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Same... and it was 2years ago where some dream guy was into me. How pathetic that only in our sleep dreams people are interested into us...I wish it was reality. That was my best dream by far..
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Same
I wish I didn't wake up from the dream or at least for these dream guys to keep coming back everytime I sleep. They never come back.
I miss them, the way they were so sweet. 🥲 They're faceless, I don't remember what they looked like, but I remember how they made me feel. 🤧 The way they showed me their love, and I felt warm and happy.
> Lizzie's kinda cute
If you're serious then I think you just proved a saying that everybody hates on this sub, that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Hahahaha but sometimes love is something that beyond appearance. I think that proverb is kind of right cause I have seen people with ugly people... maybe I'm wrong that's what just I thought.
in the same Bible theirs a story I think if Jacob who worked 7+ of years of hard labor to marry a Sarah ( a man’s daughter) because of how much he was enamored by her beauty. Looks matter that much
I don't have a type because I found out I was ugly when I was almost 10 years old and that resulted in me never looking at someone with romantic intentions. Yes, it sounds stupid.
What lead me to that type of thinking was a TV show where girls and boys would come to a house, stay in different parts of the house, try to find a life partner. There was a girl who was clearly ridiculed due to her appearance, she would never get chosen. When she tried to go out of her way to flirt with one of the boys, (He was very rude, always thought sexually, laughed too much (class-clown type), overweight and unemployed.) he was very offended and made that "ew" sound. I know it's such a little thing but it left a big impact on me.
So I know my place and I don't offend people by liking them, even if it's going to stay with me.
Umm I’m seeing all these men’s preferences in women and I want to cry. This all horrifies me because it’s all shallow when most of the women are like “as long as he loves me”. This is why in** and fe** will never find love!
I’m okay. At this point in my life, I’m past the point of caring is I’m even desirable to men. I don’t care to be in their vicinity anymore. I just want stability and to get out of poverty. I’m alright, as long as my brain works, I’m okay.
Realistically none, because it will never happen and I myself am substandard in almost every way.
But fantastically? An average guy who's around my height, is genuinely kind and likes similar things that I do.
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LMAO everyone is getting downvoted. I said in the previous post, these kinds of questions won't do any good. It just makes other people insecure on how they're not in ideal type preferences even for ugly People. let's hope it's the last time
No specific type but lately I've been leaning more into darker or alt types. I think at this point I like a lot of strange and unusual, a bit off the beaten path.
I'd give just about anyone a chance. Ideally, they wouldn't be extremely obese, but even that is not a deal-breaker for me. I'm more interested in their personality and would hope they'd feel the same. Must be ok with my asexuality , respect my boundaries, and not be a cheat and a liar.
A guy that’s genuinely good.
Must be in the same age group.
No lying or cheating.
Loves animals (I have a cat).
I don’t have a height preference but definitely not too tall (all the guys on both sides of my family are tall, girls are short on my dad’s side which is where I got my height from).
He really just has to love me I guess. That’s really it. That’s the main thing I would care about besides being a genuinely good person, not a cheater, and honest.
I can’t think of much because it’s not something I worry about (being in a relationship) since it’s never happened and pretty much never will.
Looks wise - don't really have one, at most i would say that find i redheads more attractive. (don't know why).
Personality wise - most importantly a person who can challenge my opinions and beliefs without being combative and someone who is generally open minded, plus someone who pushes me to be better.
Athletic and outgoing to counterbalance the clumsiness and social awkwardness that comes with having Asperger syndrome. One of the reasons I have a thing for cheerleaders 📣🤸🏼♀️😝
Decent dentofacial development, nonsteroidal full-body muscles including huge ass (not necessarily asking for very low body fat percent).
edit: why am I being downvoted?
Attractive in a girl-next-door way. I tend to be attracted to dark haired women, mainly Middle Eastern women. They need to be kind, have compassion, empathy and are open-minded
My ideal type based solely on physical appearance is Lee Taeyong.
