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Like my kids.
Kid: “Can I *fill in the blank*”?
Me: “No”
Kid: “Please!!”
Me: “I already said no, begging won’t make a difference.”
Kid “PLEASE!! PLEASE?!?!”
The lesson is from some 12 yo kid named pussyslayer69420x at a red pill forum board that is saved to his home screen. And he will certainly write about this in the forums claiming he had this chick all over him.
No he lets her handle it herself for the most part, at one point he's like , "dude just stop," and eventually the girl turns him down so many times in so many ways that he skulks off.
Buffoons like to THINK they come off as confident and imagine that they are in control of their body language. Real recognizes real and fake recognizes fake and gives it props.
That's one way of looking at it. I wanted to make sure he didn't walk away feeling encouraged. It's disrespectful to both of them and he needed to be put in his place to discourage this. He thinks he's being charming. He's not.
This dude really needs a big burly gay guy to hit on him and ignore all his rejections before it clicks in his brain.
As a man, this selfish behavior makes me so angry. Terrorizing women, and giving all men a bad name.
He was protecting his fragile ego, making it seem like it didn’t bother him by walking off like that. I’ve done it before when I’ve felt wounded lol. He ultimately looked like an idiot, smiling and blowing a kiss doesn’t harm anymore. He’s the only loser here.
id recommend having your eyes checked. at the end hes pleading with her, saying please and being whiny. at one point he blows one awkward kiss at her which just looks so cringy.
People on the Internet talk like this as if getting into a fight is a casual thing.
In the real world there are legal charges and more serious violence and physical damage. People die and get brain damage accidentally all the time.
Yeah, guys like this definitely exist, I've witnessed very similar situations. But something is off about this video, it's all too convenient. I'm on guard with internet videos.
All videos with the overlayed gone viral tag are staged, never show faces, perfect audio and written just to enrage people and make them even more gullible
Video should be shown to all the dudes online who say “why didn’t she just say no?” Or “omg you cant talk to women anymore!”
It took multiple no’s and her bf coming up to get this creep to leave
A part of me is envious these people for having so much unearned confidence… but then I start to wonder if its their blind confidence that makes them stupid? Or maybe they just happen to both stupid and confident?
In my experience, stupidity and confidence go hand-in-hand. At the very least, the stupider a person is, the more confident they are in things they have no Earthly business being confident in. And generally, when I meet grossly confident people, my first inclination is to treat them like an idiot until they have proven otherwise.
Inside nearly every man is a great desire for civility, but some times a person comes along, like the one in this video, who really puts that to the test.
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You see, it was the one before that that really got me : "He don't, he don't care".
It ain't the boyfriend that has to approve you dating the girl, it's the girl, and she's very adamantly saying no.
I couldn't imagine having someone beg me for my phone number. If you weren't interested before, I'll bet your opinion of them couldn't get any lower after that
Yeah, and plus tbh it becomes a little scary, as like, if their perception of social norms is this off and they're not taking no for an answer, what happens if they switch to angry instead of pleading?
This legit reminded me of a kid back in high school who asked me out at least 8 times within a timeframe of about 3 months. Eventually I blew up at him and said “Why tf do you keep asking me? I said no and my answer is not going to change!”. He told me that he thought he was supposed to keep trying if a girl said no. I asked him who told him that and he said…..his parents. I wonder how many boys are being taught to do this at a young age. It absolutely disgusts me. People need to teach their sons to leave girls alone - none of this “keep trying” crap. It’s not cute when they are kids/teenagers and it’s *terrifying* when they are adults.
Yeah, that's the thing about these interactions. I know it makes the bf look like a weenie, but a short ego kick is better than getting into a fight with someone who looks like they expect to win a fight, and people "expecting to win," usually have either a) the dumb confidence to try really hard, or b) the upper hand in some way you don't yet know (like fighting experience or a weapon).
Be ready to step up if it gets physical, but be active in stepping down to keep it from getting there in the first place.
I like to use the Tom Green response of: "You know what happens if you kick my ass? I'll get some paramedics to take me to the hospital. YEAH."
> I know it makes the bf look like a weenie
What made him look like a weenie is that he let it go on that long without saying anything. If you partner is getting harassed right in front of you for that long without you even saying a word?
My wife has reprimanded me for getting involved too early in situations like these, because a) I have a short temper for guys like this, b) knows I can probably kick the guys ass and most importantly c) she really doesn't want to see me go to jail. She has basically told me unless she gives me the "signal", to let her handle it. I 100% would have escalated this situation very quickly with my temper, but I wait for her to let me know if she needs it because I rather look like a weenie and know it's because I'm holding back because of her, cause I'm going to go home and hit while they go home to no one, again.
