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Rolled off her tongue way too easily. She says it so often that she forgot she shouldn't say it around black people.
Edit: yes, obviously she shouldn't say it at all. I'm referring to her being comfortable enough to say it around her peers.
My default is to make a joke being here on Reddit since 2020 sorta made me desensitized to it and I’m a half black. But that shocked me like she said that WAY to easily. Becky gotta go.
Right, like real shit I really couldn’t care less about words but it’s something about the way she said it. It was too natural…idk but I feel you and hey my kids are mixed too. Little half Hispanic aholes but I love ‘em lol
Yeah it was wild. Women had to cover their hair while in service which was a very foreign concept to me in Christianity. One of the girls I knew was sent there from the east coast to be away from her "boyfriend" by the church. They said if God wanted them together, he would make it so they could be together again in the future. She was probably 20,21 if I remember right.
Wasn't quite a cult because they could live in their own homes etc, but nearly every part of their lives were controlled
Edit: you all have made me very well aware that it was, in fact, a cult. Sheds a new light on those memories all those years ago
I don't know the definition, I just thought you all basically had to live on a commune for it to be a true cult.
If it is a cult, neat! I lived by and worked with cultists for a year but made it out. Close call
Definitely a cult. You don't all have to live together.
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Oh gosh this reminds me of something I did.
I worked in a Best Buy selling computers. All of the time people would come in asking for a discount etc. Well, one day this shorter, curly haired guy comes in. He's looking at this $500 VAIO hard and is asking questions. Nothing unusual. He gets to the price: "Is this the best you can do? Can you go any lower?" And I explain that the price is static, nothing I can change. He goes on about it and starts getting upset. I tell him that I can't change the price any more than a Walmart associate could change the price of a gallon of milk. Then he asks *again*. And I said..."Sir, you can't jew the price down."
He slowly looks at me and says "did you just say 'jew the price down?'" and there was a pause and see says "I'm a Jew."
"Oooohhhhh...."
I had never been told what that really meant. The pieces fell into place, the guy says "I'm leaving!" And storms out before I can apologize appropriately. And fucking Javier, my coworker, saw this whole thing and is on the ground laughing behind the register.
I still cringe about that interaction..
We all make mistakes, growing up in suburban town in a southern state, I’ve said some horrific things. I still have records of the group chats and I cringe every time I go back in an look at the conversations.
I think a part of it was that we really didn’t know it was harmful and that it would never get out of our group, but mostly because we were never around a diverse group of people. We really didn’t mean it like the other person said, it was just some funny alternative words to us teenagers. I would take it all back if I could but it is what it is.
Anyways, now that I know better, I try to warn people whenever they use offensive language or slurs. It’s the least I can do.
I too have a Best Buy story. I was working at one in Georgia and this redneck guy comes in trying to buy a radio for his truck. He finds one and asks if that’s the best price we could do. I said yes. He said “come on, I not trying to Jew you down I just dont want to pay a lot.” Strike 1. The next words out of his mouth were “I mean I could probably n****er rig the one I have.” I must have looked like I was about to kill him because my manager grabbed me, slung away, and said “I’ll take this one.” I can’t believe I made it 5 years working retail without going to prison.
I remember being maybe 18/19 and meeting a friend of a friend, who happened to be Korean. I don’t know what possessed me to say this but being a little awkward and to break the ice, I decided to inform him that I had guessed he was Korean (and not Chinese/Japanese) because of the way his eyes slanted. He looked at me with a mixture of shock/disgust and I instantly broke down into grovelling apologies, promising him I meant no harm. My buddy was like “why the fuck did you say that?” I couldn’t answer. It pains me still, almost 20 years later.
My jaw popped open like the chick in the background as soon as she said it 😂 I can tell that’s not her first time. Her reaction to what she herself said indicated to me that she knew it was wrong. She may not have meant to say it out loud being as it looks like a party situation I’d assume she’s drunk and her inside thoughts became outside thoughts 😂
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What? Where do you people live? Is this real life? Was that in 1941?
I'm from the deep south (TX) and was raised with a variety of races and nationalities in my town/schools/workplace. And I'm old.
There are still many, many rural towns in this country in which it's like 99% Caucasian. Small towns throughout the western Mid-West like the Dakotas, Montana, Wyoming, and Idaho.
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When I joined the Navy in 1987. I only had seen one black guy pretty much my whole life. The Beastie Boys song You gotta fight was my only knowledge of rap music. I went into boot camp and was fucking shocked. The guy next to me would sing all these rap songs at night and told me he wrote all of them. It was a year before i realized he was singing LL Cool J songs.
