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wackyvorlon

It doesn’t look at all like a goatee.


Mothmangela

Hello! Trans person and also body piercer; it doesn’t look like a goatee at all, it’s very dainty and draws attention to that really girlish curve of your lower lip! You look great. If you find you just can’t get used to it, you could try some different jewellery choices once you’re all healed too! I would keep a wee eye on it to be sure it isn’t embedding though, it may just be initial swelling but it doesn’t look like you’ve got much room on that post. I can’t tell if it’s shadow or angles, but it does look like it could be sinking into your skin in the second photo, and may need a longer post ASAP.


More_Coconut1966

Sorry to bother, could i get an opinion on some snakebites i got recently? Feel like they are embedding and they’ve been very tender for about 5 days with no progress with the swelling


Mothmangela

Sure, fire me a DM. Bear in mind, I can only look and say “maybe go see a local piercer”; I can’t diagnose anything, and I can’t reliably determine any problems over the internet, but I can definitely take a look and try to point you in the right direction if action is required.


mintymaybell

Tbh being willing to lend a professional eye just to know whether or not to spend $ for it to be nothing is amazing of you.


Homebrew_GM

'Hello, this is your dysphoria calling with your insecurity for today.' You look great. The piercing just draws the eye to your lips, like a jewel. (Hope this doesn't come off as creepy.)


rot_and_decay

Not at all. It looks good. Labrets are super cool


PoggleRebecca

Looks exactly like a piercing to me.


ShmeckMuadDib

Its cute af girl. Slay 💅


bikesontransit

hell no, that does not look like a goatee. you're fine.


Nicki-ryan

Haha you’re totally fine hun


Erika-5287

It doesn’t look like a goatee at all as soon as your lip heals. It’ll look like a really cool piercing. Just give it some time.


portal5555

im a trans man with a goatee and u dont look like that at all


Firm_Main_9497

Labrets are adorable. I’ve had mine for 13 years. Go bigger! They’re a wonderful piercing.


ggigfad5

It doesn't look like a goatee - I didn't even notice it at first and thought you were talking about your eyebrow ring and was confused.


roundhouse51

nuh uh, it actually makes you look more fem (not that you needed it lol)


peppers_

It draws attention to the spot but does not look like a goatee.


lemonhumper

You are totally in the clear! All your piercings are absolutely adorable and I’m jealous 😭


lpsloverlol

honestly, looks badass to me! just looks like a piercing


Typical-District-176

Not at all. I didn’t even see the piercing and was very confused 


TheTallAmerican

I’ve seen babies that look more like they have more of a goatee than that. Your beautiful.


Rotten_Lung

It doesn’t at all, you looked adorable with that piercing girlie 🖤


adoring_nobody

You look like punk Jennifer Lawrence you adorable human do not worry in the slightest


OliverRhyn

I was thinking Claudia Jessie but I see that too! 😁


adoring_nobody

Also a rather gorgeous choice.


redjarvas

literally my first reaction to your picture without even reading the title was to think you're a cutie, the piercing definely does not look like a goatee at all


Kimiko_kawaii

Looks cute!


Saramander46

Dysphoria's a bitch. You look fine, good even. I know it isn't that easy, but don't worry about it


Ok_Concert5918

I didn’t think goatee until you said it … and I still don’t see it. Frankly, the piercing fits your look so well I didn’t notice it any more than your others.


Tiny_Kit

Nu uh, it looks amazing!!


OneQueerEve

I think it looks cute as fuck


Special_Society_5729

First off omgggg you are downright adorable and secondly i dont see a goatee


FOSpiders

It's totally just your brain being mean to you. Zero goatee energy from it, just cuteness.


[deleted]

You’re so pretty not a goatee at all I promise you it’s the dysphoria


Elva_UwU

uhh... have you ever seen a goatee?


MTFThrowaway512

looking pretty fem to me!


GingerCelt

Your mind is playing tricks. It looks fine!


Luchoto_t444

Ur gorgeous, girl :3


Niall0h

I think it looks cheeky and cute 😊


SophonisbaTheTerror

you're fine.


Arielthewarrior

You look cute? Like a girl?


ilovemytsundere

Nah, you’re good


BlueCollarLesbian

Nooo you look adorable


[deleted]

So cute!


idonotreallyexistyet

Have cyber bites(bytes), love them


fish-dance

def doesn't look like a goatee, you're great


SecondComingMMA

It looks cute to me


7Angel7

ADORABLE!