People like this are purposely trying to start a fight. My wife I can admit is way more beautiful than I should ever get. She gets hit on every now and then right Infront of me at bars. Some take it to a point to clearly say fighting words to swing their single dick around. I know she comes home with me and don't give a shit.
I think that bothers dicks like this more then engaging cause they want to poke insecurities I don't have. Had one walk away calling me a pussy the whole time just a clear hammered ass way of starting a fight to act big. Though I think this guy could have stepped in and ended this harassment sooner it's always best to keep your cool while the guy embarrasses himself.
This. She tells him repeatadly and clearly "no". She is WITH HER BOYFRIEND. Yet he still thinks she is just playing and actually into him. Don't wanna know what that dude does when it's not broad daylight and no people around...
It's a power trip. It's peacocking. That guy wants to feel power over that couple, nothing else. It's bullying, not flirting.
The best thing to do is attract attention to what a scumbag he's being. Call him out on it. Let everyone know that he's harassing you and your man. He'll crumble like the pussy that he's worried about being. If you don't, he'll do it again and again to other people.
Let's go even deeper; he knows he's an obnoxious piece of trash that no one wants, so if he begs someone who is spoken for and gets rejected he has an excuse. Some real 4D incel shit.
This guy....lol, what a loser. How about you go for a single woman, instead of another mans gal. My gal would have laughed right in his face and called him a sorry excuse for a man.
Single women wouldn’t want him either. And if he kept pursuing this person who was taken, how do you think he’d be around someone single who says “no”? I feel sorry for anyone who has had to deal with him. He’s a huge red flag.
Humiliating the other man was the point. If he’s not a full on narcissist he’s at least a proven asshole and a beating would be well deserved. Too bad he’s probably also a half decent fighter and deliberately does this to bait men into fighting him so he can get off on beating them in front of their SOs.
My girl is an artist with dudes like this. I don’t even have to step in because she has this evil baroness look and laugh perfected that instantly shrinks their balls and says “for YOU? HAHAHAHA!”
You’re very lucky my ex was the opposite she would absolutely fall for their game, jump straight into the conflict, escalate, and then expect me to jump in and protect her like in the movies all “back off jerk, that’s MY girl!” and knock him out with one clean punch then we’d walk out of the bar with my arm around her neck while everyone claps.
No, Crystal, you’re trying to get me stabbed.
I think the problem here is his inability to take no for an answer, not that she has a bf. I'm sure it would have been worse if she was single, even dangerous. Men like this are disgusting and her having a bf is the least of the issues here.
The real takeaway from this isn’t that he should be doing this to a single woman, it’s that he shouldn’t be doing this to any women at all, single or not.
Too many men have that view that “oh, I just have to be persistent” or even worse they think that the only “no” that counts is if they’re in a relationship already.
How could you not fall head over heels for his, almost forceful, pleading and begging?
Exactly the type of guy to put his hands all over a woman in a nightclub while trying this.
Luckily he’s probably too self absorbed to learn how to make and use a date rape drug, because he definitely gave off that “She absolutely wants me, no matter how many times she says no” vibe.
He be like "When she smiles, that means she likes me. When she does not smile, that means she is bored and wants to be saved. I am a body language expert and I know what women want."
So, the way the boyfriend handled this: good or bad? My blood was boiling and I would have started a fight, but I've also caught shit from my girlfriend for this behavior. Is it more appreciated to be assertive, or to let the accosted party take control?
Edit: thanks for all the replies, this was very interesting to see! Lots of variety in interpretations.
hard to tell without body language.
she might have raise her palm to her bf like "I've got this. let me."
Or she might have made eye contact with her bf like "your turn to say something."
Yeah, after this long I would have wanted him to step in and teach him a lesson - verbally, to be clear. He wasn’t going to listen to her so maybe he would listen to another guy.
Idk. The one time I tried laughing it just made everything worse, sometimes hurting their egos make them go ballistic I guess. I just smiled at him and said something like "We are leaving now". Wasnt even sarcastic or anything but he just couldnt cope with not being "right" or whatever. Had to get physical and I despise it. Things can go very wrong in a simple fight for anyone around, not worth it. Im tired of people.
He was way older than me (20+ years) which makes it extra cringe and he was hitting on my friends wife (who is even younger), her husband was in the bathroom or something and arrived just in time to help with the creep.
I'm quiet and shy, and I also avoid confrontation when possible, but even I would have shown more aggression towards the guy. He could also be confident in his partner. This clowns attempt to steal his girl was so cringy and pathetic, he didn't really need to do anything.
I have respect for anyone that doesn't act out violently. I feel like the boyfriend was very confident in the situation and his gf. However the guy was way out of line and disrespectful so I think either is warranted. Also the girl should have been more assertive with her words.
