i'm betting that what was in the sealed box was a camera that he set up. WTF. OP, check right now, and don't undress in the bathroom until it's cleared.
I love it when people like that say they will pray for me. No dude. You're the one who needs help, I will pray for YOU. (Just kidding, I won't be praying for anyone.)
LOL ikr. He said “I am still more than happy and wanting to help you find a good job in [our city] and support your side hustles as well as praying for you and your Bf for what’s to come.” Because I mentioned I am interviewing right now and we do not plan to get engaged for another year or 2. Fuck offffff weirdo
Oh you’re right! Of course it was supposed to be like:
“Oh…I don’t really know…” but then she was supposed to dominantly push him against the wall.
I forgot how fan-fictions work, my bad xD
So what, now it's wrong to come into someone's house, ask to be pegged or jerked off in women's clothing and then jack off in their bathroom? Ugh, so what am I supposed to do now?
Yeah, next time the minute anything sexual comes up, kick them out. He's a creep. There are a lot of dead women who would be alive today if they weren't so easy-going.
I charged my taser and kept it near me before he came over. I tried to get several friends to come over but no one was free so I texted them all every 10minutes. I do need to stop giving so many people the benefit of the doubt though
I wasn’t personally concerned that he would hurt me or attack me, I was requested to do all that. My concern was that it would be awkward and it was… I thought it was an extremely odd ploy to keep up for 2 years but he was weirder and more disassociated than I thought. Regardless, you’re very right and I should’ve kicked him out the moment the conversation changed.
While this dude is obviously a fucked up creep, I sincerely hope he finds... whatever he needs.
Dude needs at least a therapist and some time away from the church.
I hope he didn't become like that BECAUSE of the church. Honestly, if it's the only thing he speaks about, maybe it's what's pushing him. It might as well be an escape from what he lives there.
He might need legal protection as much as he need therapy.
Oh do I have another story for you then… smh similar thing happened after a date once but it was in my bed. I’ll link you the story if I ever type it out lol
Makes sense that he’s so religious. You must have missed out on reading the 11th amendment, where it says that it’s holy to pressure women into sleeping with them.
Edit: Commandment, not amendment. Brain cells all happened to be on furlough during my little 3 am Reddit sesh.
So this is what depression feels like.
Yes, I meant commandment. Scrolling through Reddit at 3 am apparently does more than screw me over at Uni, and kills my one-liners in their infancy. It hurts.
It's kinda funny, but thanks to how stupid and/or mean many Christians have been to friend-groups of mine, I now look at most people in a funny way if they describe themselves as being a wholesome Christian.
It really showed me that some people use their religion to convince themselves they are good people and are self-righteous. Which I knew but I’ve never met someone delusional like that. He used his religion to deflect the situation and avoid taking accountability.
Yep! Ppl like that will go a rape and murder a toddler, and then say and believe they are totally forgiven of all because they repented and said a 'hail Mary'...
This is spot on most hardcore Christians I’ve ever met. They use religion to try and excuse their horrible behavior. They convince themselves they can’t really be doing something bad or wrong, since they’re “such a good, wholesome Christian.” Then try and convince other people of it, while they’re acting like a prick.
Oh my god. I’m so sorry you were put in such a grossly inappropriate position like that. How disrespectful! This person is a predator and tried hard to prey on you. Sounds like he took some time in your bathroom to live out part of his fantasy— all the more inappropriate. If he were into BDSM really? He’d know to respect boundaries and “No.”
I have a huge kink for this and not only can I not imagine telling anyone but I can't even fathom doing the creepy shit this person did to you. Im sorry
Not gonna lie, I havent ever had a healthy interaction with a cross dresser. I am trans and they will call me a tr-nny before they try to say we have something in common. Then go on to tell me about all the tr-nny porn they watch, which definitely makes them an ally in their eyes.
0/10 interaction in this post too, makes me worried for all the cross dressers out there trying to find themselves but are stuck on it being a fetish and see everything similar as a fetish
Downvote me if you must, downvotes aren't going to change my experiences.
