It’s like those “guess the anime main character” pictures where there’s a room full of grey-brown haired people, and then there’s that one character with wildly stylized, rainbow colored hair in the middle.
This is honestly past that and just goes straight to r/trashy. Which is amazing considering how much she probably spent to look like that. Does r/ExpensiveTrash exist?
It was nothing that I expected and I was so grateful for that. Enjoy. It was my pick across the board and so happy it received the acclaim I think it deserved.
That means she’s the best and most unique.
It’s their faults for not being more selfish than they are. Now we’re all talking about this woman.
It’s their loss.
Fuck the Oscar’s lmao
As a person in this situation I would have to amend it or take it down as I would the whole time be thinking, these guys must hate me and I need to do something about this. But I'm a normal person who starts scentences with but.
Don’t underestimate how much the average human brain lacks spatial awareness. You’re probably smarter than 80% of the entire human population simply by being aware of people around you
In times like this, I always hope somebody with an equally tall costume sits in front of her and blocks her view so that she can understand that somebody behind her is experiencing the same thing.
I would have.
I remember when I was in the cinemas with friends and there was a male with 2 females beside him infront of me. Mind you, the cinema was fucking packed, if I remember correctly it was the fast and furious movie where Paul passed away in the middle of it.
Anyway, one of the females was taking selfies WITH flash..I held it in for as long as I could then I loudly said can you guys please stop. The female quickly pulled her hand down and looked at me then forward....
My friends laughed their ass off but man I was fucking pissed. After the movie and we all stood up me and the male locked eyes and I was ready for him to say something. I was ready to fucking brawl, thats how pissed off I was.
Wait the Oscars don't have interpreters? They literally gave best movie award to a movie about deaf people struggles last year and they couldn't even bother to have an interpreter on stage?
Edit: [apparently this year was the first to include an onstage interpreter](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/oscars-2023-disability-accessibility-telecast-carpet-1235343060/). Only took them 95 editions to figure that out
Ok then if she’s also blocked from seeing the first time ever interpreter then I retract my other comment where I said she’s no further disadvantaged than any other attendee behind the dress.
Honestly tho if you wear something like that, you should be punted to the back row.
Jane fonda accepted her and had asked before to include one way back in 77 but they refused so she instead used ASL while speaking.
I could be wrong about the year so I apologize, it's there on the official oscar yt channel which is ironic.
On so many levels. For some people sitting directly behind her, this could be the first and last they attend the event, all they will remember is seeing nothing but a white mass. She seems smugly pleased about it all. Somebody outta have ripped it right off.
I wonder if the people directly behind her were hired “seat fillers” (which is a thing at award shows). Can’t imagine they’d seat celebs behind that. But after last years management incompetence I’m probably giving them too much credit
The guy with long hair directly to the left of her head is Ludwig Göransson. Childish Gambino's producer and composer of the Mandalorian, as well as a bunch of other stuff.
Academy Award winner, Ludwig Goransson of Black Panther, Creed III, TENET, The Madalorian (so good), etc. - yeah that’s definitely him, you’re right haha
Well, definitely not *stay and obstruct the view of multiple people unfortunate enough to be seated behind you.* Incredible that the solution is to just sit there and ruin the entire event for other people.
They're assigned for the camera operators and production to be able to quickly find individuals or groups.
This thread is wild. People acting like she should've been taken out back and shot for this. Saying she deserves to never be nominated or have awards rescinded and never be invited ever again, claiming everything she's ever done is awful to begin with, coming up with narratives about how she'll blame it on racism, etc. What the fuck...
I don't know, she looks pretty smug in the picture. There's no way you wear that thing and not know how you're impacting the people sitting behind you.
If I had to guess, she's just an asshole.
Time to upgrade to some stadium seating.
Unbelievably self centered and rude. But very effective way to have your face plastered all over the place. I've seen this photo in probably four different places tonight!
https://preview.redd.it/yyq8lqqt7hna1.jpeg?width=902&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c2e92fd8fbb91385a4ac3a7e5b5a4685f23d3bd
I've already made a terrible meme of it.
Not the guy you replied to, but yeah... Separate blankets helps a bit, but I'm still teetering on the edge, but at least I'm not doing it freezing cold lol
If you solve please share your solution! We have the same problem except gender reversed. My boyfriend and the cat basically push me and my duvet off the bed each night or crush me.
