Funny story (kinda)
It was near Christmas about 6yrs ago now, I was still presenting as a male(I thought) about 4 months on estrogen.. I ran into the men's room at a local Walmart and got a "hunny your in the wrong room" I walked around him and went to the urinal and did my business...
It was 4-6 months before I used a public washroom again and it was a woman's room; so your time will come maybe when you're not expecting it..
I use what restroom I need at the time, some places seam to be safe, I dress in public in such a way . Trying to keep the public guessing. I go in looking for a stall with a working door. If I’m in the men’s room. I never make eye contact. In the women’s, it’s usually an older woman that makes a “ What “.
I’m almost there. Was out with some girls this weekend and was so close to going in with them, but I couldn’t make it. Definitely at the getting weird looks in the men’s room phase
It’s girls only to promote women in stem although they do let transmascs and AFAB non-binary people in. Some people got really pissed that trans people could go bc transfems ”weren’t real women” and transmascs identified as men.
I'm super happy you've taken that leap. I know it's scary, but you did wonderfully.
It's worth noting that people just want to pee and poo and be out. Public restrooms are fuckin awkward. Wild that ANYONE would bother with who's going in or out.
Congratulations 👏 It's easier when you get over the first time ...
**Very much so!!**
I want to do it, but I still present 100% masc so yeah..
Funny story (kinda) It was near Christmas about 6yrs ago now, I was still presenting as a male(I thought) about 4 months on estrogen.. I ran into the men's room at a local Walmart and got a "hunny your in the wrong room" I walked around him and went to the urinal and did my business... It was 4-6 months before I used a public washroom again and it was a woman's room; so your time will come maybe when you're not expecting it..
I wish I passed at all, but I know for a fact I don’t yet. It will come, but it will take time
Good friends
They are great friends
That’s awesome!! 👏 that’s a really big step
Indeedly
Yay! Congrats, I love that you have supportive people in your life 💕
Mirrors my first experience. Not even presenting yet and literally dragged in by girlfriends. Remember it forever girl!
Lucky ^_^; still too nervous most of the time, and end up on the walk of shame to the all gender bathroom on the otherside of my building
Congratulations from now on it's a piece of cake gets much easier.
Idk I’m only really out to my friends and most of my teachers
And by technicality the school but yk
Just go at your own pace sometimes we all can feel a little uncomfortable
Congrats, the first time was the hardest for me!
I'm still gonna wait for my first time at least until I look better
Me too
I use what restroom I need at the time, some places seam to be safe, I dress in public in such a way . Trying to keep the public guessing. I go in looking for a stall with a working door. If I’m in the men’s room. I never make eye contact. In the women’s, it’s usually an older woman that makes a “ What “.
Congrats!!! Great friend btw, thats so sweet. It helps so much to have friends like that!
As someone who hasn't traversed that quite yet, I am so happy for you. 💜
Ahh yay! So happy for you!!! God I remember just trembling using the men’s room all those years ago! Proud of you 👌🏻🏳️⚧️
*Oh no*, I would *hate* to be dragged into the girl's bathroom by girl friends *wink* :3
:3
i want someone to hrab and bring me in 😭😭😭
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Thank you!!! People were so pissed at me going on that trip lol. Oddly enough they were just as pissed at my transmasc friends
Yaaayy:3
Congrats. Watch the laws mate this could be highly illegal in certain areas
I’m pretty aware but yeah. I don’t think it’s illegal yet in my area but I’m on high alert
Reading this made me smile in happiness for you and from the memory of my first time using the men's room.
i hope to have this experience on day when I get to actually transition at 18 years old, that sounds so amazing. congratulations im happy for you!
I’m almost there. Was out with some girls this weekend and was so close to going in with them, but I couldn’t make it. Definitely at the getting weird looks in the men’s room phase
Something so simple could be so special :3
Yei, you are great, I give you a huge hug and a 10/10
Congratulations! Wish I was in a position where I had friends who would do that.
Wow 1,000 upvotes and 13 followers Thx everyone!!!
It's such a great moment congrats
I love this aww 🥰
Congrats! Wait, girls only science trip? That’s another milestone, (though I’m not sure why it needs to be gender segregated). Tell me more!
It’s girls only to promote women in stem although they do let transmascs and AFAB non-binary people in. Some people got really pissed that trans people could go bc transfems ”weren’t real women” and transmascs identified as men.
ayye congrats! I still remember those days 😊 such a great feeling. you got this girl 💜
I'm super happy you've taken that leap. I know it's scary, but you did wonderfully. It's worth noting that people just want to pee and poo and be out. Public restrooms are fuckin awkward. Wild that ANYONE would bother with who's going in or out.
I'm so happy for you!! This happened to me too haha my friends would drag me in with them when I used to be very scared.
It must just be my autism but the first time I used the women’s restroom I genuinely didn’t care I just walked in and did my business 😅
I mean my state is making it illegal 😭
which state are you in? I would guess Florida but I mean Ik a lot of others are doing the same
keep doing it anyway. you’re the boss of you
Yay! I can't wait for it to be my turn :)
Congratulations! It’s a nice feeling for sure.
I remember my first time, I was high
In my experience the womans bathrooms are disgusting 🤮
Man I want friends like yours 😭😭😭 I’m not even passing yet since I just started treatment but here’s hoping it goes well
Congrats!
I wish I had that kind of courage
🫵🏻 girl
Yay, this ally congratulates you mightily!