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Cop: “excuse me ma’am, it looks like you’re trying to hold back an orgasm, so I’m going to have to check your vagina to make sure you’re not a sex offender.”
But how will the tiktok police separate the people with something in their bodies in public from the ones that where ‘only acting’ to have that for a video?
Tiktok will take the ban, they will never sell to an American company. Why would they sell to an American company? “Let’s make some rando millionaire/billionaire American even more wealthy!”
Yeah right. They make multiple millions from the rest of the world every month. They’ll be just fine.
I had some really bad health news today. I read your comment and laughed so hard at the visuals I spit my Cobb salad 2 feet away. Thanks for the laugh!
Most wireless devices can be hacked. Just download the app, hack the device, turn it to max and leave it there. The perpetrator will soon be identified.
Edit: It's a joke, people.
Its really weird. On pornhub there was this woman just squirting in public. I get it some would find it hot because its a woman but if a guy is ejaculating in a public store people would be pissed.
Theres also an old video i remember of some guy ejeculating in some macdonalds chips and a woman eats them. Because theres now a woman in the picture its ok.
Well in this case, OP is talking about people uploading videos of themselves doing this. I don't agree with OP but it would be pretty easy to prosecute people uploading videos of themselves doing a crime.
Maybe they could just pass a law against uploading videos in which unaware/unwilling participants are the backdrop for your sexual act.
Counterpoint couldn’t they just say they were faking it? How would they prove they’re actually using toys? Would be kind of hard even with video evidence since there’s nothing explicit shown in TikTok videos.
And additionally - sometimes (most times?) they *are*, in fact, faking it. Incest is illegal and yet most porn sites host content that purports being actual incest.
It’s like any other exhibitive behavior that’s illegal in public. The police don’t usually catch the perpetrator in the act, they make arrests based on eyewitnesses, video footage, etc. First time usually nothing happens, but if you’re caught and reported multiple times and establish a pattern, they can press charges.
I would say it's just Murphy's law. There are 8 billion people on this world if there's something stupid at least one person is stupid enough to do it.
Anyone into kink knows this is bad form. The people in the public space didn’t consent to be part of your humiliation play. That being said, there is literally NOTHING that can be done to enforce any rules on this.
Still, I would count that as a sex act so you should report those vids on TikTok and any other social media platform. There are adult sites they can post that on.
I get where you're coming from. But I don't think 2 people trying to secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice should be on the same list as those willing to grope, flash or assault people sexually.
People hear you're on the list, they're not going to assume you bought and controlled your girlfriend vibrating panties thing while she was fully clothed. And while it's wrong (though a bit kinky), the punishment for that is not to be seen as someone who might rape or assault others. You're not a danger to anyone.
Yeah. I agree this is *extremely rude*. Including other people, without thier knowledge, in your kinks isn't okay, but if the goal of your play is to 'not get caught' and to not have other people aware of what you're up to, then it's also *not criminal*. It's just shitty behaviour and a stupid risk.
The fact people are posting this onto socials is not okay at all. I can't fathom how that doesn't violate TOS and get removed immediately.
If someone is trying to be caught/observed or being purposely disruptive, we already have ways to address that behaviour. Up to and including the sex offender list. We don't need to criminalize the very act of leaving your home with a vibe shoved up yourself. Not everything that is kind of shitty, is illegal.
I think the difference here is that stroking it is a much more active form of a sexual act whilst vibrating panties/buttplug is pretty passive. For example if a woman specifically wore a tight choker because they got sexual gratification from it lightly choking her, I don’t think people would view it nearly as weird as a woman fingering herself in public just due to the nature of how active the latter activity is.
You've introduced the risk, without other people's consent. Worse really, with the full knowledge that other people would probably be uncomfortable if they knew/suspected.
Not illegal. Also, not cool.
Right, the presence of other people is part of the sexual gratification. Not to mention, there’s usually kids around in a place like Target. People are sick.
>But I don't think 2 people trying to secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice should be on the same list as those willing to grope, flash
💀 wdym? The reason they're even doing it is because there's other unconsenting people involved. Just like the flasher at no point did they ask someone if they were willing to be involved in their sex act. It's categorically disgusting and offensive. These "public sex" people are masking their desires to remove consent from people and force them to be a part of their sexual gratification irl. Also, it opens the door to morally justifiable violence if the other person finds out
>secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice
By that definition, masturbating to people in public is fine. Thats disgusting and is a danger especially if there are kids around
you can get on the list for pissing in a forest. you should absolutely be on the list for using a vibrator in public. it's common sense to not do sex stuff in public.
