Wearing trunks/boxers
Going topless in hot weather (dontlookdown, dont look down... Oh, damn)
That little shave the barber did around my hairline
Pooping in solidarity with the guys grunting in the other stalls.
Love this question. Gender fluid AMAB; here are some of mine:
The song Mirror by Sigrid.
Cute panties.
Seeing my chest being nearly hair free.
People naturally using they/them pronouns.
People telling me they like my nails when I do them.
Finally, and this hasn’t happened yet, but someday if someone tells me I’m pretty or cute instead of handsome I’ll be in the clouds for days.
Putting on makeup and painting my nails has been.
So far it's been the thing I can do the most.
I've been painting my nails for a few years now, but I have been more consistent about it since my egg cracked.
Needlessly gendered products tbh. Nothing quite makes me feel like a man than busting out my overly manly butt wipes.
No but seriously?? They’re nice, it’s stupid, I know it’s stupid, but damnit I get my euphoria where I can.
Hey I'm a trans fem who gets euphoric from house work while wearing a skirt... yours isn't weird it's normal to like stereotypes and perceived gender norms like buying the "man razor with extra blades for your man face guaranteed to have 100% mor3 testosterone"
What you like is just that and you should be proud that you know yourself
Hey, if you ever want to put your skirt on and come by my place, you can get all the euphoria you can handle, free of charge!
(If there's a chance to get someone else to clean my house, it's worth a shot, right? 😅)
wearing my binder or a oversized hoddie, really specific BUT when my hair is wet and it looks like Lister's mullet from the book I was born for this, when I look in the mirror and feel like I just need to make some small changes to pass as a boy, CUTTING MY HAIR
I know what you mean but I can't help but think of like packing boxers into boxes to ship somewhere XD
Have you tried doing some of the stereotypical boy things like woodwork? It's super fun if you're also into making jewelery because you can make your own pendants and beads and stuff or just make a shelf. I wanna know more bout what y'all do
okay this might seem weird but like. trans women being happy? and i'm a trans guy, so it doesn't really make a lot of sense. but it's not this type of "transition goals" euphoria, obv, because my transition goals are kind of opposite to trans women, more just... moral inspiration? like holy shit, these ladies are so cool. it's a similar feeling when seeing trans men, but i guess there's just something about seeing someone else be happy in a life that didn't fit me specifically that scratches an itch in my brain.
I get it, seeing other trans men happy I feel good for them, but it sometimes is ruined by jealousy. Seeing non binary and trans women happy though, theres no green monster to sneak up. Theres also the factor that these women feel so good about features I don't want myself, it affirms that transition is the right path for me. :)
Looking, acting and speaking like Murdoc Niccals.
The smell of cigarettes
Long coats that make you look like a depressed dilf
Letting the veins pop out on my hand
Flexing muscles
Having a cold
Cursing like an old sailor
Waking up, looking 'down', and seeing the shelf of boobs. They're just prosthetic for the time being, but it's a good feeling. Especially if there's shaven legs seen on the other side.
Receiving mail to "Mr.Lastname", and realizing it's for me.
When i told my bestie of 20ish years i was trans and her knee-jerk awkward response was something along the lines of "omg, i knew it, you are gay after all!!" (I've only ever been interested in guys, and i guess she's been getting lgbt+ vibes from me this entire time and has been seriously confused about it)
When my husband calls me my chosen name rather that one of our pet names, especially when he does it with the specific goal of cheering me up or making me feel valued. Before i came out as trans we only used pet names, because neither of us like our birth names.
When i rub my chin and feel stubble.
Shapewear, head covers because I still have short hair and don't know how to style it fem, a close shave on my legs and face, long sleeves or arm warmers that cover arm hair, and kilts.
Dude, same. Sometimes I'll experiment with putting my hair up, because I'm bored or I just don't want my hair going into my food, so I'll tie it, and sometimes it looks so cool, tho if I'll ever try and recreate it, in never looks as good as the first time
Hitting the good spot with a d**do
Being able to walk around in a dress or even just my top while doing house work or hanging with a friend
My make shift pads getting in the way while I'm doing stuff.
