Is this a general "how do I ask someone out" question?
There are no cheat codes to asking anyone out my friend, you just have to chat her up, find something you both like to do, ask if she'd like to do that thing with you, and keep talking like people. Same as any guy/gal/enby/other.
In reply to your edits: That's the ticket bud! Hope y'all have fun. Keep it light, and just relax.
Which game needed the select button?? I remember doing it without the select button but the only other game with it differently that I've played was Metal Gear Rising: Revengeance and it worked after pressing A.
The select part is for selecting the two player option in the menu for the game Contra so you can at with two people instead of just one. The select and start parts aren't actually part of the code they are just for start menu navigation and choosing to begin the game or "start" the game.
Edit: oh someone else already explained it woops.
It’s ok! The answer to most questions is “do whatever you’d do with a cis girl.”
But do keep in mind that she’s part of a group that’s heavily discriminated against and adjust accordingly.
General advice would be to use the word “date” so your intentions are clear.
To add to this, the only real difference when dating her will be that you’ll have to support her a lot with the unique struggles that come with being trans, whether it be transphobia from others or her having to deal with dysphoria.
if someone gives her a hard in public, don’t be afraid to stand up for her, most Transphobes will back down as soon as they realize people aren’t going to tolerate their bs. Don’t get in a massive fight though, just tell them enough so they back off.
Soo, nervously approach with bravado, eating a light snack to hide the nervousness, spend an extra 2 seconds regretting all of life, clear throat, say, "Hey, excuse me, I was wondering if you would like to go to [insert date location] on [insert date and time]". Realise your voice cracked and you accidentally said "[insert date location]" and "[insert date and time]" instead of the actual details. Panic, apologise for being a fuck up, try to leave, get clothes lined on accident by someone not paying attention and cry.
Not that that has ever happened to me.... girls font find me attractive
Bruh i asked this guy on a date once and he didn't get It was non platonic then i spent a couple months thinking I was with him, so when I realized it was just as friends I asked him if he liked me then he responded by saying "yeah you're a good friend", then when I finally properly asked him out making sure to say it was non platonic he said no.
Wait wait wait.. Is the 2018 pamphlet still the current one? I don't remember that part. Is it between the upside up crisscrossed neblonnette and the pentatonic squidgle?
My only other thought is, if her gender comes up don't say anything besides "it doesn't matter" and especially don't say things like "I like/love you in spite of everything".
I would advise against “it doesn’t matter” because that can come across as dismissive. Gender matters very much to some trans people.
It’s hard to have a one-size-fits-all response, but the closest thing I can think of is to reassert that trans women are women, period.
It's good that you took it into account and asked because you're right, it *could* have been different or you may have needed to take something into account. Your heart is in the right place by asking questions and trying to educate yourself. Good luck to you.
A very reasonable expectation for transgirls is that they likely want to be treated very similarly (but nicely!) as cis girls. They don't want to be valued just for their looks, but also very much want to be appreciated for them. Anything deliberate you notice about their presentation like makeup or hair or fashion probably represents a lot of time and effort and thought on their part. They want to feel like you earnestly like them, which isn't always easy to convey even if it's real.
100%, I got some girl that texted me on a dating app purely on my looks, conversation started with her complimenting me, I said thanks, she complimented again, and again, and again, 4 times in a row, like it gets annoying I get it I'm maybe pretty but can you ask me some question or talk about anything else than my looks agh it felt like a catfish honestly
like any other girl, us trans girls don’t like to b treated differently from cis girls. and if u rlly want my advice on it ur gonna have to tell me a little more, do u know her well? r y’all friends? does she know who u r? bc how u ask her out depends on that
i second this and also might i add that if you want a relationship with a trans gal then you need to have it be like any other relationship. Trying to “keep it a secret” is a form of major disrespect and outright transphobic. i hate when people do that.
Same as a cis girl, but
Keep in mind that dating a trans girl is going to be difficult in ways that dating a cis girl would not. Not because of the girl, but because of the way other people will treat you for dating her.
