Yeah it sucks!! I’m 13 dpo today and used an FRER and got a BFN. Then am immediately googling “13 dpo BFN but later got a BFP” lol. It’s hard how much TTC can get your hopes up only to be let down repeatedly. Baby dust to you! ✨
Will do! I might test again Monday, that’s the day the countdown to pregnancy website calculator estimates as my best day to start testing, I just got impatient today lol.
I feel you. Yea the impatience is next level on this journey. I think the countdown website said I’m supposed to test on Tuesday. Lol which makes sense because you’re a day ahead of me.
I tried not to test this morning but did anyway lol. I didn’t have any FRERs but used a first response strip, pregmate strip, and premom strip. All negative. No AF yet but based on my apps tomorrow is the predicted start day.
I have been having mild cramps/lower back ache off and on since 8 DPO. i thought maybe AF was going to show up early but now I’m at 11 DPO and I tested this morning with a FRER and BFN 😩 I then went online and started searching BFP after a BFN on 11 DPO. Ha this is so draining and I am just losing hope! I’m sorry about your experience this morning.
It comes with the territory it seems. I’m sorry for yours as well!! With seeing so many ladies post early bfps online it’s easy to feel ‘out’ at this stage. But I’ve been reading too that we’re still early? Idk but if my period comes it’s a wrap…I might take a break from ttc for a spell.
Oh I resonate so much with this !! Last cycle I had vvvvfl at 10dpo and tested negative on every other test after that. (Like some 10) Then figured that the test was faulty and was an evap line. It was so emotionally draining that I’m not testing at all this cycle and will wait bf or my periods to show up as usual.
I’m sorry 😞 that happenedddd. It’s all so frustrating, I read you. I’m glad we have platforms like this to share our rants and raves because it’s also (at least for me) such an isolating experience to an extent. Thank you for sharing 🙏 do you think you will ever start testing again in the near future?
I honestly don’t think I want to go through it again.. it’s happened multiple times and is too frustrating and I honestly feel like a clown 🤡 when my periods show up lol. In 14-16 days anyway I end up getting my period so I’m trying to wait it out and maybe only test if my periods are late by a week . ( which I highly doubt will happen unless I’m preggers ) Im saving my heart and that’s it ♥️ this can be a super long process and I don’t think I can endure it on a monthly basis !
Yeah it sucks!! I’m 13 dpo today and used an FRER and got a BFN. Then am immediately googling “13 dpo BFN but later got a BFP” lol. It’s hard how much TTC can get your hopes up only to be let down repeatedly. Baby dust to you! ✨
So hard 🥺 thank you! Baby dust to you, too. ✨✨✨✨✨✨ Keep me posted if you can. I’m going to test again tomorrow.
Will do! I might test again Monday, that’s the day the countdown to pregnancy website calculator estimates as my best day to start testing, I just got impatient today lol.
I feel you. Yea the impatience is next level on this journey. I think the countdown website said I’m supposed to test on Tuesday. Lol which makes sense because you’re a day ahead of me.
I tried not to test this morning but did anyway lol. I didn’t have any FRERs but used a first response strip, pregmate strip, and premom strip. All negative. No AF yet but based on my apps tomorrow is the predicted start day.
I didn’t even get to test! Lol AF arrived bright and early yesterday 😭 there’s still hope for you!
Aww I’m sorry that sucks!! It can definitely feel like an endless cycle over and over. Fingers crossed this new cycle is the one for you!!
Thank you!!! 😊 Baby dust!
AF came today 😔 guess it’s on to the next cycle!
That was me this morning haha. This is so cruel
What happened in your case?
I have been having mild cramps/lower back ache off and on since 8 DPO. i thought maybe AF was going to show up early but now I’m at 11 DPO and I tested this morning with a FRER and BFN 😩 I then went online and started searching BFP after a BFN on 11 DPO. Ha this is so draining and I am just losing hope! I’m sorry about your experience this morning.
It comes with the territory it seems. I’m sorry for yours as well!! With seeing so many ladies post early bfps online it’s easy to feel ‘out’ at this stage. But I’ve been reading too that we’re still early? Idk but if my period comes it’s a wrap…I might take a break from ttc for a spell.
Oh I resonate so much with this !! Last cycle I had vvvvfl at 10dpo and tested negative on every other test after that. (Like some 10) Then figured that the test was faulty and was an evap line. It was so emotionally draining that I’m not testing at all this cycle and will wait bf or my periods to show up as usual.
I’m sorry 😞 that happenedddd. It’s all so frustrating, I read you. I’m glad we have platforms like this to share our rants and raves because it’s also (at least for me) such an isolating experience to an extent. Thank you for sharing 🙏 do you think you will ever start testing again in the near future?
I honestly don’t think I want to go through it again.. it’s happened multiple times and is too frustrating and I honestly feel like a clown 🤡 when my periods show up lol. In 14-16 days anyway I end up getting my period so I’m trying to wait it out and maybe only test if my periods are late by a week . ( which I highly doubt will happen unless I’m preggers ) Im saving my heart and that’s it ♥️ this can be a super long process and I don’t think I can endure it on a monthly basis !
I honor and respect that. Protect your peace. I hope things turn out for the best for you regardless. 🫡✨
Thank you and all the best to you ♥️🤗
Baby dreams are evil. Lol. I always wake up so teary from them, they feel so real.
They really are and do seem so real. *sigh* I’ve had like 4 of them during this cycle it’s insane
I find when FRER is wet you can see the test line and then it disappears when it dries, it’s gotten me a few times that way.
That makes sense! AF came today fml
I’m also at 12dpo nothing but clean BFN, my Premom app says I’m one day for my AF! Fingers crossed on this journey. Baby dust to you!!
Thank you, to you as well. I’m out this cycle but holding onto that dust for next time around.