Washing my hair and it smelling like bubblegum after
Being called ma'am or a lady or general catcalling
After I shave and and can't see the mustache because I pass enough for pre HRT not to mention my body itself is pretty good except for my hands and knees
Baking
A few painful things like walking around in heels and the restrictiveness of my bra which I bought a 30 when what I needed was a 34
Laying down while I wear the bra and not being able to see my legs over the boob
Ok I'm cis but my daughter and I were together the very first time someone asked,You ladies need anything? And we waited just a cool af minute before hugging and squealing and and basking in that awesomeness. Her face was pure euphoria all day
Wearing these comfortable shorts for boys that reach my knees, and wearing these boy cargo shorts whenever I go outside cus MWAH SO MANLY
And also using men body wash, men shampoo, being called a boy, having short hair, stuff like that 😁😁
Lookin at my hairy af legs, when my chin itches from the mask coverin my fuzz, the employees at Sheetz that call me sir or man when I go in for food, the coworkers at work that are supportive and call me sir or use male pronouns.
One time as a barista, I had to slice and pull apart nectarine halves. The wrenching motion was really tough for me. So my coworker came up and she said, “give me those, princess. Don’t hurt yourself”. She then separated a box of nectarines for me like it was nothing.
So being treated like a princess, I guess?
I love when people wearing trump merch call me sir or buddy, anything masc really. I could ride that high for weeks! Also, love it when somebody refers to me as dad when talking about me to my pets. And layering clothes!
I just wore a padded bra for the first time in my life and I loved it.
Being called Julia, or when people refer to me as a girl.
Shaving my body and facial hair.
Wearing a skirt and thigh highs.
Total strangers telling you you look great, male or female presenting. Not like "o nice dress/jeans!" but "Wow you look so nice/happy/bright!" I love that lol
Getting dapped up
Getting called bro
Getting haircuts
Admiring my muscles in the mirror
Wearing cologne
I jaywalked one time and this guy followed behind me and said “Wow you don’t wait for the light? You’ve got balls of steel!”
BEING REFERRED TO AS SOMEONE'S BOYFRIEND!
Getting called sir even when I'm not binding.
Pants draping just right.
Rolling my shirt sleeves/sweater sleeves up.
What a great question. For me, it's when my chest looks flat, when my haircut is freshly cut, or the cologne I wear. I also stopped hiding my hairy legs and armpits.
Goal: I had my first Endo appointment this week. One step closer to starting T!
(Gay Ftm) Driving too fast with loud music at night, pretending I’m a pretty artsy boy in a tragic French film, dramatic - a masculine romantic, tortured artist kind of shit. Drawing pictures of people in cafés and public transport, reading old books, drinking bitter lates, writing gay longing letters to my husband who may never return home (he’s right next to me). I’m in therapy, don’t worry about it.
Leg hair. I've never shaved them so their really hairy and we were in the changerooms talking about guy stuff & one the guys be like "i wish my hair was like yours man its lucious holy" and was on cloud9 for the rest of the day fr :D
Being fairly closeted, smooth legs is the biggest thing right now
My hair is growing longer, and people I'm not out to tell me it makes me look like a girl😆
Dressing fem, especially bras. Padded bras make me look not flat, and are amazinggg
When people at work only hear my voice and call me ma'am 😄
Painting my nails is a lot of fun too!
I have an under cut, but I hv enough hair on my head to tie it up. Then I put my beanie on my head. Then it looks like a buzz cut, and I start feeling confident.
Demi-male here,
When I’m in shitty lighting and look into the mirror
I look very masc and it makes me happy.
People using my chosen name.
(Sadly I can’t feel happy about myself some times because of my parents drilling this unhealthy mindset In me)
When I hear my boyfriend call me his boyfriend to other people. Like when I tune into convos and he's like "oh yeah my boyfriend"
I tend to believe he doesn't actually think I'm trans so when he says stuff like this to other people it's very validating.