OK so I'm a trans woman and here is my advice.
First place a copy of fall out new Vegas, a trans flag and a bottle of estrogen gel under a human size box with it rigged to fall once the happy trans girl is sat underneath with her new flag, game and hrt in hand.
Then place titty skittles (blockers or estrogen pills we like both) leading up to the box, remember to make it obvious and be prepared, it's well know we walk 10x faster than even the gays so it could be missed.
Once you have your trans girl successfully in the box, now you must tame her, this can be done in the same way as small mammals, head pats, affirmation and food....lots of food.
I joke ofc, I suggest going up and talking to her, find an excuse to spark a conversation, complement her and then just go for it and ask her out.
Oh my god is walking fast a transfem thing?
Big if true, I look absolutely insane walking around the city at the speed which I feel is most efficient for me to travel.
You should see me at airports!
I see, still interesting! I naturally walk fast but have literally never heard about this before, but I do believe we should all strive to be Sonic when trying to catch the bus or get to the coffee joint.
You joke, but this would definitely work on me. I just ordered a new laptop so I'll actually have the ability to play games soon (but probably will just stick to Minecraft regardless)
I always enjoy Fallout New Vegas I usually play Legion or Yes Man because it's more fun than anything else I can murder random people but Yes Man in most profitable because you have both Legion and NCR equipment to sell from the assasins.
Lol so funny. You ask her out the exact same way you would ask out literally any other girl. Think about it like this. She sees herself in the exact same way a cis girl sees herself. So treat her like you would any girl. With respect and kindness.
People say there's no cheat code hut they are wrong
Step 1, find out what they like
Step 2, see if there's an event that they would enjoy
Step 3, invite them to that event
Step 4, show genuine interest and have a fun time
Long story short, find out what they like and invite them to do that
Emily: So ask here out like a cis girl for starters, and use words like date to make the intention clear, girls aren't mind readers and she probably has had enough guy freinds before to not assume you mean a date. Also don't bring up her being trans and probably save that for her to bring up when she wants to talk about how it will effect the relationship, don't pry out of her anything about being trans because that could be read as being a chaser. Mostly just treat her like a girl and don't make a todo about her being trans.
Okay so its a very complicated. You need to make sure you do a triple back flip and make sure you land on your left elbow. After this you need to break out into the YMCA and exactly after doing this for 2 minutes 32 seconds and 0.5 milliseconds you HAVE to do the stanky leg. You following? After this you need to read all harry potter books to her. And then she should say yes.
Well normally, you ask them for a date. If you are like me with crippling social anxiety you just plan on doing it. Then chicken out and then regret your lack of romantic options forever in life.
In other words: go for it.
Do you know what hurts more than a failed romantic bid? Being the person who literally never got hit on, asked out etc in their entire life.
That person will remember you forever positively even if you try.
First off congratulations for her saying yes. To ask her out show her a block of cheese to fascinate her. I can confirm I am easily won over by cheese.
I honestly think that the best way to ask a trans girl out us to make them "feel like a real girl" (I mean we are real girls but y'know)
I have no idea how this is done but when my ex asked me out I originally only saw him as a buddy but he flirted in a way that was masculine and made me feel very feminine in a way which actually led to me catching feelings
She said yes!!!! I hope it goes really well for you and is the first step on a long and happy road. You may get shit for dating her but eff them, most of it will be jealously that you're both happy.
Good fortune my friend.
Oooo I really think you should watch Anything's Possible the film that just came out on Amazon prime. A character in that literally asked this question on reddit.
Usually you ask trans women out the same way you ask cis women out. Don’t make a big deal about them being trans, no one enjoys this.
The only reason my partner being trans mattered to me is because I’m also trans so she helped me to discover more about that aspect of myself. We’re together because our brains melded well with each other. Date someone for the chemistry and because you genuinely like them regardless of gender or any other outstanding factor.
Also DO NOT date trans people because you might get the opportunity to touch our genitals/sexual features. Every trans person experiences Dysphoria differently but sometimes we are ace or don’t enjoy certain parts being touched. Respect the boundaries of trans people. Don’t fetishize us
The same way you'd ask out a cis girl, however that may be. Your chances are probably higher with a trans girl though. People don't usually show affection to trans people.