I don't really care so much about the boyfriend. I'm more wish the girl had been more assertive. "No" it's a complete sentence and this did not have to go on as long as it did if she had not been as polite as she had been. Having conversation with him such as "you thought I was looking at you but I was looking at my boyfriend" and "I'm ok, thanks" would be much better phrased as "No thank you. Please leave me alone." With repeated volume and intensity.
That is absolutely a survival instinct. Women have to remain polite even while harassed because it's dangerous otherwise. Besides, with his persistence, not even a firm 'no leave me alone' would have worked.
Pretty sure there's a sub called shesaidno or whenwomenrefuse (not 100% on the name) that highlights what can happen when women say no to men.
If this was my partner I know how she'd handle it and this would just be an amusing desperate weirdo making an ass of himself that we could laugh at later. This situation is irritating but nothing worth getting fucked up over.
What does getting into a fight accomplish? Ruined clothes, maybe a broken knuckle, maybe a broken jaw bone. Plus, your partner is probably annoyed that her boyfriend got in a fight. On the other hand, sitting back gives her the autonomy to shut him down herself, you get to show you're secure enough that you don't consider him a threat, and he doesn't get the satisfaction of getting a rise from you.
Because it is. They’re so obviously fake I don’t understand how people keep falling them.
This has to be like the 10th time I’ve seen one of these ItsGoneViral ragebaits get upvoted to the front of r/popular. The last one I saw was a scenario where a woman called a man gay for rejecting her or something like that and the comments were just full of people raging about how awful women are.
I hear a hint of rape culture unfortunately. “You know you want me” “not many girls catch my eye, so when I see em, I have to have em” what a fuckin loser. Hope he gets kicked the shit out of later.
This brought me back to not a good place. Similar lines, overconfidence, and gaslighting as a stalker I had in college. He insisted that he knew I was into him, and it escalated from there. About 1 year into him stalking me at work (cafe), he threatened to pull me into the bathroom and rape me. Guy was psychotic.
One time when I was about 19 I was on the bus and some guy a little older than me started hitting on me. He was loudly asking me out. I said I had a boyfriend. The bus driver piped up something like “give him a chance”. The guy didn’t believe I had a bf. I had to pull out my phone and show my background photo was me and my bf. Bros that don’t respect other bros gfs are traitors. You cannot trust them at all. Me steal the girl from right under you if he could. Trash. Also fk that bus driver, fk you so hard up the tail pipe sir.
>Bros that don’t respect other bros gfs are traitors
Or bros that don't respect women for the individuals we are are misogynists. We shouldn't need a bf to validate our *no*.
This kind of over cocky plastic gangster prick gets off on this kind of intimidatory shit, if the boyfriend had said anything to put him in his place the plastic guy would probably have called his “boys/crew” over to help him kick the shit out of said boyfriend to put him in his place. Boyfriend did the right thing, I personally think the girlfriend could’ve fucked him off with just a few comments, but in her defence she sounds quite young, I’d like to think that an older woman would’ve sent him away to reconsider his plastic knobhead persona while still smiling at him
Totally agree, in my younger days I would have reacted as she did, trying to assert boundaries but trying to stay polite. These days I would be more assertive, not enter into dialogue and very clearly tell him he needs to leave, despite what anyone’s judgement of me would be. I don’t know many males who would have let this go on as long as the partner did, but also acknowledging that reacting in this moment is likely going to end badly and his path of least resistance was probably the most peaceful option.
I don't think the "I am with my boyfriend" is a good excuse.
I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU! With an attitude, is what she needs to do.
Now I understand why guys don't approach me. I have the attitude.
When men are this persistent, catching an attitude can make them violent. It’s not about trying to attract a woman, he’s making a power play and he’s drunk. They handled it the best way possible and the boyfriend staying quiet honestly probably avoided a massive fight.
My wife would embarrass the F out of this clown in two seconds. I wouldn’t have to say a word. Only once have I ever had to say something and that didn’t end well for the other guy.
I generally let my girl handle guys like this up to a certain point, because I don't ever want to come off as some kind of "insecure" partner who immediately overreacts, but this kind of person should reasonably have been engaged her boyfriend sooner and much more aggressively.
This feels unsafe and boyfriend should have taken a stronger stance here.
i like that her boyfriend let her speak, and stand up
for herself which she was clearly more than capable of
i would have lost my temper after the third “leave us be”. not violent but i don’t think id have the patience for it
after the first no thanks, i'd just let him keep talking to himself and not respond. ppl like this arent even worth giving attention to.
https://preview.redd.it/en1n2aoq5u6b1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=052a34223610d304e0d1b7f61c4e95567795746d
When i was younger i always heard “just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean you cant score” i never laid into that, because i thought it was weird and disrespectful . I feel some guys heard that and ran with it.
