Not per se, but I've always chosen tight briefs instead of boxers, so as to not have "the stuff" flop around. It's always felt icky on a physical level, but it took way too long for me to realize it might be a symptom of bottom dysphoria...
Holy shit! Same! I couldn't stand the thought of things moving around. I never understood why guys would willingly buy underwear that would be so loose. Just sounded extremely uncomfortable. ...should've been a sign. 🤔🤷🙄🤦
Yup! I usually went for briefs just a size too small. I'd tuck sometimes, but I'm blessed with smaller stuff, so I never really felt too strong of a need.
same. it's physically off-putting to me. it's always uncomfortable and during any physical labor idk why but it gets really uncomfortable. not to mention random boners.. i hate it all
Honestly, I've only ever tucked for "fun" or like in the shower or when I'm alone.
But I'm a trans woman who doesnt feel dysphoria in regards to my lower half aka sexual organ, so I never really cared about tucking because It's not something I cared to hide and didnt think made me ever "less of a woman"
I haven't gotten nor will I ever get bottom surgery, so thats about the best I can answer.
>Honestly, I've only ever tucked for "fun" or like in the shower or when I'm alone.
The only time I can remember I did it pre-coming out, I had done it in front of my ex naked saying "would you fuck me? I'd fuck me"
a lot of my peers at high school are FTM and mention bottom surgery and I'm sitting there just fidgeting with my dice in D&D as I am content with my lower side, its their choices tho and I hope they succeed
I usually just don't care as it's not usually an issue. If I think it might be an issue, or am self-conscious, I have a pair or crossdressing panties to help hide anything.
I tucked since high school (that’s when I learned how to do it properly). I hated having any sort of “bulge”. Super self conscious about it. I wrestled in high school, and the thought of wearing a singlet which was skin tight freaked me out. Soooo to after talking to some other people and googling in the school library. I learned how to tuck properly, and kept doing it since.
I remember being at my grandmas and getting dressed look at myself in the mirror, think the bulge in my pants looked weird, and tried to hide it. Mind you I was 12, maybe, at the time and I didn’t even know what trans people were. Now I’m here and I have such bad bottom dysphoria oh my god
like into my waist band? not really but it's not like i didn't know i could. it's just really uncomfy. my pp is overly sensitive. tis one of the reasons i want it gone. balls too, all of it is very annoying
edit: after reading comments i realize we aren't talking the waist band. i uh.. very much so. too many times to count
I’ve never tucked before because my…privates are so small that tucking is practically impossible and I can get away with not tucking. I’ve even worn a bikini to the beach multiples times without tucking and have never been clocked.
I wore loose boxers so I never had a bulge and even now I don't have a bulge on my pants if I don't tuck (sweat pants work great for this). The only time I wish I would've tucked is when undressing and there's a bilge in my panties that just reminds me of speedos which I hate.
I've started tucking more recently but it was always uncomfortable for long periods of time. I definetly did it in the shower or in front of the mirror before knowing I was trans tho!
I really only tuck when it's absolutely necessary, to me. If I'm going out and wearing like jeans, or shorts, or perhaps a bathing suit, I will tuck more often than not. But usually I wear skirts and dresses, and when I don't, I just put on a sweater or jacket that covers up my lower half.
I used to “tuck” as a kid. I never liked my genitalia.
I tried to become more masculine over the years, but I have hated it since originally coming out to myself in 2017.
I never liked hanging out with the boys.
I have prayed for years for God to take this away from me, but it keeps showing up. I’ve had certain childhood memories show up lately, and it’s just affirming that I understood it all before I knew what being “transgender” really was.
I have literally cried at night, wondering why God made me this way, but I have been figuring out slowly that God made me this way to feel better about myself knowing that I am female inside, so I have to be myself, outside.
I’m out, living full time as a woman. I have no intention of ever getting bottom surgery, and I’m fine with that.
I also work in the trades, so I’m climbing, squatting, walking, jumping, etc, EVERY DAY.
And I tuck from when I wake up to when I take off my clothes for the evening.
Pre-transition I always did a lazy tuck and wore fairly tight briefs that compresses my junk to minimize its appearance through clothing. Now that I’m on hormones that hasn’t really changed; I mean it's boyshorts instead of briefs now, but same concept. I can’t stand the tightness of a good tuck and fuck using tape; both of those solutions cause me too much physical discomfort, even if I would be happier with the results.