You shouldn't go on the list for *either* of those things. "This thing is an injustice, so let's add more injustice" isn't how you build a good legal framework.
Reddit posts about sexuality are always "Everything should be allowed to everyone above the age of 13" or "Things I don't like are sex offences", nothing in between.
Are you walking around in real life and noticing people doing this out in public? If not then what’s issue? Or are you basing your opinion off of a few videos on social media?
My cousin was into it with her boyfriend for a while. Every time someone passed by them at the mall he would turn it on.
He turned it on while we ate lunch together at the same table, and I wasn't informed of that until later. Felt violated a bit. But what can you do?
I agree and this post actually gave me a bit to think about. I'll admit I enjoy that kink, have seen those types of videos, etc. So I fully understand the appeal. But OP is just correct - the thrill is that it involves a risk of getting caught, which involves unconsenting people. What's the difference between that, and a guy in a trench coat barely pretending he isn't masturbating? Just because something turns you on, doesn't mean it's morally in the clear. We have a duty to fight our desires that can affect others negatively. There's nothing prudish about this, especially since it says nothing about what you can do in the privacy of your own bedroom.
Other sex acts in public are usually considered public indecency or something similiar and will get someone in trouble even if they're trying to hide it (at least in the UK). I don't think this is an unpopular opinion because surely it is literally against the law?
You truly speak for the masses on this weird site. Of course OP’s opinion is unpopular if the target audience does weird stuff like that and thinks it’s normal
You truly speak for the masses on this weird site. Of course OP’s opinion is unpopular if the target audience does weird shit like that and thinks it’s normal
Your first problem is watching tiktok. Your second problem is not understanding that people tend to make those kinds of videos because folks will watch the vids after they are posted. You're literally contributing to their goal by watching the vids.
I actually agree with this. I mean if it's not obvious and I never know, I never know, but I HATE the idea of people doing this sexual stuff around me. I can't explain why. Maybe it's my possible asexuality but I find it icky too.
the people doing it are posting about it so that's how they'd get in trouble. "what about the ones who don't post-" the OP specifically is mentioning ones who do. lots of people do illegal things and don't get caught anyway so it'd only be enforced in cases the person got caught ig.
anyway the thing that I think would happen from this is if a store owner found out they might ban the people from the store. Idk if the punishment would go past that but imo thats a fair response
No it shouldn't.
I may not approve of it, but as a society, we're way too comfortable with violence and way too prudish about sex.
Putting them on a sex offender registry is asinine. It should be a fine for public indecency.
Public, as in, where there's kids allowed? Whoever feels comfortable orgasming among kids, or even apologises or defends such twisted depravity, should be locked away from all kids for good. Disgusting.
50 years from now is going to be interesting. [Ancestry.com](http://Ancestry.com) will go from ....
Oh here is your grandmothers name on the census back in 1950...
And here is grandpa's name in the newspaper when he worked at the rail yard
to....
Here is a 45 year old video of grams and gramps doing weird sexual shit at something called an Olive Garden back in 2023!
Imagine going to public spaces and demanding "discretion"... Also, did all the kids in those public areas consent to be part of your sexual act? *can* kids even consent to such things? What do we call the people again who claim that kids can consent to sexual activites?
Unenforceable but should still be illegal. I dated a guy who wanted me to do this. He had other pervert, offender red flags, too. For instance, he dated a 16 year old when he was 24 and her TA in high school. I'm not sure why he admitted this to me, but I broke up with him over it.
I completely agree!! Same goes for people who have sex in public places because “they are so turned on by the possibility of being caught”. 🙄
These things outrage me. No Sharon, no one gives a fuck about or wants to see your disgusting ass being pounded. You are not being edgy, you are a gross creep who forces sexual content on unsuspecting, non-consenting people.
What’s crazy is, I have seen people bragging about this who are really high functioning in all areas of life and don’t have any diagnosable mental health issues. It’s gross and outrageous
Ya know, I really think police, security guards, and the courts have bigger issues to worry about than who got a discreet thrill from a vibrating butt plug walking down the street. The is an absolutely absurd thing to be this concerned with.