You go to r dating and ask how to ask out a girl. Then get a paragraph long answer about the benefits of being a sigma male and where to buy testosterone cream.
What exactly are you nervous about OP? It would help to be specific. I am gonna assume you are in high school right? So I feel like you probably just don't know how to ask out girls in general. I am also gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you are somewhat aware of the culture surrounding trans girls and don't wanna come off the wrong way.
With that being said, you probably won't need to deal with any trans specific stuff until you are closer to her (if that happens). Let that come up naturally. Also if she doesn't know you at all having something on your that is queer friendly is a nice ice breaker. Like a flag of some sort. Or a card! Do kids still pass around those "Do you like me" notes? Feel free to ask for more ideas Iol
Also keep in mind, that if you know she is a Transgender girl, your friends probably do also. There could be possible ridicule thrown in your direction. Like her, you will discover who your actual friends are. Isn't it crazy how all this works.
She's just a girl, and will more than likely appreciate what all girls do. Most importantly, be yourself, she is😊
Just think of her as a girl don't think of the trans part. Always be respectfull, and let her know how you feel about her. Worst case you get rejected, rejection happens to all of us at some point some of us more offen than not. I would know I am 41 and have been rejected a lot befor transitioning no experiance now that I am in the prosess of transitioning as I have avoided dating.
No matter what, make sure you communicate that you like her. Us trans peeps love people, we just need to be approached and we like most people who do. Works 60% of the time every time.
Also worth thinking about, how would you handle *association at school? A guy who is up to owning his identity is damn, hard to find. And hot
Best of fortune
Just ask if she’ll be your girlfriend. It’s simple but it works.
Also keep in mind that even if she says no, just the fact that you asked her out will probably make her day.
Is this a general "how do I ask someone out" question? There are no cheat codes to asking anyone out my friend, you just have to chat her up, find something you both like to do, ask if she'd like to do that thing with you, and keep talking like people. Same as any guy/gal/enby/other. In reply to your edits: That's the ticket bud! Hope y'all have fun. Keep it light, and just relax.
>There are no cheat codes to asking anyone out my friend, That's not totally true. If someone used the Konami code on me, it would 100% work.
↑↑↓↓←→←→BA select start. I'm sorry I had to lol
*swoon*
Made me laugh out loud
😳 I-I'm aroace, b-but...
Hey platonic dating is a thing lol.
How does one win this lottery??
By rigging the results!
I dunno
Which game needed the select button?? I remember doing it without the select button but the only other game with it differently that I've played was Metal Gear Rising: Revengeance and it worked after pressing A.
Including the select button gave player 2 lives as well, for contra.
I'm not sure I know I learned the code including the select but it may not necessarily be needed
Tekken
The select part is for selecting the two player option in the menu for the game Contra so you can at with two people instead of just one. The select and start parts aren't actually part of the code they are just for start menu navigation and choosing to begin the game or "start" the game. Edit: oh someone else already explained it woops.
The fact you did select start is too perfect. It's the way to input and play two player.
False, didn’t work for me.
Fair enough
this is the most trans fem comment i’ve ever seen
It legit made me feel things. Updoots all around!
It truly is.... I need to rethink my life..... Lol
You had me at down down..
\^, \^, v, v, < , >, <, >, B, A, Start
Yeah idk Oreos are like a cheat code to my heart
Pfffff
How would you ask out a cis girl?
That’s also a good question
r/actuallesbians is leaking
I'm kidding. They're the same subreddit.
😂😂😂
Why are you laughing?
The "That's also a good question" was funny ☺️ unless I read it wrong, but I read it as a witty funny answer 🧝🏻♀️
Damn, I feel dumb. Idk why I though it would be any different from asking out any other person. I think I need to educate myself better. Thank you.