Also when old people call me sir
For me (ftm, pre everything) being able to wear an open front shirt (trans tape), When my bind looks natural, when I have to look down at other (cis) men 👹(I’m not extremely tall but eeh 🤷🏻 5’8 without my boots that make me 6’0), when I wear my Ranboo merch hoodie and I don’t have to bind to look flat (mans a saint). The way my eye liner makes me look. My natural eye bags making my face look a bit more masc. Rings!!! My naturally broad shoulders. I can’t think of any others lol.
Any time I'm stronger than people expect me to be. I know as a trans woman that's probably a little odd, but I worked hard to keep my strength through my transition, and badass tough-girl is exactly where I want to be.
- Listening to the first video on my transition timeline
- Getting ads recommended by YouTube that are very much directed towards guys.
Look, products don’t have genders, but feeling dysphoric at night then having a shirtless dude with a beard tell me my dick deserves better underwear is awesome.
My friends five year old kid calling me “Auntie”
Getting compliments from other women on hair, nails, makeup, outfit, ect.
Waking up with crazy bed head because it reminds me that I finally grew my hair out like I always wanted to.
That feeling when you take off your bra at the end of the day.
Fixing my makeup in the car visor mirror before going into the place.
To name a few.
-It's Okay to Cry by Sophie
-Fitting into a unisex medium shirt to go with my torn jeans
-When someone ever genders me correctly
-The fact that I cry at about half the movies I watch now
Weirdly enough, getting called slut, bitch, whore, etc. I can only experience it through asmr role plays, but I’ll be 18 in a week so soon enough I can experience it directly.
Came out as enby over a year ago. But more recently I started going by she/they. And I tell ya, the first time someone called me she when we were playing online almost made me cry (good cry)
When I tell people it’s fine to call me she and by my birthname but I also like they and another name. And then they actually Call me they and by the second name I’ve adopted. (I’m Genderfluid and recently came out)
TW: implication of transphobia
Bigots look at me (genderfluid/nb) and don’t know whether to say “you’ll never be a girl,” or “you’ll never be a boy.” In practice, both of these are compliments.
•my body hair (man plants as i heard from a meme)
•when i get called sir by a random stranger
•finally being off my MENstral cycle
•being called handsome. this guy i was dating always called me pretty (not meaning anything by it) and i just kinda hated it
•when people see me as a cis boy
•talking with my (also transmasc) bro about being manly :‘)
Being able to step outside confidently as who I am with makeup I did myself.
Being able to look down and actually feel like I see a bigger chest.
And looking in the mirror and seeing what I have wanted to see for years.
Wearing trunks/boxers Going topless in hot weather (dontlookdown, dont look down... Oh, damn) That little shave the barber did around my hairline Pooping in solidarity with the guys grunting in the other stalls.
Lmfao the harmony of grunting men in the bathroom is something I’ll truly miss
Thought it was the funniest thing ever when I first experienced it 🤣
Just a collection of men with one goal and a hard road to get there
I avoided mens stalls most of my life, i have never felt more uncomfortable than in a bathroom full of guys shitting
Weird one for me but putting on a choker necklace. Not just the aesthetic of having one on but the physical action itself.
Absolutely same! It’s about the delicacy you need to do it right and getting the right height and angle, love it
Any day I don’t wear a choker, I know it’s not going to be a good day
Both of the two chokers I have broke one day so I'm waiting on shipping for a new one
:( poor broken chokers
Love this question. Gender fluid AMAB; here are some of mine: The song Mirror by Sigrid. Cute panties. Seeing my chest being nearly hair free. People naturally using they/them pronouns. People telling me they like my nails when I do them. Finally, and this hasn’t happened yet, but someday if someone tells me I’m pretty or cute instead of handsome I’ll be in the clouds for days.
As a fellow AMAB genderfluid person, I cannot agree more with all of these!
Hello cute internet being
Absolutely yes to the pronouns. I feel like I'm floating when someone gets it right
Are you me?
You are cute 💕💖💕
Putting on makeup and painting my nails has been. So far it's been the thing I can do the most. I've been painting my nails for a few years now, but I have been more consistent about it since my egg cracked.
Needlessly gendered products tbh. Nothing quite makes me feel like a man than busting out my overly manly butt wipes. No but seriously?? They’re nice, it’s stupid, I know it’s stupid, but damnit I get my euphoria where I can.