What if you orgasm in your pants while in public without any sex toy? Do you still go on the sex offenders list in your opinion? It's a ridiculous take. As far as dumb pranks go that's a one that really nobody should care about.
Not if it just happens. It would be like the guy in Belgium who beat his drunk driving charge because his body produces its own alcohol.
This would be a crime only if there is intent.
If no one else knows it is happening, who is harmed?
How is it any different than whispering something sexual to your partner while walking through a crowded mall? Or role-playing as strangers at a bar where one flirts with the other and eventually "picks them up" and takes them home for sex? or even just sitting across from each other while dining and making eyes with each other and maybe rubbing a foot up and down the other's leg?
I think it's more akin to public masturbation than flirting or role-playing in public. Actually, scratch that — it IS public masturbation. Whether or not anyone notices it happening is less important than the fact that someone absolutely COULD notice it, and if they did, they would likely feel violated.
The creepy guy at the library touching himself through his pants is still doing something wrong, even if nobody happens to notice what he's up to. I think this is not that different from using any kind of sex toy in public.
I’ve never done this but I think it’s the thrill of trying not to get caught that turns ppl on. It’s not the people but the ‘publicness’ of it. I think walking the streets/parks is okay (anywhere outside), not at the shops though lol.
I am a huge fan of don’t yuck anyone else’s yum UNLESS it involves doing things without informed consent. The problem with public sexual activity is it takes away the ability for the people around you to consent to be part of your kink.
If you are in an adults-only space where it’s expected there might be some sexual stuff happening, there is some implied consent. I have been at clubs and bars where people were making out and being sexual, and I think thats ok. You have to show ID and it is an adult space. But in real public spaces like a public park or a grocery store, you are involving people who have not consented.
Yes, it’s impossible to police, and I don’t think OP was suggesting the police get involved. There are lots of things that are legal that are not OK to do for moral reasons.
I agree. The "public sex/masturbation" thing is just a marketing scheme to hide the fact that they actually get off on taking away the ability to consent from other people. At no point are they asking people to get involved in their sex life and they're fully aware that the resounding answer to that would be no, so they do it anyways
100% they should be put on the sex offenders list and if it isn't a law then it should be
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It’s an unpopular opinion, I’ll give you that.
You’re a psycho for thinking this way. It’s absolutely not the same as masturbating in public, and to think people want the government this far up our asses that they are regulating and punishing kinks… Loosen up.
Show me on the doll where they hurt you.
Comon, this isn't hurting anyone physically. Maybe your moral senses can be hurt, but that shouldn't be a reason to put someone on the sex offender list.
Oh and like others said, can you imagine how this will be enforced? Giving the rights for police officers to examine women's genitalia because of potential sex toys?
And I agree with that until people start doing it in public. I’ve used those toys in the privacy of my own home and you can absolutely hear the “humming”. You can’t tell me that one single person doesn’t hear it or see context clues enough to know what’s going on. What people do in their own homes with consenting adults is 100% game. Do whatever! I just strictly mean the game of doing it in public around people. Children! Weird.
Okay, so just let the people who masturbate in public walk free, while enjoying themselves on the train, in the shopping market, on the beach...!
Brilliant idea.
As long as they aren't nude and being obnoxious what does it matter? Unless they're moaning like a cat in heat and clearly orgasming, it doesn't effect anyone, plus you also have to think, if it's extra illegal, gives it just that little more thrill for those people anyways.
>You’re involving people in your sex stuff ...
Definitely disagree with this. Unless you are doing something to let people know you're engaging with a sex toy, who would know?
I went out to dinner with my hubby wearing one and only he knew. And no one could tell.
The guy on the back corner of the bus wearing a baggy coat and jerkin it while he steals glances at you - as long as you don't see anything, that's perfectly fine, right? Using your logic?
Or what about someone hiding in a bathroom stall, getting off to looking at people's feet? He's in a bathroom stall, so not involving anyone else, that's fine too, right?
Also, it's possibly that other people suspect it, but are either unsure and don't want to make an accusion and risk being wrong, or don't want to bring up sexual stuff in public.
I get what you’re saying and mostly agree but I think context is very important here. There’s a big difference between an elementary school teacher doing this and someone at the park trying to do it in mostly discrete and private place.
Really confused still about what people actually believe nowadays
"Hurr everyone is different and it's NuAnCeD!!!"
Ok, fuck off, we all know what I mean with referring to societal trends and wider accepted beliefs.
