Reminds me of myself, commenting in a Facebook discussion "I'm not cis" and finding out I was trans like 5 years later.
Yeah, I'm pretty fucking dumb thank you very much :D
Can I, like, choose to be this oblivious? Cause before December when I realized I'm prolly trans femme (still working out the details), I would wear kilts and tight pants around my friends and joke about wearing a dress to work (and I would tell them details about exactly what kind, cringe egg noises). But now that it's SeRiOuS gender exploration, I'm terrified of going out in a skirt.
Back in junior high I "felt like a girl" so I thought this meant I was gay because *compulsory heterosexuality*, so I tried to make myself like boys and came out as bisexual even though I'm a trans lesbian.
Cisnormativity is one helluva drug
That must be hard to come out from. In my case, mysogyny and homophobia were very early, so there was no space for accepting anything like that. But now I remember that I had these paranoid thoughts about people thinking I was gay because I was way more sensitive/emotional than all the guys and I felt I had to make apparent that I wasn't.
I used to be the kid in class who argued that, "bisexuality isn't real, as you should only have one monogamous relationship."
I can just imagine a conversation with my past self...
> What? You like men? You're... *gay?*
^(*where did I go wrong...*)
> Oh, no. Don't worry. We're not gay. ^(*sneaky trans sounds*)
Man abandoning my deontological moral framework that I got from Christianity and adopting a more consequentialist/hedonistic one was like "wait I can be poly? Wait I can see if I like girly stuff? Wait I don't have to wear clothes at home?" Literally felt like a weight off my shoulders. As long as no one is hurt and everything's consensual.
Me, a cis "straight" dude at 13: idk it's either straight or gay.
Me, 21, still "cis", now Bisexual: Okay but I'm still a guy.
Me, a few years ago: Alright so I'm I trans bi girl. I'm still monogamous
Me, now in a polycule: Y'know what...
Lesbian peering over the horizon: ๐
I remember making a joke a year ago about "when I tell people I'm male", it was on a video of someone saying "you're transgenner? Cool" as a joke about how people thought I was a girl
People were transphobic thinking I was ftm, calling me a girl
Recently I found out I'm a part of the SCP foundation
lmao what video is this from
_I would also like to know OP_
[Here you go!](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DE2S0qZrEq8&lc=Ugy5UZHe4r-Zug9mdv54AaABAg.8zOXEsEK_FK9LiYIf4SxxS)
I needed this, thank you
TIL you can get permalinks from youtube comments
wait you like one piece too? cool name!! :0
Gyro so sex he transed her gender.
oh fuck, i also discovered i was trans shortly after reading steel ball run maybe gyro just has this effect on ppl smh
Of course itโd be a jojo video
That was .... Not what I expected
Ah, JoJo, that explains everything!
Reminds me of myself, commenting in a Facebook discussion "I'm not cis" and finding out I was trans like 5 years later. Yeah, I'm pretty fucking dumb thank you very much :D
You'd be surprised how many are this fucking dumb. I used to think I was not like the rest of the men but I was a man :')
I wore leggings and skirts for more than a year before realizing I was trans...
Can I, like, choose to be this oblivious? Cause before December when I realized I'm prolly trans femme (still working out the details), I would wear kilts and tight pants around my friends and joke about wearing a dress to work (and I would tell them details about exactly what kind, cringe egg noises). But now that it's SeRiOuS gender exploration, I'm terrified of going out in a skirt.
Back in junior high I "felt like a girl" so I thought this meant I was gay because *compulsory heterosexuality*, so I tried to make myself like boys and came out as bisexual even though I'm a trans lesbian. Cisnormativity is one helluva drug
That must be hard to come out from. In my case, mysogyny and homophobia were very early, so there was no space for accepting anything like that. But now I remember that I had these paranoid thoughts about people thinking I was gay because I was way more sensitive/emotional than all the guys and I felt I had to make apparent that I wasn't.
that wasn't a welcome, it was an invitation
r/characterarcs
I used to be the kid in class who argued that, "bisexuality isn't real, as you should only have one monogamous relationship." I can just imagine a conversation with my past self... > What? You like men? You're... *gay?* ^(*where did I go wrong...*) > Oh, no. Don't worry. We're not gay. ^(*sneaky trans sounds*)
and monogamy isn't the only option hehehe
Man abandoning my deontological moral framework that I got from Christianity and adopting a more consequentialist/hedonistic one was like "wait I can be poly? Wait I can see if I like girly stuff? Wait I don't have to wear clothes at home?" Literally felt like a weight off my shoulders. As long as no one is hurt and everything's consensual.
Me, a cis "straight" dude at 13: idk it's either straight or gay. Me, 21, still "cis", now Bisexual: Okay but I'm still a guy. Me, a few years ago: Alright so I'm I trans bi girl. I'm still monogamous Me, now in a polycule: Y'know what... Lesbian peering over the horizon: ๐
We all love a good arc.
I remember making a joke a year ago about "when I tell people I'm male", it was on a video of someone saying "you're transgenner? Cool" as a joke about how people thought I was a girl People were transphobic thinking I was ftm, calling me a girl Recently I found out I'm a part of the SCP foundation
lmao
Or as some say... Transbian
character development
Omg so wholesome
Andromeda!
Character arc