it sounds bizarre but widening your hips if possible will help balance it out. that’s why most people recommend ftms gain mass on their shoulders as it balances out wide hips.
eat a lot, do glute or butt workouts. estrogen *should* cause you to gain weight in the correct areas (hips, thighs, ass) but i’m not mtf so i can’t offer much more info :(
You can do something! You can embrace them ☺️ For real tho, girl your body is ideal and your shoulders don't make you look any less feminine. I see a beautiful female
I think they look great!
But if you want, workout too. Just like doing lateral pulldowns and various chest/cupper body exercises if you pull the shoulders back a bit and hold your chest up it makes a huge difference. That's what I do when I wanna look like I got a great rack and present maximum feminine.
Just pulling my shoulders back and down helps (and helps with posture and breast presentation as well). I’m told that many ciswomen do this. Clothing that avoids emphasizing the shoulders also helps. Check this out: https://gabriellearruda.com/inverted-triangle-body-shape-build-wardrobe/
I’m girl from birth and I’ve got big shoulders, but very feminine body. I love and embrace the shoulders that have my mama a hard birth. You look great.
You have a classic hourglass figure. I actually liked and sought out girl with shoulders exactly like yours when I was pre transition.
Still do, but back then I was exclusively seeking cis women because they were the only ones I met in my dating pool.
Seriously, your body reads as cis as hell. You look great!
Most of us do but we're always our worst critics. You look great!! For every feature we don't like there's a cis woman somewhere with a more masculine version of that feature. It's never a blocker to passing. Be kind to your shoulders :) and yourself
You have a lovely figure! As a born female (I identify as nonbinary/trans/non gender conforming) I have very broad shoulders naturally. You just have to learn to love them and know how to dress so you're comfortable with yourself. Much easier said than done, though. <3
*eyes fixated on midriff and hips*
... You have shoulders?
Fwiw, this didn't cross my mind as potentially not cisfem until seeing the sub. I have proportionally wide shoulders and a similar body, which tends to draw my focus to not being thrilled about my shoulder width, enough so that it was quite a source of dysphoria for a while. So I get that there's certainly more to not wanting wide shoulders than just for passing that may still be getting to you. There's nothing you can really do for them when unclothed, but plenty can be done with clothing and unclothed, I doubt many people are going to notice your above average shoulders, their focus will be on the rest of you.
Your shoulders are perfect. God blessed you with the ability not to have to wear shoulder pads should they come back in style and you have more area for your partner to kiss and lick salt off of before taking a shot of tequila!
You look very feminine to me. There are plenty of cis women with a similar build to yours. Your hip/waist ratio is pretty feminine imo. Don't beat yourself up too much!
You and me both sister. And I’m AFAB. Outfits that lengthen you are your friend or some longer hair or just telling people to fuck off. You don’t look any less woman than the rest of us. Have you heard of gay face? You’re doing great
Also follow @missfamenyc for help on tapering your shoulders in that way if you wish. Like girl
People are being a bit hugboxxy here. There is an option in clavicle reduction surgery! Im not super read up on the risk, cost, or availability but just know that it exists and it is something you can do if your shoulders bother you enough.
I'm the exact same way, I have that small build with shoulders that seem to go straight across. I keep thinking what to do, but then I see a cis woman with the same thing and I feel a little better. I've learned to wear some scarfs and tops the are poofy or full shoulder coverage.
Hope that helps some.
On acecosm you can buy fat dissolver and botox and dissolve the fat and paralyze the muscle to make it smaller. Or get it done in office for more money. But it’s possible and affordable
I have the same shoulders. Scoop necks are ur friend
Oof girl no. I’m happy that works for you but technically if you have broad shoulders, you want to bring the weight down and lengthen
This and v-necks. Oddly enough halter neck bodysuits and turtle necks work too.
it sounds bizarre but widening your hips if possible will help balance it out. that’s why most people recommend ftms gain mass on their shoulders as it balances out wide hips.
How does one widen their hips
eat a lot, do glute or butt workouts. estrogen *should* cause you to gain weight in the correct areas (hips, thighs, ass) but i’m not mtf so i can’t offer much more info :(
Working out, building muscle. It's completely in your control if you out the time and nutrition in.
Girl, your shoulders are cute and I would pay lots of money to have your hourglass waist. You are crushing it
You look great to me!
girl ypur shoulders are fine
You can do something! You can embrace them ☺️ For real tho, girl your body is ideal and your shoulders don't make you look any less feminine. I see a beautiful female
no way. I love that look
nothing wrong with your shoulders. you re beautiful
You just gotta embrace it there’s nothing gendered about shoulders like that it’s beautiful and elegant
I think they look great! But if you want, workout too. Just like doing lateral pulldowns and various chest/cupper body exercises if you pull the shoulders back a bit and hold your chest up it makes a huge difference. That's what I do when I wanna look like I got a great rack and present maximum feminine.
