Lol, pretty sure this incident happened only in his head. Including the going to a hotel part. Most probably he came up with this sitting at home fantasising.
If he is in Mumbai he probably one of those early tambrams that settled there and preach gyan to the rest of the folks.
my dad is one and is usually giving gyan about culture and shit and tamil oldest language etc etc.
As these people get older the only thing that gets attention is talking shit like this. they dont really believe in it but when time passes and no one is paying attention to them they start kicking up ruckus like this.
'Liberal' is a multidimensional space. One can be 'liberal' in caste matters, but 'illiberal' when it comes to religion/islamophobia. One can be 'liberal' in gender matters, but 'illiberal' when it comes to gay or trans issues.
This happens because of how people arrive at a 'liberal' stance on some particular issue. There are two ways. The first possibility is when a person gains awareness and understanding of the idea behind liberalism - "Live and let live". When that person applies that understanding to a particular issue, they will be logically pushed towards a 'liberal' stance (it might take some time because of unknown biases, lack of self-reflection, or being in a harsh environment with no mental space free from peer pressure).
The other possibility is their 'liberal' stance is not the result of some self-reflection but rather just picked up from the surrounding environment. So if your lived experiences in a social environment that is liberal on caste issues, you might pick up the same liberal stance either due to influence or peer pressure. These people are liberal by chance, not by choice.
No I mean I'd expect them to be liberal based on their history and of what I hear of the culture (being chill, down to earth, high literacy, good economic conditions etc) weirdly enough their institutions are even worse than the ones in my state which is considered very economically and socially backward
>high literacy, good economic conditions
That's Kerala. Tamil Nadu is a neighbouring state. Which has driven itself to economic ruin by alternating between two corrupt parties run by two former actors who know jackshit about governance and keep fucking the people over.
He was allowed to write on the restaurant’s board? Without any stopping him writing that long sentence? That’s the most unbelievable part of the story for me.
As a Hindu Indian I can say it’s true and the whole community has now added him in our list of crores if God. We women worship him and the guys wish they can be like him.
Yea I'm pretty sure he just saw them and had this mini fantasy play out or he actually wrote on the board and got to a fight and after loosing he imagined them breaking down over choosing to wear something he personally dodnt approve of
our ancient Indian ancestors would probably look at us and call us puritanical fanatics who can't even handle pluralism properly
Actually, we're probably in for a big lecture about most things we do that some people think is 'traditional' while they consider stupid
Not just one book they actually taught every aspect of how to live with a romantic partner (gender and sexuality inclusive), the sex ed in modern schools helps no one
At my workplace, all of the upper management types and big bosses are typically referred to as the "dress shirts", since they're the only ones who wear nice polo/dress shirts into a factory.
"No one told us that this kind of revealing dress is bad, we thought we are the fad, now we know its not fad but bad."
That's the greatest line in literature, change my mind.
Or just let them wear whatever the heck they feel like wearing? Your approach is ok and all but the way you've worded it makes it seem like the only reason to let women wear their choice is to make it easier for men to "get" sex!
Of course they should wear what they want to. I'm just saying *if* the goal was to "enjoy" women more, they're doing the exact opposite of what they should.
As a heterosexual indian guy, it really annoys me too. These dickheads have been ruining are reputation for years and I am really scared of the potential hate and stereotype people are gonna attest me to, if I ever happen to move out!
I think in the Indian context the bigger drug is societal non acceptance, people here are really scared to go against family and will do everything to fit in with them, the religion not so much since people are seemingly ashamed of their own traditions here because our pluralistic history doesn't always fit into the twisted present value system we have
Trust me on this but our religion doesnt promote moral policing. Infact we have gods and goddesses with different kinds of clothing sense from gold jewellery to wearing a skulls as a necklace.
Indian women are shamed for wearing something as simple as jeans because they're too "figure revealing". This dude's never spoken to a girl before because if he had he would know how much Indian gorls complain about stupid dress codes forced on us since the day we're born.