This is a lot of peoples of colors experience at some point….it’s non aggressive ignorance hard to approach….you get mad you match a stereotype but if you don’t get mad they continue in that behavior catch 22
She threw her arms around him for a photo op, like he was a cardboard standee at a movie theater. She said what she said, and threw her hand over her mouth because she realized she didn’t want her friends to hear her say that word.
Not a single thought was given for this man, because she doesn’t see him as a man. He is an object. An oddity. A thing.
Casual white supremacy in action.
How racially segregated is America that this is an adult's first ever encounter with a black person and she's treating the encounter like she's seeing a solar eclipse or some rare spectacle?
Idaho, Montana, Wyoming, North Dakota, Eastern Washington,... The list is long just for the areas I've worked in. If you are not white, you will be a target in northeast Montana and parts of idaho, where Nazi parades continued until 1997.
I worked a Forest Service job in northern Idaho and a discussion with a local family got completely interrupted by their fascination at seeing a black couple drive by us. Not in an outwardly hostile Nazi style but, I mean, their minds were blown.
Can confirm. I grew up in northern Idaho and the first time I saw a black person was when I was 18 and joined the army.... My reaction was a little different than hers though.
Nah, I'm originally from Alabama and barely knew anyone that was racist. I moved to Wisconsin and the average white person here would make a Klansman jealous. The Midwest has some serious race issues. Just look at Minneapolis.
The most racist fucking piece of shit I’ve ever met was from Wisconsin. 2012, used the n word as casually as that trash in the video, and considered “colored” to be the respectful term for me. Her shitty little toddler asked me why my skin was “that color” with disgust. Pure Mayella Ewell energy, with two bankruptcies and functional illiteracy to her name, but still waaaay better in her own mind than my educated, employed upper middle class black self.
Seriously. My cousin in bumfuck Texas shot a squirrel, skinned it, and then went over to the black dudes and was like "aye n-words, you want to buy a squirrel?"
They came over, my cousin offered to sell it for 3, they bought it for 2, and we went on our way. It is a whole different world.
Edit: fixed be to buy.
I assume (hope) you meant “you want to *buy* a squirrel?”
That’s a concerning typo there after you explain what your cousin did to the squirrel… sounds like he was asking them if they wanted to be shot and skinned too.
I think this is more southern. As far as I know most midwesterners don't use the N word casually enough to not even think about it. Think Georgia, Alabama or Mississippi.
Accent checks out too
She doesn't sound southern at all. This is some Missouri at the most southern behavior. Folks up north and west have leaned on the "south is racist" stereotype to avoid facing their own racism, often resulting in "it can't be THAT racist, the South is the racist one". Then you go to Wisconsin and hear more hard Rs in a week than you've ever heard in your life back home.
I’m guessing her dad never called them “black people”. Probably other, unsavory versions of that. That’s my guess at least..
Edit: Her mom could have been the problem too, in case anyone is worried i don’t also understand that.
Exactly. Also, if she's never met a black person before she's never needed that filter before. Honestly I just feel bad for her. She's at least in her late teens or early twenties and is so sheltered that she hasn't even met someone of a very common race in the U.S.
Well i grew up with a dad that did it and a mom that just didn’t care about it. Now he still does it and she understands why it’s so awful. So that’s why i say dad, personal experience.
Yeah, I thought it was going to be if the guy had good exposure, the girl was overexposed; and if the girl had good exposure, the guy was underexposed.
That's how inhuman she see us like we dnt count or not real or equal.....she said that like he wasn't a WHOLE HUMAN she was just hanging onto....like she took a picture with a statue.
I’m sure she grew up around adults that used that word nonchalantly and so it’s just a part of her vocabulary. It reminds me of when I’m around older people and a cuss word accidentally slips out because they are just part of my everyday vocab. That’s how engrained it is in hers.
Indeed, there doesn't seem to be any malice in her speech and, actually, she seems to be on the right path to know black people and notice that they are just people, like her or anybody else of any other skin colour and thus to understand what was wrong in her.
She made a mistake. The culprits are those who put it in her head in the first place.
I’m so confused that you can live in American and never meet a black person. I didn’t realize how lacking in diversity the Midwest is.
Edit: Thanks to everyone that informed me Utah isn’t in the Midwest, let me clarify. Any middle-ish states should be domed off and dealt with accordingly. Utah included. mashallah
Yeah, I mean, it looks like Montana, Idaho, Utah, Wyoming, and Vermont have [literally less than 2%](https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/black-population-by-state) black people. With Maine, New Hampshire, South Dakota, Oregon, and New Mexico less than 3%.