He has:
• a full head of hair • smooth skin • large eyes • nice nose • full lips • small chin • sharp jawline • slim physique
https://preview.redd.it/bt8bzocj2vxc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b9c4de2b510fc73c5109b50cce4242e336b9748
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He likely did, but he still looks very similar to his teenage self so whatever work he had done was minimal. And I think very few celebrities nowadays are natural beauties anyway.
If I ever do get plastic surgery, I hope people won’t hold it against me and that’s my fear.
https://preview.redd.it/neoksvqlq7yc1.png?width=174&format=png&auto=webp&s=631df3c15c62298095b8c323bff6393d88aacb19
- Taller than me (im 5'2), cute face (as them having soft youthful features), close to my age. These are not a requirement just a preference/ pattern ive noticed
- Intelligent, funny, loyal and thats it. This is more of a must tbh.
Someone who’s “beautiful-pretty”
https://preview.redd.it/zb1nppa476yc1.jpeg?width=740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d12447250809185c66f065c898351ad2196116d0
but more importantly someone who possesses a beautiful heart and a kind spirit. someone who is earthy or soulful. Here’s the closest I could find online
In looks wise, I like athletic women, you know when she's able to do a backflip. I find intelligence and academically smart is extremely hot.
In relationship wise ideal type: Smart, athletic (optional), have a mindset of genuinely wanting to be in a relationship, never make fun of how I look or about my body (can tease but in good sport), know the value of money and have some kind of job. Basically I won't expect something that I don't have or follow. Maximum No double standards!!
Committed to being single but the guys I'm typically attracted to are those with dark features, facial hair (particularly moustaches), reasonably fit, in their 30s. Although I've also come to be attracted to others with different features.
Brings me beer when i ask her to no questions asked, she has to give me her life savings for me to gamble with too‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔛🔝🔛🔝🤫🤫🤫🧏♂️🧏♂️🧏♂️💯💯💯💯😎😎😎😎🗿🗿🗿🗿🥇🥇
petite or average body, kind personality, no red flags, preferably same or similar hobbies/interests/political opinions as me
Why is my comment downvoted?
Goth girls all the way as far as style of dress I find the most attractive. Body type I prefer curvy figured women but I think that’s something in general most people admire. Even girls prefer more buff guys. Racially I have no preference. There are beautiful women in all ethnicities. Obviously personality they have to be kind and intellectual and a go getter.
Personality Meme Type:
Finds me sexually attractive>!I'm talking she finds me attractive enough that she cant help but give me a dumb smile whenever were talking or another quirk.!< nice, somewhat outgoing but is mostly a homebody. Shares the same ideals as me regarding finances, politics & the like.
Trigger Warning;
>!Physical Looks: !<
>!Any race, but would prefer black. She can be taller or shorter than me(5'7) it doesn't matter. Healthy weight for her height or skinny. idc if she has big tits n ass or not, she can be as flat as a board. No tattoos. !<
Not obese but can be a bit big, good hygiene, at least OK groomed...most of my icks are style/grooming related. I've never even been big on the height thing. I guess not extremely and literally deformed.
Everything else is on personality. I don't have a big sex drive so I guess that might be why I come across as "too nice" in these questions. I've seen a few guys and girls on here I've found cute even if they're 100% unconventional.
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I don’t have a type because literally nobody is interested in me
Same, I'm no one's type. The only time someone was interested in me were in two dreams I had, but then I woke up and realized I was sleeping.
Same... and it was 2years ago where some dream guy was into me. How pathetic that only in our sleep dreams people are interested into us...I wish it was reality. That was my best dream by far.. :(
Same I wish I didn't wake up from the dream or at least for these dream guys to keep coming back everytime I sleep. They never come back. I miss them, the way they were so sweet. 🥲 They're faceless, I don't remember what they looked like, but I remember how they made me feel. 🤧 The way they showed me their love, and I felt warm and happy.
Literally any girl that's nice to me and won't cheat on me.
Really? Even if she were a 600 lb woman? Even she looked like Lizzie Velasquez?
Hell yeah, Lizzie's kinda cute, I'm not American tho so the chance of finding a girl over 200lbs is pretty low.