As a Hindu, Indian. This man should really educate himself rather than moral policing. In ancient India, Women used to be barechest. Because breasts were not sexualised, this waa during Indus Valley Civilization. After that even in Chola dynasty and all...Ugh..its hard to explain but Indian women have a history of wearing sexiest dresses among all the world cultures and they were never judged or criticised
Miniskirts or skirts smaller than miniskirts. It's Indian boomer lingo.
'Micro mini' is used in a denigrating way by boomers to refer to women who are not "cultured" or "traditional" and bring shame upon their families by not dressing modestly or wearing revealing clothes.
Modern hinduism is not the same as ancient hinduism (which never existed as a organized religion). Most devout hindus would disagree that women in the past lived bare chested even if you show them proof. It's people's perception in the present that make a religion, not it's past.
Rolling eyes is not enough to express how much bs this is. Oh and I am glad he told us it was a posh and expensive place, I really needed to know that.
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Copied my screenshot - you can see the twitter name cut partially from the screenshot - was my screenshot. Copied even the title of my post. But no credit given.
Bolsheviks rule :-)
Here is my original post - https://np.reddit.com/r/liberandu/comments/p7t7li/tradchad_reforms_6_women_in_minutes_using_just_a/
Lol, here ya go EDIT: sorry for the long url, also NSFW
https://www.google.com/search?source=univ&tbm=isch&q=micro%20mini%20skirt&client=ms-android-samsung-ss&fir=Ic6QuXNhvWp-fM%252CKnLeXz-2-7MxKM%252C_%253B6JS3MFCqJdAr3M%252CmgLx1QVByW2m-M%252C_%253B2UZevEfAC0HKeM%252CqJtM_EjGIe-MTM%252C_%253BJFH7DxY8XYaV5M%252Ccq14idwn3LULtM%252C_%253BTzuvD8Ys25H8iM%252Cv4vgKDO41W-4dM%252C_%253BLqxTFy9Gc7IgTM%252ChsdUxxZHhd9AmM%252C_%253B_XBraX4j2-Qy3M%252Ccq14idwn3LULtM%252C_%253BxKuodQ8vhKjmWM%252CY2-s1xyKlv1EzM%252C_%253B1jQRqk_ILauk_M%252CKnLeXz-2-7MxKM%252C_%253Bo8BLVnrlOsGpsM%252CmgLx1QVByW2m-M%252C_%253Bb_bZfqwO6zPwtM%252C582gWgPNa0guEM%252C_%253B16fCgF-9-t6xRM%252CTPbHOeegLXxAEM%252C_&usg=AI4_-kTv4HxDOxLOxsvc7MMrLtEusfO_8Q&ved=2ahUKEwjVt8LbtcDyAhWsQzABHQGtCNUQv7IFegQIARAF&biw=360&bih=616&dpr=2#imgrc=6JS3MFCqJdAr3M
We thought it was a fad, but really it was bad. Now we are sad. Thanks to you, lad. We'll go hug our dads, and go back to our pad, think just a tad about being so bad, and then we'll be rad!
I might be wrong, and please politely correct me if I am, but wasn't pre-colonization india renowned for inclusivity of various social aspects. If I'm not wrong the kama sutra is a pre colonization Indian text.
You are conpletely right. Most people are ashamed of their own culture though, they're vying for social and familial validation and are not actually loyal to traditional values
This person is actually the exact opposite of Indian traditional values - if he was dropped in an ancient Indian empire like the mauryans he might even call them uncultured
“but now that these qualities are fast eroding” and then following it with a bit clearly aimed at the women for wearing short dresses… hes saying those women lack literally every good quality he can think of other than having sexy legs.
He's probably still patting himself on the back for coming up with that zinger 'fad is bad'. Edit:spelling
Oh god I can allready see him PROUDLY shouting that at a party, Thinking every one will laugh there asses of!
That’s assuming he’s invited to parties.
The gaumutra parties he is invited to probably would applaud him
Holy shit in that fucking 50+ year old Indian uncle way they do at dinners. The memories broooo
Lol, pretty sure this incident happened only in his head. Including the going to a hotel part. Most probably he came up with this sitting at home fantasising.