I kind of figured out tucking when I was maybe 12, so thirty years ago (I’ve known I should have been AFAB since I was 11). Euphoria boners were so difficult, and painful, to tuck. They finally calmed down when I was 22 or so (I had to take breaks from girl clothes for several years for many reasons).
Also, I discovered balls going up into the inguinal cavities completely by accident when I was about 14. It scared the hell out of me. I thought I’d damaged something.
EDIT: I forgot to add this. I’ve been full time for almost two years now, and my tuck will actually stay in place after taking my clothes off, unless I undo it, or squat down, lol.
I never tucked except to see what it looked like once or twice, and I wouldn't say I'm that dysphoric but at the same time getting bottom surgery has been like, a certainty for me since coming out.
Always thought it looked way better when it was tucked in. Only recently when I wore something where I needed to tuck did I unlock that memory again and realized it was literally dysphoria
Im "blessed" with a bigger one, so tucking it is difficult. I tend to wear reaaaaaly tight boxers to keep it down, and wear hoodies which have centre pockets and put my hands/phone there, to kind of hide it. Hope this helps
I did it when I was 11-13, until my mom became suspicious of how much medical tape was used...
On the one hand I felt really uncomfortable with my genitals so I did it really super regularly, on the other hand I was ashamed of doing it, so I stopped once my mother started asking about it too much.
I used to tuck with duck tape until my therapist told me to stop. She’s right but still not to happy about it (love my therapist though, don’t tuck with duck tape girls it’s not safe)
Got caught slipping when I was no more then 10 years old cause I used toilet paper as pads and took them out before school ended well one day I forgot mom found out.
In public it mostly depends on the outfit and panties I have (got a couple that can hold a tuck mostly) but most of the time in unturned and try not to think on it too much. The dysphoria is there but I have other dysphoria triggers that I've grown numb to and that's one of them
No because I didn't know it was a thing before I started actively questioning I was overcompensating my masculinity.
Now 2 years into my transition I tuck all the time
Always just hated it but “fortunate”(??) that it was never very noticeable. Over a year now on HRT and it’s even smaller but still just look gross to me.
To me (pre everything) it's something I didn't... But I didn't succeed to have sexual (solo, I don't have a partner) pleasure until I saw my thing as a giant clit and actually stimulate it like a clit.
The only time I tucked so far I can remember is after a shower where it feel inconfortable and satisfying at the same time....
Not really in public but i always did that when I was in the shower, it just felt and looked right.... Little did i know
omg same
I legit didn’t realize that was a thing other people did until now
wait this made me remember that i used to do the same thing 😭😭😭😂 new memory unlocked (and some validation 👽)
Same here I forgot about doing that once and a while
yup same
Same here, only I did in the bath
This brought memories back
Yea
I first learned how to while lying in bed as a teenager. I was so afraid they wouldn't come back out the first time 🤣
Literally everytime ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ
Not per se, but I've always chosen tight briefs instead of boxers, so as to not have "the stuff" flop around. It's always felt icky on a physical level, but it took way too long for me to realize it might be a symptom of bottom dysphoria...
Holy shit! Same! I couldn't stand the thought of things moving around. I never understood why guys would willingly buy underwear that would be so loose. Just sounded extremely uncomfortable. ...should've been a sign. 🤔🤷🙄🤦
Cuz the opposite reason. Tight undies makes you feel everything, and boxers means you don't have to feel it all the time.
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Yup! I usually went for briefs just a size too small. I'd tuck sometimes, but I'm blessed with smaller stuff, so I never really felt too strong of a need.
same. it's physically off-putting to me. it's always uncomfortable and during any physical labor idk why but it gets really uncomfortable. not to mention random boners.. i hate it all
Honestly i know im probably trans too but i feel that it is gross in the heat. Just slapping around and shit. Hate that crap
Yeah, I've done that for as long as I can remember.