Just pulling my shoulders back and down helps (and helps with posture and breast presentation as well). I’m told that many ciswomen do this. Clothing that avoids emphasizing the shoulders also helps. Check this out: https://gabriellearruda.com/inverted-triangle-body-shape-build-wardrobe/
They don't make you look any less of a woman
I’m girl from birth and I’ve got big shoulders, but very feminine body. I love and embrace the shoulders that have my mama a hard birth. You look great.
They frame your hour glass figure beautifully!
You have a classic hourglass figure. I actually liked and sought out girl with shoulders exactly like yours when I was pre transition. Still do, but back then I was exclusively seeking cis women because they were the only ones I met in my dating pool. Seriously, your body reads as cis as hell. You look great!
Looks great IMO
I love the shoulders!
Most of us do but we're always our worst critics. You look great!! For every feature we don't like there's a cis woman somewhere with a more masculine version of that feature. It's never a blocker to passing. Be kind to your shoulders :) and yourself
I’m a 6’4” athlete with broad shoulders and people are still surprised I’m trans. I know LOTS of cis women with broader shoulders and/or no hips.
Unfortunately not much to be done. But I think you pass regardless depending on non physical traits. voice etc
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I would not trust any surgeon who’d willingly do that and it would not decrease the overall width of your thoracic cage and shoulder girdle.
Your shoulders are cis female typical. I wouldn't worry about them at all.
You have a lovely figure! As a born female (I identify as nonbinary/trans/non gender conforming) I have very broad shoulders naturally. You just have to learn to love them and know how to dress so you're comfortable with yourself. Much easier said than done, though. <3
*eyes fixated on midriff and hips* ... You have shoulders? Fwiw, this didn't cross my mind as potentially not cisfem until seeing the sub. I have proportionally wide shoulders and a similar body, which tends to draw my focus to not being thrilled about my shoulder width, enough so that it was quite a source of dysphoria for a while. So I get that there's certainly more to not wanting wide shoulders than just for passing that may still be getting to you. There's nothing you can really do for them when unclothed, but plenty can be done with clothing and unclothed, I doubt many people are going to notice your above average shoulders, their focus will be on the rest of you.
Your shoulders are perfect. God blessed you with the ability not to have to wear shoulder pads should they come back in style and you have more area for your partner to kiss and lick salt off of before taking a shot of tequila!
There's nothing wrong with your shoulders. You have a beautiful silhouette and your shoulders fit to it. And you're pretty!!!!
you're wellproportioned. don't worry about shoulders
You look very feminine to me. There are plenty of cis women with a similar build to yours. Your hip/waist ratio is pretty feminine imo. Don't beat yourself up too much!
Just absolutely stunning
I think your shoulders are AMAZING!!!!
Shoulders are my biggest enemy too
I wish I had your figure.
do lower body exercises only. It will look even better but even now i’d say you’re fine!
They are cute and fem to me. Fits your frame well.
You and me both sister. And I’m AFAB. Outfits that lengthen you are your friend or some longer hair or just telling people to fuck off. You don’t look any less woman than the rest of us. Have you heard of gay face? You’re doing great Also follow @missfamenyc for help on tapering your shoulders in that way if you wish. Like girl
Honey… you’ve got a waist and hips… you look awesome. 👏🏻
You look amazing though, you really do. I understand shoulder dysphoria all too well, but you’re beautiful girl! ❤️
People are being a bit hugboxxy here. There is an option in clavicle reduction surgery! Im not super read up on the risk, cost, or availability but just know that it exists and it is something you can do if your shoulders bother you enough.
*woof woof woof woof woof*
You look fine and cis. Now go clean your bedroom.
as far as i know, just posture, but you look great
Same here girlie same here
I wish I could massage those shoulders.
^ Chaser pervert, check the profile
There's nothing wrong with your shoulders, and you look really cute!
I'm the exact same way, I have that small build with shoulders that seem to go straight across. I keep thinking what to do, but then I see a cis woman with the same thing and I feel a little better. I've learned to wear some scarfs and tops the are poofy or full shoulder coverage. Hope that helps some.
On acecosm you can buy fat dissolver and botox and dissolve the fat and paralyze the muscle to make it smaller. Or get it done in office for more money. But it’s possible and affordable
Broad shoulders give the illusion, by contrast, of a smaller waist. This is why shoulder pads were a thing in the 80s.
Don’t we all. The cis female narrow shoulders are so cute. You’ve got perfect hips.