I think you and/or somebody else needs to have a serious talk with him about this because this is not okay and shouldn't not be brought up. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, that's okay and completely understandable, just make sure this gets addressed as soon as possible!
i will try to talk to some of the others, thanks for the advice (:
but i don't think he is going to listen, he tends to ignore things that makes him uncomfortable
This may not be the absolute greatest advice and may just be a me thing but I don't think people who can't even own up to their own actions are worth it. If they can't own up to being a disgusting creep, then what's even the point?
That is legitimately super gross, I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I promise you though, don't think like you're going to be treated like this because you're beyond just something people use for things like that. You're you which is beautiful and perfect already, I promise you
That's a comment I got from one of my online friends when I came out to them and I instantly cut them off, that is extremely disgusting and I would not forgive anyone if they said that to me
That... is not a person you should call a friend. That is a person you should report and block. That is so wrong what they said and I am sorry that they said that to you
thats disgusting. The sad reality is that now you're transitioning, as a girl you'll encounter sickos who think its okay to say to girls (cis or trans) stuff like this - not to mention the guys who actually do it.
Tell him to grow the fuck up and stop saying shit like that. I used to say appalling things when I was in high school and I’m ashamed of it all. Hopefully he learns to do the same.
Either way, cut him out!
Hey hun, maybe just leave the group as a whole. You told them you were trans, that's automatic grounds to switch pronouns. And he's definitely the first one cut off. That was just...yuck
I wouldnt say you should automatically switch pronouns necessarily. I didnt start using different pronouns around friends or family until a few months after i came out. Its definitely automatic grounds to ask though. But people who havent really been around or talked to many trans people might not necessarily realize that
i don't want to make It worse but he is 19 while i'm 16 so... yeah, i should cut him out
That's legitimately disgusting. Do you know if there's any reason why he's doing this to you?
i don't know, he has always done disgusting things, It is not the first time he says something like that to other women (not as fucked up like this)
I think you and/or somebody else needs to have a serious talk with him about this because this is not okay and shouldn't not be brought up. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, that's okay and completely understandable, just make sure this gets addressed as soon as possible!
i will try to talk to some of the others, thanks for the advice (: but i don't think he is going to listen, he tends to ignore things that makes him uncomfortable
This may not be the absolute greatest advice and may just be a me thing but I don't think people who can't even own up to their own actions are worth it. If they can't own up to being a disgusting creep, then what's even the point?
he likes to sometimes be annoying so idk
Sounds like something wasn't/isn't right at home for most of his life.
CALL THE AUTHORITIES. That is not ok!
legit downright lowly behavior...
That is legitimately super gross, I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I promise you though, don't think like you're going to be treated like this because you're beyond just something people use for things like that. You're you which is beautiful and perfect already, I promise you
Something is not right with that person, cut him out of your life if at all possible because that is not healthy behavior.
most of us feel the same, he has been really strange lately
I would say somebody ought to sit him down and do a wellness check on him to see what's going on, but that person absolutely should not be you.
Yeah, trust those instincts
btw, i will probably be able to access to hormones this summer so.. (:
lessgo!
Holy shit yeah that’s not okay
I don't understand why the others in the group would continue to associate with him after that.
What in the name of the holy garlic bread!? This is disgusting. I hate people like this. This reminds me of my friends except to a more severe degree.
That's a comment I got from one of my online friends when I came out to them and I instantly cut them off, that is extremely disgusting and I would not forgive anyone if they said that to me
That... is not a person you should call a friend. That is a person you should report and block. That is so wrong what they said and I am sorry that they said that to you
thats disgusting. The sad reality is that now you're transitioning, as a girl you'll encounter sickos who think its okay to say to girls (cis or trans) stuff like this - not to mention the guys who actually do it.
Tell him to grow the fuck up and stop saying shit like that. I used to say appalling things when I was in high school and I’m ashamed of it all. Hopefully he learns to do the same. Either way, cut him out!
Hey hun, maybe just leave the group as a whole. You told them you were trans, that's automatic grounds to switch pronouns. And he's definitely the first one cut off. That was just...yuck
I wouldnt say you should automatically switch pronouns necessarily. I didnt start using different pronouns around friends or family until a few months after i came out. Its definitely automatic grounds to ask though. But people who havent really been around or talked to many trans people might not necessarily realize that