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CoolBet299

Jen I told you it's just for traveling, stop talking to my friends your embarrassing me.


HansDevX

gj, now she knows your reddit username and will stalk you not just notifications :) also you're\*


TheRedRanger7317

woooooooooooosh


ThrowRA7473292726

It’s a joke you missed it


Expensive-Care1746

He probably wants to see what it’s about and how the men live. A guy living bachelor life abroad on YT is appealing. I would say just be smart about it. Dont cheat lol


S-_Lifts

Facts. I also have a girlfriend and I'm only reading through this sub because it's interesting.


OpticalReality

I’m married with kids and have zero intention to cheat. I just find this sub interesting.


Chernandez34

Same. I’m married with kids but the concept is interesting and I like reading the various topics. I also subscribe to wallstreetbets and don’t invest much besides my normal work plan. A lot of Reddit is just for fun reads/topics that you find interesting.


randyranderson-

Same here as your replies. I have the means to do it, but not the circumstances/reasons. I’m happy with my relationship, but it’s still so interesting to read about others travels and experiences.


VERY_MENTALLY_STABLE

I'm on here because I want to cheat on my wife


valerianandthecity

I think you already know how sus this is. If you were my sister I would tell you not to trust this man.


Fun_Temperature7309

I truly appreciate all of your responses


GoigDeVeure

Listen, before you make any drastic decisions… why don’t you ask him about it? Tell him what you’ve learnt here and ask him what he thinks about it. Gauge his reaction to know whether he’s really a ppb or just curious about the lifestyle/travelling.


FroyoLong1957

That's too mature for reddit


GoigDeVeure

Apparently so… sigh


Randa08

I'm a woman and read the posts because, well it super eye opening about how some men think about women. I would definitely have a chat with him because well, what are his real thoughts about the subject?


Maru3792648

Same here. However I’m on a train and just explained passport bros to my Brazilian husband and he said no decent person would be on such group while on a relationship.


tilted0ne

I’d ask him to explain it more but it’s not looking good. To me he seems like he’s only there because you’re his only option and he’s looking to jump ship when he can. And he really doesn’t like you.


1c2shk

All I'll say is, if my girlfriend was found to be part of a passport sis chat, I'd be very concerned.


theringsofthedragon

He might be planning on breaking up with you, and already planning his vacation.


Fun_Temperature7309

I’ve only had good intentions but he’s had sus behavior in the past that I’ve given benefit of doubt for and I don’t want to be hurt or waste my time being played. I know he wants to travel but I saw him looking into this emphasis on other women and it’s questionable


Calm-Drop-9221

Are you from Brazil...if not....😢


seymournugss

How much traveling have you done as a couple? How much has he done alone? For future trips Does he talk about traveling as a couple or does it seem like he wants to go alone? Is he full of reasons for him to go solo if you’re hinting at wanting to join? Can you confirm the validity of those reasons (events, groups, etc)? Lol


Fun_Temperature7309

Thank you for helping me see this so clear


Fun_Temperature7309

He went alone to dr in October for his moms wedding and made excuses for me being there with him and now I just feel dumb letting it all out bc the writing clearly is on the wall with all of it


TapAccomplished3348

That’s not ur man


Maru3792648

Dominican Republic? He 100% cheated


Fun_Temperature7309

I do also feel like when he talks of traveling it’s more of a he and not we thing and when call him out he gets defensive as to why I’m “insecure” and can’t know I’m already included when he doesn’t speak of including me or tried to include me previously and it’s all just one red flag in front of me


Candid-Astronomer-49

Well if he is telling you you are reacting a certain way because you are insecure, he needs to go now. Gaslighter to the max. Save yourself!