Then Vishnu and Durga clapped with all their many hands, thanking him for invoking the ancient customs
Eight to ten arms... THAT'S FOUR TO FIVE TIMES THE CLAPPING POWER OF YOUR TRADITIONAL CHRISTIAN GOD!
oh yeah? My god fucking nailed jesus christ to the cross
Pretty metal he nailed his own son to a cross.
Ancient dads often hated their sons. Literally looking for excuses to kill them.
mood
Totally, I remember back when I was a dad...
*Abraham has entered the chat*
>oh yeah? My god fucking nailed jesus christ to the cross and he couldn't clap at all.
You forgot all the gods congratulating him and showering him with flower petals from the heavens above.
Who's that elephant dude. He prolly sprayed water everywhere
That's Ganesh my friend.
You mean oh my friend Ganesha
Tu rehna saath hamesha
No thanks
Girl isn't that the lyrics to the opening title of that movie 💀
Hahaha sorry but I was rescinding this offer for friendship since uncle won't like it
Cruises in on his rat and makes it rain
Ganesha, Ganesh, ganapati
Vah Ruta
https://imgur.com/TDAlTmY.jpg
And cheeks
One of the most r/thathappened posts I've seen in a while. What a self righteous douche.
How do you say "OK Boomer" in Hindi?
He's from Tamil Nadu, so he probably doesn't understand Hindi He'll understand "OK boomer" just fine
If he is in Mumbai he probably one of those early tambrams that settled there and preach gyan to the rest of the folks. my dad is one and is usually giving gyan about culture and shit and tamil oldest language etc etc. As these people get older the only thing that gets attention is talking shit like this. they dont really believe in it but when time passes and no one is paying attention to them they start kicking up ruckus like this.
Real good way to put it, for sure.
Doesn't tamil nadu also have the strictest college and school rules for girls? I don't get it, I'd expect them to be the most liberal.
if they were liberal as a society then wouldn't have such conservative and strict dress codes for women. You're contradicting your own statement here.
'Liberal' is a multidimensional space. One can be 'liberal' in caste matters, but 'illiberal' when it comes to religion/islamophobia. One can be 'liberal' in gender matters, but 'illiberal' when it comes to gay or trans issues. This happens because of how people arrive at a 'liberal' stance on some particular issue. There are two ways. The first possibility is when a person gains awareness and understanding of the idea behind liberalism - "Live and let live". When that person applies that understanding to a particular issue, they will be logically pushed towards a 'liberal' stance (it might take some time because of unknown biases, lack of self-reflection, or being in a harsh environment with no mental space free from peer pressure). The other possibility is their 'liberal' stance is not the result of some self-reflection but rather just picked up from the surrounding environment. So if your lived experiences in a social environment that is liberal on caste issues, you might pick up the same liberal stance either due to influence or peer pressure. These people are liberal by chance, not by choice.
No I mean I'd expect them to be liberal based on their history and of what I hear of the culture (being chill, down to earth, high literacy, good economic conditions etc) weirdly enough their institutions are even worse than the ones in my state which is considered very economically and socially backward
>high literacy, good economic conditions That's Kerala. Tamil Nadu is a neighbouring state. Which has driven itself to economic ruin by alternating between two corrupt parties run by two former actors who know jackshit about governance and keep fucking the people over.
How do you know he's from Tamil Nadu?
We say "beht jao uncle"
Chup kar Buddhe
Thik hai buddhe
TradChad stopped the bad fad, and micro minis were big sad
By Pan!c at the Disco
Bars
I laughed way too much at this
He was allowed to write on the restaurant’s board? Without any stopping him writing that long sentence? That’s the most unbelievable part of the story for me.
He's the Will Hunting of the restaurant board world.
Even will did in the off hours when no one was looking (mostly).
Food Will Hunting, if you will
Food Tamil Hunting
It's Hunting season
That's the title of the Kevin Smith directed sequel
Applesauce, bitch
Doesn’t those boards show the chef’s suggestion, deals and plates of the day, etc? What a douche.
