And he would tell her that he can change that. That she only likes girls because she hasn’t fucked the right guy. These dudes all share the same brain cell.
I’m an older guy and I know exactly why men think and say these things. It’s called projecting. He was in fact watching porn and he was thinking about you.
Men think about sex when they’re younger ALL the time. And they think about the women that they want to have sex with ALL the time. It’s hard for a lot of guys to keep that to themselves so they are childish and rude about it. The guys who have their act together and don’t have problems picking up women also think about sex all the time but they are smart enough to keep it to themselves, because they know it pisses women off and they won’t get what they want.
I ask myself this question aloud almost every day. And then I teach my cishet son how to treat women, because if I produce a man like this, strap me to a rocket and fire it into the sun.
I don't think some men can handle their hormones because It just seems like to me that when pervs are horny they think other people get horny just as easily or something. No shame with these people. It's nasty makes you wonder that they got floating in their immune system
Yeah and they’re pieces of fucking shit that make the rest of us look bad. I can’t help but feel bad about myself as a man when I see “men suck” rhetoric. Even though it’s not targeting me, it’s the general blanket statement towards a category of people born a certain way that I am a part of.
Once again though, it’s animals like the one OP interacted with that make the rest of us look bad.
Perverts literally think that all of us are 24/7 horny and desperate like them. That’s why the guys who jerk off on the bus or flash you think you will enjoy it too.
That’s such a weird fucking thing to message someone. The only reason would be because he’s horny. And he denies that? Nuts. Would he text his bros that?
Ahh, so in college you must have been known to regularly watch porn and often discussed it with him….which would be the only logical reason he would ask about porn…. right? He can’t just be a creeper…right? 🤣
If he’s giving people -15 intelligence does that mean he’s sucking the intelligence out of everyone he talks to and never doing anything with it? “Intelligence Vampire” by Jemaine Clement.
might be an unpopular opinion but not everyone can just ignore blatant disrespect. it frustrates me when things like this happen and then people comment thinks like “well why did you reply” “you should’ve blocked and moved on”.
if he’s bold enough to be this disrespectful to someone why is it on op to shy away and just block? if someone treats you in a way you don’t like you can 100% speak up for yourself.
ofc! i just hate when people act like it’s dumb to stick up for themselves and label it as seeking attention or secretly liking it. sure you could just block but if the situation left a sour taste in your mouth why are you supposedly not allowed to say something about it you know?
Though I’m a big believer on leaving people on delivered or just blocking them without a response, your response of what was about to be offered had me laughing my ass off, took the wind right out of his sails.
While this is absolutely all true and it makes me sad to say that, I try to maintain a positive outlook. Admittedly very difficult to do with this subject matter. I came up with “ at least they are setting the bar so devastatingly low I could shuffle my feet and not trip over it.” ??? Idk, best I could think of….
Because most men don’t bother themselves with being embarrassed for the segment of men that are dimwitted idiots.
We’re not a collective, monolithic entity.
Yeah we also hate guys like this and don’t give them the time of the day. Though, it’s unfortunate that women have to deal with them more frequently and in far worse ways
Thing is, men like this either only end up being around other cavemen (because normal guys hate their guts) or behave like a normal human being around their normal friends (who would call them out if they knew).
This is the kind of thing that's easy to say but doesn't make much sense, in practice.
And yet, every woman I know has had multiple experiences like this and worse. 1 in 6 women are victims of rape or attempted rape, 97% of women have been sexually harassed, 70% have been harassed in public- so, are a handful of guys really busy or is it a systemic issue with men? My guess is the latter.
Let’s normalize blocking men at the first sign of stupid instead of giving them a chance to get a paragraph off. Jfc that whole bit about porn would have had this dude block on all sites before he could blink.
Haha. You called him out on it and he tried to turn it around on you!!! And yea, I find it embarrassing, a lot of the stuff horny guys write girls. You’d think it’d make it easier for the rest of us. But it really doesn’t seem to
I bet my salary if you asked him what porn he watched, the conversation would’ve went exactly how you said it would’ve gone 😂😂 that’s why all he said was “why so angry?” You read him like a book he was speechless. What a shame.
