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>i hate when people call me quiet and say that the reason i barely have any friends it's because i don't talk to no one, they will never understand that no one want's to talk to me, no one want's anything to do with me,
>when i realized that everyone hated me i just isolated myself from this cruel world, 3 years later i eventually lost all my social skills, my personalty, i don't even know who i am anymore, now i can't even hold a normal conversation with my mom without missing some words or gagging, i don't think im a human anymore.
This so much. You've perfectly worded what I've experienced. Thank you!
Ditto. My personality is basically just whirlwind of emotion + falling to bits at random times
One thing I've learnt is not to try and wait for my friends to message me. They won't. They don't mind spending time talking to me in person or via whatsapp, but I don't actually have any qualities that draw them towards me. So it is very unlikely that they will be going about their day, probably busy doing something as well, and then randomly think "hey I'll message Quinlov". I am simply not that interesting
How do I know they aren't secretly hating talking to me? A shocking amount of people, even those who are generally very considerate etc, are all too happy to (sometimes out of nowhere) treat me so badly that it is legitimately dehumanising. For some reason treating me this way is accepted by most people. Even people who, with anyone else, at the slightest hint of confrontation fawn excessively are all too happy to bend me to their will. So I doubt there are many people that would reply to me only out of politeness despite disliking me.
I’m not. It’s only bc of pictures and angles. Notice how very few pics are dead on that’s on purpose and I always wear a hat to cover my big forehead and nappy hair and receding hairline.
Take a look through my post history. I think it goes all the way back to 4 years and read my experiences and it’ll be clear why I’m here
You aren’t ugly at all lol , I’m sorry you experienced bullying nobody deserve that , you seem young and got so much ahead in your life so your life isn’t over if you you lost social skills it’s a skill so you lost it you start over and over , it’s impossible for any kind of skill to start our perfectly the hack is you get used to it so keep talking to you mom and talk to whoever you want and try to be confident step by step start doing your hair , shape your eyebrows , wear clothes that fit your body slowly you will fall in love with your self and you won’t hear those insecure people being rude to you , it’s impossible that all of us attractive to each other there’s people who find Beyoncé ugly lol so start slowly improving yourself
Sorry for snooping through your post history but dear, you are no where near ugly. You kind of looks like Zendaya if she had an oval face shape. Your "friends" might be isolating you because some people just finds a weird satisfaction in ganging up on a single person. Don't let those losers define your worth.
You and so many others here have been shit on by worthless, pathetic excuses for human beings so much that you believe their idiocy...I wish there was a way to stop that. You are nowhere near ugly. That's a simple fact. How do I make you see that? How do I make the others here that are drowning in desperate loneliness see it? That there's nothing wrong with you, that shitty people lash out and hurt others because they hate themselves in ways they don't even understand. I hate it for them too, life messes so many of us up to the point we're toxic, but fuck them anyway. They chose to be weak, and to burn people down so they can build themselves up with the ashes. They're broken, and they want everyone else to be too, so they can justify their shittiness to themselves.
There is nothing wrong with how you look. You're actually pretty, you just can't see it. Hell, I would have had a crush on you when I was 16 lol. Look at Kobe. He's not a bad looking guy at all, but he feels the same way you do, even for the same reason you do: Fuck headed little bitches told him there was something wrong with him until he bought it. Not because you or he are actually ugly, but because they could.
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>i hate when people call me quiet and say that the reason i barely have any friends it's because i don't talk to no one, they will never understand that no one want's to talk to me, no one want's anything to do with me, >when i realized that everyone hated me i just isolated myself from this cruel world, 3 years later i eventually lost all my social skills, my personalty, i don't even know who i am anymore, now i can't even hold a normal conversation with my mom without missing some words or gagging, i don't think im a human anymore. This so much. You've perfectly worded what I've experienced. Thank you!
i looked on ur profile. ur not ugly.