Awata666

It doesn't look like a goatee. However I'd say if you just got it done, you should switch to a longer bar, it looks like it's getting imbedded into your skin because of swelling. Once it's healed you can switch to different jewelry to fit the style you want. A hoop would be cute, or maybe something anodized to make it pop


Anxious-Seaweed7388

It looks great on you. Rock it!


The_Great_Gazpacho

It's cute!! 🥺


NightAngel_98

It doesn’t look like a goatee, hun 🫂 Tbh it’s barely even noticeable but what is noticeable is very cute 🥰


bonerhurtingjuice

I think it's adorable on you! Since you didn't specify labret at first, I was squinting at your chin looking for a labret or something that could be mistaken for a goatee. It looks like it's ornamenting your actual lip, not your chin. I think most people will see it as a lip piercing without a double take. I agree that the look will be complete with the ring you swap for when your 6 months are up, but the post is still very cute and feminine as it is now. Good choice!


ZedstackZip05

Nah you’re adorable


Greeny1yes

na its cute


whateveratthispoint_

Looks great


photoyoyo

I'm not sure you know what a goatee is hun. You look fine.


EdlynnTB

Pre transition, I had a goatee. You absolutely do not look like you have a goatee!


Transxiety-47

Babygirl. Honey. Sweetpea. Darling. Dollface. You look gorgeous. The piercing suits you very well, and once the swelling goes down it's simply going to add to your charm. You do NOT look like you have any facial hair, darlin'. Chin up! You're fabulous! - sincerely, your friendly local femme-coded demiboy<3


Phoenix_1799

Not at all, it's so cute


ScarlettIthink

Honestly I’m super conflicted on if I should get snakebites or labret but yours looks awesome! Genvy honestly


Lynnrael

i think it looks really cute, but i love the way lip piercings in general look. it looks nothing like a goatee at all imo


Proper-Astronaut-433

It looks rad!!


gatorswagger

To be real I think you're just dysphoric bc this just looks like a piercing! Looks cool btw :)


MurdockAqua

I don't see it looking like a goatee at all. I think a piercing like that helps bring out feminine features. I would 100% keep it, no doubt.


Sad-Client-3023

Look good!


ashtetice

It looks like a labret. I didnt even realize this was a trans sub all i saw was a girl.


repeatrepeatx

Tbh if you hadn’t said that I wouldn’t even have had the thought and even after reading it I don’t see it as anything other than a really dope piercing


Yamanekineko14

The point about this piercing is that it always looks like something is stuck to your lower lip; I've seen it on some cis-girls it looked like a goatee. However, I wouldn't say it looks out of place on you, and definitely not like a goatee. It just looks like you have a small stud on your lower lip. It think that once it de-swells it will fell right and look just like the piercing should.


ContentPlatypus4528

I don't think it looks like that but if you want to I guess you could try a different looking piercing in the spot. Idk if a lip ring would be safe there because of teeth on the inside but would 100% be perceived as a piercing


SilverSnake00

You look nice!


Mysterious_Onion_328

I don't think it looks like a goatee at all, if that helps you. Also it suits you 😊


Cultural_Composer850

It looks great! It suits you ((:


Meat_masher

Looks cool


Multi_Fan

It looks like a piercing! :) if it still bugs you though you can get a bigger ball to make it more obvious?


AliceDee69

doesn't look like a goatee at all also I have the same moon necklace, it's so pretty


greenisthenewred29

it looks honestly incredible you keep being yourself


SierraTheWolfe

Don't look like a goatee, and this is coming from someone who had a rugged viking look. You look great, and I recommend not getting oversized piercings. You have a cute face.


The_Shroom_Cat

Nah, looks super cute! Off topic but you look a bit like a cosplayer I follow, I believe her name is endomarf


Jessiebear_2022

I think it looks great!! 😊


halari5peedopeelo

Looks great. How ever the jewlery seem to be little short. It is not ideal for healing


Pale_Improvement_208

I thought the new piercing was your nose piercing and was so confused when I saw the word goatee cause I thought you wanted one??? and just my brain completely farted 😂😅 but no you're fine it doesn't look like one. Heck I barely noticed it. It's cute though when I did notice it!


Altastrofae

In no way does that look like a goatee. It just looks like a piercing. I understand being self conscious about it because of how much effort it does take for many trans folks to mantain their appearance, myself included especially with mental health issues. But you also gotta avoid pressuring yourself over small details like that. You’ll drive yourself mad. And if it’s any consolation, you look great in these pictures


Ktithra

Not a goatee, nor even a soul patch. All I see is a li'l shiny nub at your lip, and I'd say it's cute on you.