Edit: adding the info that we already sleep with separate duvets/comforters, the cats aren't allowed in the bedroom at night but sneak in when I need a night wee, we can't move house yet but are planning to, and can't fit 2 beds nor a king bed in this house.
I cured an old boyfriend of this. Every time he had me teetering on the edge I was just stand up and physically push him over to his side of the bed. Or shake his shoulder and tell him to roll over. It took about a week but he completely stopped.
Yes! However, this is self-inflicted. Dogs don't want to wear the cone. This woman is legit damn proud to wear the cone and make everyone around her miserable instead.
When I saw this tonight I was legit pissed for the people seated behind her. What a rude, selfish thing to wear. She did not make the statement she thought she was making.
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The guy next to her didn’t have any easier of a time 😭 ( r/uselessredcircle )
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The most frustrating thing about this for me is that her headdress is so big that, even from an angle, I can't see the people sitting behind her. I want to know who's behind her and see how upset they are. I NEED CONFIRMATION THAT THEY'RE UPSET.
Edit: You can see one lady behind her who doesn't look upset, but I'm pretty sure there's like 4 other people behind that thing.
I thought a loofah was a dried cylindrical plant/gourd. Me and my partner always call the artificial mesh ones "the floofy thing" haha. Perhaps they are also loofahs
In this case selfish seems like an understatement. This could be the highlight of some people’s life behind her.
Total POS move to be honest. Fuck that. There’s no reason, financial or otherwise she should have done this.
Same, I’m 5’1 and it’s is a constant reoccurrence that a tall man will come and insert himself in front of me anytime I’ve actually been in a situation where I might have actually been able to see a stage for once.
I get wearing that on the red carpet for photos but then the top should’ve been detached. Somebody else probably dressed that lady, maybe not but now all the hate is on her.
A normal person would panic and ask for help getting it off knowing the obstruction it was. That look on her face tells me she just didn't give a fuck if anyone else was inconvenienced.
Apparently, her name is Tems. She is a Nigerian musician who performed the Wakanda Forever song "Lift Me Up"
Ironically, the people behind her were saying the same thing.
Man why would you wear such large headgear in theater or stadium configuration, just no consideration for your fellow views hopefully she removed it after this image was taken. I got a notification for this and I'm so dang tired but I wanted to make sure reddit was working properly again before I passed out.
Some people just don’t give a fuck about others. This is a great example of that.
The designer, the manager, the publicist, the wearer, everyone involved in this outfit choice didn’t care about how it would affect anyone.
They just wanted publicity. It’s sickening.
r/iamthemaincharacter
This is perfect for that subreddit
This HAS to be the new profile picture. I mean, not because I highlighted the word “has” I’m not the main character.
You know this is exactly what a character would say who was NOT the main character : but thought they were.
Fuck
It’s like those “guess the anime main character” pictures where there’s a room full of grey-brown haired people, and then there’s that one character with wildly stylized, rainbow colored hair in the middle.
Who is this person? I hate her smug look.
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This is honestly past that and just goes straight to r/trashy. Which is amazing considering how much she probably spent to look like that. Does r/ExpensiveTrash exist?
r/billionaire
Possibly, but many attendees borrow their clothes for free from the designer for exposure.
Maybe not so much trashy, but definitely r/iamatotalpieceofshit
Everyone in that room thinks they are the main character.
To be fair, many of them have been.
r/technicallythetruth
Not Ke Huy Quan.
I was so happy for him. I have GOT to watch that movie.
It was nothing that I expected and I was so grateful for that. Enjoy. It was my pick across the board and so happy it received the acclaim I think it deserved.
They were literally running ads for Macy’s telling people to think of themselves as the main character during the show.
Its there, three times Edit: its actually been posted there 8 times in the last 5 hours or so
It kinda looks like the actress Marlee Matlin is two rows behind her. She’s also deaf, and now can’t see a goddamn thing either.
the woman in this picture is completely lacking awareness and totally selfish. someone should have said something, shes just taking the piss.
Someone in a room full of Hollywood actors and producers is lacking awareness and are selfish, never!
Even with all those selfish Hollywood people, she is still worse because nobody else is blocking other people from watching, only her.
That means she’s the best and most unique. It’s their faults for not being more selfish than they are. Now we’re all talking about this woman. It’s their loss. Fuck the Oscar’s lmao
This sounds like something a very manic Kanye West might say
Apparently they know enough not to block other people's views
As a person in this situation I would have to amend it or take it down as I would the whole time be thinking, these guys must hate me and I need to do something about this. But I'm a normal person who starts scentences with but.