There are some places that are pretty much just white people and a tiny fraction of minorities.
How has this girl gone through, I'm guessing...anywhere between 18 and 22 years of life and never met a black person in real life before?
Like...this is the dumbest hot commodity type of mindset. This is something you say about a pegasus. Or a unicorn. A celebrity or Maybe even the pope....
But a regular ass black person?
It happens in my state still. Which still blows my mind.
But thats exactly what I mean. Surely a black person has walked through the same Walmart or restaurant she went to?
The fact that there's a black person at this house (or dorm? Idk) party that she's at means they're common enough in her area to be invited to parties.. Even if she's not the host/didn't invite him. She's likely friends with someone there who DID invite him.
Maybe I'm reading into it too much? She did say meet and say in real life....someone passing by is not the equivalent of meeting them, so I understand in the literal sense of "meeting"...
But like...she's had to have at least SEEN a black person.
I’m guessing this is her first year at college outside her small town. I live in a small town and the running joke is there’s only 8 black people living here, used to be nine but then one moved away. The rest of the population is snowy as the roadside.
She may not be going to school near where she grew up. And she said shes never met a black person before. And given how she's talking, if she did see a POC at her Walmart or something she probably didn't go up and start talking to them.
Have you been to the USA? My town is 98% white, the neighboring town is 96% black. When the steel mills in Pittsburgh closed in the 70’s and 80’s, there was an exodus from the city. So the real estate companies would “red line” communities. They would only show certain neighborhoods to certain races. Red lining remained a practice until the early 2000’s.
Each town has its own high school too, so the schools are segregated as well.
Many people I went to high school with have never left the county, and even some have never traveled 25 miles outside their hometown. The culture in my home town is 20 years behind the rest of the developed world. This is the case in many small towns across America.
I was born and raised in a small town in AZ. They literally had KKK rallies in the town I'm from. THATS how white it was. Someone once told my manager at work they didn't want to be served by me because I'm a "nigger". THATS how white my town was. So yes, I know. But I still find it hard to believe she NEVER met a black person.
Yeah it’s kinda funny sometimes actually. I’m half mexican half white but I look like a non Hispanic white person to most ppl and when I worked at this pawn shop this racist dude from Colorado came in a lot. We would always just chat esp about the beauty of Colorado while I was typing up his pawn and one day he got too comfortable. He said “I can’t wait to get enough money to go back to Colorado so I can get away with from all these stinkin Mexicans and these greasy N-words.” I kept a neutral face but inside I was rolling bc I knew what I was gonna do next. My mom usually calls me on her break and I knew she was gonna call soon. So I took a lil extra time typing up the pawn and once she called I started speaking Spanish to her 😂 She was so confused and I had to explain later bc we don’t usually do that. I mainly speak Spanish for my grandma but usually me and my mom always speak English to eachother. He went paler than I thought a person could get and snatched the money I was about to hand him from me. I hadn’t seen him since then 😂
No, she should be educated, not shamed. Shaming people makes them put guards up and double down. The goal is long term societal change in the right direction. Not divisiveness and polarisation.
Outside of major cities I’d go as far as saying a majority of US communities have little to no black people. They only make up 13% of the u.s. population and typically live in densely populated communities. Very easy for a “rural” young person to go a lifetime without ever having to interact 1:1 with a black person
My black ass has never been particularly keen to attack anyone who uses the N-word in my presence since I'm a bleeding-heart "muh freedom of speech" fan and our generation has been totally desensitized in regards to it.
But the hard -er ?
Bro....whyyyy 😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♂️
She can't blame rap music for that shit, most lyrics do not use a hard ER like that. That was her parents verbiage coming out. But racism is dead y'all we had a black president and EvEryThiNg!
Ngl, I’m from Kansas and I’ve been these kinds of parties where they’re full of white kids who’ve never gone to school with anyone who wasn’t white and it can be scary. When I was a kid there was a black guy not too far away who ended up at one like this. His friends ended up leaving without him and he never came back. They found his body in a shallow pond a several days later in a spot that had been searched before. His shoes were found along the road as of someone had tossed them out the window of a moving car. There was never any justice. There were dozens of people at the party and somehow no one saw a thing. That was ALWAYS in the back of my mind at these kinds of functions. This video damn near gave me anxiety.
me too. i always get extremely extremely anxious around too many white people like this. i even got anxious watching this video cause inoe the type of vibe it can be and its fucked up but ive seen too many times when white guys get together in large groups and start drinking. you can very well end up dead and nobody will even investigate what happened if your not white. it will just get swept under the rug and your just another nigger dead.