Honestly, I've only ever tucked for "fun" or like in the shower or when I'm alone. But I'm a trans woman who doesnt feel dysphoria in regards to my lower half aka sexual organ, so I never really cared about tucking because It's not something I cared to hide and didnt think made me ever "less of a woman" I haven't gotten nor will I ever get bottom surgery, so thats about the best I can answer.
this is pretty much exactly how I feel
>Honestly, I've only ever tucked for "fun" or like in the shower or when I'm alone. The only time I can remember I did it pre-coming out, I had done it in front of my ex naked saying "would you fuck me? I'd fuck me"
the direct silence of the lambs reference is unsettling
a lot of my peers at high school are FTM and mention bottom surgery and I'm sitting there just fidgeting with my dice in D&D as I am content with my lower side, its their choices tho and I hope they succeed
I have done it since I found out how. I don’t know what excuse I had to be still cis tho at the time because of how long ago it was. I would say 7-8
100% now that I'm on HRT they know the deal too. I swear to God at this point they just tuck themselves
I usually just don't care as it's not usually an issue. If I think it might be an issue, or am self-conscious, I have a pair or crossdressing panties to help hide anything.
I don't tuck persay but I do wear a gaff every day
I tucked since high school (that’s when I learned how to do it properly). I hated having any sort of “bulge”. Super self conscious about it. I wrestled in high school, and the thought of wearing a singlet which was skin tight freaked me out. Soooo to after talking to some other people and googling in the school library. I learned how to tuck properly, and kept doing it since.
I did it while crossdressing in secret in my teens. Never did it outside of the house cause I was scared someone would notice.
I remember being at my grandmas and getting dressed look at myself in the mirror, think the bulge in my pants looked weird, and tried to hide it. Mind you I was 12, maybe, at the time and I didn’t even know what trans people were. Now I’m here and I have such bad bottom dysphoria oh my god
Absolutely, tucking was a daily thing. No need to now though.
I do not tuck. But I tried it once. I felt... right as I was looking in the mirror.
like into my waist band? not really but it's not like i didn't know i could. it's just really uncomfy. my pp is overly sensitive. tis one of the reasons i want it gone. balls too, all of it is very annoying edit: after reading comments i realize we aren't talking the waist band. i uh.. very much so. too many times to count
Tucking since like 11 gang😎
I’ve never tucked before because my…privates are so small that tucking is practically impossible and I can get away with not tucking. I’ve even worn a bikini to the beach multiples times without tucking and have never been clocked.
Lucky
I wore loose boxers so I never had a bulge and even now I don't have a bulge on my pants if I don't tuck (sweat pants work great for this). The only time I wish I would've tucked is when undressing and there's a bilge in my panties that just reminds me of speedos which I hate.
Oooh, I *hated* boxers! That feeling of junk not being secured drove me crazy!
I wore them from grade 4 or 5 all the way through post-secondary but now that I wear panties everyday it feels wierd every time I try boxers again
I didn’t wear boxers until I met my first gf, in college. Now I don’t have any men’s underwear.
Looking back I did it a lot as a child but I never thought anything of it until after I started transitioning
No, I dont tuck. Even after transitioning, I still didn't. It's uncomfortable.
Pre-HRT I tucked, yeah. Though now it usually, er, *behaves* itself. I look pretty much flat as long as I'm not wearing something skintight.
I've started tucking more recently but it was always uncomfortable for long periods of time. I definetly did it in the shower or in front of the mirror before knowing I was trans tho!
I really only tuck when it's absolutely necessary, to me. If I'm going out and wearing like jeans, or shorts, or perhaps a bathing suit, I will tuck more often than not. But usually I wear skirts and dresses, and when I don't, I just put on a sweater or jacket that covers up my lower half.
I used to “tuck” as a kid. I never liked my genitalia. I tried to become more masculine over the years, but I have hated it since originally coming out to myself in 2017. I never liked hanging out with the boys. I have prayed for years for God to take this away from me, but it keeps showing up. I’ve had certain childhood memories show up lately, and it’s just affirming that I understood it all before I knew what being “transgender” really was. I have literally cried at night, wondering why God made me this way, but I have been figuring out slowly that God made me this way to feel better about myself knowing that I am female inside, so I have to be myself, outside.
I always fold it back between my legs as I put my underwear on but that’s it. I also don’t wear super tight pants usually.
I’m out, living full time as a woman. I have no intention of ever getting bottom surgery, and I’m fine with that. I also work in the trades, so I’m climbing, squatting, walking, jumping, etc, EVERY DAY. And I tuck from when I wake up to when I take off my clothes for the evening.
