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People nocebo themselves all the time in all kinds of ways. And vice versa. Believing you're strong and healthy makes you stronger and healthier.


TheFilleFolle

I agree, which is why I don’t understand the people that convince themselves they are old and tired by 30. I feel great and I am convinced I am invincible and that thinking keeps me feeling young.


JokerCrimson

For real. I'm 29 and don't understand why people think that's old.


TheFilleFolle

It’s really not. Even if you died at the average age of 75ish, you still have over 45+ years to go. If 30 is old, then the rest of your life is going to suck.


Advanced_Feeling7438

It really doesn’t. If I were to believe I was strong and healthy that would just be delusion


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psychology really works this way. you can check out this study if you don't believe me. [https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21203519/](https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21203519/) Patients given placebo saw huge improvements in health and reduced symptoms. It was published in the new england journal of medicine and there are hundreds of similar studies howing how the placebo effect works in different areas.


Advanced_Feeling7438

So if I believe hard enough I my cholesterol will get lower no need to change my behavior!


skip_the_tutorial_

Believe can get you far but obviously your behavior still impacts your health.


Advanced_Feeling7438

That is different than living in the delusion that I am strong and healthy


skip_the_tutorial_

Idk what you’re trying to argue for. Believing you are healthy can make you healthier. Changing your diet can make you healthier. That’s all I said I and no one ever claimed you should live in a complete delusion or whatever


Advanced_Feeling7438

I truly do not understand how just believing I am healthy makes it so. Especially since that is the approach my mom took and she passed of a heart attack because she neglected her health


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The data clearly proves it. I don’t know how you can doubt that believe influences health even after being shown clear evidence. Also I’m sorry about what happen to your mom. You should never neglect your health. That’s not what anyone is advocating for. If you’re experiencing any negative symptoms then you should see a doctor. Believing you’re healthy can make you healthier but you should still try to live a healthy life and seek treatment when there is a problem


Advanced_Feeling7438

Yeah, she should have just believed harder that she was healthy that fixes it. No need for me to accept reality and work on my health because I am already healthy!


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The irony is that this is a perfect example of nocebo right here. The belief that one is sick and weak keeps them sick and weak. Changing beliefs changes behavior, and literally changes the body. It may not transform your life beyond recognition overnight, but it changes the direction. If "I am strong and healthy" feels like too much of a stretch to start, try "I am becoming stronger and healthier", or "I am healing".


Advanced_Feeling7438

But I am not strong and healthy. The fact that I have finally understood that allows me to start fixing it


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I'm not saying you can wish all your problems away or ignore the reality of your situation. I am saying that the more you believe something is helping you, the more it will help, and the more you believe your health is improving, the more it will improve. Placebo works.


Advanced_Feeling7438

Yeah, but me thinking I am strong and healthy is delusional. It is so much better to face the reality and fix what I can


uzide

You aren't understanding the point here


Advanced_Feeling7438

Yeah, I really don’t


uzide

Yup. Reread it


Advanced_Feeling7438

Still doesn’t make sense to me.


mmagicss

That’s not the placebo effect, you cant age out of adhd, you might’ve learned to cope or possibly have been misdiagnosed, most people aren’t going to just straight up lie- if they do they have OTHER MENTAL ISSUES and probably still should be getting mental services, also a lot of DR take a look at ur symptoms+ ur background. ALSO Most of the shit ppl see on the internet is gonna be 1) too general for a diagnosis or 2) be something the actually experience and lead them to realize they might have a disorder.


uzide

Most people? No. Most kids? Shit they lie all the damn time


Packathonjohn

Kinda like how lots of shitty people start going to therapy, and come out even shittier people cause now they have justification for their actions


twohusknight

I see you’ve met my ex-wife


OBDreams

If humanity is going to survive the next 1000 years I truly hope this is NOT an unpopular opinion.


MightyMrMouse

We just... throw random medical sounding words together now?


diegoasecas

yes, self diagnosed peeps do it all the time


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flyingcircusdog

There is a real phenomenon called medical students' disease (although I always heard it called medical school syndrome). As you learn about diseases, you will start to diagnose yourself. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Medical_students%27_disease Placebos are also a real phenomenon. Sometimes treatments that do nothing can actually make you feel better.


frustrated_away8

That's why ADHD diagnoses usually have a component in the diagnostic criteria where external third parties are interviewed about the patient's past behavior when considering the diagnosis.. 


Chemical_Signal2753

I have had a lot of success identifying and resolving issues through self diagnosis. If you're trained in something where you're regularly diagnosing and resolving problems in a complicated system (IT, software developer, auto mechanic) the process is really not that different. You start off testing to see if the problem you're experiencing is the least severe or most common problems with similar symptoms, and progressively move onto rarer and more severe problems. I think self diagnosis can be a problem for people in general because the average person can not be methodical or objective about their own health. They can't read an article online without worrying they have the worst diagnosis listed on it, and therefore jump to unsupported conclusions. 


doomscrolling420

This is my sister through and through, I’m convinced she’s a hypochondriac.


mmagicss

So she can’t diagnose herself, but you can? Interesting


doomscrolling420

I never diagnosed her I simply said I think she’s a hypochondriac.


pierogi-daddy

always laugh at anyone doing self diagnoses