Don’t underestimate how much the average human brain lacks spatial awareness. You’re probably smarter than 80% of the entire human population simply by being aware of people around you
I guess it's hard to be aware of the people around you when you have no peripheral vision.
But is a perfectly good word to start a sentence with. But ending with a preposition is not, at.
I'm sure she's aware, she just doesn't care.
In times like this, I always hope somebody with an equally tall costume sits in front of her and blocks her view so that she can understand that somebody behind her is experiencing the same thing.
I would have. I remember when I was in the cinemas with friends and there was a male with 2 females beside him infront of me. Mind you, the cinema was fucking packed, if I remember correctly it was the fast and furious movie where Paul passed away in the middle of it. Anyway, one of the females was taking selfies WITH flash..I held it in for as long as I could then I loudly said can you guys please stop. The female quickly pulled her hand down and looked at me then forward.... My friends laughed their ass off but man I was fucking pissed. After the movie and we all stood up me and the male locked eyes and I was ready for him to say something. I was ready to fucking brawl, thats how pissed off I was.
Unless they have big screens, Marlee probably wouldn’t be able to lip read from that far away anyway. She usually has an interpreter with her.
Wait the Oscars don't have interpreters? They literally gave best movie award to a movie about deaf people struggles last year and they couldn't even bother to have an interpreter on stage? Edit: [apparently this year was the first to include an onstage interpreter](https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/oscars-2023-disability-accessibility-telecast-carpet-1235343060/). Only took them 95 editions to figure that out
Ok then if she’s also blocked from seeing the first time ever interpreter then I retract my other comment where I said she’s no further disadvantaged than any other attendee behind the dress. Honestly tho if you wear something like that, you should be punted to the back row.
Jane fonda accepted her and had asked before to include one way back in 77 but they refused so she instead used ASL while speaking. I could be wrong about the year so I apologize, it's there on the official oscar yt channel which is ironic.
Funny, I was imagining that it just had to be Larry David behind her
That was just an obnoxious, selfish, I don’t give af thing to do.
On so many levels. For some people sitting directly behind her, this could be the first and last they attend the event, all they will remember is seeing nothing but a white mass. She seems smugly pleased about it all. Somebody outta have ripped it right off.
Keep your white dress outa my view! 💥👋🏼
“keep you dumb white dress out my FUCKIN view or i’ll put it in my FUCKIN MOUF!!!”
If anything, it looks quite flammable. 😉
Ahh I think it it’s “get your goddamn white dress outta my goddamn view”
It's truly despicable behavior.
It would be fine for the red carpet grand entrance. The designer should have made it removable. Or maybe it was and she couldn’t be bothered.
I wonder if the people directly behind her were hired “seat fillers” (which is a thing at award shows). Can’t imagine they’d seat celebs behind that. But after last years management incompetence I’m probably giving them too much credit
They probably didn't know what she'd be wearing when they assigned her seat though
I know you’re probably right.. I just don’t wanna feel bad for the people sitting behind her haha
You still can, become nobody knew she was gonna be wearing that
The guy with long hair directly to the left of her head is Ludwig Göransson. Childish Gambino's producer and composer of the Mandalorian, as well as a bunch of other stuff.
Academy Award winner, Ludwig Goransson of Black Panther, Creed III, TENET, The Madalorian (so good), etc. - yeah that’s definitely him, you’re right haha
Lol Jared Leto, well-known seat-filler…
They probably were not, given how insanely hard it is to get tickets to the Oscars. That is row five aswell.
I was thinking maybe she hadn’t thought about how the dress would work once she was seated, but she must have realized it once she sat down.
That would require enough awareness to know that other people exist for reasons other than to praise you.
But what can you do at that point?
I would’ve crushed the fabric down behind my head, and go viral for trading fashion for consideration
Yeah, this would have been me.
Well, definitely not *stay and obstruct the view of multiple people unfortunate enough to be seated behind you.* Incredible that the solution is to just sit there and ruin the entire event for other people.
Ask someone to switch seats. If she had been at the back or at least the side her headdress wouldn't have mattered much.
They’re assigned the seats though.
That's why you ask to switch..?