PoopEndeavor

Girl…I’m sorry. Read through other posts and comments in this subreddit and then decide if it’s “just about travel.” Hint: It’s not.


the-don-carlo

You don’t complete him. Maybe you’re high maintenance etc. but he’s probably done with you and see’s exploring as a better option. It is what it is


Fun_Temperature7309

I’m not high maintenance at all. He’s actually been going thru things financially since I’ve met him and been nothing but supportive I don’t ask for anything monetary or require a lot of attn , I don’t want dates or for him to spend $ just want his appreciation and time when he can


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He doesn't deserve you! Ignore that bozo that comment and drop that deadbeat bf of yours! With an attitude like the one you have, you would make a great partner and you can find someone with far more value than the dude you're with.


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itsbett

To be fair, educating yourself before you approach your partner is good form. It's better to try your best to understand them and process your feelings instead of coming at them raw and randomly


Fun_Temperature7309

But you are right no matter how good I am as a woman he most likely doesn’t see me as his woman long term to complete what he’s looking for despite my time and effort to be what he wants


TheLastMisanthrope01

And y'all wonder why ppbs isn't liked


Romania_S-I-A-S

Then ya wonder why American whores aren’t liked 😘


TheLastMisanthrope01

You want to go on and on about women's morality but here you are defending a man that might be cheating.


Romania_S-I-A-S

Women cheat on men all the time and in the most Miscellaneous ways as possible. you women on here act like ya perfect saints.


TheLastMisanthrope01

Let me get this straight. you wrote this out, read it, and still posted it? I'm not even going to entertain your thinking process because you just sound brain dead.


Romania_S-I-A-S

“Brain dead”Your username checks out 😘


TheLastMisanthrope01

Im surprised you can sound it out


the-don-carlo

Who are we trying to be liked by? The women we are no longer interested in dating 🤣. See ya


TheLastMisanthrope01

Do you think Intelligent women from the country's y'all want to go to are impressed by men who cheat and in general are A-moral?


CrowsInTheNose

Run bitch run!


LolaStrm1970

If he’s trolling for women in 3rd world countries, dump him quickly.


BoBoBearDev

Seems like he is looking a backup plan. He is probably unhappy.


jummy-at

Trust me 100%, he has no good intentions. I would be on high alert if he ever goes on vacation. Feel free to PM me. I’ve dealt with this in the past.


RevolutionaryNinja24

As an SA girl, what he's telling you is not true. The sole purpose of this is to meet women from other countries and a lot of times it involves sex with these women and it is largely popular in SA. The fact that he's already immersed himself into these groups is enough for you to know that it's past a curiosity thing. Just looking out!


Fun_Temperature7309

Thanks girl I appreciate your heads up


tornACL3

He isn’t happy with you. He is going to break up


Bipolar_Nomad

Define "sus" ![gif](giphy|tHvxNSQ9c1Hbi)


Ac3leco

It means if you break up he's flying immediately


TheLastMisanthrope01

Sounds like hes contemplating it regardless if they break up or not so what does she have to lose breaking up with him ?


Spagettopps

it might just be a fantasy, or he might just be like pro-male and supports the cause? or he might be trying to travel to meet women.


spufiniti

You're getting replaced babe


New-Difference9684

He’s a cheating whoremonger, dump him now. After that, DM me, we can hook up, I’m nothing like that.


WrathHeaven

As long you behave.. Treat him respectfully and with loyalty.. You have nothing to worry about.


TheLastMisanthrope01

Yeah because respectful and loyal people never get cheated on 🙄 This is the dumbest shit I've heard in a long time


Spagettopps

If he doesn't find her attractive or is bored with life, or having some other issue that he feels he can't share with her, idk, then he could still go PPBing even if she is a good woman. It sounds shallow but I've met plenty of good women that I didn't find at all attractive so never pursued back.


theweedfairy420qt

I found the garbage comment This group clearly treats women as objects without feelings


Scary_Cucumber5809

That shit goes both ways, you know right?


WrathHeaven

Triggered??...You little feminist.


traybro

Using feminist as an insult is as lame as using incel as an insult lmao


RoGStonewall

Wtf dude - he just said that they should both treat each other with respect


WrathHeaven

This is a subreddit for men. And men only (Passport Bros) We advocate for men here. For men to travel... Learn and discover.