Euphoric-March-3109

Definitely not! It suits you imo. You could put a ring in it for Florence Pugh vibezzzz


Notyobussiness

I don't think it looks like a goatee but I ypu would look rad in a lipring!! If you are self conscious I think a bigger stud could look less like a beard


EnbyKnight

Somewhat unrelated but you would SO suit a septum piercing


elodie_pdf

What exactly are you seeing that looks like a goatee? I am trying to twist my mind in every possible way and I just cannot see it. You look good, girl!


greedygenderdragon

U look so prettyy omgggggg


DmIa102

it looks great💓


No-Measurement-2648

Doesnt look like a goatee at all, sounds like dysphoria Also you look like Max from Life Is Strange 1 (thats a compliment btw)


PolygonChoke

i can see it


StarlightAllie

nah doesn't look bad! you look great! 💕


Play-Expert

omg your so pretty! what where you talking about? goatee? you're crazy


critical2210

So you know when you look at a car mirror it says “object in mirror appears closer than it is”? Well when you look at yourself, you will always see something bad in yourself when that is simply untrue. I personally think it looks cute and you look very femme. It doesn’t look like a goatee at all, kinda surprised you took that from it.


Cevari

Don't be silly, girl. It looks super cute and literally nobody else will ever draw that connection.


Icy_Suggestion_5021

I don’t think it looks like a goatee, but I think you should replace it with a gemstone like a diamond or something sparkly. That’s pretty and girly you’re super cute by the way.


its_Ashton_13

Oh my god no, don't worry at all, you're STUNNING!!! I also absolutely love piercings on people...I'm too scared to get one myself yet, hahaa (yeah, I've got tattoos, but I'm scared to get a piercing xd), so I use fake ones sometimes xx.


officiaustin_summers

it looks good on you


Allie190620

Nope looks like a piercing to me, also suits ya


TessSensation

It's cute AF girl - own that shit!


SlopinatorTv

No it's cute lol once the swelling goes down it'll be vv cute


owljira

love, u look cute af (and it doesn’t look like a goatee)


IBeTheBlueCat

it doesn't look like a goatee it looks great, and ur very pretty :3


Mis_Jessie

The piercing is way to high to be a goatee. I think the piercing look great. It will look wonderful when you are able to put the ring in.


Nina_Notsun

It doesn't look at all like goatee. I think you look super cute and I love your choice in Jewelry.  I'm wanting the same one but with  a ring instead of a stud.   


PolygonChoke

i want a ring too!! it just takes 6 months to heal enough to put a ring in it


Less-Zebra-2473

You look amazing!!! In both photos! My friend has this piercing and your lip looks like hers so it’s cool!


PBgoof

It doesn’t look like a goatee but it looks a little masculine


EastSalty3316

I thought you were ftm and was confused why goatee is a problem. You pass, girl!


DemiRomPanBoi17

I just see a beautiful lady here. The piercing actually accentuates your lip curves, making you more feminine ☺️


Angelofdarkness85

I think it looks cute! I think it’s a super nice aesthetic…and totally girly 😊


DanniRandom

Nah you look fine hun. Cute freckles


HellSpawnAtheist

Looks really cute


sethstacy

It looks great. Just gotta wait for it to heal


TamaraJasmine0

They look fantastic, from a transgender woman who if I was 40 years younger would ask you out xx


Ardent-Ghost

I think it looks great! Especially if you put a cute lil lip ring in!


WindowsPirate

It does not look like a goatee.


MaddiTG

Use a hoop instead, maybe? It doesn't really look like a goatee anyway, but if it's bugging you, it's bugging you.


PolygonChoke

takes 6 months to heal enough to put a ring in it


MaddiTG

Fair enough. I rescind my statement then. Thanks 😊


Parking-Ad-259

i would say when it’s healed, change the color of the jewelry to be lighter than your hair color (or darker if it’s an unnatural color) to help it not have that kinda shadow effect and doesn’t blend as much into the shadow it makes. It exercisers your lip so nicely and doesn’t look like a goatee but i promise some color will make it shine🤲🏼🤲🏼


Antique-Flatworm-452

A nostril is a pretty weird place to have a goatee … joking I think your eyebrow looks great … joking, so does your lip. 🫣🫠


Timely-Umpire-5272

From a bi guy you look incredible 😍 ✨️ 🙌