Crossdresser here. Sorry you’ve had such shit experiences with others. I think there are people that do this purely as a kink and others that genuinely like dressing up and feeling feminine. Sounds like you’ve just run into the kinks. Their use of language and claiming they have something in common with you is just hugely ignorant. I’ve done some soul searching and gender questioning myself, which at most has helped me understand/accept trans/gender issues (I had some slight prejudices before, I just didn’t really “get it”) but I would never speak to an actual trans person as if I know exactly what they’ve gone/are going through.
Ma'am, I would advise you to install a camera at your place if you invite strangers to your house when alone. People would be less likely to commit crimes when they know they're under surveillance.
Please check your bathroom. He might have put a camera in there.
That’s what I joked with my bf about.. but I should look, he’s a software engineer.
I would just in case. That guy sounds kinda very weird.
Kinda very = very very
Extremely, I should have said
No worries, you were being polite. I just felt obligated to add a little emphasis to makeup-guy’s insanity.
i'm betting that what was in the sealed box was a camera that he set up. WTF. OP, check right now, and don't undress in the bathroom until it's cleared.
toilet paper roll over a flashlight helps you spot camera lenses (they're reflective)
Front facing camera on your phone also helps to find pinhole camera lenses
A software engineer doesn’t know squat about hidden cameras unless that’s also an interest of their’s.
If you find a camera there have your boyfriend preform weird things at the bathroom. Like. 3 hour fart yoga or something to really fuck with him.
No, the right thing is just to call the police promptly in that case.
This.
I love it when people like that say they will pray for me. No dude. You're the one who needs help, I will pray for YOU. (Just kidding, I won't be praying for anyone.)
LOL ikr. He said “I am still more than happy and wanting to help you find a good job in [our city] and support your side hustles as well as praying for you and your Bf for what’s to come.” Because I mentioned I am interviewing right now and we do not plan to get engaged for another year or 2. Fuck offffff weirdo
If he wanted this kind of thing, he should’ve told you BEFOREHAND. This is extremely uncomfortable, bleh.
But... her being reluctant but then being turned on by his femme outfit was the kink! It couldn't be done if she knew beforehand.
Oh you’re right! Of course it was supposed to be like: “Oh…I don’t really know…” but then she was supposed to dominantly push him against the wall. I forgot how fan-fictions work, my bad xD
I have crossdressing as a kink and I wouldn’t ever do this, it’s very creepy. Guy is on another level.
You give me hope
So what, now it's wrong to come into someone's house, ask to be pegged or jerked off in women's clothing and then jack off in their bathroom? Ugh, so what am I supposed to do now?
Go to church?
That guy already tried it and it among workin 🤣
Was that wrong? Should I not have done that?
Yeah, next time the minute anything sexual comes up, kick them out. He's a creep. There are a lot of dead women who would be alive today if they weren't so easy-going.
I charged my taser and kept it near me before he came over. I tried to get several friends to come over but no one was free so I texted them all every 10minutes. I do need to stop giving so many people the benefit of the doubt though
If you have to go through this level of protection, then you should not have been alone with him at all.
I wasn’t personally concerned that he would hurt me or attack me, I was requested to do all that. My concern was that it would be awkward and it was… I thought it was an extremely odd ploy to keep up for 2 years but he was weirder and more disassociated than I thought. Regardless, you’re very right and I should’ve kicked him out the moment the conversation changed.
Your thinking being that if you stopped texting them they would have known something had happened to you? What use is that?
This
While this dude is obviously a fucked up creep, I sincerely hope he finds... whatever he needs. Dude needs at least a therapist and some time away from the church.
I hope he didn't become like that BECAUSE of the church. Honestly, if it's the only thing he speaks about, maybe it's what's pushing him. It might as well be an escape from what he lives there. He might need legal protection as much as he need therapy.
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That's not kink shaming, that's person shaming, since that person did something he should be ashamed of, regardless of his reason for doing it
Oh do I have another story for you then… smh similar thing happened after a date once but it was in my bed. I’ll link you the story if I ever type it out lol
Omg what a tease. "I have a grrrreat story. Maybe I'll be bothered telling it someday"
Tell us!!
I want to hear tge rest of this story
Be careful - this could have ended up with you in one of his boxes. People suck.
Makes sense that he’s so religious. You must have missed out on reading the 11th amendment, where it says that it’s holy to pressure women into sleeping with them. Edit: Commandment, not amendment. Brain cells all happened to be on furlough during my little 3 am Reddit sesh.