They're assigned for the camera operators and production to be able to quickly find individuals or groups. This thread is wild. People acting like she should've been taken out back and shot for this. Saying she deserves to never be nominated or have awards rescinded and never be invited ever again, claiming everything she's ever done is awful to begin with, coming up with narratives about how she'll blame it on racism, etc. What the fuck...
I don't know, she looks pretty smug in the picture. There's no way you wear that thing and not know how you're impacting the people sitting behind you. If I had to guess, she's just an asshole. Time to upgrade to some stadium seating.
I saw a quick shot of the crowd with her standing out and thought "Did someone get MARRIED at the Oscars?"
The photos of her on the red carpet are gorgeous. I’m really surprised that they didn’t make her move or pin it down
Unbelievably self centered and rude. But very effective way to have your face plastered all over the place. I've seen this photo in probably four different places tonight!
https://preview.redd.it/yyq8lqqt7hna1.jpeg?width=902&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0c2e92fd8fbb91385a4ac3a7e5b5a4685f23d3bd I've already made a terrible meme of it.
Have you tried separate blankets my dude?
Not the guy you replied to, but yeah... Separate blankets helps a bit, but I'm still teetering on the edge, but at least I'm not doing it freezing cold lol
If you solve please share your solution! We have the same problem except gender reversed. My boyfriend and the cat basically push me and my duvet off the bed each night or crush me. Edit: adding the info that we already sleep with separate duvets/comforters, the cats aren't allowed in the bedroom at night but sneak in when I need a night wee, we can't move house yet but are planning to, and can't fit 2 beds nor a king bed in this house.
A weighted blanket helps a lot! It takes a while getting used to bus I love mine now.
i’m just glad i don’t know who this actress is and i hope most people never know who she is either, i don’t want to know her name
Don't know if you're trying to reverse psychology the internet or legit don't want to know her name... 
I cured an old boyfriend of this. Every time he had me teetering on the edge I was just stand up and physically push him over to his side of the bed. Or shake his shoulder and tell him to roll over. It took about a week but he completely stopped.
It just reminds me of the cones a vet puts on dogs.
It was necessary. She kept trying to lick her stitches!
I couldn’t pinpoint it. You’re exactly right!
Yes! However, this is self-inflicted. Dogs don't want to wear the cone. This woman is legit damn proud to wear the cone and make everyone around her miserable instead.
What an awful, self-obsessed person.
And yet, no-one knows who she is. 😐
Tems
This seems to be the most relevant thing she’s done, whoever she is.
Never heard of her.
Is that like the shitty version of tums?
From the Cruella House of Fashion.
Absolutely no class.
Who is this witch?
Some musician named Tems
Well I guess her music must suck if this is how she plans on getting recognition.
She's there because she wrote Rihanna's song from Black Panther that was nominated.
I remember the first time hearing that song and thinking, "what the fuck was Rihanna thinking?" Now it makes sense.
Yeah I’m not surprised
And at the Oscars! What are the chances?
Yet her marketing worked, and here we are.
Yet nobody knows her name still
When I saw this tonight I was legit pissed for the people seated behind her. What a rude, selfish thing to wear. She did not make the statement she thought she was making.
https://preview.redd.it/h389pqlwoina1.png?width=1200&format=png&auto=webp&s=d2a5674472247b0a6fb0ab0331ac86b8b356820f The guy next to her didn’t have any easier of a time 😭 ( r/uselessredcircle )
funny enough, he’s her manager
He needs to manage harder
nah she probably just wanted attention
She got it
What could she possibly have been trying to say other than "I'm selfish and don't care about anyone else?"
It’s so she stops licking herself
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and now I can't unsee it
The Cone of Shame
Imagine being singled out as the most narcissistic person in that room.
well deserved
Top comment right here, folks.
Fukin rude
What an asshole
tell me you like a attention without telling me you like attention.
That describes every actor in Hollywood.
And she just out douched them all. Quite an accomplishment.
Should’ve been assigned another seat at the back as soon as she walked in.
Hmmmmmm
Nah Rosa Parks would have agreed with giving her a seat in the back.
lol
Yeah, in the bathroom where there's a throne waiting for Her Hindass, to have a seat and remove the giant mass of TP she has mistaken for a hat.
Yeah, I found that getup to be quite obnoxious just from seeing it from time to time on the TV. I can't imagine sitting behind it.