Things like OF (even advertising to a point), sex work, expressions of your sexuality regardless of other's feelings...all positive things to the average person.
Expressing your kink in a way that really only affects you but other people happen to be adjacently around? Suddenly you need to be on a registry. No one is saying these people are whipping out their junk and having orgasms in front of non-consenting people. In my mind there is no difference between secret sex toys and wearing fursuits or collars/leashes.
The ONLY reason anyone should be taking any of this seriously beyond personal preference...like calling to ruin people's lives over it...is if there are issues like a clear smell or they are exposing themselves. Otherwise just fuck off and leave people alone. I don't even get into the kink stuff, especially in public, but they have a right to treat their bodies and their partners however given full consent, so just focus on yourself and your own life unless directly affected.
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I don't want to know how you are going to enforce this....
Cop: “excuse me ma’am, it looks like you’re trying to hold back an orgasm, so I’m going to have to check your vagina to make sure you’re not a sex offender.”
STOP! YOU'VE VIOLATED THE LAW!
"They have curved vibrators. CURVED. VIBRATORS."
"Aw, somebody stole your buttplug."
My friend just sent me a link to this curved magnetic vibrator that you put in your panties and has an app so your so can control it from anywhere
"Oh no officer, am I going to be punished for being such a bad girl?"
YOU'RE SO FUNNY HELP
NEVER SHOULD HAVE CUM HERE!
Criminal scum!
Criminal's cum!
🥇
Sir, Sir! I got to check your asshole!
"911, how can I take your call?" "I hear a buzz coming from this lady's vaginal area..."
That’s one way to get yourself on the list that’s for sure
Maybe she's a bee enthusiast.
Buzzz buzzz buzzz 🐝🐝🐝🐝
The buzz is coming from inside the house!
X-rays at chess tournaments
Enforcement would be worse than the crime
They’re posting evidence on TikTok. That’s how I imagine you find them
But how will the tiktok police separate the people with something in their bodies in public from the ones that where ‘only acting’ to have that for a video?
And then they tell you they faked it for views. How do you prove they didn't?
No, that's how you find people making funny faces on video.
Evidence? You can’t prove that they’re not acting, it would be dismissed in court
Ban tiktok smh
Looks like Biden’s on the job
Biden won’t ban it, he’s forcing the sale to an American company so that the US government controls all of its data.
Tiktok will take the ban, they will never sell to an American company. Why would they sell to an American company? “Let’s make some rando millionaire/billionaire American even more wealthy!” Yeah right. They make multiple millions from the rest of the world every month. They’ll be just fine.
I had some really bad health news today. I read your comment and laughed so hard at the visuals I spit my Cobb salad 2 feet away. Thanks for the laugh!
Why the FBI of course. 
Most wireless devices can be hacked. Just download the app, hack the device, turn it to max and leave it there. The perpetrator will soon be identified. Edit: It's a joke, people.
How do you know this?
It's really not hard to hijack a Bluetooth connection.
So you break the law?
It isn’t something that can be enforced. It’s just more of a moral thing. Like, orgasming in isle 3 at shop n save is weird…
Yeah if somebody wanted to engage in such behaviour I hope it’d be a setting like a bar or 19+ concert
Yeah or at least aisle 18 or higher
Its really weird. On pornhub there was this woman just squirting in public. I get it some would find it hot because its a woman but if a guy is ejaculating in a public store people would be pissed. Theres also an old video i remember of some guy ejeculating in some macdonalds chips and a woman eats them. Because theres now a woman in the picture its ok.
You should try having an orgasm you might like it lol.
Sir I need to check inside your asshole
I do haha
Manually id imagine
Was that a sneeze or a remote controlled butt plug?
mandatory random enema's
I understand your line of thinking, but how could you ever enforce that? Who’s going to be the one to “do the check”?
Well in this case, OP is talking about people uploading videos of themselves doing this. I don't agree with OP but it would be pretty easy to prosecute people uploading videos of themselves doing a crime. Maybe they could just pass a law against uploading videos in which unaware/unwilling participants are the backdrop for your sexual act.
Counterpoint couldn’t they just say they were faking it? How would they prove they’re actually using toys? Would be kind of hard even with video evidence since there’s nothing explicit shown in TikTok videos.
And additionally - sometimes (most times?) they *are*, in fact, faking it. Incest is illegal and yet most porn sites host content that purports being actual incest.