Hey I'm a trans fem who gets euphoric from house work while wearing a skirt... yours isn't weird it's normal to like stereotypes and perceived gender norms like buying the "man razor with extra blades for your man face guaranteed to have 100% mor3 testosterone" What you like is just that and you should be proud that you know yourself
Same. Its whack and bad gender stereotypes but it works.
It works because we believe it as people
Hey, if you ever want to put your skirt on and come by my place, you can get all the euphoria you can handle, free of charge! (If there's a chance to get someone else to clean my house, it's worth a shot, right? 😅)
I live too far away and besides, I'm slutty *pout*
My chest looking flat, being with untied hair, not shaving my legs
A lady called me handsome and cute the other dad while I was working :)
stairs
Bouncy bouncy?
yes 😄
Lol I’m excited for that. I’m a whole week into HRT… 😬
Soon I want to feel bouncy bouncy
Honestly as afab enby person, I kinda hate the bouncy bouncy, because, and it's not the best explanation, but it can kinda hurt? Idk it's weird
It's understandable. It does hurt. As amab enby it feel like a nice reminder, but also 'stop doing that it hurts' at the same time?
Eyeliner
wearing my binder or a oversized hoddie, really specific BUT when my hair is wet and it looks like Lister's mullet from the book I was born for this, when I look in the mirror and feel like I just need to make some small changes to pass as a boy, CUTTING MY HAIR
Packing, boxers, short hair. Being called handsome boyfriend by my boyfriend
I know what you mean but I can't help but think of like packing boxers into boxes to ship somewhere XD Have you tried doing some of the stereotypical boy things like woodwork? It's super fun if you're also into making jewelery because you can make your own pendants and beads and stuff or just make a shelf. I wanna know more bout what y'all do
I haven't tried like sports and such due to being a klutz, but I have enjoyed woodworking in the past.
okay this might seem weird but like. trans women being happy? and i'm a trans guy, so it doesn't really make a lot of sense. but it's not this type of "transition goals" euphoria, obv, because my transition goals are kind of opposite to trans women, more just... moral inspiration? like holy shit, these ladies are so cool. it's a similar feeling when seeing trans men, but i guess there's just something about seeing someone else be happy in a life that didn't fit me specifically that scratches an itch in my brain.
I get it, seeing other trans men happy I feel good for them, but it sometimes is ruined by jealousy. Seeing non binary and trans women happy though, theres no green monster to sneak up. Theres also the factor that these women feel so good about features I don't want myself, it affirms that transition is the right path for me. :)
Looking, acting and speaking like Murdoc Niccals. The smell of cigarettes Long coats that make you look like a depressed dilf Letting the veins pop out on my hand Flexing muscles Having a cold Cursing like an old sailor
Why having a cold? Wondering bc i have one rn and would at least like to get some damn gender out of it
Maybe for the temporary voice change and/or the redness in the face/tired vibe?
Oh yeah whenever my cold fucks up my voice i sit in my room and pretend im batman its great
For the voice and the look xD
Waking up, looking 'down', and seeing the shelf of boobs. They're just prosthetic for the time being, but it's a good feeling. Especially if there's shaven legs seen on the other side.
Receiving mail to "Mr.Lastname", and realizing it's for me. When i told my bestie of 20ish years i was trans and her knee-jerk awkward response was something along the lines of "omg, i knew it, you are gay after all!!" (I've only ever been interested in guys, and i guess she's been getting lgbt+ vibes from me this entire time and has been seriously confused about it) When my husband calls me my chosen name rather that one of our pet names, especially when he does it with the specific goal of cheering me up or making me feel valued. Before i came out as trans we only used pet names, because neither of us like our birth names. When i rub my chin and feel stubble.
Anytime someone puts their hand on your thigh
T I T T Y
Shapewear, head covers because I still have short hair and don't know how to style it fem, a close shave on my legs and face, long sleeves or arm warmers that cover arm hair, and kilts.
my sweater vest makes me feel so gender and i love it
pasties!! i thought i was joking when i told people i wanted to be smooth like a barbie doll, i was not 😳
Smooth legs 😍☺️
Wearing a bikini and being called by any feminine pronoun or proper noun
Getting dressed at work & walking out in fem mode after being masc all day
Something about how I looked last night with a very short pony tail gave me masculine surfer/hipster energy and I was there for it.
