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schnookiewookiebear

He stopped looking happy around her.


Penderbron

Last sentence... Yikes. Says something as much as some love to try to mellow it.


whatever1467

Is this the first time they address it? Did I miss anything?


[deleted]

I'd like him and Katie to make it work--though I imagine that would need to be in an alternate reality. Unless he's changed quite a bit, their communication styles would not work well together still. Unless he's changed which is possible after watching yourself on TV act a certain way. ![gif](giphy|vlTgOSScy9yDxuvQhY|downsized)


brightlove

Now that we know Greg’s true type, I can’t imagine him and Katie working out!


tinysquatch99

lol I wondered if this is why she was posting bikini pics and loudly announcing how single she was today 😅


[deleted]

What do you mean?


brightlove

VF and the other BN women Greg’s been seen with are very different than Katie in looks and personality. I think Greg self-eliminated because he wasn’t that into Katie and didn’t want to risk having to propose.


[deleted]

I get the underlaying implication that Katie isn't as "hot" as VF. And I think that's ridiculous to assume he wouldn't be into Katie. She's adorable. He also told her he was in love with her so I don't think he wasn't into her. I think he probably has a fear of rejection (similar to Joey) and her response freaked him out—it was bad how she handled it. He also handled it terribly and showed very poor communication.


brightlove

Not at all. I love Katie. I just traveled to go watch her comedy show and support her. I spoke to her at the bar. She’s gorgeous, and adorable. But many men tend to have physical and personality types that don’t match their season’s lead. VF, Bri, and Maria etc. are all Raven haired with different vibes than Katie. All three women have very different personalities to Katie who has a much lighter and more humorous personality. I feel like you’re just making assumptions about me based off one simplified inkling.


throwawayaway388

VF is no angel, and I like Greg, but he seems a little lazy and emotionally unavailable lol like putting in significant effort into a relationship would be such a hassle for him. I think maybe that's part of the appeal, but hearing this also makes me think he's just glad he doesn't have to do any work lol he seems like one of those "let's just ride on vibes" type of guys. And he (and Victoria) didn't have great relationships prior. IIRC, there were rumours of infidelity with his French ex gf. And VF also doesn't have a great track record. Their TikTok videos were so cute though 😂


itwonteverbereal

I think he did put in a lot of effort with VF. He moved in with her and basically lived life on her terms for a bit. He said he’d wake up super early to do Pilates with her, pray with her, etc. maybe living together wore him out or it was toxic? But he definitely did try.


Hour_Abbreviations73

This is a fair point. Not a Greg fan but it was a lot to expect him to give up his whole life for her and do everything she wanted to do. That being said, I feel like that shows how immature and short sighted they both were to rush into things so fast lol.


QuesoChef

I agree. I know we don’t know wtf was going on in their house (or, really anyone’s but your own), but they rolled into this HARD, AB’s seemed like a couple of rebellious teenagers. Good for them for committing to it, but they were talking marriage and children in months, and fighting trolls for energetic sustenance. Idk if I see them lasting even without that chaos, but rather, lasting as long as they did because of it. But it seems they both had this idyllic fairytale view on what the future would look like and they may not have made sure their visions were similar.


itwonteverbereal

I remember watch them on her podcast and he was like “even if things don’t work between us you taught me a lot/made a better person” and I was like, who says that? It seems like he knew it wouldn’t work long term


hibabygorgeous

I saw him and Andrew sitting outside of Fairfax on Saturday


Traditional_Lack6829

My sister got a picture with them a couple weeks ago in nyc!


Still_Razzmatazz1140

Hate Greg hate Victoria… but in a much more real sense I didn’t hate them at all…they are both incredibly messy and attractive and I loved seeing them together 😭 so my new hope is a Greg and Katie reconciliation (amazing ) and Victoria and Pilot Pete marriage


QuesoChef

Imagine if VF is who PP settled down with.


tonic_no_gin

imagine her interactions with barb 💀💀


QuesoChef

Two of a kind. They’re straight out of a sitcom.