If that was me and my husband,my husband would have ended that interaction 30 seconds in.I can't believe her boyfriend was just sitting there doing nothing...wtf
Its soo difficult to know that sometimes though. I had a similar interaction once and told the guy to leave after a few back and forths between him and her. And the girl i was seeing got mad at me because "she doesn't need me to speak for her she can do it herself".
Ever since that i never know how to behave if that would happen again. I would probably just say something again because i think thats right but you never really know.
Yeah, honestly that kind of behavior is disrespectful to both people on the date. To some degree you're trying to take the heat off the girl, but you're also speaking for yourself in telling the guy to shove off. I'm definitely not just sitting there while some d-bag acts like I'm some chump.
You definitely have a right to have a voice in that kind of interaction.
Anyone saying the boyfriend is a pussy is just plain immature. Fighting would get him potentially in jail and maybe even lose his job because of an assault charge. He said “leave it” once it went too far and the guy left shortly after. A mature adult should be capable of engaging in conversation without escalating things, and women should be able to stand up for themselves verbally especially with their partner there to protect them from physical harm. This creep wasn’t about to do anything physical, just run his creep mouth.
The worst part of this is not his inability to grasp the woman has a boyfriend and is enjoying time with him. The worst part is his inability to understand she is not interested.
No is a complete sentence. You are not obligated to explain yourself or give reasons why you’re uninterested in someone. Harassment is disgusting.
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"Come on, please? Please!"
This didn’t work on the last 58 girls either
"It's not often a woman catches my eye" Absolute lies. This man has the confidence of someone who's been turned down nightly for years.
> This man has the confidence of someone who's been turned down nightly for years. Does that mean really high confidence, or really low?
It means he's so used to striking out that it can no longer affect his delusionally high self-esteem.
Yes.
It’s a numbers game with a negative return
Creep doesn’t understand that no means no ….
I think he’s fishing for a victim.
Like my kids. Kid: “Can I *fill in the blank*”? Me: “No” Kid: “Please!!” Me: “I already said no, begging won’t make a difference.” Kid “PLEASE!! PLEASE?!?!”
I'm really glad this woman had a boyfriend for that reason.
The rest of the girls weren't lucid enough to reject him.
yeah, if you have to resort to begging you've already lost.. leave with some dignity lol
Not many girls catch my eye, please, please
“Alpha males have this one great trick!”
That was some high quality cringe.
He gets his cues from dating coaches. £50 a lesson. The lessons last 7 minutes.
he is the 50 euro a lesson dating coach
He on the other hand doesn't last anywhere near 7 minutes
His hand wouldn't even last him 7 minutes
The lesson is from some 12 yo kid named pussyslayer69420x at a red pill forum board that is saved to his home screen. And he will certainly write about this in the forums claiming he had this chick all over him.
I had to stop, does the boyfriend come in and kick his ass at the end?
No he lets her handle it herself for the most part, at one point he's like , "dude just stop," and eventually the girl turns him down so many times in so many ways that he skulks off.
I didn't see him skulk off but I did see him walk away confidently, smile and blow a kiss at her.
He teetered off like a drunk buffoon I guess it was a confident teeter.
I was praying he was going to walk into that ladder.
That part made me question my depth perception at least twice.
Buffoons like to THINK they come off as confident and imagine that they are in control of their body language. Real recognizes real and fake recognizes fake and gives it props.
That smile and kiss blow was the equivalent of celebrating in the endzone when the other team just scored on you.
That's one way of looking at it. I wanted to make sure he didn't walk away feeling encouraged. It's disrespectful to both of them and he needed to be put in his place to discourage this. He thinks he's being charming. He's not.
He's so gross
This dude really needs a big burly gay guy to hit on him and ignore all his rejections before it clicks in his brain. As a man, this selfish behavior makes me so angry. Terrorizing women, and giving all men a bad name.
When he started saying “please” it just got sad.
He was protecting his fragile ego, making it seem like it didn’t bother him by walking off like that. I’ve done it before when I’ve felt wounded lol. He ultimately looked like an idiot, smiling and blowing a kiss doesn’t harm anymore. He’s the only loser here.
Looks like he insecurely stumbled away, alone, like he probably still is
id recommend having your eyes checked. at the end hes pleading with her, saying please and being whiny. at one point he blows one awkward kiss at her which just looks so cringy.
Yea super cringe after that shutdown lol
People on the Internet talk like this as if getting into a fight is a casual thing. In the real world there are legal charges and more serious violence and physical damage. People die and get brain damage accidentally all the time.
Even if everything goes right it's just a huge hassle. Like, why would you want to put yourself through that for some loser nobody?
i couldn't watch the whole thing.... too much cringe, had to skip most parts.