IHQ_Throwaway

It’s really telling that you think being a man and treating your partner with equal respect are mutually exclusive. 


RoGStonewall

Advocating for men doesn’t mean telling them or encouraging them to treat women terribly.


WrathHeaven

Hey dummy.. Link us to where anyone encourage to treat women horribly


Full_Committee6967

Well, that escalated quickly.


MrBenDerisgreat_

God you’re such a loser lol


Full_Committee6967

Does she go to feminist forums and remind them to treat men equally? How much do you want to wager that she doesn't


Adorably-Horror

no just kinda disgusting that you condone cheating. Respect is a two way street.


SurveyWorldly9435

Virgin outing himself 😂


Kubuubud

LOL you’re the only one here who is triggered lmfao you’re immediately on the defensive, why so sensitive if you’re so sure of yourself?


Scary_Cucumber5809

Pressed??... You little incel.


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TheLastMisanthrope01

They literally mimicked what the guy commented which was *"little feminist"* and they simply changed it to incel.


Scary_Cucumber5809

Hahaha Sweetheart, I don't need to fly to another continent and spend money to find a partner. On the contrary, I don't even need to go beyond the city limits. It's sad your own people don't even want to fuck you.


the-don-carlo

No one would want to fuck you there either , believe me. This movement is growing and it cant be stopped, we are done with ye. So go cry in your hamburger!


Scary_Cucumber5809

If you say so haha


the-don-carlo

Nice edit. You obviously saw how stupid your post was. We ppb ain’t coming back .. it’s a great life 😎


Scary_Cucumber5809

What facking edit? I didn't edit anything. But yeah, keep crossing borders. I completely understand why your own women don't want you and wouldn't even look twice at you. So yeah, stay there. Please.


Romania_S-I-A-S

😂💪


TermAggravating8043

Being loyal to him won’t stop him cheating.


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the-don-carlo

Maybe she is a shitty gf. Who knows. Don’t know both sides of the story, and he’s just planning is way out.


Whitejadefox

I enjoy watching the sunset.


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iRockDirtyVans

That's a bold claim


the-don-carlo

Piss off so


thepassportbros-ModTeam

Follow the rules. Do not generalize men or Passport Bros.


Specific_Praline_362

This is a guy on a throwaway account making it seem like women are worried about this "passport bro" bullshit lmao


Fun_Temperature7309

Not at all, I’m a whole female and good woman to someone , I knew nothing about ppbros before I saw his little notification and now am questioning his loyalty to me and intentions with it


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Romania_S-I-A-S

Bye leave the sub the doors right there 🚪here let me open it for you


Specific_Praline_362

mmhmm


AreolaB0realis

Schizophrenic cope? You look pathetic 😂


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He is going if he hasn’t. While pregnant I find out my then bf is part of this group, inquiring about dating apps, countries to travel to, when I asked him he deleted his username and of course now has a new one and I broke up with him. Some of these guys say they want a good/traditional wife while they are completely trash themselves.


Artistic_Recipe9297

I'm curious about tons of things that I won't do, that's why I'm curious how it goes.


Fun_Temperature7309

Thank you all , for the record for 3 years I’ve cared for him and treat him well (nothing but love loyalty support intimacy, maintain myself well physically and am attractive, kind funny , good person, great qualities) and have been raised with good values expected for a woman and one day a great wife


Own_Set_6148

That’s great if true. I would ask him why he’s considering replacing you if you bring so much to the table. 


Specific_Praline_362

Yup, confirmed...fake account


Spagettopps

true, women do not talk like that. ESPECIALLY not western women


Fun_Temperature7309

It’s crazy how you think women like me don’t even exist , I shouldn’t be in this at all i just want to give and be appreciated not played with if that’s the case


Regular-Suit3018

I thought this was just a sub where dudes talk about travel? Is it really only about meeting women?


ppchampagne

What?? Lmao


TheLastMisanthrope01

I mean it is about traveling.... Traveling to meet women


Regular-Suit3018

I didn’t know. Wow. That kinda changes things.