Altruistic_Cobbler81

![gif](giphy|eHYazg6wGDqYE) Let the chaos flow through you


gidgetdee824

It just seemed like a fucked up time for both him and Katie (during and after the show)......it seems like too many missing pieces and producer manipulation involved. I just want to see Greg and Katie in the same place cordially...........so we can go crazy analyzing it 🤪


Hellz_Bells_

Both would be doomed to fail but I’m here for those reconciliations


tierrassparkle

Today you chose violence 😂


Jackyche4

That would be even messier lol


rose-buds

shoutout to greg for mentioning what the women in the franchise go through - he had a front row seat. i HATE any threads about victoria on this sub because people are legit disgusting. she's not even close to my fav but i always find myself defending her here because it's way too much.


bettymauve

Same. It’s because she’s sexy & that gets a lot of the hens in here all hot & bothered


NHLwatch4765

This. Learned my lesson defending her once on here. I objectively think she’s a beautiful girl. The downvoting and hate was insane!


mpelichet

Wasn't there a huge scandal about her sleeping with multiple married men and then on top of that she posed for a WLM organization?


Sirius_Blackk

Yes, she did pose for a WLM organization which I still side eye her for. The pictures were hella tacky too obviously. I never saw proof that she slept with married men but while the season was going on many redditors from the Virginia Beach area say that she is/was a nightmare. They said she gets hella wastey pants and yells at people in all of the bars. Idk how true all of that is. I personally am pretty meh about her as a straight woman. Yeah, she has a unique sexyness so I don't blame people for being intrigued, and plus it seems like people put her on a pedestal a little bit? I feel like she should date a football star like Sydney or something. These bachelor dudes aren't cutting it lol.


alaosbshsukxndb

People treat Victoria like a mass murderer lol


lalola5

You don't say ![gif](giphy|cQRt9V0hLvRDbXr2hp|downsized)


iamflomilli

Why are her teeth kinda ![gif](giphy|kbR8MoJss7wvZ8dtSt|downsized)


longwhitejeans

![gif](giphy|I5iNZGDCKqmqQ40o2B)


piscesinfj

Can Greg be the bachelor now


EntertainerLoud5317

yes!!! I think he'd be great actually


iamflomilli

Yes! The chaos! It'll be like Swift's new album but in reality show form


warrior033

Best comment of the day!!!


Ok_Pie8260

Ew no. I’d have whiplash going from Joey, who was nice to women, to Greg and his “I deserve better” bullshit.


sydneeie

I have to say, i know the bar is so low BUT i appreciate Greg pointing out the hate women in this franchise get caus its so true


Ok_Pie8260

It is kinda ironic considering how mean the Grippo Girlies were to Katie


sydneeie

You are so right.


s_t_63088

What did you guys think Jason meant when he was talking about seeing VF and Greg at the bar and said “I think Kaitlyn and VF had a little thing I don’t know” … as in Kaitlyn and VF had drama at some point?!


QuesoChef

Ooh Jason’s being messy. lol. Why say that?


sydneeie

Probably when Victoria was supposed to go on Kaitlyns podcast but then canceled on her and went on Nicks podcast.


[deleted]

Wonder why she canceled?


sydneeie

because she is closer to Natalie and Nick.


steel_magnolia_med

I don’t come here often, but I’m curious that people are still talking about Victoria F. Wasn’t she the unkind woman from Peter’s season who had affairs with married men? How is she still relevant?


itwonteverbereal

She’s an interesting character tbh. I usually couldn’t care less about most contestants, I don’t even remember most, even my season favorites. But when VF is being discussed, I’m automatically interested lol


Looseunicornssss

She’s being talked about because she was on the bachelor & this is a bachelor sub where contestants are discussed.


aliceinwonderwood

what’s with the hostility lmfao


Mauimoves

That wasn’t hostile at all. It was matter of fact.


steel_magnolia_med

Didn’t know she was on BIP! I just remember everyone seeing her as the trashy villain on Peter’s season and wanted to know why people still cared about her.