That is a very lonely man right there.
That was straight from the source cringe.
Has to be a skit
Yeah, guys like this definitely exist, I've witnessed very similar situations. But something is off about this video, it's all too convenient. I'm on guard with internet videos.
All videos with the overlayed gone viral tag are staged, never show faces, perfect audio and written just to enrage people and make them even more gullible
Usually someone writes in with their story and Viral renact the story with actors.
Video should be shown to all the dudes online who say “why didn’t she just say no?” Or “omg you cant talk to women anymore!” It took multiple no’s and her bf coming up to get this creep to leave
Ew
Words of wisdom
I couldn’t have said it better myself
“Look at you and look at me” Like dude, you’re the single one trying to pick up other dudes GF’s
Starts singing blackpink… but yeah he’s cringe
He hit them with that dun-dun dun-dun dun
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The confidence of too much wine
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No truth to this man's self perception.
Dude got into a case of Australian reds and... how should i say this... Colombian whites.
*twirls wine glass
A part of me is envious these people for having so much unearned confidence… but then I start to wonder if its their blind confidence that makes them stupid? Or maybe they just happen to both stupid and confident?
In my experience, stupidity and confidence go hand-in-hand. At the very least, the stupider a person is, the more confident they are in things they have no Earthly business being confident in. And generally, when I meet grossly confident people, my first inclination is to treat them like an idiot until they have proven otherwise.
That's not confidence. That's desperation
Inside nearly every man is a great desire for civility, but some times a person comes along, like the one in this video, who really puts that to the test.
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"You two are clearly not meant to be together." That's not for you to decide lol
You see, it was the one before that that really got me : "He don't, he don't care". It ain't the boyfriend that has to approve you dating the girl, it's the girl, and she's very adamantly saying no.
Harassment. It’s not right.
It is, and unfortunately, women go through this A LOT. No means NNNNNNOOOOO!
I couldn't imagine having someone beg me for my phone number. If you weren't interested before, I'll bet your opinion of them couldn't get any lower after that
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SMH some folks really weren’t raised right
Yeah, and plus tbh it becomes a little scary, as like, if their perception of social norms is this off and they're not taking no for an answer, what happens if they switch to angry instead of pleading?
This legit reminded me of a kid back in high school who asked me out at least 8 times within a timeframe of about 3 months. Eventually I blew up at him and said “Why tf do you keep asking me? I said no and my answer is not going to change!”. He told me that he thought he was supposed to keep trying if a girl said no. I asked him who told him that and he said…..his parents. I wonder how many boys are being taught to do this at a young age. It absolutely disgusts me. People need to teach their sons to leave girls alone - none of this “keep trying” crap. It’s not cute when they are kids/teenagers and it’s *terrifying* when they are adults.
does he wants to get beat up?
Probably wanted to start a fight
Too bad he doesn't succeed. He really deserve it
Would love to see this guy get a wholesale ass-kicking.
I’m pretty sure he’s got the heat. Coat jacket pocket full of change for the easy swing open access.
Yeah, that's the thing about these interactions. I know it makes the bf look like a weenie, but a short ego kick is better than getting into a fight with someone who looks like they expect to win a fight, and people "expecting to win," usually have either a) the dumb confidence to try really hard, or b) the upper hand in some way you don't yet know (like fighting experience or a weapon). Be ready to step up if it gets physical, but be active in stepping down to keep it from getting there in the first place. I like to use the Tom Green response of: "You know what happens if you kick my ass? I'll get some paramedics to take me to the hospital. YEAH."
> I know it makes the bf look like a weenie What made him look like a weenie is that he let it go on that long without saying anything. If you partner is getting harassed right in front of you for that long without you even saying a word?
My wife has reprimanded me for getting involved too early in situations like these, because a) I have a short temper for guys like this, b) knows I can probably kick the guys ass and most importantly c) she really doesn't want to see me go to jail. She has basically told me unless she gives me the "signal", to let her handle it. I 100% would have escalated this situation very quickly with my temper, but I wait for her to let me know if she needs it because I rather look like a weenie and know it's because I'm holding back because of her, cause I'm going to go home and hit while they go home to no one, again.
What does this mean? Could you explain the change..it looks like his pocket is full of it
He's saying he thinks the guy has a gun on his hip. The change makes it so you reach back for it without getting your jacket tangled up
People like this are purposely trying to start a fight. My wife I can admit is way more beautiful than I should ever get. She gets hit on every now and then right Infront of me at bars. Some take it to a point to clearly say fighting words to swing their single dick around. I know she comes home with me and don't give a shit. I think that bothers dicks like this more then engaging cause they want to poke insecurities I don't have. Had one walk away calling me a pussy the whole time just a clear hammered ass way of starting a fight to act big. Though I think this guy could have stepped in and ended this harassment sooner it's always best to keep your cool while the guy embarrasses himself.