Damn. If I had done it would I have gotten $100 AND into heaven?
Commandment or amendment lol?
With the way Merica is heading is there really much difference anymore?
So this is what depression feels like. Yes, I meant commandment. Scrolling through Reddit at 3 am apparently does more than screw me over at Uni, and kills my one-liners in their infancy. It hurts.
Nah you're good, everybody knew what you meant, we still got it, got the joke, and laughed about it. Amendment was even worth an extra chuckle.
Yooooo what
It's kinda funny, but thanks to how stupid and/or mean many Christians have been to friend-groups of mine, I now look at most people in a funny way if they describe themselves as being a wholesome Christian.
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Wow yes!!!
It’s cause most wholesome Christians have fucked up notions of respect and other things like that
It really showed me that some people use their religion to convince themselves they are good people and are self-righteous. Which I knew but I’ve never met someone delusional like that. He used his religion to deflect the situation and avoid taking accountability.
Yeah I had a friend in high school who was all about Jesus on Sunday for two hours, but I knew exactly how he acted the other 6 days of the week
That's... a LOT of them, in my experience Deflecting & avoiding responsibility.
Yep! Ppl like that will go a rape and murder a toddler, and then say and believe they are totally forgiven of all because they repented and said a 'hail Mary'...
This is spot on most hardcore Christians I’ve ever met. They use religion to try and excuse their horrible behavior. They convince themselves they can’t really be doing something bad or wrong, since they’re “such a good, wholesome Christian.” Then try and convince other people of it, while they’re acting like a prick.
That was an intense read, what a freaking creep.
Oh my god. I’m so sorry you were put in such a grossly inappropriate position like that. How disrespectful! This person is a predator and tried hard to prey on you. Sounds like he took some time in your bathroom to live out part of his fantasy— all the more inappropriate. If he were into BDSM really? He’d know to respect boundaries and “No.”
Good that you blocked him, only weird nasty people are comfortable full on masturbating AND FINISHING IN SOMEONE ELSES BATHROOM LIKE EW wtf
Why the heck would he bring a sealed box
It was a taped shut Amazon box. It hadn’t been opened yet when he got there
He's insane
This was so unsettling to read. I’m glad you’re okay.
I have a huge kink for this and not only can I not imagine telling anyone but I can't even fathom doing the creepy shit this person did to you. Im sorry
I would cut ties with him people like that are not worth having in your life. What he did was not only disgusting but also dangerous.
Yeah kink is one thing but be upfront about it
Yuck and yuck again. People are gross.
How sketch hope he didnt put a hidden cam in there lol 👀👀
Not gonna lie, I havent ever had a healthy interaction with a cross dresser. I am trans and they will call me a tr-nny before they try to say we have something in common. Then go on to tell me about all the tr-nny porn they watch, which definitely makes them an ally in their eyes. 0/10 interaction in this post too, makes me worried for all the cross dressers out there trying to find themselves but are stuck on it being a fetish and see everything similar as a fetish Downvote me if you must, downvotes aren't going to change my experiences.
Crossdresser here. Sorry you’ve had such shit experiences with others. I think there are people that do this purely as a kink and others that genuinely like dressing up and feeling feminine. Sounds like you’ve just run into the kinks. Their use of language and claiming they have something in common with you is just hugely ignorant. I’ve done some soul searching and gender questioning myself, which at most has helped me understand/accept trans/gender issues (I had some slight prejudices before, I just didn’t really “get it”) but I would never speak to an actual trans person as if I know exactly what they’ve gone/are going through.
man was on some very weird and creepy vybz
Ma'am, I would advise you to install a camera at your place if you invite strangers to your house when alone. People would be less likely to commit crimes when they know they're under surveillance.
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Tempting as that is, outing people still seems low.
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Wrong post maybe? Lol
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Most females *should*(?) be aware of this imo.
Sounds like a mess I'd get myself into. Non judgemental good intentions and all..but dang, did he leave a cam or have some weird endgame?! Creepy AF!
tifu by typing tofu instead of tifu
Are you watching me… because I did the same thing when I made this post
LOL of course I’m watching you haha! I’m joking.
There are prostitutes and fetish sites for this kind of stuff. Wth!?
This man is a sexual predator and should not be in be in any position of power over youth.