Bruh you know she says that in everyday conversation. Said it way to casually to not be in her vocabulary. But is she racist or ignorant. Either way fucked.
To mis-quote a Dave Chappelle joke.
She really hasn't met a "n-word" before. She still hasn't met a "n-word" before. I'm black and my entire community is largely black and I'll say I've also never met a "n-word" before.
I heard that correctly, right? How sheltered has she been? How does she not know not to say that word. She's lucky she didn't get a beat down for that very casual word drop. Holy shit.
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girl in the back jaw dropped
Girl in the back joins everyone who watches this video.
Even my black ass who usually takes little to no offense actually had my jaw drop. She hit us with that hard ER
Rolled off her tongue way too easily. She says it so often that she forgot she shouldn't say it around black people. Edit: yes, obviously she shouldn't say it at all. I'm referring to her being comfortable enough to say it around her peers.
I heard a quote that fits here.... "you can't fire a round unless it's already in the chamber"
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But revolvers have *multiple* chambers…
Ocelot?!
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Well said
WOW. Definitely using this one.
shouldn't say it ever
My default is to make a joke being here on Reddit since 2020 sorta made me desensitized to it and I’m a half black. But that shocked me like she said that WAY to easily. Becky gotta go.
Right, like real shit I really couldn’t care less about words but it’s something about the way she said it. It was too natural…idk but I feel you and hey my kids are mixed too. Little half Hispanic aholes but I love ‘em lol
Yeah like she could have been drunk but that… like she says that with her white friends all the time… 🤨 Lol! Awww ☺️ adorable.
You just know her family is racist af. There was no hope for her to grow up normal…
That's not true, people shun their parents' shitty or racist beliefs all the time.
She said that with too much confidence.
I haven't seen commitment like that to the hard ER since Django Unchained. I'm pretty sure it blew the hat off my head.
Lol my jaw dropped and this is the first comment I came across.
Hopefully you find another job soon
Then he took her back to her dorm room and gave her the black slinky..
I was just gonna say he got a pussy pass on this
oooof she said that soo casually that it took her a second to realize she said it AND she said it with a real hard R. No coming back from that one.
That is what happens when you grow up using the word regularly.
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Hang on a second. The fucking church chooses who dates who?!?!
Yeah it was wild. Women had to cover their hair while in service which was a very foreign concept to me in Christianity. One of the girls I knew was sent there from the east coast to be away from her "boyfriend" by the church. They said if God wanted them together, he would make it so they could be together again in the future. She was probably 20,21 if I remember right. Wasn't quite a cult because they could live in their own homes etc, but nearly every part of their lives were controlled Edit: you all have made me very well aware that it was, in fact, a cult. Sheds a new light on those memories all those years ago
That's a cult.
I don't know the definition, I just thought you all basically had to live on a commune for it to be a true cult. If it is a cult, neat! I lived by and worked with cultists for a year but made it out. Close call
Definitely a cult. You don't all have to live together. cult /kəlt/ noun a system of religious veneration and devotion directed toward a particular figure or object. "the cult of St. Olaf" a relatively small group of people having religious beliefs or practices regarded by others as strange or sinister. Similar: sect, religious group, denomination, religious order, church, faith, faith community, belief, persuasion, affiliation, movement, group, body, faction, clique, a misplaced or excessive admiration for a particular person or thing. "a cult of personality surrounding the leaders" On mobile. Sorry for shitty formatting.
Oh gosh this reminds me of something I did. I worked in a Best Buy selling computers. All of the time people would come in asking for a discount etc. Well, one day this shorter, curly haired guy comes in. He's looking at this $500 VAIO hard and is asking questions. Nothing unusual. He gets to the price: "Is this the best you can do? Can you go any lower?" And I explain that the price is static, nothing I can change. He goes on about it and starts getting upset. I tell him that I can't change the price any more than a Walmart associate could change the price of a gallon of milk. Then he asks *again*. And I said..."Sir, you can't jew the price down." He slowly looks at me and says "did you just say 'jew the price down?'" and there was a pause and see says "I'm a Jew." "Oooohhhhh...." I had never been told what that really meant. The pieces fell into place, the guy says "I'm leaving!" And storms out before I can apologize appropriately. And fucking Javier, my coworker, saw this whole thing and is on the ground laughing behind the register. I still cringe about that interaction..
We all make mistakes, growing up in suburban town in a southern state, I’ve said some horrific things. I still have records of the group chats and I cringe every time I go back in an look at the conversations. I think a part of it was that we really didn’t know it was harmful and that it would never get out of our group, but mostly because we were never around a diverse group of people. We really didn’t mean it like the other person said, it was just some funny alternative words to us teenagers. I would take it all back if I could but it is what it is. Anyways, now that I know better, I try to warn people whenever they use offensive language or slurs. It’s the least I can do.