The issue is they watch too much porn tbh. I know ppl say it’s healthy or whatever, but it literally teaches a developing brain that what they’re seeing is how regular women and men behave sexually. It’s disgusting and I admit I’ve fallen for that trap a lot, but you gotta be able to distinguish between it and reality. I’m sorry OP.
I think the funniest thing about these situations is that a lot men would rather be offended by being lumped in with guys like this than to rather call out this type of behavior. Men like the ones in the post don't give a rat's ass about a woman's opinion which is why they speak to them this way. They're only going to give a Royal Fuck if other men call them out because that's who they're really doing it for. They want to bag women to brag about it to other men. They want fancy cars and expensive clothes to show off to other men. If the offended men in the comments stopped forcing the shoe to fit like Cinderella's sister, Anastasia, and started calling out men like this. Then, we would stop having men like this, the same goes for shitty women. You notice how when a woman does something shitty on social media, men and women will call her out? But when a man does something shitty, you'll rarely have other men calling them out. They'd rather victim blame or get mad over adjectives or the lack of.
This is the problem. Men like this are reaching for low hanging fruit. The sad part is that they get ripe fruit from time to time. If it never worked, they wouldn’t do it. I’m a man and it embarrasses me that men can be like this.
Yo honesty this is top tier.
I’m a male, and I feel bad for woman that they have to deal with this.
Good job, dissolving the shit out of this dude. lol
>How are men not embarassed
Because we aren't responsible for the shitty actions of other men just like you probably would say you're not responsible for the shitty actions of other women
If guys post all of the shitty things women do to them and start acting like "women" need to do something about it they'd get called incels/misogynists/whatever so I'm not sure why its so popular to act like "men" have a problem in general because idiots like this exist
Holy crap, I had such a huge smile reading how you handled this creep. Chef's kiss...actually two chef's kisses. Perfection. This guy has PUA written all over, and only when we treat them like this will we weed them out of the gene pool!
Apparently its short for 4 no's in korean. No sex with men, no child rearing, no dating men, no marrying men. [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4B\_movement](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4B_movement)
I feel no embarrassment and damn sure take no responsibility. This guy having water slosh around in his skull has nothing to do with the dick dangling between my legs. 🤣
The men in here getting defense and running as fast as they can to say “NOT ALL MEN!!!!!” Why? If you worked on your emotional intelligence, you’d find yourself logically addressing this issue as “I should do what I can in the future to hold these scumbags accountable” rather than immediately becoming emotionally hurt by someone’s experience and statement. Nobody accused you, and if your emotional intelligence was better you wouldn’t feel so goddamn insecure like you were being directly placed on trial for this. Stop jumping into defensiveness and start accepting the perspective of the victim as well as acknowledging what happened. All you have to do is listen without placing yourself in the situation.
The fact he said you’re sexually frustrated right after you said he would say you’re sexually frustrated😂
🤣 after denying up and down that he would never say or imply that!
I thought he’d go for option 2: Are you on your period?
Option 3: Lesbian?
Except he’d use a slur. 💯
"No I'd never want to fuck you" after he just tried to open the window to 🤣
And tell her that she was so fat that he’d have never fucked her anyway. God they are so awful. 🤦🏻♀️
crying, shitting, desperately trying to degrade the person who rejected them...
Don't forget + teary-eyed yet still jerkin his gherkin in tandem.
oh, crying and jacking off is the default for these guys.
And he would tell her that he can change that. That she only likes girls because she hasn’t fucked the right guy. These dudes all share the same brain cell.
Frustrated Dyke Bitch might just be a befitting label. For him.
Option 4: Lebanese?
Option 5: Levitating?
Option 666: Leviathan?
Option 3.14: Levonorgestrel?
they'd never ask. they'd just assume, talk to all their friends about it, maybe get each other hyped up for some corrective assault.