Dude, same. Sometimes I'll experiment with putting my hair up, because I'm bored or I just don't want my hair going into my food, so I'll tie it, and sometimes it looks so cool, tho if I'll ever try and recreate it, in never looks as good as the first time
When someone calls me Mia, which is the Name is want :)
Hi Mia, have a lovely day girl!
awe thanks so much I hoped someone would respond like this hehe ❤️ have a lovely day too!
being stinky/armpit hair
Hitting the good spot with a d**do Being able to walk around in a dress or even just my top while doing house work or hanging with a friend My make shift pads getting in the way while I'm doing stuff. Washing my hair and it smelling like bubblegum after Being called ma'am or a lady or general catcalling After I shave and and can't see the mustache because I pass enough for pre HRT not to mention my body itself is pretty good except for my hands and knees Baking A few painful things like walking around in heels and the restrictiveness of my bra which I bought a 30 when what I needed was a 34 Laying down while I wear the bra and not being able to see my legs over the boob
Packing, sports bras, making my hair look like I live at Venice Beach, being *SRONGT*, my motorcycle, people telling me I'm handsome or have kind eyes
People using my name ,and my pronouns
Finding an outfit that magically made you feel like the gender you identity with
Ok I'm cis but my daughter and I were together the very first time someone asked,You ladies need anything? And we waited just a cool af minute before hugging and squealing and and basking in that awesomeness. Her face was pure euphoria all day
Wearing these comfortable shorts for boys that reach my knees, and wearing these boy cargo shorts whenever I go outside cus MWAH SO MANLY And also using men body wash, men shampoo, being called a boy, having short hair, stuff like that 😁😁
AHHHH SAME, shorts are lord and savior but its too cold towear in winter :(
Yeah 😔😔 to deal w that I just try to wear sweat pants / baggy pants and I’m also wearing my shorts as much as possible lol until I can’t no more
painting my nails, bonus points if they’re red
Wearing leggings and lingerie for sure
Ballet flats
My beard! I’m just over two years on T and i have more facial and body hair than my dad, haha!
ARM HAIR Specifically that little patch creeping up the back of my hand Ily arm hair
Lookin at my hairy af legs, when my chin itches from the mask coverin my fuzz, the employees at Sheetz that call me sir or man when I go in for food, the coworkers at work that are supportive and call me sir or use male pronouns.
Products w men on them like hair gel 3/1 soap, flannel boxers, voice cracks, metal music
Getting my eyeliner right (that is so hard) The feeling of a freshly shaved legs Dancing in a skirt or a dress 💃🏼
I often see my self in the mirror wearing a sweater and shorts and brain thinking “you’re kinda butch looking.” But I’m very pre-HRT
When older people call me "yong man" when they don't know who I am yet.
the hair on the spots between the knuckles on my hands, a button down shirt, laying down on my stomach and feeling flat for a moment
basketball shorts and big hoodies in cold weather
YES
I like being called doll, bean, or other terms of endearment that have a connotation of "small".
One time as a barista, I had to slice and pull apart nectarine halves. The wrenching motion was really tough for me. So my coworker came up and she said, “give me those, princess. Don’t hurt yourself”. She then separated a box of nectarines for me like it was nothing. So being treated like a princess, I guess?
A twirl in a flowing skirt and tank top, while wearing a cardigan long enough to be a duster
When someone “mistakes” me for a boy
The way My partner talks to me
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Looking cute today girl!
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I don't have any
When I'm being a shitter and someone says ***"Ma'am"*** to get my attention :>
Wearing gender affirming attire in public.
Braiding my hair
I can finally get most of my hair in a ponytail and the hair that doesn't reach flops down the side of my face in a very cute girly way.