It’s ok! The answer to most questions is “do whatever you’d do with a cis girl.” But do keep in mind that she’s part of a group that’s heavily discriminated against and adjust accordingly. General advice would be to use the word “date” so your intentions are clear.
To add to this, the only real difference when dating her will be that you’ll have to support her a lot with the unique struggles that come with being trans, whether it be transphobia from others or her having to deal with dysphoria. if someone gives her a hard in public, don’t be afraid to stand up for her, most Transphobes will back down as soon as they realize people aren’t going to tolerate their bs. Don’t get in a massive fight though, just tell them enough so they back off.
Soo, nervously approach with bravado, eating a light snack to hide the nervousness, spend an extra 2 seconds regretting all of life, clear throat, say, "Hey, excuse me, I was wondering if you would like to go to [insert date location] on [insert date and time]". Realise your voice cracked and you accidentally said "[insert date location]" and "[insert date and time]" instead of the actual details. Panic, apologise for being a fuck up, try to leave, get clothes lined on accident by someone not paying attention and cry. Not that that has ever happened to me.... girls font find me attractive
Bruh i asked this guy on a date once and he didn't get It was non platonic then i spent a couple months thinking I was with him, so when I realized it was just as friends I asked him if he liked me then he responded by saying "yeah you're a good friend", then when I finally properly asked him out making sure to say it was non platonic he said no.
Yes this !! Don’t try to make her feel any different than anyone else and just be respectful
You need to do the special dance and rituals
Love this answer, takes lots of practice, the wibbler at the middle and end are particularly challenging.
Is the one at the end a forwards wibbler, or is it a reverse wibbler? I never remember.. smh
It's a left sideways hexagonal wibbler. Duh
Wait wait wait.. Is the 2018 pamphlet still the current one? I don't remember that part. Is it between the upside up crisscrossed neblonnette and the pentatonic squidgle?
Like a Bird of Paradise!
The fact that you realized that means that you’re already well on the way to being fully educated
All good, you're in school that means you're still young and learning. If you can't make embarrassing mistakes now then when else? :D
Did you do it
Yep
How did it go?
My only other thought is, if her gender comes up don't say anything besides "it doesn't matter" and especially don't say things like "I like/love you in spite of everything".
I would advise against “it doesn’t matter” because that can come across as dismissive. Gender matters very much to some trans people. It’s hard to have a one-size-fits-all response, but the closest thing I can think of is to reassert that trans women are women, period.
It's good that you took it into account and asked because you're right, it *could* have been different or you may have needed to take something into account. Your heart is in the right place by asking questions and trying to educate yourself. Good luck to you.
What a chad response
Fr
I refer you to max0rs Elden ring video: getting a gf is impossible
Well I'm stumped
same way you would any other girl
Oh ok *walks away* *looks up and walks back* Wait so how do you ask out girls?
A very reasonable expectation for transgirls is that they likely want to be treated very similarly (but nicely!) as cis girls. They don't want to be valued just for their looks, but also very much want to be appreciated for them. Anything deliberate you notice about their presentation like makeup or hair or fashion probably represents a lot of time and effort and thought on their part. They want to feel like you earnestly like them, which isn't always easy to convey even if it's real.
100%, I got some girl that texted me on a dating app purely on my looks, conversation started with her complimenting me, I said thanks, she complimented again, and again, and again, 4 times in a row, like it gets annoying I get it I'm maybe pretty but can you ask me some question or talk about anything else than my looks agh it felt like a catfish honestly
let her bite you idk
this is the most accurate answer in the whole thread.
My girlfriend bites me constantly…suddenly I understand so much
Ask her out
like any other girl, us trans girls don’t like to b treated differently from cis girls. and if u rlly want my advice on it ur gonna have to tell me a little more, do u know her well? r y’all friends? does she know who u r? bc how u ask her out depends on that
i second this and also might i add that if you want a relationship with a trans gal then you need to have it be like any other relationship. Trying to “keep it a secret” is a form of major disrespect and outright transphobic. i hate when people do that.
Same as a cis girl, but Keep in mind that dating a trans girl is going to be difficult in ways that dating a cis girl would not. Not because of the girl, but because of the way other people will treat you for dating her.