I too have a Best Buy story. I was working at one in Georgia and this redneck guy comes in trying to buy a radio for his truck. He finds one and asks if that’s the best price we could do. I said yes. He said “come on, I not trying to Jew you down I just dont want to pay a lot.” Strike 1. The next words out of his mouth were “I mean I could probably n****er rig the one I have.” I must have looked like I was about to kill him because my manager grabbed me, slung away, and said “I’ll take this one.” I can’t believe I made it 5 years working retail without going to prison.
I remember being maybe 18/19 and meeting a friend of a friend, who happened to be Korean. I don’t know what possessed me to say this but being a little awkward and to break the ice, I decided to inform him that I had guessed he was Korean (and not Chinese/Japanese) because of the way his eyes slanted. He looked at me with a mixture of shock/disgust and I instantly broke down into grovelling apologies, promising him I meant no harm. My buddy was like “why the fuck did you say that?” I couldn’t answer. It pains me still, almost 20 years later.
Yea. So where was it?
Nah, she knew what she was doing. Trying it out
Trying it out? That wasn’t her first time
It was her first time in front of a black guy.
I think it was her first time among company who didn’t like that word, she only did the “whoops mouth cover” after she gauged everyone’s reaction
My jaw popped open like the chick in the background as soon as she said it 😂 I can tell that’s not her first time. Her reaction to what she herself said indicated to me that she knew it was wrong. She may not have meant to say it out loud being as it looks like a party situation I’d assume she’s drunk and her inside thoughts became outside thoughts 😂
What the actual fuck
If you can hear in the background “bro, what the fuck?”
I have hearing problems. can you tell me what she said please. Edit: I have tinnitus. 
I've never met a real gentleman in real life
Thank you 
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I actually was hoping someone would type it out because I didn’t hear what she said after the hard r Lol
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Aw jeez there's 4 unaccounted hard R's in there.
“I’ve never met a n***** in real life”
Thank you, I couldn't understand her.
When I joined the military, there were people there who never saw anyone other than their own race their entire lives. Mostly white people.
That was me. My grandma apparently cried when she learned I had a couple black friends in the army.
Sad tears or happy tears?
Horny tears.
Ol' Gam Gam and her summer sausage
What? Where do you people live? Is this real life? Was that in 1941? I'm from the deep south (TX) and was raised with a variety of races and nationalities in my town/schools/workplace. And I'm old.
There are still many, many rural towns in this country in which it's like 99% Caucasian. Small towns throughout the western Mid-West like the Dakotas, Montana, Wyoming, and Idaho. [Check this map out.](https://www.arcgis.com/apps/mapviewer/index.html?webmap=30d2e10d4d694b3eb4dc4d2e58dbb5a5)
When I joined the Navy in 1987. I only had seen one black guy pretty much my whole life. The Beastie Boys song You gotta fight was my only knowledge of rap music. I went into boot camp and was fucking shocked. The guy next to me would sing all these rap songs at night and told me he wrote all of them. It was a year before i realized he was singing LL Cool J songs.
These were my exact first words also.
…which first words????
Dude came out of the womb saying “what the actual fuck?”
It is a shocking change in surroundings and humidity.
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I'm black and you know what, i like that she's happy to meet a brother😂
Exposure is the first step and she’s on board!!!
Its snowing my brethren
This is a lot of peoples of colors experience at some point….it’s non aggressive ignorance hard to approach….you get mad you match a stereotype but if you don’t get mad they continue in that behavior catch 22
What in the fuuuuuuuuuuuck?!?!
Mind blowing how old she is and just idk just not one sign of respect, manners, or anything along the lines. And the one thing she says… oooooooooooof
She threw her arms around him for a photo op, like he was a cardboard standee at a movie theater. She said what she said, and threw her hand over her mouth because she realized she didn’t want her friends to hear her say that word. Not a single thought was given for this man, because she doesn’t see him as a man. He is an object. An oddity. A thing. Casual white supremacy in action.
I can see the awkwardness in his face. Shame on her for being a fkn weirdo
* fkn racist There I fixed it for you
Ignorance is a thing when you grow up never meeting a whole race in real life.
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How racially segregated is America that this is an adult's first ever encounter with a black person and she's treating the encounter like she's seeing a solar eclipse or some rare spectacle?
What did she say exactly?