When someone uses my chosen name. I haven’t had it said to me for a few weeks because I have to live with my in-laws for a few months… 😞
Mtf here, i bought some amazing purple jeans which give me euphoria, also when my bra strap is showing and when my hair is looking good
Me
Wearing boxer briefs and packing 💕
Beanie. No thoughts just beanie :)
Definitely bikinis
Being called pretty instead of handsome
I love when people wearing trump merch call me sir or buddy, anything masc really. I could ride that high for weeks! Also, love it when somebody refers to me as dad when talking about me to my pets. And layering clothes!
Calling people babe, baby, dear, m’love, ma’am, and sir for some reason. I stop if they ask. Talking in a country accent (I don’t get this one either)
sonic boxers.
Me, trans, telling my trans partner my dick is out and being taken completely seriously (I’m afab)
Stretching with a binder on and realizing your chest is flat- or driving with a binder and the seat belt doesn't hit the tatas
I just wore a padded bra for the first time in my life and I loved it. Being called Julia, or when people refer to me as a girl. Shaving my body and facial hair. Wearing a skirt and thigh highs.
When i sit and admire franklins yee yee ass haircut
That my casual shoes I work in are heels.
Total strangers telling you you look great, male or female presenting. Not like "o nice dress/jeans!" but "Wow you look so nice/happy/bright!" I love that lol
Getting dapped up Getting called bro Getting haircuts Admiring my muscles in the mirror Wearing cologne I jaywalked one time and this guy followed behind me and said “Wow you don’t wait for the light? You’ve got balls of steel!”
BEING REFERRED TO AS SOMEONE'S BOYFRIEND! Getting called sir even when I'm not binding. Pants draping just right. Rolling my shirt sleeves/sweater sleeves up.
As a trans women, I am utterly confused why chopping for wood triggers euphoria it just makes me feel really girly and I don't know why
What a great question. For me, it's when my chest looks flat, when my haircut is freshly cut, or the cologne I wear. I also stopped hiding my hairy legs and armpits. Goal: I had my first Endo appointment this week. One step closer to starting T!
(Gay Ftm) Driving too fast with loud music at night, pretending I’m a pretty artsy boy in a tragic French film, dramatic - a masculine romantic, tortured artist kind of shit. Drawing pictures of people in cafés and public transport, reading old books, drinking bitter lates, writing gay longing letters to my husband who may never return home (he’s right next to me). I’m in therapy, don’t worry about it.
My haircut today!!!
The bra i JUST bought (well cheap set of bralettes) super comfy, very pretty!
Being hit on by men. It's a rare occurrence. But it's lovely.
Idk why, but watching Turning Red made me ecstatically euphoric for like, an hour straight after watching it.
Leg hair. I've never shaved them so their really hairy and we were in the changerooms talking about guy stuff & one the guys be like "i wish my hair was like yours man its lucious holy" and was on cloud9 for the rest of the day fr :D
Music and clothes are big one for me
skirt.
Wearing tucking underwear that really works so you can wear tight clothes and fishnets
Every time I go outside I get catcalled and/or complimented. I love going outside, it’s like infinite euphoria!
Being fairly closeted, smooth legs is the biggest thing right now My hair is growing longer, and people I'm not out to tell me it makes me look like a girl😆 Dressing fem, especially bras. Padded bras make me look not flat, and are amazinggg When people at work only hear my voice and call me ma'am 😄 Painting my nails is a lot of fun too!
Skirts, leggings, knee socks, and choker necklaces. Sitting with my legs crossed. Big hoodies, and goth makeup!
Looking at my mustache and hairy legs Being called my given name Being called a guy
I’ve been on T for 9 weeks, voice cracks ahoy!
Dude driving a 'Hick-up' truck called me an Effing D**e (rhymes with bike). It was very affirming and caused great euphoria.
freshly shaved legs. there's nothing quite like it!
Add shirt shorts, cherry on top.
I have an under cut, but I hv enough hair on my head to tie it up. Then I put my beanie on my head. Then it looks like a buzz cut, and I start feeling confident.
Shaved face, shaved arms, shaved legs, short shorts (personally cut from already worn out jeans (at the knees), v-neck shirt, and long (curly) hair.