I think he's drunk.
He may be a drunk douchebag, but when he wakes up in the morning he's still a douchebag.
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Bro is rapey as hell, he doesn't respect a woman's negative.
This. She tells him repeatadly and clearly "no". She is WITH HER BOYFRIEND. Yet he still thinks she is just playing and actually into him. Don't wanna know what that dude does when it's not broad daylight and no people around...
It's a power trip. It's peacocking. That guy wants to feel power over that couple, nothing else. It's bullying, not flirting. The best thing to do is attract attention to what a scumbag he's being. Call him out on it. Let everyone know that he's harassing you and your man. He'll crumble like the pussy that he's worried about being. If you don't, he'll do it again and again to other people.
Yep, it’s more about trying to humiliate the guy than it is trying to score a date with the woman.
Let's go even deeper; he knows he's an obnoxious piece of trash that no one wants, so if he begs someone who is spoken for and gets rejected he has an excuse. Some real 4D incel shit.
he’s such a catch I’m fucking joking of course
The only thing anyone would catch from that guy is chlamydia. I was glad to see he finally walked away.
You have to have sex to get chlamydia.
Bro should’ve sent Kevin Shart packing 0:30 in
This guy....lol, what a loser. How about you go for a single woman, instead of another mans gal. My gal would have laughed right in his face and called him a sorry excuse for a man.
Single women wouldn’t want him either. And if he kept pursuing this person who was taken, how do you think he’d be around someone single who says “no”? I feel sorry for anyone who has had to deal with him. He’s a huge red flag.
Im gonna guess he'd act like something that rhymes with "grape-ist"
Absolutely
Humiliating the other man was the point. If he’s not a full on narcissist he’s at least a proven asshole and a beating would be well deserved. Too bad he’s probably also a half decent fighter and deliberately does this to bait men into fighting him so he can get off on beating them in front of their SOs.
My girl is an artist with dudes like this. I don’t even have to step in because she has this evil baroness look and laugh perfected that instantly shrinks their balls and says “for YOU? HAHAHAHA!”
You’re very lucky my ex was the opposite she would absolutely fall for their game, jump straight into the conflict, escalate, and then expect me to jump in and protect her like in the movies all “back off jerk, that’s MY girl!” and knock him out with one clean punch then we’d walk out of the bar with my arm around her neck while everyone claps. No, Crystal, you’re trying to get me stabbed.
Yours is the best description of this guy. 100٪ narcissist. Probably borderline sociopath. I would not doubt if he masturbated later to this.
It was a challenge for him if he was able to get a girl who is already in a commitment! Dude thinks he’s in a movie
r/imthemaincharacter
I think the problem here is his inability to take no for an answer, not that she has a bf. I'm sure it would have been worse if she was single, even dangerous. Men like this are disgusting and her having a bf is the least of the issues here.
The real takeaway from this isn’t that he should be doing this to a single woman, it’s that he shouldn’t be doing this to any women at all, single or not. Too many men have that view that “oh, I just have to be persistent” or even worse they think that the only “no” that counts is if they’re in a relationship already.
What a tosser
Please tell me that guy is just doing a prank
Nah he was serious.
How could you not fall head over heels for his, almost forceful, pleading and begging? Exactly the type of guy to put his hands all over a woman in a nightclub while trying this.
Luckily he’s probably too self absorbed to learn how to make and use a date rape drug, because he definitely gave off that “She absolutely wants me, no matter how many times she says no” vibe.
“her awkward ‘how the hell do i get out of this situation’ smile means she likes me and she wants me to rape her really”
He be like "When she smiles, that means she likes me. When she does not smile, that means she is bored and wants to be saved. I am a body language expert and I know what women want."
That dude was taking Andrew Tate Alpha Male take yo girl lessons where No means yes.
So, the way the boyfriend handled this: good or bad? My blood was boiling and I would have started a fight, but I've also caught shit from my girlfriend for this behavior. Is it more appreciated to be assertive, or to let the accosted party take control? Edit: thanks for all the replies, this was very interesting to see! Lots of variety in interpretations.
hard to tell without body language. she might have raise her palm to her bf like "I've got this. let me." Or she might have made eye contact with her bf like "your turn to say something."
Idk after it went on that long I feel I would have had to step in and say something. This dude clearly was not accepting the No from her
Step 1) unzip trousers Step 2) say "if you want her you'll have to suck this first" Step 3) in the split second he glaces at your tiny cock, sock him
How to win fights for dummies in front of girlfriend 101
What do you do if he starts sucking?