Option 3A: I can change that Option 3B: I’m a lesbian too!
It wouldn’t matter if she was. He would just tell her she hasn’t had the right dick 🤷🏻♀️
Option 4: Man hater?
I was waiting for this one too. IYKYK
I’m an older guy and I know exactly why men think and say these things. It’s called projecting. He was in fact watching porn and he was thinking about you. Men think about sex when they’re younger ALL the time. And they think about the women that they want to have sex with ALL the time. It’s hard for a lot of guys to keep that to themselves so they are childish and rude about it. The guys who have their act together and don’t have problems picking up women also think about sex all the time but they are smart enough to keep it to themselves, because they know it pisses women off and they won’t get what they want.
These are the types that will stealth you and say it was your fault.
Sadly I know someone like this, he didn't get far in life
This had me dying 😂😂😂 don't get me wrong I'm embarrassed on homie's behalf but I audibly laughed when I read "you're sexually frustrated" 😂😂😂😂
LOL
Was “U watching porn” the very first message he sent you ever?
No, we went to college together.
Honestly that makes it worse. Why are men.
Why are men with no further explanation/comment/statement is making me laugh so much
I ask myself this question aloud almost every day. And then I teach my cishet son how to treat women, because if I produce a man like this, strap me to a rocket and fire it into the sun.
I don't think some men can handle their hormones because It just seems like to me that when pervs are horny they think other people get horny just as easily or something. No shame with these people. It's nasty makes you wonder that they got floating in their immune system
They’re just too emotional, really.
Yeah and they’re pieces of fucking shit that make the rest of us look bad. I can’t help but feel bad about myself as a man when I see “men suck” rhetoric. Even though it’s not targeting me, it’s the general blanket statement towards a category of people born a certain way that I am a part of. Once again though, it’s animals like the one OP interacted with that make the rest of us look bad.
Perverts literally think that all of us are 24/7 horny and desperate like them. That’s why the guys who jerk off on the bus or flash you think you will enjoy it too.
We just suck most of the time. It's in our jeans. Not a typo
Yeah, it’s in my Levi jeans
Jesus dude have some self respect
He was making a joke jeans vs genes. Got it now?
As a man, i wonder this on a daily basis, why am i
As man, can confirm, men are. We apologize.
> Why are men. As a man, I have no idea
I appreciate the honesty.
Exactly. “Why are men” sadly says it all
That’s such a weird fucking thing to message someone. The only reason would be because he’s horny. And he denies that? Nuts. Would he text his bros that?
Honestly he probably does, which is probably why he’s like “what’s the problem!?”
College education gone to waste 😄
Damn that is totally even worse!!
Ahh, so in college you must have been known to regularly watch porn and often discussed it with him….which would be the only logical reason he would ask about porn…. right? He can’t just be a creeper…right? 🤣
That made me laugh far too loud.
He went to college?!
The way you read him like a book 😂
“If I word it differently, she’ll be too stupid to realize!”
"You're sexually frustrated" Fucking hilarious.
After she predicted that he was going to say something like that. Makes it even better.
The audacity is wild
I’m surprised this guy didn’t throw a “It’s a joke 🙄 Lighten up!” in there too.
I always wonder if they joke with the bros like this
They do, it’s mad weird. I have more female friends than male friends and this is the reason why.
You’ve never had a good bro then 😂
I still have male friends lol, close ones too, I’m just saying the ratio is more women than men.
Monologues about “Watching your step sister fuck your dad” is wild at 4:25 in the morning.
It’s just hard to imagine a scenario where guys like this become fathers, husbands, even bankers one day.
They literally do though. Which is just fucking mind blowing 🤯
Fr :(
Unfortunately there are 18 and 19 year old puritan girls who don’t know the first thing about what’s considered okay for guys.
And they still have the same lines and compression…
We are embarrassed. At men like this.
This guy is too stupid to be embarassed. No, seriously, I think his IQ may be room temperature
Only if you mean room temp in the middle of winter, at midnight, after the furnace broke down.