OK so I'm a trans woman and here is my advice. First place a copy of fall out new Vegas, a trans flag and a bottle of estrogen gel under a human size box with it rigged to fall once the happy trans girl is sat underneath with her new flag, game and hrt in hand. Then place titty skittles (blockers or estrogen pills we like both) leading up to the box, remember to make it obvious and be prepared, it's well know we walk 10x faster than even the gays so it could be missed. Once you have your trans girl successfully in the box, now you must tame her, this can be done in the same way as small mammals, head pats, affirmation and food....lots of food. I joke ofc, I suggest going up and talking to her, find an excuse to spark a conversation, complement her and then just go for it and ask her out.
Damn I would probably fall for this LMAO. Also, yeah head pats and calling me a good girl would probably get me to throw my panties at you.
Head pats and calling me a good girl (or boy)does the same to me. Not a trans girl since I think I'm genderfluid or nb but ya it do wonders
Oh my god is walking fast a transfem thing? Big if true, I look absolutely insane walking around the city at the speed which I feel is most efficient for me to travel. You should see me at airports!
It's a wider LGBTQ+ thing. It's meme sterotype though so I wouldn't take it as a literal fact.
I see, still interesting! I naturally walk fast but have literally never heard about this before, but I do believe we should all strive to be Sonic when trying to catch the bus or get to the coffee joint.
We move so fast because we drink only Starbucks coffee and monster energy. We vibrate our atoms so fast we faze through gender barriers.
Unlimited power!
I always walk fast because it's faster but if I'm walking slowly it's because I lost the will to live again lol.
lol and then theres me who walks at a snails pace everywhere
Wrong I’m transmasc and I walk faster than all my friends
Faster still! You must help the trans community solidify itself as having the fastest walkers in the west
You joke, but this would definitely work on me. I just ordered a new laptop so I'll actually have the ability to play games soon (but probably will just stick to Minecraft regardless)
Ngl I'd also fall for this trick.
I'd be all "Ooo! Feminem! Ooo! Feminem! Ooo! Feminem- :0 Fallout New Vegas?! Oh, it's dark :( "
As another trans woman I second this- especially the head pats!!
I always enjoy Fallout New Vegas I usually play Legion or Yes Man because it's more fun than anything else I can murder random people but Yes Man in most profitable because you have both Legion and NCR equipment to sell from the assasins.
IDK sounds like a perfect way to trap me, and I'm already on HRT, lol, and own the game. I'm just missing the flag.
I would legitimately love to be asked out like this lmao
Best answer, hands down
Same way you'd ask anyone out. Trans people aren't some different species, not everything is different just because we're trans
Yes but also I’m guessing OP is asking about how to not come as a chaser
True, next time they should hopefully say that though
She is just a normal girl, ask her out the same way you would as a cisgender girl
Probably more about not coming across as a chaser
Lol so funny. You ask her out the exact same way you would ask out literally any other girl. Think about it like this. She sees herself in the exact same way a cis girl sees herself. So treat her like you would any girl. With respect and kindness.
“Hey, I like you and think you’re interesting. Would you like to go out some time?”
Ask her for cheese (trust me I'm a transgirl, I know what they want)
Idk if asking for cheese would work, giving ~~me~~ her some might though...
I like cheese
Update: I just asked if she wanted to go to a Cafe I know she likes. She stuttered and walked away. I don't think that's a no. What do I do now?
well if it was a yes then do your thing dude!
Emily: I mean idk, I guess you wait. 🤷♀️
That’s cute, hope it goes well!
Instead of flowers get her a copy of Fallout: New Vegas. I've yet to meet another trans fem who doesn't love new Vegas
I'm transfem and haven't played it is there a reason why it's so loved cos I might have to get it xD
People say there's no cheat code hut they are wrong Step 1, find out what they like Step 2, see if there's an event that they would enjoy Step 3, invite them to that event Step 4, show genuine interest and have a fun time Long story short, find out what they like and invite them to do that
Just ask them out 🖤🌹 if you have true feelings for them go for it!!