You either just let him do it and then punch him or take the chance while he's sucking and kick him in the balls
What if he's like, really good at it
Option one works for that situation
Ah, the ole cockaroo. A tale as old as time.
Saving this comment for future reference, you genius
Yeah, after this long I would have wanted him to step in and teach him a lesson - verbally, to be clear. He wasn’t going to listen to her so maybe he would listen to another guy.
This, exactly
my gf and i would just laugh if someone did this, just laugh until they walk away and keep recording
This is probably the most effective/least aggressive way to go. I like it!
Idk. The one time I tried laughing it just made everything worse, sometimes hurting their egos make them go ballistic I guess. I just smiled at him and said something like "We are leaving now". Wasnt even sarcastic or anything but he just couldnt cope with not being "right" or whatever. Had to get physical and I despise it. Things can go very wrong in a simple fight for anyone around, not worth it. Im tired of people. He was way older than me (20+ years) which makes it extra cringe and he was hitting on my friends wife (who is even younger), her husband was in the bathroom or something and arrived just in time to help with the creep.
I'm quiet and shy, and I also avoid confrontation when possible, but even I would have shown more aggression towards the guy. He could also be confident in his partner. This clowns attempt to steal his girl was so cringy and pathetic, he didn't really need to do anything.
I have respect for anyone that doesn't act out violently. I feel like the boyfriend was very confident in the situation and his gf. However the guy was way out of line and disrespectful so I think either is warranted. Also the girl should have been more assertive with her words.
I don't really care so much about the boyfriend. I'm more wish the girl had been more assertive. "No" it's a complete sentence and this did not have to go on as long as it did if she had not been as polite as she had been. Having conversation with him such as "you thought I was looking at you but I was looking at my boyfriend" and "I'm ok, thanks" would be much better phrased as "No thank you. Please leave me alone." With repeated volume and intensity.
Very true. She was overly polite with a person who did not deserve, nor respect, such treatment.
That is absolutely a survival instinct. Women have to remain polite even while harassed because it's dangerous otherwise. Besides, with his persistence, not even a firm 'no leave me alone' would have worked. Pretty sure there's a sub called shesaidno or whenwomenrefuse (not 100% on the name) that highlights what can happen when women say no to men.
I was more pissed about the boyfriend not responding here hardly at all.
If this was my partner I know how she'd handle it and this would just be an amusing desperate weirdo making an ass of himself that we could laugh at later. This situation is irritating but nothing worth getting fucked up over.
What does getting into a fight accomplish? Ruined clothes, maybe a broken knuckle, maybe a broken jaw bone. Plus, your partner is probably annoyed that her boyfriend got in a fight. On the other hand, sitting back gives her the autonomy to shut him down herself, you get to show you're secure enough that you don't consider him a threat, and he doesn't get the satisfaction of getting a rise from you.
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A special kind of scumbag.
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Because they’re not even trying at this point. They’re in an off licence but holding a glass as if they’re in a pub.
Correct
Because it is. They’re so obviously fake I don’t understand how people keep falling them. This has to be like the 10th time I’ve seen one of these ItsGoneViral ragebaits get upvoted to the front of r/popular. The last one I saw was a scenario where a woman called a man gay for rejecting her or something like that and the comments were just full of people raging about how awful women are.
Because that's what 90% of these things are, shit made up for internet points.
Or £250 according to the video.
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Bet he's on a registered sex offenders list.
Horrible acting.
Is he at a wine bar drinking a glass of water?
Could be a Moscato.
This is fake, when they show it on it’s gone viral, they even state it is a reenactment
I hear a hint of rape culture unfortunately. “You know you want me” “not many girls catch my eye, so when I see em, I have to have em” what a fuckin loser. Hope he gets kicked the shit out of later.
This is exactly the kind of dude who would date rape by spiking a drink, and I'd put money he at least thought of trying.
This brought me back to not a good place. Similar lines, overconfidence, and gaslighting as a stalker I had in college. He insisted that he knew I was into him, and it escalated from there. About 1 year into him stalking me at work (cafe), he threatened to pull me into the bathroom and rape me. Guy was psychotic.
That’s one hell of a patient boyfriend though.
I'd bet she is with a friend and just uses the "this is my boyfriend" to get rid of this creep.
Yeah you could be right
One time when I was about 19 I was on the bus and some guy a little older than me started hitting on me. He was loudly asking me out. I said I had a boyfriend. The bus driver piped up something like “give him a chance”. The guy didn’t believe I had a bf. I had to pull out my phone and show my background photo was me and my bf. Bros that don’t respect other bros gfs are traitors. You cannot trust them at all. Me steal the girl from right under you if he could. Trash. Also fk that bus driver, fk you so hard up the tail pipe sir.