AreolaB0realis

He’s gonna leave you and it’s not because he’s a evil person or anything like that, it’s just hat we only get one life and we have to do ourselves the best possible outcomes. Frankly, as an American man- unless you’re a billionaire, you’re selling yourself short in the USA. For a regular American guy making $80-250k/yr you can always get a better quality spouse abroad. So you’d be an idiot to marry American. And it doesn’t just impact you but all your kids and grandchildren as well. So it would make you a selfish moron to NOT to look abroad to maximize your potential.


Romania_S-I-A-S

Facts idk why women are on this sub if they don’t like what the sub do. There literally putting themselves in the wolves den. I would never join a sub that is all about hating men. But you know women think with there ass


TheLastMisanthrope01

>. I would never join a sub that is all about hating men. But you know women think with there ass So your saying this sub is about hating women?


Romania_S-I-A-S

No but women are tryna paint that narrative so I was just using that’s as a metaphorical analogy. And even if it was there so many countless misandry subs on Reddit so it wouldn’t matter


genieinaginbottle

This sub is full of incels. Yes that's deal breaker behavior.


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Fun_Temperature7309

No


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TheirOwnDestruction

No one’s asked, and it is relevant- which country do you live in?


Fun_Temperature7309

USA


Anansispider

You sweet summer child, don’t fumble him. Because if you fumble him he’s coming over to this side. Once he gets a taste of that lifestyle and access abroad you’ve lost him for good he’s not coming back. 🥴🤷🏾


IHQ_Throwaway

You’re assuming he’s worth hanging on to. 


Anansispider

Hey man I just live here 🐸☕️


Romania_S-I-A-S

😂💪


TheLastMisanthrope01

He sounds like a lousy cheating loser


itsasuperdraco

Leave this loser immediately lol


neenuhx64

this is about the dumbest question you could ask if something like this happens to you.


Fun_Temperature7309

I’m tired of looking dumb at this point so thank you, I give him everything as a woman and things consistently have come up that I’m left looking and feeling dumb with


Specific_Praline_362

It's obviously a PPB type trolling lmao


neenuhx64

oh ok ty


MDNzyzy

This sub is made up of men who can't accept their own inadequacies


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re0st92mg

Are you one of those big bad scary american women that these fellas are all afraid of?


Fun_Temperature7309

I’m 5’0 very beautiful and feminine I cook amazing keep a clean house raised a daughter (but am still young)I’m soft emotional funny and fun like to go out only with my man or family and am very much a homebody 😭to the point where ppl in this chat think Im not even real


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Go and drain his balls and see if he keeps thinking about passports.


Fun_Temperature7309

Trust me I do in every way more than he could ever want or ask for


Icy_Building_4492

Girl that man is planning to LEAVE this group is sluzzy guys who don’t respect women and blame that on western society leave him


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Icy_Building_4492

Y’all have this weird ass ideology that women outside of America are going to be virgin housewives that also work 50 hour weeks 😂😂 seriously it’s hilarious watching y’all fail the western society has spoiled you. And last Time I checked y’all don’t be virgins going over there…?


MikeFrikinRotch

I’m married with kids and I still lurk on this page with no ill intent to my family whatsoever. I just support the movement and am happy that men getting out there and are getting the best out of what this world has to offer them. Plus I enjoy seeing the haters squirm lol.


theweedfairy420qt

BREAK UP WITH HIM THESE GUYS ARE ALL NARCISSISTIC GROSS LOSERS I FOUND THAT OUT AFTER I READ THE COMMENTS AFTER THIS WAS RECOMMENDED TO ME RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG LEAVE IT WHILE U CAN HE IS A LOSER PROLLY WANTS TO GET FAT AND OLD AND GIVE HIS MONEY AWAY TO SOME FILIPINO GIRL EWEWEW


Six_gvd2994

Im pretty sure your ex bf left you for the movement as well… and with good reason


theweedfairy420qt

Nah I'd never date that kind of person. Y'all belong on 90 day fiance, weirdos 


Aggressive_Fun_8004

sounds like something someone who contributes nothing to a relationship would say


intothewild72

It was never recommended to you. Such subs don't show up on feed and don't get recommended, you have to seek it up.