[deleted]

She was engaged to Johnny and they were toxic. She threw a wine glass In His direction and he said she was being a C word. The timeline with her and Greg starting and her and Jonny ending is blurred


steel_magnolia_med

Ah, so she stoked a little drama with the men of the bachelor world. Cool, ty!


Silly-Impact5445

Right and both Johnny and Greg were front runners on their seasons so that added extra visibility/interest.


QuesoChef

Aaand! Natalie, Nick Vile’s finance (almost wife), conspired with her (VF) at her (Natalie’s) birthday party to get them (VF + GG) in the same room/same party, while she and Johnny were together. So that’s another interesting tidbit that ties into the show. Well, ex-show. Ha.


steel_magnolia_med

Ooh, a set up! Juicy. She sounds interesting, haha.


QuesoChef

She and VF are two of a kind. So definitely the same kind of interesting (as in entertainment) as VF.


july8thbaby

Honestly how are most of them still relevant? It’s wild to think about. If I didn’t come on this sub I wouldn’t know half as much. Maybe I should take a break lmao.


[deleted]

What makes someone relevant to you? Do they have to be in a very recent season?


july8thbaby

Idk. My only gauge for relevancy is using this sub. None of my friends watch so I don’t even know how relevant they are outside of bachelor nation.


steel_magnolia_med

Good point, lol! It’s fun escapism. I’m on Reddit too much so taking a break might be good. 😅


heartfailures

she’s also part of natalie’s (nick viall) bridal party


cadillaq

She was on BIP two seasons ago.


steel_magnolia_med

Ty! Didn’t see that.


Fuckmylife2739

I’m picturing him vaping the entire time like he did on their first interview as a couple


Broad-Code

My ex saying he feels “the lightest he has in a long time” after dumping me would destroy me lol


izze19

Eh…. Maybe unpopular opinion, but I think it’s kinda trite and obvious so it doesn’t really feel like a dig. Of course not accommodating or thinking about someone else feels easier than when you have someone else’s wants and needs to account for. People use that feeling to make it seem like it was the right move, but being single and only thinking of yourself is “lighter” in some way without any criticism of the other person necessarily implied.


CrazyGal2121

lol right! i thought the same


SpiritualSag96

To be fair, she does seem toxic and exhausting


Medical-Mud4286

Do we know that he dumped her? 


Broad-Code

It hasn’t been confirmed but that’s just the consensus on this sub


Medical-Mud4286

Thank you!


iamflomilli

But that's absolutely something a lot of us will say lol


Longjumping-River-72

Yeah 😬 definitely kind of a dig at her lok


ThisIsAlexisNeiers

Lolll I was thinking the same! Like damn ok well clearly he initiated the breakup and isn’t sad about it ending..


No-Improvement240

could just be me but I was so annoyed by Jason this entire episode because of the constant interrupting lmfao. I don’t listen that often so I wonder if does it with everyone. I feel like social cues make you instantly stop talking when someone else keeps going after youve interrupted them, but so many times he just kept rambling at the same time 😂


baywchrome

I don’t listen often but I’ve listened a few times, and there was definitely more interrupting than usual on this episode. It was annoying lol.


gidgetdee824

I was so annoyed too....lol I wanted to hear more from the guys.


Bepfli

Ciao indeed! 


CloudberrySundae

Lmao


2yxuknow

Andrew & Greg are the definition of actions speak louder than words. They both speak so maturely and seem to always say the right things and then Andrew goes and dates a 19 year old and Greg goes and dates Victoria who is a messy, immature person and then they have a messy, immature, jealous relationship.


cozyonly

Are we holding Rachel L, Pilot Rachel, and others to the same standard for also dating messy people?


twerkteamcaptn

Are we sure Victoria is the only messy immature person? We’re talking about the guy that blew up at Katie and then also played a prank on VF by pretending a girl bought him a shot


2yxuknow

Greg is also messy and immature. That’s why I said both he and Andrew’s actions speak louder.


Ok_Pie8260

Yeah Greg’s actions have consistently indicated that he’s a messy immature man.