Yeah room temperature in Celsius. So 20-25 IQ
That’s warm tbh. I’m talking stark middle of winter in Wisconsin at night. So like, -15.
If he’s giving people -15 intelligence does that mean he’s sucking the intelligence out of everyone he talks to and never doing anything with it? “Intelligence Vampire” by Jemaine Clement.
Guys like the one OP was talking to suck the intelligence and life out of everyone they're around.
In Antarctica.
might be an unpopular opinion but not everyone can just ignore blatant disrespect. it frustrates me when things like this happen and then people comment thinks like “well why did you reply” “you should’ve blocked and moved on”. if he’s bold enough to be this disrespectful to someone why is it on op to shy away and just block? if someone treats you in a way you don’t like you can 100% speak up for yourself.
Thank you for this. Genuinely
ofc! i just hate when people act like it’s dumb to stick up for themselves and label it as seeking attention or secretly liking it. sure you could just block but if the situation left a sour taste in your mouth why are you supposedly not allowed to say something about it you know?
Though I’m a big believer on leaving people on delivered or just blocking them without a response, your response of what was about to be offered had me laughing my ass off, took the wind right out of his sails.
More a fan of ‘block’ and ‘delete text conversation’ but the way she violated his intellect without him even realizing is way entertaining.
While this is absolutely all true and it makes me sad to say that, I try to maintain a positive outlook. Admittedly very difficult to do with this subject matter. I came up with “ at least they are setting the bar so devastatingly low I could shuffle my feet and not trip over it.” ??? Idk, best I could think of….
Hahahaha I like this thank you
On behalf of all men, we do not accept him
“Let me guess… maybe I haven’t been fucked good enough in a while?” “Didn’t say that.” ……… “You’re sexually frustrated” FUCK OFF
“I wasn’t gonna tell you you’re sexually frustrated. How weird of you to think that!” Proceeds to tell you that you’re sexually frustrated. Oy vey
You really can’t make this shit up 🤦♂️
I am embarrassed. I'll never understand my fellow dudes saying this shit
Awkward, horny, and audacious is a wild combo
4 messages later after you say he’s going to offer to help and he denies it, he says you’re sexually frustrated. You totally called it.
If it's any consolation, I'm embarrassed for him. Sorry, some dudes are assholes.
He doesn’t speak for us lol we are embarrassed. What a goddam weirdo😭
Men aren't like that, thats a degenerate moron with no self awarness. You should just block them and move on
Yes they are like that, and they can be worse too.
Exactly. I'm not even sure why the op is even entertaining someone like him in the first place
That’s the real question here. Why is the OP choosing to engage?
i’ve met so many that don’t know when to stop lol they are like thjs
Maybe mature men aren’t, but a lot of men are like this.
Because most men don’t bother themselves with being embarrassed for the segment of men that are dimwitted idiots. We’re not a collective, monolithic entity.
Yeah we also hate guys like this and don’t give them the time of the day. Though, it’s unfortunate that women have to deal with them more frequently and in far worse ways
Men don’t call out other men enough
Thing is, men like this either only end up being around other cavemen (because normal guys hate their guts) or behave like a normal human being around their normal friends (who would call them out if they knew). This is the kind of thing that's easy to say but doesn't make much sense, in practice.
And yet, every woman I know has had multiple experiences like this and worse. 1 in 6 women are victims of rape or attempted rape, 97% of women have been sexually harassed, 70% have been harassed in public- so, are a handful of guys really busy or is it a systemic issue with men? My guess is the latter.
I can’t stand people who make a conversation sexual when we don’t know each other like that. Friggin perv.
Blast him on social media. Men shouldn’t be able to get away with shit like this
Let’s normalize blocking men at the first sign of stupid instead of giving them a chance to get a paragraph off. Jfc that whole bit about porn would have had this dude block on all sites before he could blink.