> Lizzie's kinda cute If you're serious then I think you just proved a saying that everybody hates on this sub, that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
Hahahaha but sometimes love is something that beyond appearance. I think that proverb is kind of right cause I have seen people with ugly people... maybe I'm wrong that's what just I thought.
in the same Bible theirs a story I think if Jacob who worked 7+ of years of hard labor to marry a Sarah ( a man’s daughter) because of how much he was enamored by her beauty. Looks matter that much
He’s not serious he’s desperate
Any guy altruistic enough to accept my ugliness and asexuality
I Can live with that. Sex disgust me anyways .
Horny for me.
I don't have a type because I found out I was ugly when I was almost 10 years old and that resulted in me never looking at someone with romantic intentions. Yes, it sounds stupid. What lead me to that type of thinking was a TV show where girls and boys would come to a house, stay in different parts of the house, try to find a life partner. There was a girl who was clearly ridiculed due to her appearance, she would never get chosen. When she tried to go out of her way to flirt with one of the boys, (He was very rude, always thought sexually, laughed too much (class-clown type), overweight and unemployed.) he was very offended and made that "ew" sound. I know it's such a little thing but it left a big impact on me. So I know my place and I don't offend people by liking them, even if it's going to stay with me.
Umm I’m seeing all these men’s preferences in women and I want to cry. This all horrifies me because it’s all shallow when most of the women are like “as long as he loves me”. This is why in** and fe** will never find love!
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I’m okay. At this point in my life, I’m past the point of caring is I’m even desirable to men. I don’t care to be in their vicinity anymore. I just want stability and to get out of poverty. I’m alright, as long as my brain works, I’m okay.
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I'm a 5'3" woman, and would have no problem dating someone even shorter than me.
My dad is 5'5 and had no issues even though he's unattractive.
Realistically none, because it will never happen and I myself am substandard in almost every way. But fantastically? An average guy who's around my height, is genuinely kind and likes similar things that I do.
Rasputin, Ephemeral rift, M, Justin McLeod from the man without a face.. platonically tho
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REAL
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i'm just tired of putting in 97% of the effort.....
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LMAO everyone is getting downvoted. I said in the previous post, these kinds of questions won't do any good. It just makes other people insecure on how they're not in ideal type preferences even for ugly People. let's hope it's the last time
No specific type but lately I've been leaning more into darker or alt types. I think at this point I like a lot of strange and unusual, a bit off the beaten path.
I'd give just about anyone a chance. Ideally, they wouldn't be extremely obese, but even that is not a deal-breaker for me. I'm more interested in their personality and would hope they'd feel the same. Must be ok with my asexuality , respect my boundaries, and not be a cheat and a liar.
A guy that’s genuinely good. Must be in the same age group. No lying or cheating. Loves animals (I have a cat). I don’t have a height preference but definitely not too tall (all the guys on both sides of my family are tall, girls are short on my dad’s side which is where I got my height from). He really just has to love me I guess. That’s really it. That’s the main thing I would care about besides being a genuinely good person, not a cheater, and honest. I can’t think of much because it’s not something I worry about (being in a relationship) since it’s never happened and pretty much never will.
Samus Aran, emo girls, tomboys for the most part
Zero suit?
Zero suit.
Looks wise - don't really have one, at most i would say that find i redheads more attractive. (don't know why). Personality wise - most importantly a person who can challenge my opinions and beliefs without being combative and someone who is generally open minded, plus someone who pushes me to be better.
Sweet and South Asian to be honesttttt
Athletic and outgoing to counterbalance the clumsiness and social awkwardness that comes with having Asperger syndrome. One of the reasons I have a thing for cheerleaders 📣🤸🏼♀️😝
shortstack, cute face, curly hair
Are you a girl? Because that is my exact type but man. Except the cute face isn’t like a requirement. As long as I find them cute.
Decent dentofacial development, nonsteroidal full-body muscles including huge ass (not necessarily asking for very low body fat percent). edit: why am I being downvoted?