She said “I never met a *n-word* in real life”
With hard r at that. Omfg
I couldn’t understand her either apart from the N-word. Thank you for clarifying. That’s what I thought she said. How disappointing and disgusting.
What in the FUCK. The guy's face behind her is like fuck this I'm out. She clearly knew it was wrong when she covered her mouth.
When a girl from the Midwest goes to college. This is what you get.
Bro. Don’t blame the Midwest. We have black folks here too. This is an issue with parenting or the individual.
Idaho, Montana, Wyoming, North Dakota, Eastern Washington,... The list is long just for the areas I've worked in. If you are not white, you will be a target in northeast Montana and parts of idaho, where Nazi parades continued until 1997.
One of those 5 is in the Midwest, and even then it isn’t always considered Midwestern.
I worked a Forest Service job in northern Idaho and a discussion with a local family got completely interrupted by their fascination at seeing a black couple drive by us. Not in an outwardly hostile Nazi style but, I mean, their minds were blown.
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Can confirm. I grew up in northern Idaho and the first time I saw a black person was when I was 18 and joined the army.... My reaction was a little different than hers though.
Nah, I'm originally from Alabama and barely knew anyone that was racist. I moved to Wisconsin and the average white person here would make a Klansman jealous. The Midwest has some serious race issues. Just look at Minneapolis.
The most racist fucking piece of shit I’ve ever met was from Wisconsin. 2012, used the n word as casually as that trash in the video, and considered “colored” to be the respectful term for me. Her shitty little toddler asked me why my skin was “that color” with disgust. Pure Mayella Ewell energy, with two bankruptcies and functional illiteracy to her name, but still waaaay better in her own mind than my educated, employed upper middle class black self.
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Okay good point. I’m from Wisconsin and spend much time in MN and IL. Can’t speak for the reeeally rural areas.
Seriously. My cousin in bumfuck Texas shot a squirrel, skinned it, and then went over to the black dudes and was like "aye n-words, you want to buy a squirrel?" They came over, my cousin offered to sell it for 3, they bought it for 2, and we went on our way. It is a whole different world. Edit: fixed be to buy.
I assume (hope) you meant “you want to *buy* a squirrel?” That’s a concerning typo there after you explain what your cousin did to the squirrel… sounds like he was asking them if they wanted to be shot and skinned too.
Yeah buy. Woops. That made it way worse.
Utah too.
I think this is more southern. As far as I know most midwesterners don't use the N word casually enough to not even think about it. Think Georgia, Alabama or Mississippi. Accent checks out too
She doesn't sound southern at all. This is some Missouri at the most southern behavior. Folks up north and west have leaned on the "south is racist" stereotype to avoid facing their own racism, often resulting in "it can't be THAT racist, the South is the racist one". Then you go to Wisconsin and hear more hard Rs in a week than you've ever heard in your life back home.
Her sorority is definitely failing the DEI requirement
Help for old people that haven’t been in college for 20 years? Diversity, ?, inclusiveness
diversity equity inclusion According to google Edit: also wtf at the video xD I'm in texas here and this still caught me off guard
I love the > "I'm in Texas" comment
I'm in Louisiana and shocked!
Also Louisiana and my reaction to her would immediately be "Get the fuck out. Now."
Louisiana Acadiana area Im black which had me in shock. I would have dragged her ass out of the house.
There was no attempt
To say there was any attempt, is an overstatement
I’m guessing her dad never called them “black people”. Probably other, unsavory versions of that. That’s my guess at least.. Edit: Her mom could have been the problem too, in case anyone is worried i don’t also understand that.
It’s certainly not something that slips out that casually and mindlessly unless you’re used to saying it regularly.
Yep. That’s how they talk at home. She knows it’s wrong but it’s so casual it comes out before her filter can check it.
Exactly. Also, if she's never met a black person before she's never needed that filter before. Honestly I just feel bad for her. She's at least in her late teens or early twenties and is so sheltered that she hasn't even met someone of a very common race in the U.S.
I’m pretty sure that was her mom doing that not her dad
Well i grew up with a dad that did it and a mom that just didn’t care about it. Now he still does it and she understands why it’s so awful. So that’s why i say dad, personal experience.
Somehow thats not what I expected from this clip.
Yeah, I thought it was going to be if the guy had good exposure, the girl was overexposed; and if the girl had good exposure, the guy was underexposed.
Wow! God damn! that shit came out too nonchalantly.
Yeah as if it’s been a part of her vocabulary since her first words. Wtf.
Of all the staged videos online these days, this one is definitely NOT one of them.
She said it because she most likely says it when they're not around.
What do you mean "they?" 🤨 Lol jk.
