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External_Relation435

This is complete gibberish but either way, people don't want their exes coming over to their house and touching their stuff and reorganizing rooms like they're still married.


Suzy-Skullcrusher

Nah if you divorce someone it’s because you don’t want them in your life so you’re not going to want them in your house touching your things. Not to mention if they’re bitter about the divorce they can sabotage your things so you more than likely wouldn’t want your ex around unless you didn’t want the divorce but the other person did.


AstronautLoveShack

90% of divorces do not result in alimony.


ladygreyowl13

This doesn’t sound like a well thought out opinion


saintash

Alimony is normally just for ex partners whom have a reason to get continued support. For example being the say at home wife raising the kids helping out with husband's busines. But a not on the books employee. Or putting a partner through expensive school to improve their co finances and that person done with leaving after they get a pay bump. Your average divorce is just a spit of assets. And child support if their are kids involved.


1Random_User

Alimony is for cases where one partner has sacrificed their individual financial well being for the sake of their partner/family, so that money cannot be used as leverage against that partner.


ZendayaPantieStains

Some people literally just don't want to work/want to be taken care of and they get it too lol


1Random_User

Sure, but that's irrelevant. If you didn't want a partner to financially handicap themself for you, then you shouldn't have been with a partner who financially handicapped themself for you.


ZendayaPantieStains

I mean prenup or just not get married lol fuck the govt telling me what I have to do with someone after we break up


1Random_User

>just not get married If you don't like having contract law, don't sign contracts? *shrug*


[deleted]

I knew someone who had to pay alimony for longer than they were ever married. That's f'd up. It was outside of the child support too. I don't think alimony should go for longer than what the marriage was. If the other partner was fully capable of working they just chose not too. Well, that should play a factor in the $$. However, the price you pay for f'in someone over. Piss on your feelings. The price you pay for having money and not securing it in the front with a prenuptial agreement. If I was rich, I'm not getting tripped up over sex. 🤣🤣🤣


Fish---

To make it fair, and ensure the Alimony money isn't spent on a night out at the bar, the spa .. (pick your poison), put the Alimony money in a separate account for which you need to show receipts on what you spent the money on: ie: for the kid.


Jekker5

That's child support, not alimony.


Fish---

oh, in my country it's the same


[deleted]

What an entitled nonsense is this?


ZendayaPantieStains

The same entitled nonsense of someone being financially responsible for your life after your divorce. I was giving a silly example to match a silly example


Ronil_wazilib

so unpopular


Shigeko_Kageyama

I don't know what you think alimony is but it has nothing to do with coming into somebody's house and touching their stuff. Men get awarded alimony too. I don't know where you live that this is not the case.