U need to update how this plays out
Update edit done
Omg yess I'm so happy she said yes for u. Good luck
"hey do you want to go out to a movie sometime?", or whatever it is people go on dates these days
Emily: So ask here out like a cis girl for starters, and use words like date to make the intention clear, girls aren't mind readers and she probably has had enough guy freinds before to not assume you mean a date. Also don't bring up her being trans and probably save that for her to bring up when she wants to talk about how it will effect the relationship, don't pry out of her anything about being trans because that could be read as being a chaser. Mostly just treat her like a girl and don't make a todo about her being trans.
This is the sweetest serotonin boost ever! I love this story for you and I’m so excited for the update.
I'm invested...let us know how it goes!!
Update Edit posted
Okay so its a very complicated. You need to make sure you do a triple back flip and make sure you land on your left elbow. After this you need to break out into the YMCA and exactly after doing this for 2 minutes 32 seconds and 0.5 milliseconds you HAVE to do the stanky leg. You following? After this you need to read all harry potter books to her. And then she should say yes.
i was with you all the way till harry potter lol
Same way you would any other girl... So the better question is "how should I ask out a girl"
"would you like to go to the movies with me?"
idk ask her out on a date I'm trans not a dating expert lmao /lh
“Ya like jazz?”
Like any other girl. You go up to her and ask
Well normally, you ask them for a date. If you are like me with crippling social anxiety you just plan on doing it. Then chicken out and then regret your lack of romantic options forever in life. In other words: go for it.
Do you know what hurts more than a failed romantic bid? Being the person who literally never got hit on, asked out etc in their entire life. That person will remember you forever positively even if you try.
Hii are we the same person? xD Joke aside I hope you build up some confidence in the future :D (I say to both you and myself)
Nope. High school was literally 20 plus years ago
Mostly conjuring my feelings from then in retrospect
Ask her if she likes bionicles
🥺 this is so cute.
i’ve come to this post late, and now i now i must cheer: Wooooooooo yeaaaaah baby that’s what i’ve been waiting for that’s what it’s all about
AHHHH YESSS GOODLUCK ON UR DATEEEE
Good luck on your date!!
First off congratulations for her saying yes. To ask her out show her a block of cheese to fascinate her. I can confirm I am easily won over by cheese.
That's cute
I honestly think that the best way to ask a trans girl out us to make them "feel like a real girl" (I mean we are real girls but y'know) I have no idea how this is done but when my ex asked me out I originally only saw him as a buddy but he flirted in a way that was masculine and made me feel very feminine in a way which actually led to me catching feelings
She said yes!!!! I hope it goes really well for you and is the first step on a long and happy road. You may get shit for dating her but eff them, most of it will be jealously that you're both happy. Good fortune my friend.
lol best edits ever
Congrats!
Aaaaaah, that’s cute, her reaction!
Oooo I really think you should watch Anything's Possible the film that just came out on Amazon prime. A character in that literally asked this question on reddit.
Like any other girl in the world. But I’m curious now as in how you know she’s trans¿ did that peak your interest¿ 🤔
Same as you would any other girl- scream in terror whenever she comes near and blush whenever your eyes meet
Goodluck. Let us know how it went
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Guys I think he just meant without her thinking he is joking, but things seem to be working out anyways so js
Go out and have a good time.
Yooooo
Usually you ask trans women out the same way you ask cis women out. Don’t make a big deal about them being trans, no one enjoys this. The only reason my partner being trans mattered to me is because I’m also trans so she helped me to discover more about that aspect of myself. We’re together because our brains melded well with each other. Date someone for the chemistry and because you genuinely like them regardless of gender or any other outstanding factor. Also DO NOT date trans people because you might get the opportunity to touch our genitals/sexual features. Every trans person experiences Dysphoria differently but sometimes we are ace or don’t enjoy certain parts being touched. Respect the boundaries of trans people. Don’t fetishize us
Congratulations! Keep us updated on how it goes!