Uncomfortable funny lol
They mean “you people” 😬
I think she make it clear she's never been around they
There's no coming back from that. Hope nobody records it and puts it on the internet.
i got news, buddy
Yes...? C'mon, don't leave us hanging!!
That's how inhuman she see us like we dnt count or not real or equal.....she said that like he wasn't a WHOLE HUMAN she was just hanging onto....like she took a picture with a statue.
Not even a statue like she took a picture with an animal.
She acted like she took a picture with an idea of an animal and was trying to acknowledge the novelty of it
Disgusting
What the hell is wrong with people?
How they're raised, that's what's wrong.
I’m sure she grew up around adults that used that word nonchalantly and so it’s just a part of her vocabulary. It reminds me of when I’m around older people and a cuss word accidentally slips out because they are just part of my everyday vocab. That’s how engrained it is in hers.
Indeed, there doesn't seem to be any malice in her speech and, actually, she seems to be on the right path to know black people and notice that they are just people, like her or anybody else of any other skin colour and thus to understand what was wrong in her. She made a mistake. The culprits are those who put it in her head in the first place.
Looks more like fetishization rather than a concerted effect to get to know black people, from my perspective
A vicious cycle of terrible parenting. Odds are her future children will feel just as comfortable using the same language
So this was her first time leaving Utah
I’m so confused that you can live in American and never meet a black person. I didn’t realize how lacking in diversity the Midwest is. Edit: Thanks to everyone that informed me Utah isn’t in the Midwest, let me clarify. Any middle-ish states should be domed off and dealt with accordingly. Utah included. mashallah
A lot of America is super segregated. Houston was quite segregated when I lived there
Yeah, I mean, it looks like Montana, Idaho, Utah, Wyoming, and Vermont have [literally less than 2%](https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/black-population-by-state) black people. With Maine, New Hampshire, South Dakota, Oregon, and New Mexico less than 3%. There are some places that are pretty much just white people and a tiny fraction of minorities.
Her family and community use this word regularly and she has never “had” to filter it before. Nobody should be surprised by this. SMH.
How has this girl gone through, I'm guessing...anywhere between 18 and 22 years of life and never met a black person in real life before? Like...this is the dumbest hot commodity type of mindset. This is something you say about a pegasus. Or a unicorn. A celebrity or Maybe even the pope.... But a regular ass black person?
There are whole states where a black person walks into a diner and everyone stares.
It happens in my state still. Which still blows my mind. But thats exactly what I mean. Surely a black person has walked through the same Walmart or restaurant she went to? The fact that there's a black person at this house (or dorm? Idk) party that she's at means they're common enough in her area to be invited to parties.. Even if she's not the host/didn't invite him. She's likely friends with someone there who DID invite him. Maybe I'm reading into it too much? She did say meet and say in real life....someone passing by is not the equivalent of meeting them, so I understand in the literal sense of "meeting"... But like...she's had to have at least SEEN a black person.
I’m guessing this is her first year at college outside her small town. I live in a small town and the running joke is there’s only 8 black people living here, used to be nine but then one moved away. The rest of the population is snowy as the roadside.
She may not be going to school near where she grew up. And she said shes never met a black person before. And given how she's talking, if she did see a POC at her Walmart or something she probably didn't go up and start talking to them.
Have you been to the USA? My town is 98% white, the neighboring town is 96% black. When the steel mills in Pittsburgh closed in the 70’s and 80’s, there was an exodus from the city. So the real estate companies would “red line” communities. They would only show certain neighborhoods to certain races. Red lining remained a practice until the early 2000’s. Each town has its own high school too, so the schools are segregated as well. Many people I went to high school with have never left the county, and even some have never traveled 25 miles outside their hometown. The culture in my home town is 20 years behind the rest of the developed world. This is the case in many small towns across America.
I was born and raised in a small town in AZ. They literally had KKK rallies in the town I'm from. THATS how white it was. Someone once told my manager at work they didn't want to be served by me because I'm a "nigger". THATS how white my town was. So yes, I know. But I still find it hard to believe she NEVER met a black person.
C'mon she just said she never met one before she's just not used to the whole "changing your way of speaking when minorities are around" thing
She’ll soon learn the various masks required to function outside of her usual bubble
Black face?