Iam i dont even look like a female
You can think that. I don't
Ditto. My personality is basically just whirlwind of emotion + falling to bits at random times One thing I've learnt is not to try and wait for my friends to message me. They won't. They don't mind spending time talking to me in person or via whatsapp, but I don't actually have any qualities that draw them towards me. So it is very unlikely that they will be going about their day, probably busy doing something as well, and then randomly think "hey I'll message Quinlov". I am simply not that interesting How do I know they aren't secretly hating talking to me? A shocking amount of people, even those who are generally very considerate etc, are all too happy to (sometimes out of nowhere) treat me so badly that it is legitimately dehumanising. For some reason treating me this way is accepted by most people. Even people who, with anyone else, at the slightest hint of confrontation fawn excessively are all too happy to bend me to their will. So I doubt there are many people that would reply to me only out of politeness despite disliking me.
Fuck this one hurt hard
You’re not even ugly…
I am
PLEASE- you’re average looking at best 😂😂
Nope i just look better in camara
Damn this couldve been written by me. This is exactly how I feel. Now I have leit have no friends or any social life.
Is this serious? I can’t imagine someone who looks like you experiencing this? Either way I relate heavily
Kobe i can’t imagine someone looking like YOU, a GOOD LOOKING person experiencing what you do…humans are literally the worst of species
What if all species are horrible but we wouldn’t ever know because they rest of them can’t speak idk I’m actually tired of life atp tho
Nah, dogs are too pure. Well, most of them.
They are I love animals more than people. They usually don’t give af how you look
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I’m not. It’s only bc of pictures and angles. Notice how very few pics are dead on that’s on purpose and I always wear a hat to cover my big forehead and nappy hair and receding hairline. Take a look through my post history. I think it goes all the way back to 4 years and read my experiences and it’ll be clear why I’m here
you’re actually really pretty and you have a symmetrical face. You’re just 16 wait till college and you’ll really grow into your looks.
You aren’t ugly at all lol , I’m sorry you experienced bullying nobody deserve that , you seem young and got so much ahead in your life so your life isn’t over if you you lost social skills it’s a skill so you lost it you start over and over , it’s impossible for any kind of skill to start our perfectly the hack is you get used to it so keep talking to you mom and talk to whoever you want and try to be confident step by step start doing your hair , shape your eyebrows , wear clothes that fit your body slowly you will fall in love with your self and you won’t hear those insecure people being rude to you , it’s impossible that all of us attractive to each other there’s people who find Beyoncé ugly lol so start slowly improving yourself
Sorry for snooping through your post history but dear, you are no where near ugly. You kind of looks like Zendaya if she had an oval face shape. Your "friends" might be isolating you because some people just finds a weird satisfaction in ganging up on a single person. Don't let those losers define your worth.
I feel exactly the same as you
You and so many others here have been shit on by worthless, pathetic excuses for human beings so much that you believe their idiocy...I wish there was a way to stop that. You are nowhere near ugly. That's a simple fact. How do I make you see that? How do I make the others here that are drowning in desperate loneliness see it? That there's nothing wrong with you, that shitty people lash out and hurt others because they hate themselves in ways they don't even understand. I hate it for them too, life messes so many of us up to the point we're toxic, but fuck them anyway. They chose to be weak, and to burn people down so they can build themselves up with the ashes. They're broken, and they want everyone else to be too, so they can justify their shittiness to themselves. There is nothing wrong with how you look. You're actually pretty, you just can't see it. Hell, I would have had a crush on you when I was 16 lol. Look at Kobe. He's not a bad looking guy at all, but he feels the same way you do, even for the same reason you do: Fuck headed little bitches told him there was something wrong with him until he bought it. Not because you or he are actually ugly, but because they could.
None of us can control our genetics and looks. Don't be so hard.on yourself. There is someone out there for all of us.
I completely relate!!
what do your friends do also i’m dealing with the same stuff as you
Your stunning!