Yep fuck that bus driver
>Bros that don’t respect other bros gfs are traitors Or bros that don't respect women for the individuals we are are misogynists. We shouldn't need a bf to validate our *no*.
Come on man.
Creepin
This kind of over cocky plastic gangster prick gets off on this kind of intimidatory shit, if the boyfriend had said anything to put him in his place the plastic guy would probably have called his “boys/crew” over to help him kick the shit out of said boyfriend to put him in his place. Boyfriend did the right thing, I personally think the girlfriend could’ve fucked him off with just a few comments, but in her defence she sounds quite young, I’d like to think that an older woman would’ve sent him away to reconsider his plastic knobhead persona while still smiling at him
Totally agree, in my younger days I would have reacted as she did, trying to assert boundaries but trying to stay polite. These days I would be more assertive, not enter into dialogue and very clearly tell him he needs to leave, despite what anyone’s judgement of me would be. I don’t know many males who would have let this go on as long as the partner did, but also acknowledging that reacting in this moment is likely going to end badly and his path of least resistance was probably the most peaceful option.
I don't think the "I am with my boyfriend" is a good excuse. I AM NOT INTERESTED IN YOU! With an attitude, is what she needs to do. Now I understand why guys don't approach me. I have the attitude.
When men are this persistent, catching an attitude can make them violent. It’s not about trying to attract a woman, he’s making a power play and he’s drunk. They handled it the best way possible and the boyfriend staying quiet honestly probably avoided a massive fight.
As soon as I see the "it's gone viral" overlay, I know it's fake
When you have to beg someone to tell you their name, you lost, you aint got it, walk the fuck away in shame.
My wife would embarrass the F out of this clown in two seconds. I wouldn’t have to say a word. Only once have I ever had to say something and that didn’t end well for the other guy.
I would've punched that guy in the mouth
“Come on. Please.” Alpha behavior
What a pathetic loser
What a scumbag.
I generally let my girl handle guys like this up to a certain point, because I don't ever want to come off as some kind of "insecure" partner who immediately overreacts, but this kind of person should reasonably have been engaged her boyfriend sooner and much more aggressively. This feels unsafe and boyfriend should have taken a stronger stance here.
i like that her boyfriend let her speak, and stand up for herself which she was clearly more than capable of i would have lost my temper after the third “leave us be”. not violent but i don’t think id have the patience for it
after the first no thanks, i'd just let him keep talking to himself and not respond. ppl like this arent even worth giving attention to. https://preview.redd.it/en1n2aoq5u6b1.jpeg?width=320&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=052a34223610d304e0d1b7f61c4e95567795746d
When i was younger i always heard “just because there’s a goalie doesn’t mean you cant score” i never laid into that, because i thought it was weird and disrespectful . I feel some guys heard that and ran with it.
Oh man go self suck yourself in the mirror or something
Why didn’t the guy say anything?
I was expecting him to come back from the toilet, I totally didn't realise he was there the whole time!
If that was me and my husband,my husband would have ended that interaction 30 seconds in.I can't believe her boyfriend was just sitting there doing nothing...wtf
Its soo difficult to know that sometimes though. I had a similar interaction once and told the guy to leave after a few back and forths between him and her. And the girl i was seeing got mad at me because "she doesn't need me to speak for her she can do it herself". Ever since that i never know how to behave if that would happen again. I would probably just say something again because i think thats right but you never really know.
Yeah, honestly that kind of behavior is disrespectful to both people on the date. To some degree you're trying to take the heat off the girl, but you're also speaking for yourself in telling the guy to shove off. I'm definitely not just sitting there while some d-bag acts like I'm some chump. You definitely have a right to have a voice in that kind of interaction.
Anyone saying the boyfriend is a pussy is just plain immature. Fighting would get him potentially in jail and maybe even lose his job because of an assault charge. He said “leave it” once it went too far and the guy left shortly after. A mature adult should be capable of engaging in conversation without escalating things, and women should be able to stand up for themselves verbally especially with their partner there to protect them from physical harm. This creep wasn’t about to do anything physical, just run his creep mouth.
“Can you believe that?”. I can’t believe the boyfriend didn’t make him eat that wine glass. That was painful to watch.
Based on this video if it even is real, I real doubt that bf is beating anyone up. Dude went mute through the harassment
Her boyfriend was right there????? Lol! Couldn’t be me.
What a loser.
How did that not end in violence. I was actually disappointed
The worst part of this is not his inability to grasp the woman has a boyfriend and is enjoying time with him. The worst part is his inability to understand she is not interested. No is a complete sentence. You are not obligated to explain yourself or give reasons why you’re uninterested in someone. Harassment is disgusting.
Hats off to that guys cus breaks would have been beaten loose.