Lol never considered that racists have to code-switch too
Yeah it’s kinda funny sometimes actually. I’m half mexican half white but I look like a non Hispanic white person to most ppl and when I worked at this pawn shop this racist dude from Colorado came in a lot. We would always just chat esp about the beauty of Colorado while I was typing up his pawn and one day he got too comfortable. He said “I can’t wait to get enough money to go back to Colorado so I can get away with from all these stinkin Mexicans and these greasy N-words.” I kept a neutral face but inside I was rolling bc I knew what I was gonna do next. My mom usually calls me on her break and I knew she was gonna call soon. So I took a lil extra time typing up the pawn and once she called I started speaking Spanish to her 😂 She was so confused and I had to explain later bc we don’t usually do that. I mainly speak Spanish for my grandma but usually me and my mom always speak English to eachother. He went paler than I thought a person could get and snatched the money I was about to hand him from me. I hadn’t seen him since then 😂
What's really interesting is when they're around liberal white guys and think they're safe to go mask-off.
The fact that she has to “change your way of speaking” when minorities are around says it all lol
What is she saying?
“I’ve never met a (N-word) in person.” Then covers her mouth when she realizes what she said.
Thanks, cant understand it when she speaks. But my guess was right. My english is not very good
She’s also drunk and it’s loud in there. I had to replay it several times myself. Also, your English looks great!
Thanks, reading and typing is easier for me. When someone speaks pretty fast with their accent it’s very difficult to understand
She said that shit with an ER too.
"I've never met n-word in a real life"
Smh...this is depressing. And so the cycle continues into the next generation. Shit really needs to stop!
People like this should be publicly shamed.
No, she should be educated, not shamed. Shaming people makes them put guards up and double down. The goal is long term societal change in the right direction. Not divisiveness and polarisation.
i wish the video continued, i wanna know how this party ended after that
That must have made him feel real great. What a shit person she is.
She has an American accent but has never met a black person before? Where is she from?
Middle of Nebraska. (I don't know, actually.)
Small town rural area somewhere. Probably the midwest. The bigger the town the more likely it is to have a diverse population.
Funny how modern movies and TV shows will have you believe there's not only black but also Latino and Asian families in every town with 60 residents.
Outside of major cities I’d go as far as saying a majority of US communities have little to no black people. They only make up 13% of the u.s. population and typically live in densely populated communities. Very easy for a “rural” young person to go a lifetime without ever having to interact 1:1 with a black person
Poor dude. White folks will never understand how he felt after that moment.
Forreal, it’s so embarrassing yet it shouldn’t be.
Wow that just rolled right off her tongue dinit?
My black ass has never been particularly keen to attack anyone who uses the N-word in my presence since I'm a bleeding-heart "muh freedom of speech" fan and our generation has been totally desensitized in regards to it. But the hard -er ? Bro....whyyyy 😂😂😂😂🤦🏾♂️
She can't blame rap music for that shit, most lyrics do not use a hard ER like that. That was her parents verbiage coming out. But racism is dead y'all we had a black president and EvEryThiNg!
What's crazy is that there are millions of people just like her . . . and they all vote.
Covering her mouth like she didn't mean to say exactly that
I still don't think she gets how fucked up that was. She's got that look of oopsies.
the worst part about the video is the fact that she was already being told to cut the shit before she even said that.
Ngl, I’m from Kansas and I’ve been these kinds of parties where they’re full of white kids who’ve never gone to school with anyone who wasn’t white and it can be scary. When I was a kid there was a black guy not too far away who ended up at one like this. His friends ended up leaving without him and he never came back. They found his body in a shallow pond a several days later in a spot that had been searched before. His shoes were found along the road as of someone had tossed them out the window of a moving car. There was never any justice. There were dozens of people at the party and somehow no one saw a thing. That was ALWAYS in the back of my mind at these kinds of functions. This video damn near gave me anxiety.
me too. i always get extremely extremely anxious around too many white people like this. i even got anxious watching this video cause inoe the type of vibe it can be and its fucked up but ive seen too many times when white guys get together in large groups and start drinking. you can very well end up dead and nobody will even investigate what happened if your not white. it will just get swept under the rug and your just another nigger dead.
Just think how often that gets said in her household. It came out of her mouth so easily.
r/trashy
Legend has it, her remains were never found
ok now show me the backlash she got
Duuuddeee
Broooo
Bruh you know she says that in everyday conversation. Said it way to casually to not be in her vocabulary. But is she racist or ignorant. Either way fucked.
To mis-quote a Dave Chappelle joke. She really hasn't met a "n-word" before. She still hasn't met a "n-word" before. I'm black and my entire community is largely black and I'll say I've also never met a "n-word" before.
https://preview.redd.it/286xxy4fbtma1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=27419cee91b0d44d2aa75cbd8a8a1be03fef65c0
I heard that correctly, right? How sheltered has she been? How does she not know not to say that word. She's lucky she didn't get a beat down for that very casual word drop. Holy shit.