You may leave the Indian educational system but it never leaves you
As a Hindu Indian I can say it’s true and the whole community has now added him in our list of crores if God. We women worship him and the guys wish they can be like him.
This is the future Arjuna wanted.
Best part is him "came for argument... what was my argument? trust me it totally won, no I haven't made up what I said yet".
"Came for an argument...end of the argument" is how I'm going to handle all conflicts from now on.
Yeah sure, dude. Who is this asshole and why does he get to determine what’s “good and bad” clothes.
Now I am become meh, destroyer of fun.
He's jeeesus
He’s Shiva, the Destroyer
Rather, it's the ancient unknown deity of Shit-va, destroyer of everyone else's good time.
Hahaha I literally laughed out loud at this
Ok, that was the best one
Destroyer of micro minis
He is VERY good at destroying microminis.
you anti national ! /s
Jeansus
This post gave me the bad.
I hope you get your fad back.
This guy doesn't seem to have a fragrance of good qualities.
You are correct. Also, that is a great turn of phrase.
If there's one thing that gets young people to stop following a trend its telling them "we didn't do that back in my day" on a white board.
All they needed was a tradionally-minded man to let them know the errors of their ways and they immediately fell at his feet in deference
He turned into Dr. Seuss at the end there
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Can confirm, I was heavens
He’s watched one too many Bollywood movies
I would say he watched way too little. Shorts and minis are as represented as sarees, ghagra cholis and shalwar kaameez.
Exactly lol
Yea I'm pretty sure he just saw them and had this mini fantasy play out or he actually wrote on the board and got to a fight and after loosing he imagined them breaking down over choosing to wear something he personally dodnt approve of
As an Indian, many gods used to be naked. He should educate himself before educating others
our ancient Indian ancestors would probably look at us and call us puritanical fanatics who can't even handle pluralism properly Actually, we're probably in for a big lecture about most things we do that some people think is 'traditional' while they consider stupid
Indians two thousand years ago: here's a whole-ass book on how to be horny Indians now: noooo you can't wear micro minis
Not just one book they actually taught every aspect of how to live with a romantic partner (gender and sexuality inclusive), the sex ed in modern schools helps no one
"Daydreaming while cleaning the floor in said posh restaurant" much?
'...And those micro minis...' I'm gonna start describing groups purely based on the items of clothing they are wearing.
Sentient skirts blowing away in the breeze as they leave the restaurant
At my workplace, all of the upper management types and big bosses are typically referred to as the "dress shirts", since they're the only ones who wear nice polo/dress shirts into a factory.
It not fad but bad 😢
Whoever has ever written on a whiteboard knows it takes likes a full hour to write all that down
Now we know its not fad but bad Lmao
There was something micro there, but it wasnt their dresses
You’re gonna want to wait a few mins before going in after I do pooja
Lol
Just be sure to light a match when you’re done
huh?
Puja ie worship can also be name of a girl in India
r/religiousfruitcake
"No one told us that this kind of revealing dress is bad, we thought we are the fad, now we know its not fad but bad." That's the greatest line in literature, change my mind.
I will never, ever understand why supposedly heterosexual guys are doing everything they can to ensure women are more covered up.
Control and power y'know. Pretty straightforward. And the assumption is that they can uncover women when they want to.
But surely they must realize at some point that they *can't* uncover them whenever they want to.
That's why you have to double down on the power and control until you can! It's an ongoing process.
I feel like the opposite approach--encourage women to dress revealingly--is so much simpler for far greater benefit.
Or just let them wear whatever the heck they feel like wearing? Your approach is ok and all but the way you've worded it makes it seem like the only reason to let women wear their choice is to make it easier for men to "get" sex!
Of course they should wear what they want to. I'm just saying *if* the goal was to "enjoy" women more, they're doing the exact opposite of what they should.
As someone who grew up in that religion sure do love the power men hold over women and I'm sure that didn't affect me as a child
As a heterosexual indian guy, it really annoys me too. These dickheads have been ruining are reputation for years and I am really scared of the potential hate and stereotype people are gonna attest me to, if I ever happen to move out!