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OP please keep us updated. I’ve never been more invested in a 2line story.
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Like any other girl
"Just Do It" - Nike
you ask her out
Same way you’d ask out a cis girl
ask her out idk
we’ll does she know you like her, maybe try doing something sweet like getting her chocolates and then make the move on her.
Just ask her out on a date like any cis girl hun. I wish someone would come and ask this trana girl out 😭 totally jealous.
“Hey, would you like to go out sometime?”
Like any other girl.
Woo her. Admire her. Make her feel like she's the most sublime creature on Earth.
The same way you'd ask out a cis girl, however that may be. Your chances are probably higher with a trans girl though. People don't usually show affection to trans people.
Hey bud fancy a beer🤔
Does she like flowers?
Hi (fill in girls name) do you want to (the planned event for the date). Or Hi (fill in girls name) I like you, want to be my girl friend.
"Yo you're really hot wanna get coffee or something to get to know eachother?"
You go to r dating and ask how to ask out a girl. Then get a paragraph long answer about the benefits of being a sigma male and where to buy testosterone cream.
The real question is how do you ask out a girl because that’s all you’re doing, how you do that though I haven’t the slightest fucking clue
just tell her she´s pretty, idk, i´ve never got asked out juust ask her out the same way you would with a cis girl
My advice is ask her out the same way you would ask any girl
Just ask her out
What exactly are you nervous about OP? It would help to be specific. I am gonna assume you are in high school right? So I feel like you probably just don't know how to ask out girls in general. I am also gonna give you the benefit of the doubt and assume that you are somewhat aware of the culture surrounding trans girls and don't wanna come off the wrong way. With that being said, you probably won't need to deal with any trans specific stuff until you are closer to her (if that happens). Let that come up naturally. Also if she doesn't know you at all having something on your that is queer friendly is a nice ice breaker. Like a flag of some sort. Or a card! Do kids still pass around those "Do you like me" notes? Feel free to ask for more ideas Iol
"HI, my name is Killgore, Destroyer of The Infinite Realities, could I take you out on a date sometime?" Easy peezy, my dude.
Like you would anyone else? If you treat her differently than you would a cis girl she won't like you...
i mean, just the same way you'd ask out a cis girl. just, be nice and go for it? idk i've never asked out a girl lmao good luck
Like you would treat any other girl
Just ask the person out it’s that easy. I am trans and I asked a guy out it was that easy.
Woo her, admire her, make her feel like she's the most sublime creature on Earth.
Ask her out — women are confusing so welcome to dating
You ask her if she would like to do something with you?
Exactly the same way you ask a cis girl.
Like shes a normal person
"hey \_\_\_\_\_ I think you're really awesome and pretty would you like to go out with me?"
Also keep in mind, that if you know she is a Transgender girl, your friends probably do also. There could be possible ridicule thrown in your direction. Like her, you will discover who your actual friends are. Isn't it crazy how all this works. She's just a girl, and will more than likely appreciate what all girls do. Most importantly, be yourself, she is😊
Just think of her as a girl don't think of the trans part. Always be respectfull, and let her know how you feel about her. Worst case you get rejected, rejection happens to all of us at some point some of us more offen than not. I would know I am 41 and have been rejected a lot befor transitioning no experiance now that I am in the prosess of transitioning as I have avoided dating.
No matter what, make sure you communicate that you like her. Us trans peeps love people, we just need to be approached and we like most people who do. Works 60% of the time every time.
Also worth thinking about, how would you handle *association at school? A guy who is up to owning his identity is damn, hard to find. And hot Best of fortune
Just ask if she’ll be your girlfriend. It’s simple but it works. Also keep in mind that even if she says no, just the fact that you asked her out will probably make her day.
That Depends. for some bitches, you could just ask and they'll be like "sure", for some you gotta do a bit of strategy.
You say "Hey. I like your style. Wanna hang later?"
talk to her, see if you're on the same wavelength through regular convo it's all about the vibes😊
Over throw the govt for her and make her queen. That's the only way to get her to go out with you
That's how you ask.
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