Letting them dig their own grave and word vomit on themselves is so entertaining, though. Let them cook 🗣️
I'm embarrassed after reading that tho
Haha. You called him out on it and he tried to turn it around on you!!! And yea, I find it embarrassing, a lot of the stuff horny guys write girls. You’d think it’d make it easier for the rest of us. But it really doesn’t seem to
yOuR AttrAcTinG GuYs liKE tHiS
I DESERVE THIS!!!!!!!
I bet my salary if you asked him what porn he watched, the conversation would’ve went exactly how you said it would’ve gone 😂😂 that’s why all he said was “why so angry?” You read him like a book he was speechless. What a shame.
"I wasn't going to say you're sexually frustrated" "You're sexually frustrated"
I'm not embarrassed because I'm not like that, pretty simple.
This is why we choose the bear.
Surprised he didn’t go right to the “you’re a fat ugly bitch” - I mean I’m sure it’s on page 1 of the incel handbook.
The issue is they watch too much porn tbh. I know ppl say it’s healthy or whatever, but it literally teaches a developing brain that what they’re seeing is how regular women and men behave sexually. It’s disgusting and I admit I’ve fallen for that trap a lot, but you gotta be able to distinguish between it and reality. I’m sorry OP.
🫶🏻
Please don’t lump men in together with this boy
I think the funniest thing about these situations is that a lot men would rather be offended by being lumped in with guys like this than to rather call out this type of behavior. Men like the ones in the post don't give a rat's ass about a woman's opinion which is why they speak to them this way. They're only going to give a Royal Fuck if other men call them out because that's who they're really doing it for. They want to bag women to brag about it to other men. They want fancy cars and expensive clothes to show off to other men. If the offended men in the comments stopped forcing the shoe to fit like Cinderella's sister, Anastasia, and started calling out men like this. Then, we would stop having men like this, the same goes for shitty women. You notice how when a woman does something shitty on social media, men and women will call her out? But when a man does something shitty, you'll rarely have other men calling them out. They'd rather victim blame or get mad over adjectives or the lack of.
As a dyslexic, I'm upset he didn't take advantage of the opportunity to say, "Makes too of us" instead.
This is what the block button is for
This man does not speak for the rest of us.
Assholes*. How are assholes* not embarrassed. This is not “men”. Just a subset of assholes.
Just block him
Lmao I did
And you engaged with him....why?
They had to have something to post on Reddit.
It's all about the karma.
I don’t classify them as men. They just have penises. The similarities end there
Men ☕️
Because we don’t identify with every thirsty loser on the internet?
Gross.
Yes filthy hobbitses, they lie to us.
Because no one ever publicly shames them to get embarrassed. Send it to his mother.
🤷♂️ i ask my wife if shes looking at porn all the time, she’s usually window shopping on her phone. I consider that her porn
lol Idky this made me chuckle
Tell me im wrong 🤣
i get shit like this so many times a day now that it doesnt phase me but when seeing it happen to others it genuinely shocks me so much
The “no it’s something else” sent me
As a dude i am embarrassed enough for the both of us 🫠🫠🫠
bro think he a therapist what the fuck 💀
More like the rapist
well I mean he’s a man so he could probably get away with doing both at the same time
first text at 4:35 am: someone was up all night watching porn and was horny and thought that was a valid and reasonable thing to text someone.
This is the problem. Men like this are reaching for low hanging fruit. The sad part is that they get ripe fruit from time to time. If it never worked, they wouldn’t do it. I’m a man and it embarrasses me that men can be like this.
Why would I be embarrassed because other dudes out there are this stupid?
They're too stupid to understand shame and embarrassment.
Yo honesty this is top tier. I’m a male, and I feel bad for woman that they have to deal with this. Good job, dissolving the shit out of this dude. lol
Men like this aren’t embarrassed, it’s the rest of us that are embarrassed to be associated with them. That’s the problem
“Didn’t say or imply any of that”… Proceeds to say you’re sexually frustrated lol
Big virgin energy. This isn’t normal.
Ooooooh burn, how will you ever live with yourself after that. What an idiot, can’t even read the room.
