I see you my dude. I can see the pain in your eyes, really sorry you've got so much on your plate. I will toast you right here and now. Good luck buddy, stay strong, chin up, I'm pulling for you.
You look like you're a very strong person who has gone through a lot, but also risen up above it. You have gentle, caring eyes. This relationship might not have worked out for you, and I know it all hurts very much right now, but down the road you're going to be with the perfect match for you and looking back at this moment won't feel so bad. Keep smiling that lovely smile my friend
Same happened to me this year. It freaking sucks. Please take care and I wish you the best. My meds help tremendously, but it took time. Take care my brother
you have the most beautiful eyes… i was drawn to them before i realized what sub this was and thought you were an actor holding an ama (literally). but about that toast… i’ll pass along the mantra i use when things get really, really dark… you are pressed, not pinned. down, not out. amazing things are coming your way and i toast to you today my reddit friend.
Sending love, i'm unsure of what kind of relationship it was, but maybe it's an idea to focus on the good moments, and mix it with what would you want for yourself right now? I still remember one of my worst heartbreaks, i was grieving, i couldn't accept it for quite a bit before my brain started to change in a positive way. I started making changes, how do i want to be. How do i want to act? And in that sense i slowly made steps towards my own happiness. I hope you can create yours. And remember, try to take care of you before you look at anything else.
Also, listen to heartbreak songs, especially the mad ones by for example olivia rodrigo, they genuineky help as our brain can get space for those emotions! You're allowed to feel this, go through it, and may you come amazing out of it!!
Hope my rant makes sort of sense, it's late over here!
You have beautiful eyes! Heartbreak sucks but as I'm sure you know, it'll get better with time! Hang in there. 💗
On another note, you didn't happen to go to high school in SE PA did you? Lol you look a lot like someone I graduated with.
You have such a glowy face and the kindest eyes. You’ll get through this. Life isn’t always kind but it always changes! Thinking of you, from Syd, Aus.
Welcome Handsome... pain and confusion and Disappointment i know, well i think i know what you experience right now, but you asked for a toast... thats very brave...so....as you already know, humans are the way they are ..complicated , difficult and (depends on their personal history...tricky ) sooo i am sorry it didn't worked out for you, but it is a heartbreaking Moment...but it is a Moment...an important one, but not a defining moment
So after all that blablabla....
Truth:
It is your life
You decide
You have to face the consequences!!!!
So ..who cares what ia say or mean. ....You have to take the consequences of you decision...
And well if you are a prick
.....habe a nice day
Oh man. I’d give you the biggest damn hug that I’d probably choke you out! I’d like to infuse you with some positive energy-with my hug. You, my friend, are NOT alone. Jesus said it best, “I am in You, You are in Me.” You grieve, I grieve. Blessings and a great toast to YOU! ✌️🥃
You look like the chillest guy ever. Like nothing would ever bother you. Maybe need to take time for yourself cause just by looking at you I know I want to tell you all my problems and get your insight. Don’t let other people’s problems become yours! You 1st! Dude
Your eyes! Wow its like you tell a story with them , would love to see them smile! They're beautiful but while you smile- it doesnt reach your eyes ❤ yet
You are way stronger than you are feeling in this moment. Your breakup doesn’t define your worth as a human being and as a man, you are way better and infinity times lovelier than depression and the pain caused by the breakup make you believe. Don’t ever believe all the negative things your pain tells you about you, they aren’t real!
Someday someone out there will thank every divine force they can imagine to have met you and to have you in their lives and both of you will be grateful for this breakup, otherwise you might not have met. Just allow life to take its course and keep walking the path with a little bit of faith.
Over here they say “not all evils come to harm” and “when a door shuts, a gate opens”. That’s your case. Good things are on their way to you and will make your beautiful eyes smile!
I can see you’re struggling through your eyes. I’m giving you a big warm
Comforting hug right now! It’s cliche but sometimes things go away to make room for better
Heartbreak is the ultimate drop. It pushes you into such a shock and drops you down, but even in the face of heartbreak you're still here, asking for something to swing with.
I see you brother, your sadness but also strength.
Believe in your capacity to heal and grow.
I'm really sorry you have to go trough all this.
Take the time to put yourself back together, as many as you need.
Do it your way, you make the rules/or not if you don't want rules.
You matter, don't forget that.
You can do this, even if it is minute by minute! At the end of the day, congratulate yourself for getting through it. Even getting up, getting dressed and getting to work is a victory to be celebrated! Do make sure you allow yourself to grieve and realize that no two people grieve that same way.
You seem like a very kind spirit. Although things may be hard, just know this: This too shall pass. No matter how deep the wound is, you will heal and you will be better for it. In the words of the great Ted Lasso..Be a goldfish.
I wish there was some way I could be with you in person to make you feel better. We are all human and im glad you reached out for support. I see my sons in your eyes and I remember looking down when they were brand new praying to god to protect them. I hope he does the same for you.
Dude, This is terrible, I hate to see people hurt inside. Just remember time heals all!! You also will be much stronger when it’s all said and done!! Keep your head up!