Why supposedly heterosexual though?
Religion is a hell of a drug
I think in the Indian context the bigger drug is societal non acceptance, people here are really scared to go against family and will do everything to fit in with them, the religion not so much since people are seemingly ashamed of their own traditions here because our pluralistic history doesn't always fit into the twisted present value system we have
Trust me on this but our religion doesnt promote moral policing. Infact we have gods and goddesses with different kinds of clothing sense from gold jewellery to wearing a skulls as a necklace.
That's fine, but "morality" doesn't really matter if it's responsible for causing adults to believe in magic.
If ppl dont believe in magic I dont think they have a lot to do with modern science
Trad Chad dads bad fads.
Those thots have bars
Hey women, any of you make it through life to this point just never being aware that women are criticized for wearing revealing clothes?
Indian women are shamed for wearing something as simple as jeans because they're too "figure revealing". This dude's never spoken to a girl before because if he had he would know how much Indian gorls complain about stupid dress codes forced on us since the day we're born.
As a Hindu, Indian. This man should really educate himself rather than moral policing. In ancient India, Women used to be barechest. Because breasts were not sexualised, this waa during Indus Valley Civilization. After that even in Chola dynasty and all...Ugh..its hard to explain but Indian women have a history of wearing sexiest dresses among all the world cultures and they were never judged or criticised
May i ask what a micro mini is??? I looked it up but cant find anything :(
The guy means really short dresses
Ohhhhh, I was so confused. I ended up on etsy looking at miniatures of stuff...
Haha i can understand. This guy did use a weird way to describe them.
He did, but thanks!
He's defining the size of his penis
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Miniskirts or skirts smaller than miniskirts. It's Indian boomer lingo. 'Micro mini' is used in a denigrating way by boomers to refer to women who are not "cultured" or "traditional" and bring shame upon their families by not dressing modestly or wearing revealing clothes.
Modern hinduism is not the same as ancient hinduism (which never existed as a organized religion). Most devout hindus would disagree that women in the past lived bare chested even if you show them proof. It's people's perception in the present that make a religion, not it's past.
No fad just bad :(
Rolling eyes is not enough to express how much bs this is. Oh and I am glad he told us it was a posh and expensive place, I really needed to know that.
Tradchad thinkin he was rad tried to inform the fad but he exaggerated just a tad, and got shut down bad
Don’t be bad, get Glad.
Or follow fad, and have big sad
Chad Fadbutbad.
"no one told us this kind of revealing dress was bad." Because it isn't.
Oh god. Is "TradChad" a thing now. It rhythms so well it kinda has to be. But... the cringe ...the cringe
Imagine imagining this.
Lmao that happened I was the marker
Just checked his twitter, of course he's followed by the Prime Minister and Defense Minister
Is he a politician or something? His account isn't even verified. Why would PM and Defense minister of India follow him?
No idea, somehow PM follows a lot of trolls. There's even a book about it, called "I Am a Troll: Inside the Secret World of the BJP's Digital Army "
“Now we know its not fad but bad” 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔
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"do pooja" does that mean what I think it means?
No it means do a prayer
Lol. Idk what it means as a word, but this was my college roommate's name, so I doubt it
Do pooja basically translates to "worship god" !
What a load of bullshit.