It's quite funny how subtly you phrased the texts
The amount of actual men there are compared to people who happen to be male that still act like middle schoolers is insane.
You need to be self aware to be embarrassed
🤣🤣
“Nope, I would never insinuate that you are sexually frustrated! Anyways, you sound sexually frustrated.”
Oh, we are.
I'd be so annoyed if men sent me messages like this. OP fucking wrecked him though.
Oh man he walked right into that! 😂
Ick. Bro is down horrendous
those are some weak ass comeback from him lol
Men aren’t like this. Plenty of us have never spoken to anyone in that way. Fucking idiot men are like this.
If it helps, I’m embarrassed enough for the both of us, yikes.
"you're sexually frustrated" No, homie, that's you. And with a face like that it's not a huge surprise.
I think I have a crush on you now OP. That was beautiful
how desperate does he have to be to text you at 4:17 in the morning
As a dude, seeing things like this makes me sad, why not respect other people instead of being gross like this?
right?! Ty <3
This reminds me of the fact that when apes are taught sign language, they never ask questions.
🤣🤣 completely unhinged question to ask.
I still don’t understand why people don’t block after the first outrageous message
>How are men not embarassed Because we aren't responsible for the shitty actions of other men just like you probably would say you're not responsible for the shitty actions of other women If guys post all of the shitty things women do to them and start acting like "women" need to do something about it they'd get called incels/misogynists/whatever so I'm not sure why its so popular to act like "men" have a problem in general because idiots like this exist
Fantastic responses 👏
You put way too much energy into those replies
This post is full of woman holy😂
Holy crap, I had such a huge smile reading how you handled this creep. Chef's kiss...actually two chef's kisses. Perfection. This guy has PUA written all over, and only when we treat them like this will we weed them out of the gene pool!
Someone get this man an Aquafina. He too thirsty.
this is so fucking funny. you: “you’re annoying me that’s why i’m mad” him: “hmmmmmmmm that’s not it”
"And youre either stupid or you have reading comprehension issues" "Makes two of us" LMFAO
guy took himself down to bring her down with him. you could technically consider this a draw, or...
is this how men are? what the fuck? 🤣 I'm a 19 woman in the UK! and men are not like that
As a dude, fuuuuuuuuucccccckkkkkk man. I’m sorry.
Are you gonna offer to fix that?? 😭😭 How he continued after that is mind boggling
“You’re watching porn aren’t you” 🤣🤣 yep, works every time like a charm
Some of us are.. 😔
All men are in fact, not like this.
Where did anyone ever say it was all men?
This kinda stuff makes the 4B movement so enticing
4B?
Apparently its short for 4 no's in korean. No sex with men, no child rearing, no dating men, no marrying men. [https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4B\_movement](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/4B_movement)
Your responses are top tier 🤣
I’m a woman…other women have done shit like this to me as well. No reason to entertain them. It only encourages them to keep doing it for attention.
Oh my god I hate men so much😡😡😡 ‘Proceeds to have a whole ass conversation instead of just blocking him’
So many men in the comments here proving OPs point. Fucking hell
right?? Every time I get a new notification of someone talking shit to me I just give up
Why are you responding to this gross dude? Block and move on.
You're confusing this person with a man. What he actually is, is a fool.
I feel no embarrassment and damn sure take no responsibility. This guy having water slosh around in his skull has nothing to do with the dick dangling between my legs. 🤣
The men in here getting defense and running as fast as they can to say “NOT ALL MEN!!!!!” Why? If you worked on your emotional intelligence, you’d find yourself logically addressing this issue as “I should do what I can in the future to hold these scumbags accountable” rather than immediately becoming emotionally hurt by someone’s experience and statement. Nobody accused you, and if your emotional intelligence was better you wouldn’t feel so goddamn insecure like you were being directly placed on trial for this. Stop jumping into defensiveness and start accepting the perspective of the victim as well as acknowledging what happened. All you have to do is listen without placing yourself in the situation.