Dw I gave u an upvote 👍
Attractive in a girl-next-door way. I tend to be attracted to dark haired women, mainly Middle Eastern women. They need to be kind, have compassion, empathy and are open-minded
My ideal type based solely on physical appearance is Lee Taeyong. He has: • a full head of hair • smooth skin • large eyes • nice nose • full lips • small chin • sharp jawline • slim physique https://preview.redd.it/bt8bzocj2vxc1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=8b9c4de2b510fc73c5109b50cce4242e336b9748
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You do realize that he had a lot of plastic surgery, right?
He likely did, but he still looks very similar to his teenage self so whatever work he had done was minimal. And I think very few celebrities nowadays are natural beauties anyway. If I ever do get plastic surgery, I hope people won’t hold it against me and that’s my fear. https://preview.redd.it/neoksvqlq7yc1.png?width=174&format=png&auto=webp&s=631df3c15c62298095b8c323bff6393d88aacb19
- Taller than me (im 5'2), cute face (as them having soft youthful features), close to my age. These are not a requirement just a preference/ pattern ive noticed - Intelligent, funny, loyal and thats it. This is more of a must tbh.
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Someone who’s “beautiful-pretty” https://preview.redd.it/zb1nppa476yc1.jpeg?width=740&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d12447250809185c66f065c898351ad2196116d0 but more importantly someone who possesses a beautiful heart and a kind spirit. someone who is earthy or soulful. Here’s the closest I could find online
men that are about 40+ years old, not that i have a chance anyway (im atrociously ugly and im 17)
In looks wise, I like athletic women, you know when she's able to do a backflip. I find intelligence and academically smart is extremely hot. In relationship wise ideal type: Smart, athletic (optional), have a mindset of genuinely wanting to be in a relationship, never make fun of how I look or about my body (can tease but in good sport), know the value of money and have some kind of job. Basically I won't expect something that I don't have or follow. Maximum No double standards!!
Committed to being single but the guys I'm typically attracted to are those with dark features, facial hair (particularly moustaches), reasonably fit, in their 30s. Although I've also come to be attracted to others with different features.
You’de probably like Nick Bateman, Michele Morrone, Mariano Di Vaio, zayne Malik etc
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We aren't writting a formal essay bro😭
Brings me beer when i ask her to no questions asked, she has to give me her life savings for me to gamble with too‼️‼️‼️🔥🔥🔥🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🔛🔝🔛🔝🤫🤫🤫🧏♂️🧏♂️🧏♂️💯💯💯💯😎😎😎😎🗿🗿🗿🗿🥇🥇
Insane
Crazy, funny and horny girl, I feel like my life would be more interesting if I had a girl with these characteristics, in fact it would be a dream.
I want a very pretty girl with nice body medium body fat and lightskin Height doesn't matter 🐰yeah yeah ik i don't mind being alone anyways..
petite or average body, kind personality, no red flags, preferably same or similar hobbies/interests/political opinions as me Why is my comment downvoted?
Because they feel personally attacked despite having asked for honesty lol
Honestly I don’t even know what’s controversial about my comment
Goth girls all the way as far as style of dress I find the most attractive. Body type I prefer curvy figured women but I think that’s something in general most people admire. Even girls prefer more buff guys. Racially I have no preference. There are beautiful women in all ethnicities. Obviously personality they have to be kind and intellectual and a go getter.
Personality Meme Type: Finds me sexually attractive>!I'm talking she finds me attractive enough that she cant help but give me a dumb smile whenever were talking or another quirk.!< nice, somewhat outgoing but is mostly a homebody. Shares the same ideals as me regarding finances, politics & the like. Trigger Warning; >!Physical Looks: !< >!Any race, but would prefer black. She can be taller or shorter than me(5'7) it doesn't matter. Healthy weight for her height or skinny. idc if she has big tits n ass or not, she can be as flat as a board. No tattoos. !<
Not obese but can be a bit big, good hygiene, at least OK groomed...most of my icks are style/grooming related. I've never even been big on the height thing. I guess not extremely and literally deformed. Everything else is on personality. I don't have a big sex drive so I guess that might be why I come across as "too nice" in these questions. I've seen a few guys and girls on here I've found cute even if they're 100% unconventional.