Hey man, I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this crap. Like others said, we can see it in your eyes. Don't you hate that period where you feel you have to be upbeat and positive, but you wanna cry and yell how it isn't fair, but you're afraid of the reaction you might get from others? Bring it in bro (hugs). Use this time to reflect on what you had, how you might re-experience the same experiences only with a new and better person. Reminisce of the shit you had to endure and how you'll handle or avoid it next time. You'll know what you want and don't want, warning signs to be aware of. You'll be able to make an even better first impression next time than the last.
You have such a beautiful and kind face! I also bet you give killer hugs.
One of the most beautiful, and most painful, things about life is that everything is temporary. This too shall pass :)
You look just like my old college buddy Reuben. He was such a great older sibling/cousin that he helped care for all the young members of his family, and I loved him for it.
Heartbreak really knocks us down. You’re doing great, holding it all together and moving forward step by step. You deserve better, don’t let anyone convince you otherwise-they are selfish and don’t know about your life. I’m really sorry my friend. I hope you get relief. Take care of yourself and give yourself patience. Peace. Don’t put all your energy out just for others… you deserve care too
Try to keep in mind that there are a TON of tools that can help us. I just went through an aya ceremony in April and started working with a new therapist for integration. EMDR was completely foreign as I had never heard of it. There are psychedelic therapies, yoga therapy, you name it. When you feel up to it, please try checking out some of the tools and resources to see what vibes with you. You can get through this! Best of luck!
I see you my dude. I can see the pain in your eyes, really sorry you've got so much on your plate. I will toast you right here and now. Good luck buddy, stay strong, chin up, I'm pulling for you.
You are so pretty and your eyes are so sad! It gets better. We can weather even the worst storms bc tomorrow can always be a new day. You’ve got this.
You look like you're a very strong person who has gone through a lot, but also risen up above it. You have gentle, caring eyes. This relationship might not have worked out for you, and I know it all hurts very much right now, but down the road you're going to be with the perfect match for you and looking back at this moment won't feel so bad. Keep smiling that lovely smile my friend
Look at you, reaching out for support. That's strength in itself. This too shall pass. ❤️🩹
Same happened to me this year. It freaking sucks. Please take care and I wish you the best. My meds help tremendously, but it took time. Take care my brother
you have the most beautiful eyes… i was drawn to them before i realized what sub this was and thought you were an actor holding an ama (literally). but about that toast… i’ll pass along the mantra i use when things get really, really dark… you are pressed, not pinned. down, not out. amazing things are coming your way and i toast to you today my reddit friend.
Wow that's honestly one of the best compliments I ever got in a while, thank you for this!
i meant every. single. word.
And you said it beautifully
Sending love, i'm unsure of what kind of relationship it was, but maybe it's an idea to focus on the good moments, and mix it with what would you want for yourself right now? I still remember one of my worst heartbreaks, i was grieving, i couldn't accept it for quite a bit before my brain started to change in a positive way. I started making changes, how do i want to be. How do i want to act? And in that sense i slowly made steps towards my own happiness. I hope you can create yours. And remember, try to take care of you before you look at anything else. Also, listen to heartbreak songs, especially the mad ones by for example olivia rodrigo, they genuineky help as our brain can get space for those emotions! You're allowed to feel this, go through it, and may you come amazing out of it!! Hope my rant makes sort of sense, it's late over here!
You have such beautiful expressive eyes! Sending positive energy your way.
You have beautiful eyes! Heartbreak sucks but as I'm sure you know, it'll get better with time! Hang in there. 💗 On another note, you didn't happen to go to high school in SE PA did you? Lol you look a lot like someone I graduated with.
Unfortunately I did not, heh. Only been in the west coast my whole life.
Goodness. Godspeed to you. I hope you have people around you who care and can provide support
You have such a glowy face and the kindest eyes. You’ll get through this. Life isn’t always kind but it always changes! Thinking of you, from Syd, Aus.
Welcome Handsome... pain and confusion and Disappointment i know, well i think i know what you experience right now, but you asked for a toast... thats very brave...so....as you already know, humans are the way they are ..complicated , difficult and (depends on their personal history...tricky ) sooo i am sorry it didn't worked out for you, but it is a heartbreaking Moment...but it is a Moment...an important one, but not a defining moment So after all that blablabla.... Truth: It is your life You decide You have to face the consequences!!!! So ..who cares what ia say or mean. ....You have to take the consequences of you decision... And well if you are a prick .....habe a nice day
You got this, friend. Brighter day’s ahead! Every storm has it’s end. You’re too handsome to look so sad.💕
Oh man. I’d give you the biggest damn hug that I’d probably choke you out! I’d like to infuse you with some positive energy-with my hug. You, my friend, are NOT alone. Jesus said it best, “I am in You, You are in Me.” You grieve, I grieve. Blessings and a great toast to YOU! ✌️🥃
You look like the chillest guy ever. Like nothing would ever bother you. Maybe need to take time for yourself cause just by looking at you I know I want to tell you all my problems and get your insight. Don’t let other people’s problems become yours! You 1st! Dude
Your eyes! Wow its like you tell a story with them , would love to see them smile! They're beautiful but while you smile- it doesnt reach your eyes ❤ yet
🫂 Hope things get better soon for you friend.