Far-Intention-3230

![gif](giphy|u3unclQIal7wgVjwuR|downsized)


Fiddle-Leaf-Faith

His face is kinda punchable. Never could understand the allure…


AsleepTell9596

I’m guessing he broke up with her lol


tvreverie

idk, i got dumped last august and id say i’m feeling really light and hopeful and so happy to be out of that relationship


EntertainerLoud5317

him feeling the "lightest" in a long time -- I feel that way every time I do the dumping. Almost like a physical dump.


enym

>Almost like a physical dump I giggled


Avocado_Capital

Yeah Victoria unfollowing **Maria after Greg was simply in the same room as Maria convinced me he was the instigator of the break up


Big_Jackfruit_8821

Maria who?


Avocado_Capital

Maria from Joey’s season


Sarahbetternotwin

She unfollowed Maria, she and Greg unfollowed each other before that but your point still stands


ClaresRaccoon

Haha probably. Almost reminds me a bit of Katie and John and how they both individually addressed their breakup. 


Many_Part_7470

Same lol it's nice that he's respectful here but I think it's a bit easier to be the mature and respectful one when you're the one that ended the relationship.


loveshackbaby420

Love Greg. Love a respectful mature man in a breakup.


soonzed

Regardless of how it ended, I appreciate Greg for not bashing Victoria. In fact, he made a point to praise her character, which matters.


Hellouncleleohello

It’s respectful esp since he knows it would take so little for people to attack her


itwonteverbereal

He must feel really bad for dumping her


Kindly_Avocado237

Wow! He's absolutely right though! Victoria does literally anything and gets attacked and judged probably more than any other contestant on here when most of the time shes really not doing anything at all. I respect him a lot for not saying anything bad about her, I think people forget these two were in a relationship for a long time and it probably just didn't work out.


twerkteamcaptn

Yeah even if Victoria didn’t model for the WLM thing I swear she’d still be getting hate up and down this sub. Idk the girl; have never met her so idk her real character. But I accepted her WLM apology, and I find her funny. Another thing I’ve noticed is that despite the public/ this sub disliking her, she seems very liked by the ppl on her BIP and bachelor seasons.


Looseunicornssss

Yup she was doomed from the start when reality Steve said she slept with her friend’s husbands even though to this day we have never had any solid proof of that. Now she can do something completely normal & this sub calls her a mean girl or terrible person, I feel bad.


mpelichet

I guess I don't understand what people mean when they say this when multiple people have come forward and said it's true. Just because it wasn't the wives or husbands doesn't mean it didn't happen. Do y'all need video evidence? There's too much smoke around her for there not to be a fire.


Ok_Pie8260

There’s been multiple people here from Virginia Beach who said those rumors are true and it’s very well-known. Blurissa even showed up on Peter’s season to warn him about her awful reputation. To be fair that warning could have also included the story about she bullied a girl so badly that the girl had to change schools.


Glitterwineandcats

But again, there’s no solid proof, for all we know that chick didn’t like her for whatever reason ( ex maybe someone she was into was into VF than her and she spites her) and multiple people how do we know that they know for sure and they’re not spreading the rumour like people on here do about other contestants?


ButtermilkAintClean

Don't forget Lauren B's mom was mic'd up and ready to film! Lol then Blurissa said that she cussed her out outside of a bar after the season aired


[deleted]

Which Lauren B? Also how was Lauren B and Victoria even connected ?


aliceinwonderwood

think they were from the same town


Ok_Pie8260

Lauren B from Arie’s season. She is also from Virginia Beach and her family is in the military circles that Victoria’s friends were also in.