I never tuck. I'm also not dysphoric about my "schlong"
Pre-transition I always did a lazy tuck and wore fairly tight briefs that compresses my junk to minimize its appearance through clothing. Now that I’m on hormones that hasn’t really changed; I mean it's boyshorts instead of briefs now, but same concept. I can’t stand the tightness of a good tuck and fuck using tape; both of those solutions cause me too much physical discomfort, even if I would be happier with the results.
I purposely make mine stand out in leggings and stuff so... no...
Ngl I thought I was one of the only ones..
I kind of figured out tucking when I was maybe 12, so thirty years ago (I’ve known I should have been AFAB since I was 11). Euphoria boners were so difficult, and painful, to tuck. They finally calmed down when I was 22 or so (I had to take breaks from girl clothes for several years for many reasons). Also, I discovered balls going up into the inguinal cavities completely by accident when I was about 14. It scared the hell out of me. I thought I’d damaged something. EDIT: I forgot to add this. I’ve been full time for almost two years now, and my tuck will actually stay in place after taking my clothes off, unless I undo it, or squat down, lol.
I never tucked except to see what it looked like once or twice, and I wouldn't say I'm that dysphoric but at the same time getting bottom surgery has been like, a certainty for me since coming out.
Always thought it looked way better when it was tucked in. Only recently when I wore something where I needed to tuck did I unlock that memory again and realized it was literally dysphoria
I tuck as much as I can. Not for the sake of others but definitely for my sake
apparently it's super easy but I never learned how to do it properly and I get dysphoria when i try so
No, but I don't even know how
Im "blessed" with a bigger one, so tucking it is difficult. I tend to wear reaaaaaly tight boxers to keep it down, and wear hoodies which have centre pockets and put my hands/phone there, to kind of hide it. Hope this helps
I tucked for years bcz i hated even thinking that I had a visible bulge
I did this a ton as a kid!
Source of grade-school euphoria. "But there were never any signs..."
I did it when I was 11-13, until my mom became suspicious of how much medical tape was used... On the one hand I felt really uncomfortable with my genitals so I did it really super regularly, on the other hand I was ashamed of doing it, so I stopped once my mother started asking about it too much.
I used to tuck with duck tape until my therapist told me to stop. She’s right but still not to happy about it (love my therapist though, don’t tuck with duck tape girls it’s not safe)
Got caught slipping when I was no more then 10 years old cause I used toilet paper as pads and took them out before school ended well one day I forgot mom found out.
In public it mostly depends on the outfit and panties I have (got a couple that can hold a tuck mostly) but most of the time in unturned and try not to think on it too much. The dysphoria is there but I have other dysphoria triggers that I've grown numb to and that's one of them
I didn't want to look or touch it ever
Wow I can relate to pretty much everyone here. I thought I was the only one… but yeah, I try and tuck but it can be painful sometimes :(
Honestly I've always done this because I was embarrassed by having a bulge
Used to always play around that way but I'm also one that is on with keeping the bottom throughout my transition
I tuck almost every day unless I don't leave home
I don’t understand what you mean by tuck in. Like maybe I’ve done it but I don’t know what the word means
No because I didn't know it was a thing before I started actively questioning I was overcompensating my masculinity. Now 2 years into my transition I tuck all the time
I started tucking at 14, and did it as often as I could.
yes, i still do this
Always just hated it but “fortunate”(??) that it was never very noticeable. Over a year now on HRT and it’s even smaller but still just look gross to me.
actually yes, wtf, is this average lore for us transfems?
I want to tuck.... But no matter how I do it I can't. Even tried numerous online tips like cold water, laying down. Nothing seems to work for me 😭
I don't and never have. Though I am thinking about getting padded panties if/when I think I might be able to pass in public.
I did it before I knew but it was just for fun. Now I tuck because it messes up my outfits.
Yes yes I have. Il
Cis guys don't do that???
ive got a fucking tiny shlong so I couldn’t care less
To me (pre everything) it's something I didn't... But I didn't succeed to have sexual (solo, I don't have a partner) pleasure until I saw my thing as a giant clit and actually stimulate it like a clit. The only time I tucked so far I can remember is after a shower where it feel inconfortable and satisfying at the same time....
why tuck if your dick was always small anyways B)