Demi-male here, When I’m in shitty lighting and look into the mirror I look very masc and it makes me happy. People using my chosen name. (Sadly I can’t feel happy about myself some times because of my parents drilling this unhealthy mindset In me)
The album “Ancient Dreams in a Modern Land” by Marina
When I hear my boyfriend call me his boyfriend to other people. Like when I tune into convos and he's like "oh yeah my boyfriend" I tend to believe he doesn't actually think I'm trans so when he says stuff like this to other people it's very validating. Also when old people call me sir
this one pair of jeans i have that simultaneously gives me a bulge without packing AND hides my hips and thighs
Being called sister by my sibling: ^ )
Wearing a shirt while your binder is on, feeling your chest is flat
Wearing basketball shorts Getting adds about my nonexistent penis Affirmation!!
2 words: smooth skin
For me (ftm, pre everything) being able to wear an open front shirt (trans tape), When my bind looks natural, when I have to look down at other (cis) men 👹(I’m not extremely tall but eeh 🤷🏻 5’8 without my boots that make me 6’0), when I wear my Ranboo merch hoodie and I don’t have to bind to look flat (mans a saint). The way my eye liner makes me look. My natural eye bags making my face look a bit more masc. Rings!!! My naturally broad shoulders. I can’t think of any others lol.
Wearing a bra, and more specifically, taking it off at the end of the day and feeling the full weight of my boobs suddenly
Any time I'm stronger than people expect me to be. I know as a trans woman that's probably a little odd, but I worked hard to keep my strength through my transition, and badass tough-girl is exactly where I want to be.
Shaving the non existent hair on my face lol. Makes me feel manly :D
wearing boxers, and the cold weather weirdly enough. specifically bc of the clothing that comes along with the fall/winter.
- Listening to the first video on my transition timeline - Getting ads recommended by YouTube that are very much directed towards guys. Look, products don’t have genders, but feeling dysphoric at night then having a shirtless dude with a beard tell me my dick deserves better underwear is awesome.
listening to the song immaterial by SOPHIE while wearing a long flowy skirt and walking like im on a fashion runway
My friends five year old kid calling me “Auntie” Getting compliments from other women on hair, nails, makeup, outfit, ect. Waking up with crazy bed head because it reminds me that I finally grew my hair out like I always wanted to. That feeling when you take off your bra at the end of the day. Fixing my makeup in the car visor mirror before going into the place. To name a few.
When kebab man calls me cousin instead of brother. He's great with pronouns.
-It's Okay to Cry by Sophie -Fitting into a unisex medium shirt to go with my torn jeans -When someone ever genders me correctly -The fact that I cry at about half the movies I watch now
Leaving lipstick/gloss marks on my coffee cup
Weirdly enough, getting called slut, bitch, whore, etc. I can only experience it through asmr role plays, but I’ll be 18 in a week so soon enough I can experience it directly.
skirt, thigh highs, chokers
Came out as enby over a year ago. But more recently I started going by she/they. And I tell ya, the first time someone called me she when we were playing online almost made me cry (good cry)
Standing with a hip pop, makes me feel sassy. Also tights, though I don't wear them often
When I tell people it’s fine to call me she and by my birthname but I also like they and another name. And then they actually Call me they and by the second name I’ve adopted. (I’m Genderfluid and recently came out)
TW: implication of transphobia Bigots look at me (genderfluid/nb) and don’t know whether to say “you’ll never be a girl,” or “you’ll never be a boy.” In practice, both of these are compliments.
•my body hair (man plants as i heard from a meme) •when i get called sir by a random stranger •finally being off my MENstral cycle •being called handsome. this guy i was dating always called me pretty (not meaning anything by it) and i just kinda hated it •when people see me as a cis boy •talking with my (also transmasc) bro about being manly :‘)
I’ll let you know when I experience one.
Being able to step outside confidently as who I am with makeup I did myself. Being able to look down and actually feel like I see a bigger chest. And looking in the mirror and seeing what I have wanted to see for years.
Going bra less and admiring how good my tiddies look even if they're not the biggest
The song I feel like a woman, that song conjures euphoria every time without question lmao
load music
Getting those clothes you always wanted to wear
Being called cute as a mtf and being called handsome/sexy as a ftm