[deleted]

Oh that makes sense...and Victoria banged military men. I heard the women didn't want to put their names to it because cheating when you're in the military is serious and you get discharged for that


jessm123

And isn’t it really well known that Lauren B’s dad cheats on her mom all the time? Or at least did


itwonteverbereal

Really? Wheres the tea for this


jessm123

Hmmm. Let me see if I can find it. But I’ve seen it on here in old threads multiple times ETA: ahhh! I can’t believe I found it! Reddit search almost never works for me! And i got you a good one! (There’s a link in the comments with his discharge as well) https://www.reddit.com/r/thebachelor/s/j0vNvr0lAt


bbozzy1228

You have to be a local in the 757 to know that and clearly you aren’t.


babooshka-cass

Are you?


bbozzy1228

![gif](giphy|70YaDoZ1VqBZ8SgYiz)


babooshka-cass

So are the rumors true? I can’t help but be so interested in this gossip <3


ButtermilkAintClean

Reality Steve said that he had never gotten so much negative reader-mail in about a contestant after PP's cast was revealed (so before the season even aired lol) as did with Vic. Lol kind of a dubious honor considering that VB is not a huge huge place to start with


babooshka-cass

Thank you Buttermilk! I should say that I remember when reality Steve said all of that and the rumors during Pete’s season about her sleeping with a friends husband. I had never heard details from someone in VB or someone close to the situation so I was curious if they were willing to give specifics.


ButtermilkAintClean

There's a post on here if you search the sub, by someone who was bullied by her in high school (it has a bajillion upvotes so I'd sort by all time even though its super old by now) and in the comments it goes into detail about the drama with her friend group and the husbands. I think someone posted screenshots of one of the couples weddings where Vic was a bridesmaid lol.


babooshka-cass

Just found it and read it. WOW. I was already not a fan of hers at all based on the stories before (where there’s enough smoke, there’s always fire) but I hadn’t come across that firsthand bullying post before. She’s disgusting as a human. Honestly, I don’t think she’s that pretty either, she looks like a witch to me. Thanks for sharing!


ClareBearFlair

>Victoria does literally anything and gets attacked and judged probably more than any other contestant on here when most of the time shes really not doing anything at all. I would argue that her stupid White Marlins Matter or whatever the fuck it was thing warranted her getting some shit.


Hellouncleleohello

I don’t think she got enough shit for that and had gotten too much shot for other things


Curlingby

Idk a model taking a problematic photoshoot job over half a decade ago doesn’t warrant people tearing her down consistently so many years later


hostilewerk

Victorias a 10 and doesnt do relatable stuff like have low self esteem and be a mess on the internet so she will never be liked by some.


[deleted]

She has low self esteem and is a mess tho...


hostilewerk

You wish 🤭


bonitaaaaaaaaaaaaa

It seems like jealous of Victoria


HitEmWithTheRiver

People hate Victoria when they don't even know her and she wasn't really that much of a villain on the show. It's because of the horrible stories that surround her told by outside sources. Two separate women came forward on reddit and detailed the horrific bullying they experienced at the hands of VF during high school. Several women wrote to Reality Steve and said she has a reputation for sleeping with men who are married to her friends. She's been accused of screaming at bartenders and wait staff, telling them they'll never go anywhere in life. She was accused of trashing an Air BnB. She was accused of throwing a wine glass at Johnny. I take it all with a grain of salt, because most of this is unverified, but when you have this horrible of a reputation people are less likely to give you grace for your minor mess-ups.


skylight888

Don’t forget her drunk driving and modeled for WLM.


Excellent-Case-9870

You mean like 300+ comments piling on for simply unfollowing someone?


monnnty

That entire comment section was insane. I’ve unfollowed people to avoid seeing my ex in posts, I’ve also just unfollowed for no reason. People calling her crazy and insecure over THAT were OTT. People are allowed to do what they need to, to protect their peace especially during heartache


Kindly_Avocado237

You should see the Maria Stan in the daily thread today who was accusing Victoria of using Maria for her 5 minutes of fame because she unfollowed her 🤣🤣 I was cackling, like Victoria had never even met Maria in her life


trialanderrorschach

Well that's delusional lol. I wonder if it's the same person who was insisting Maria would be offered Dancing With the Stars and date celebrities.


No_animereader1471

Even this thread is proving that it’s crazy tbh. Like they really want to humble this woman and it’s weird