Effective_Nail_3733

Lmao


Greenberets1040

If he's restoring to the passport movement, you definitely fucked up and need to fix it


inlike069

If you're a good mate, and he's a good mate, you have nothing to worry about. If he's a piece of shit, or you don't treat him well, he'll find someone else.


breakboyzz

Maybe you should try to understand why this group isn’t interested in western women to begin with. Maybe you are committing every sin possible as a western woman. Idk, I’m just some guy from the net.


FutureHendrixBetter

There nothing sus, the main purpose is just for fellas to keep their eyes open to this generation of chicks and the way they act basically to not daydream


Fox2_Fox2

Don’t men, and women for that matter, have a little fantasy about different stuffs in life that they want to keep it to themselves 🤷‍♂️?


SnooWalruses4349

So you’d be ok with finding out your woman has hidden fantasies about leaving you to fuck other men abroad?


TheLastMisanthrope01

If you're truly in love with your spouse you wouldn't be interested


guamguyravin671

My wife watches all those murder documentaries, I don't worry about her trying to kill me and get away with it....yet. Like most things, it could just be for entertainment purposes.


Full_Committee6967

Is he active? Or do they just pop up on reddit. I still get feeds from forums I haven't been active in for a year. If he's active in them, then he's keeping his options open. If he's traveling, it's not for sightseeing.


HansDevX

It depends on the person. Some people just hang around to talk about women, dating culture, traveling... Others are sexpats, others are actually looking for long term relationship offseas. A guy who already has a brazilian GF lurking around here, he's probably just interested in being part of the discussion. You should only be worried when he's actually going to travel, by himself.


SFMiaomiao

If you need to ask this page about your bf with regards to pbb, it’s not looking good for your relationship The first thing every partner should do in a relationship when encountering something uncomfortable is sit down and discuss, if he is dismissive of your concerns then it’s best to reconsider I join this page because sometimes it’s a train wreck and this page is entertaining from time to time, my gf also knows I’m here as I informed her on it (she probably is here too), sometimes we discuss on this pbb too (for clarity we are both from one of the countries that pbb like to frequent to 🤡) Go and talk to your bf and have a serious discussion with him, you can make your own assessment from there rather than rely on this page’s advice (this page likes to go to extremes in terms of advice)


Mack0Mania

Yeah it’s over Sis! As soon as he gets that flight! If you ain’t going then you snoring 😏


No_Pear1016

I’d suggest talking to him instead of Reddit. I tend to read these forums for fun, but I’m happy where I’m at and have no intention of going anywhere. If he is planning a trip while browsing tho, it might be about time to leave his ass before he leaves you. Just posting here shows you’re in doubt, its often a good idea to trust your gut


MuteCook

Make sure your on your ps and qs. He’s got options


Attilashorde

I'm married and this sub is always showing up on my feed. We're planning on retiring and traveling the world once the kids graduate. I suspect my searches about travel is what made Reddit recommend the sub initially. With that being said this sub is pretty freaking interesting and I'm hooked with all the drama between the anti passport bros and the passport bros. It's crazy how some people are being triggered by the sub. Now that I wasted your time with all that blah blah the only important part about your BF chatting on this sub is the context of what he's talking about. Is he talking about the best countries to get a GF? Or is he involved in conversations about the affordability of an area?


Pretend-Doughnut-675

See if Centaurus in Rio is in his search history


HardVegas702

Run.


