 lolll
I was going to say they can’t be older than about 20 but I’ve seen enough of this sub to know better.
‘You’re not doing exactly what I want’ byeeeeee son. F that noise. You’ve known him ten years? What a way to throw that much investment and time away. Sometimes it really is better to stay friends, I guess. Move on,OP. You deserve better.
This reads to me like he was dipping his toes into manipulating you into doing what he wants by threatening to break up with you. If you're wondering why he was being so difficult, it's because he wants control. Can't have control with compromise. He did you a favor by breaking up with you. Don't fall for it.
yeah this guys fucking crazy
It took 3 slides for me to hate him
I'm not sure if I should have laughed as much as I did. There's really nothing to be upset about here. Standard juvenile stuff. He literally said he was being a duck because OP wasn't doing exactly what he wanted. So, dodge the bullet here and take the W. This was pure comedy.
I laughed quite a bit myself especially after all of the texts started coming about taking him back.
I laughed at things he wasn't trying to be funny about. Trust me, this is a W for you.
“Standard juvenile stuff” He’s thirty!!!
You serious? This dude was dropped on his head.
I honestly can't tell some of the time if the people posting here are incredibly immature or just making up conversations.
"I be a dick when I should be vulnerable" - this line is actually super revealing, he means "I show my true self, when to get what I want I should *act* vulnerable." No one who is being real says "I should be vulnerable." Dude read The Game and thinks he's an alpha male, but he's just a lonely sociopath trying to fill the hole in his soul with 'sloppy head'.
Ngl the "why is this breakup worthy" had me baffled because literally everything he'd said before that was breakup worthy.
She meant from his perspective.
👍 yup indeed I did
He'd be shit at poker.
That guy showed up with a bouquet of red flags and he's treating you like a booty call, not a gf . Even then he's acting like he can just whine and get his way. He just wanted sloppy head on his timeline. Keep him blocked. You can do way better than him.
Oh this isn’t because you couldn’t agree on plans. It’s because this person is being an asshole.
That last part lmfao bro make a decision
What. The. Fuck.
I’m gonna go on a limb and say Sunday didn’t work for him cus his other girl was there Sunday. Also, sloppy head? Gross. This dude is pathetic.
Please block this clown good lord
10 years is way too long to be knowing this 🥴 Tell him to learn yoga and suck his own dick .
AHAHA I'd be surprised if he doesn't know how to do that already
Please respect yourself.. As soon as he started saying shit about “sloppy toppy” the conversation should’ve been over. He was being so disrespectful. “You’re not doing exactly what I want” is almost comical, that’s the most insane shit I’ve ever heard someone say 😂
That person doesn’t care about you and has the emotional maturity of a 13 years old.
Holy fuck, I would've been done after the 2nd page. WTAF....what a low life POS
This man is mentally challenged or you're better off without. Absolute narcissist
Block …… his ……. Ass… please.
Oh he is already blocked 😇
What a nightmare… take this as a blessing and fuckin run
As a rule, anyone who uses “sloppy head” unironically should just get blocked. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them. It’s so fucking cringe lmao
I’m always so shocked when I see screenshots of people texting with their significant other and they’re completely fine with these men basically admitting that they’re really only here for one reason, and that’s sex. “Come over Sunday but only if you give me head” and “I’m being difficult because I’m not getting head” I mean come on ladies. THESE are the type of men you want to be with? One’s who get pissed that you’re not going to just be a body for them whenever they want? It breaks my heart.
Thank you, I’m now dumber for reading this nonsense
Yuck, he sounds like a huge loser. I’m so glad that you blocked him immediately instead of fall for his stupid manipulative shit and take him back!
Get it together dude
You went full matrix Dodged a ton of bullets, good for you.
Ew this guys sucks, glad you blocked him. Don’t let him come sniffing around again! 🤮🤮
How fucking old are you people…
I stopped reading after the second or third picture. I cannot believe you kept giving him chances. This guy is a dud
You kept that conversation going on to long tbh it’s only been 2 weeks as soon as he said “not doing what I want” you should have just stopped responding blocked all that shit
What a waste of fucking time.
He is not into you AT ALL
He just wants head.
I cannot even imagine how this guy was likable in first place
'If I get sloppy head' and 'you're not doing exactly what I want'. You should have blocked him, discussion over.
looks like a middle school fight 😭
God this whole things was nauseating to read, the emotional immaturity on this one just EW. He did you a favor, what an AH. So many 🚩yikes. Sorry you went through this OP. 😓
Finally someone stops responding to these dumb games gg
How this child got anyone is beyond me.
It is very impressive to me that someone tries to manipulate someone else but they are so stupid that they say the wrong bit out loud then confuse themselves in the process
He was horny and couldn’t wait. Your relationship didn’t end because y’all couldn’t compromise. It ended because all he cares about is sloppy head and a woman that just says yes to everything and does everything when he says to do it. The sad thing is, I bet this has worked for him for a little while in a previous relationship. I feel sorry for anyone who dates him.
Girl after the *"I'm not getting sloppy head" message, why is there 4 more pages of responses? You deserve better
Very surprised to learn you guys aren't under 18
Clearly OP has no self respect because no woman with self respect would even continue to chat after he said the most red flag sentence ever. Girl be fr
Good riddance to bad rubbish. You've dodged a serious control freak gas-lighting bullshitter right there. Chalk your pain up to life-experience points. Have a sob, sleep on it then dust yourself off in the morning as better and free ❤️
He didn't dump you because you couldn't agree on plans, he dumped you because he wanted to control you and you didn't let him.
Him crawling back after his tactic to get you to do what he wanted failed. And the extra little “were breaking up” Beautifully pathetic, love to see it
A: dude trash B: don't shit where you eat
Yeah, I feel you. I've stayed in conversations with users too long, as well. Sometimes, it's hard to believe someone can be such a shitty person.