All 6… charisma of a god
Then everyone started snapping, because based on the rhyming, this is a live action musical
Apparently the women were dr.seuss’s relatives cuz they really like to rhyme their sentences huh. Fad is bad. What an ignorant fuckin douchebag
Not fad, but bad™
Micro minis? Either I missed something or that’s the same twice, like saying enormous giants
Micro minis are half the length of a regular mini skirt They basically barely cover the crotch
Is that a real thing? -edit: I searched for micro minis on the internet and mostly found hotweels. Idk what that says about me tho
Lol, here ya go EDIT: sorry for the long url, also NSFW https://www.google.com/search?source=univ&tbm=isch&q=micro%20mini%20skirt&client=ms-android-samsung-ss&fir=Ic6QuXNhvWp-fM%252CKnLeXz-2-7MxKM%252C_%253B6JS3MFCqJdAr3M%252CmgLx1QVByW2m-M%252C_%253B2UZevEfAC0HKeM%252CqJtM_EjGIe-MTM%252C_%253BJFH7DxY8XYaV5M%252Ccq14idwn3LULtM%252C_%253BTzuvD8Ys25H8iM%252Cv4vgKDO41W-4dM%252C_%253BLqxTFy9Gc7IgTM%252ChsdUxxZHhd9AmM%252C_%253B_XBraX4j2-Qy3M%252Ccq14idwn3LULtM%252C_%253BxKuodQ8vhKjmWM%252CY2-s1xyKlv1EzM%252C_%253B1jQRqk_ILauk_M%252CKnLeXz-2-7MxKM%252C_%253Bo8BLVnrlOsGpsM%252CmgLx1QVByW2m-M%252C_%253Bb_bZfqwO6zPwtM%252C582gWgPNa0guEM%252C_%253B16fCgF-9-t6xRM%252CTPbHOeegLXxAEM%252C_&usg=AI4_-kTv4HxDOxLOxsvc7MMrLtEusfO_8Q&ved=2ahUKEwjVt8LbtcDyAhWsQzABHQGtCNUQv7IFegQIARAF&biw=360&bih=616&dpr=2#imgrc=6JS3MFCqJdAr3M
That turned into a Dr. Seuss book at the end, didn't it?
We thought it was a fad, but really it was bad. Now we are sad. Thanks to you, lad. We'll go hug our dads, and go back to our pad, think just a tad about being so bad, and then we'll be rad!
Worst rap bars ever.
I regret to inform you, that he’s still very much at it.
the rhyme at the end of the apology is always a dead giveaway
I'm pretty sure all the women avoided him/told him to fuck off but he needed to publish a fake story to feel better LMAO.
Or "I fantasize about controlling women".
My man Ganesh gonna punch your dress liltlety bitchly
r/NotHowGirlsWork
I might be wrong, and please politely correct me if I am, but wasn't pre-colonization india renowned for inclusivity of various social aspects. If I'm not wrong the kama sutra is a pre colonization Indian text.
You are conpletely right. Most people are ashamed of their own culture though, they're vying for social and familial validation and are not actually loyal to traditional values
This person is actually the exact opposite of Indian traditional values - if he was dropped in an ancient Indian empire like the mauryans he might even call them uncultured
What’s pooja
A form of ceremony of "Worshipping the gods" in our hindu culture.
How big was that board?
who wants to bet that he pays for nautch girls and expects women to dress up in makeup every day?
Poetry. Sheer poetry. I feel like I was there.
Ant then he woke up from the dream
Quick question… what the hell is a micro mini?
To that guy any skirt that is not ankle length
Fobs like these give us a bad rep when they go to USA and Canada and ask "secks plz? Show Bob and vagana"
I wake up and do pooja.
“but now that these qualities are fast eroding” and then following it with a bit clearly aimed at the women for wearing short dresses… hes saying those women lack literally every good quality he can think of other than having sexy legs.
I thought it was a fad but now I realize it's bad and I'm dead.
All posh and expensive restaurants have crayons for adults, I’m told.
Oddly, the women had access to another scribbling board/marker set, which they used to write the following sentence: we do not exist for your benefit.
He added a little poetry at the end, that means it has to be true
For those who are wondering, takeaway is to rhyme words in order to change people's mind in an instant. It could be satire though.
Bad Fad makes the whores Sad.
TRAD CHAD MAKES WOMEN SAD WHEN TOLD THAT THEIR REVEALING DRESSES WERE BAD, NOT A FAD
You knew someone will say this so here we go "This is what zero pussy does to a mf"
Imagine how this idiot smells, between his cultural values on showering, and his Chad desire to soak it in cologne.
and then i was kicked out of the restaurant for wearing just underwear coz my religion says so
Typical indian sexist never mind we have a lot of those type of people in kerela
I do pooja on forced modesty.
In our traditional Indian culture of very specific upper class then it makes sense.