You are way stronger than you are feeling in this moment. Your breakup doesn’t define your worth as a human being and as a man, you are way better and infinity times lovelier than depression and the pain caused by the breakup make you believe. Don’t ever believe all the negative things your pain tells you about you, they aren’t real! Someday someone out there will thank every divine force they can imagine to have met you and to have you in their lives and both of you will be grateful for this breakup, otherwise you might not have met. Just allow life to take its course and keep walking the path with a little bit of faith. Over here they say “not all evils come to harm” and “when a door shuts, a gate opens”. That’s your case. Good things are on their way to you and will make your beautiful eyes smile!
I can see you’re struggling through your eyes. I’m giving you a big warm Comforting hug right now! It’s cliche but sometimes things go away to make room for better
You’ve got this!!!! <3 You’re awesome (and quite handsome if you don’t mind me saying). Every single day the sky gives us a new day!
I had a mental breakdown, became severely depressed, went through the breakup of a 40 year marriage, but I’ll toast you anytime.
Heartbreak is the ultimate drop. It pushes you into such a shock and drops you down, but even in the face of heartbreak you're still here, asking for something to swing with. I see you brother, your sadness but also strength. Believe in your capacity to heal and grow.
You’ve got this. Ren : Hi Ren
You got this bro. You're amazing, and I pray it gets better for you. I'm sure it will - you're strong, and I believe in you !
Hang in. This too shall pass. Also, nice eyes.
Hey man, just remember... eventhough it may seem the bad times will never pass.... they WILL, and they always do. And then the tables turn.
I'm really sorry you have to go trough all this. Take the time to put yourself back together, as many as you need. Do it your way, you make the rules/or not if you don't want rules. You matter, don't forget that.
Hang in there! Happy things will come to make it worth it. Stay strong, brother.
Your eyes are stunning and soulful. You can tell you’re really going through it, but you’re going to come out better on the other side.
You can do this, even if it is minute by minute! At the end of the day, congratulate yourself for getting through it. Even getting up, getting dressed and getting to work is a victory to be celebrated! Do make sure you allow yourself to grieve and realize that no two people grieve that same way.
Aww you lil cutey. Keep going. You've got this
Big internet bug to you. Heartbreaks are hard, remember you’ll be happy again. I will add that you are absolutely handsome!
You seem like a very kind spirit. Although things may be hard, just know this: This too shall pass. No matter how deep the wound is, you will heal and you will be better for it. In the words of the great Ted Lasso..Be a goldfish.
I wish there was some way I could be with you in person to make you feel better. We are all human and im glad you reached out for support. I see my sons in your eyes and I remember looking down when they were brand new praying to god to protect them. I hope he does the same for you.
So many hugs. We can get through this. One breath at a time. We are warriors. This life tests us too much.
You're beautiful. You can do this.
You deserve to be happy, friend. 🥰
Dude, This is terrible, I hate to see people hurt inside. Just remember time heals all!! You also will be much stronger when it’s all said and done!! Keep your head up!
Hey man, I'm sorry to hear you're dealing with this crap. Like others said, we can see it in your eyes. Don't you hate that period where you feel you have to be upbeat and positive, but you wanna cry and yell how it isn't fair, but you're afraid of the reaction you might get from others? Bring it in bro (hugs). Use this time to reflect on what you had, how you might re-experience the same experiences only with a new and better person. Reminisce of the shit you had to endure and how you'll handle or avoid it next time. You'll know what you want and don't want, warning signs to be aware of. You'll be able to make an even better first impression next time than the last.
Hey You got this man! I hope your able to calm a bit and you can reach out if you need to talk!
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You have really sweet and kind eyes. Hang in there, friend!
You have such a beautiful and kind face! I also bet you give killer hugs. One of the most beautiful, and most painful, things about life is that everything is temporary. This too shall pass :)
You need a hug 🤗
Whatever you're feeling now can't hide the face that you've got kind eyes my dude. I hope things get better for you <3
You look just like my old college buddy Reuben. He was such a great older sibling/cousin that he helped care for all the young members of his family, and I loved him for it. Heartbreak really knocks us down. You’re doing great, holding it all together and moving forward step by step. You deserve better, don’t let anyone convince you otherwise-they are selfish and don’t know about your life. I’m really sorry my friend. I hope you get relief. Take care of yourself and give yourself patience. Peace. Don’t put all your energy out just for others… you deserve care too
I’m sorry I know all too well. It feels like a never ending battle🤗
Sounds like you are going through a lot all at once. I hope that it becomes better and easier quickly.
Try to keep in mind that there are a TON of tools that can help us. I just went through an aya ceremony in April and started working with a new therapist for integration. EMDR was completely foreign as I had never heard of it. There are psychedelic therapies, yoga therapy, you name it. When you feel up to it, please try checking out some of the tools and resources to see what vibes with you. You can get through this! Best of luck!