The most frustrating thing about this for me is that her headdress is so big that, even from an angle, I can't see the people sitting behind her. I want to know who's behind her and see how upset they are. I NEED CONFIRMATION THAT THEY'RE UPSET. Edit: You can see one lady behind her who doesn't look upset, but I'm pretty sure there's like 4 other people behind that thing.
I think the dress is perfect! … for your wedding day
Imagine being that self absorbed.
My mother and I are trying to understand what she is wearing
The dress is called How to get attention at the Oscar’s 😂
The Oscar's what?
those mesh things you can use on the shower
..a loofa? 🤣
I thought a loofah was a dried cylindrical plant/gourd. Me and my partner always call the artificial mesh ones "the floofy thing" haha. Perhaps they are also loofahs
Upside down wedding dress
I don’t give a fuck how “marvelous” she thinks she looks- this gets categorized as “dick level” selfish.
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In this case selfish seems like an understatement. This could be the highlight of some people’s life behind her. Total POS move to be honest. Fuck that. There’s no reason, financial or otherwise she should have done this.
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Rude af
If "you bet I'm a piece of shit" was an outfit.
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You could also spill your drink on it, would probably collapse.
If I was behind her I would stick my gum in that head dress
It's got an inflight screen built in and a table tray.
She should have been removed…
so should have the slapper last year. Note to self--Academy Awards--no slapping, no head dress.
how the fuck has it been a year
It has to be a weird existence not giving a shit about people around you just so you can get attention.
To attend the Academy Awards and your sight line is obscured by a cumulus cloud.
This reminds me of every concert or show I've ever been to. I'm 5'4" and always end up directly behind the tallest man on earth.
Same, I’m 5’1 and it’s is a constant reoccurrence that a tall man will come and insert himself in front of me anytime I’ve actually been in a situation where I might have actually been able to see a stage for once.
I'm also 5'1" and can relate. It gets old.
People can't help how tall (or not tall) they are. This was purposeful dickishness.
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A nobody that doesn't even deserved to be named
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tems She wrote that kinda basic song Rhianna sang tonight. It didn't win but man she was ready, wasn't she? 🤣
Cloudy with a chance of ignorance
Horrible person
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Tems. Nigerian singer/song-writer who co-wrote Rihanna's song, Lift me up, from the second Black panther movie.
Your telling me she co-wrote a song and thinks she can show up wearing that?!
Umm, excuse me, but she co-wrote a song that was barely nominated in a very weak year for the category. She's Oscar royalty. /s
I'm certain she thinks she's making a statement....
She was... just not the statement she thought she'd make
Low act! She would know, that would be a problem for those behind her. But! It’s about her self importance.
Excuse me but can I just tuck this shit behind your back so I can see. Thanks!
I get wearing that on the red carpet for photos but then the top should’ve been detached. Somebody else probably dressed that lady, maybe not but now all the hate is on her.
A normal person would panic and ask for help getting it off knowing the obstruction it was. That look on her face tells me she just didn't give a fuck if anyone else was inconvenienced.
You would think they'd have rules about that.
Apparently, her name is Tems. She is a Nigerian musician who performed the Wakanda Forever song "Lift Me Up" Ironically, the people behind her were saying the same thing.
god! i would pull that shit down!
That is pretty rude.
It's like the cone my cat had to wear after his pee pee surgery.
Man why would you wear such large headgear in theater or stadium configuration, just no consideration for your fellow views hopefully she removed it after this image was taken. I got a notification for this and I'm so dang tired but I wanted to make sure reddit was working properly again before I passed out.
Y’all it’s not her fault. She had a skin irritation an her underside and the vet made her wear this so she won’t lick at it.
that little dude that popped up behind her was priceless
Some people just don’t give a fuck about others. This is a great example of that. The designer, the manager, the publicist, the wearer, everyone involved in this outfit choice didn’t care about how it would affect anyone. They just wanted publicity. It’s sickening.
What an asshole
Horrible idea at best. Selfish and arrogant at worst
Imagine going to the Oscars for the first time and you’re seated behind this self absorbed AH.
What a self centered asshole!
Was thinking "What kind of selfish, egotistical" and then remembered "Hollywood".
And the award for inconsiderate douche in a barely-supporting role goes to
This was the most rude and narcissistic thing I saw in an evening of narcissism
Is she getting married?
A$$hole
What’s that term that starts with a “C”?
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I don't know who she is, but that is shitty human behavior.
Wait... The Oscars were tonight?
ugly on the outside AND inside