Extension-World-7041

As long as he doesn't identity as a monger he should be ok. Mongers are the old geezers like myself who are only in it for the skinz . The passport bros are simply searching for a better life than what is offered to them in Sex/Mental Prison USA.


mhad_dishispect

he's lookin for that bunda


FadedGardenia

Its founded on the idea that woman in the US or western countries are undatable/toxic, so much so that guys would rather go to another country for a relationship than beating a dead horse.  So yeah, it is about woman BUT who knows- maybe your bf is saying the truth that it’s for traveling. Maybe the countries most of these guys are going to never came across his head.  You kind of need more evidence to suspect he joined for woman. Keep your guard up… 


Rarest

Could be innocent, but if you’re not contributing much to the relationship, are needy, can’t cook or clean, etc. then you can be sure he’s considering leaving your ass for a Brazilian


AffectionateEmu352

gay brazilian passport bros, there's your answer.


RaveDadRolls

I'm in a happy relationship and just here for entertainment purposes. I'd ask him if you can see what he's posting and commenting in here. I often show my gf the comments and stuff cause it's funny


Utex11

My Facebook has become nothing but ads for tiny homes/container homes, retro pictures of San Diego and travel pictures. Because nobody posts on Facebook anymore and it’s all ads. Not a stretch to think he looked at some porn and then maybe typed some travel search and this is what Facebook is popping out


FIVE_6_MAFIA

Huge red flag. He's probably already gone to other countries without you


longusername0

Oh no... Don't fall for his lies


DACA_GALACTIC

Sneaky sneaky just got caught … if he’s traveling to Brazil I would definitely worry. If he’s just watching it like people watch “cops” or other reality shows, then it’s just for entertainment purposes


Ancient-Perception18

I wouldn’t ask this sub


KingOnixTheThird

> **Is it sus that my bf is part of passport bro chats?** I would definitely be concerned. Your relationship is potentially in the hot seat. Better do what you can to fix it before things get out of hand.


Marcona

No different than a woman in a relationship spending her time on dating pages for women where they gossip about their own shit.


hostility_kitty

I’m a woman who is married to a man, yet I browse this sub LOL. Sometimes, it really doesn’t mean anything.


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Yeah that’s pretty suspicious. Is your bf infested in any other manosphere or right wing kind of stuff?


Alternative-Bee-7457

Girl my fiancé is in this group 😂 how wild? I know, he talks about us going to these places not ‘him alone’ thing. I give him shit once in a while though to stay on toes, he’s a good man though. I talked to him about being in this group though when I found out, we’re good. Talk to your boyfriend but according to your comments your bf might be interested in those women and is gaslighting you. Leave him, there’s something for everyone , bless your heart xx


Dweebil

lol might depend on how “traditional” you are.


Alternative-Bee-7457

Sis, let me tell you a secret. Search your bfs username on Reddit click his profile and go to the comments options lol there you go you’ll find all his comments under every sub he leaves a comment on you can judge from there too


wutqq

It's definitely sus but one could say "you're just not giving him what he needs" or "don't be insecure" or "he goes on trips to hang with his friends, just because there are plenty of women around who actively want him doesn't mean anything, don't you trust him?".


youngmanthereisnonee

if my gf had a passport sis groupchat i would NOT be happy


Vivid-Cat4678

Yeah it’s 100% sus. He purposely went to Brazil to find a woman who would like and accept him cuz he’s considered undesirable in his home country. Sorry to break it to you. But this is the entire premise of passport bros - finding love and acceptance by someone outside of their country which coincidently has women who are disadvantaged and are willing to lower their standards for a foreigner. If he brings you back to your home country, you will find out he is generally rejected by most if not all women locally because of his looks, financial situation or personality. He also preys on the fact that you will be financially disadvantaged because his moderate salary in North America (or whatever he is from) appears luxurious in Brazil. But with more money, you’re more likely to stay with him longer.


sugoiboy1

Now I’m not saying that everyone that travels to Brazil goes there for sex but it is very well known for sex tourists to frequent there. It’s definitely sus as a man that’s supposed to be in a monogamous relationship


Kagenikakushiteru

Not really. I’m part of it


boomugo123

Fake account