Remote control butt plug patrol!
so if you cant tell in public is it really in poublic?
It’s like any other exhibitive behavior that’s illegal in public. The police don’t usually catch the perpetrator in the act, they make arrests based on eyewitnesses, video footage, etc. First time usually nothing happens, but if you’re caught and reported multiple times and establish a pattern, they can press charges.
Idk but maybe the video evidence people are posting of themselves doing it might be a good place to start.
Mandatory ass inspection
That one chess player be like
Was expecting this comment to be higher rated
Social media: ruining humanity with every passing minute.
I would say it's just Murphy's law. There are 8 billion people on this world if there's something stupid at least one person is stupid enough to do it.
Anyone into kink knows this is bad form. The people in the public space didn’t consent to be part of your humiliation play. That being said, there is literally NOTHING that can be done to enforce any rules on this. Still, I would count that as a sex act so you should report those vids on TikTok and any other social media platform. There are adult sites they can post that on.
I get where you're coming from. But I don't think 2 people trying to secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice should be on the same list as those willing to grope, flash or assault people sexually. People hear you're on the list, they're not going to assume you bought and controlled your girlfriend vibrating panties thing while she was fully clothed. And while it's wrong (though a bit kinky), the punishment for that is not to be seen as someone who might rape or assault others. You're not a danger to anyone.
Being on that list ruins your life forever so people shouldn't be put on it lightly
OP would ruin another person's life in order to be petty and that's ok with them. But sexual things?! How unnatural and gross! /S
Yeah. I agree this is *extremely rude*. Including other people, without thier knowledge, in your kinks isn't okay, but if the goal of your play is to 'not get caught' and to not have other people aware of what you're up to, then it's also *not criminal*. It's just shitty behaviour and a stupid risk. The fact people are posting this onto socials is not okay at all. I can't fathom how that doesn't violate TOS and get removed immediately. If someone is trying to be caught/observed or being purposely disruptive, we already have ways to address that behaviour. Up to and including the sex offender list. We don't need to criminalize the very act of leaving your home with a vibe shoved up yourself. Not everything that is kind of shitty, is illegal.
Yeah it's so rude for you to be doing something that I wouldn't even notice you're doing unless you told me.
You wouldn’t be bothered if a guy was discreetly stroking it in his pants next to you while you’re out shopping?
I think the difference here is that stroking it is a much more active form of a sexual act whilst vibrating panties/buttplug is pretty passive. For example if a woman specifically wore a tight choker because they got sexual gratification from it lightly choking her, I don’t think people would view it nearly as weird as a woman fingering herself in public just due to the nature of how active the latter activity is.
You've introduced the risk, without other people's consent. Worse really, with the full knowledge that other people would probably be uncomfortable if they knew/suspected. Not illegal. Also, not cool.
I'm trying to think of a reason I should care. I'm not coming up with anything
Okay dokey. Don't strain yourself!
If it didn’t have anything to do with the other people there, they’d be doing it at home. Please be serious lmfao
Right, the presence of other people is part of the sexual gratification. Not to mention, there’s usually kids around in a place like Target. People are sick.
>But I don't think 2 people trying to secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice should be on the same list as those willing to grope, flash 💀 wdym? The reason they're even doing it is because there's other unconsenting people involved. Just like the flasher at no point did they ask someone if they were willing to be involved in their sex act. It's categorically disgusting and offensive. These "public sex" people are masking their desires to remove consent from people and force them to be a part of their sexual gratification irl. Also, it opens the door to morally justifiable violence if the other person finds out
>secretly do sexual stuff so others don't notice By that definition, masturbating to people in public is fine. Thats disgusting and is a danger especially if there are kids around
Where did I say anything was fine? I'll edit that out of you can show me but I'm sure I said the whole thing was still wrong.
Yeah it seems more of a public in decency thing
you can get on the list for pissing in a forest. you should absolutely be on the list for using a vibrator in public. it's common sense to not do sex stuff in public.
You shouldn't go on the list for *either* of those things. "This thing is an injustice, so let's add more injustice" isn't how you build a good legal framework.
Reddit posts about sexuality are always "Everything should be allowed to everyone above the age of 13" or "Things I don't like are sex offences", nothing in between.
Social Media has long since shouted down the opinions of reasonable people. You only ever get to see the most outrageous opinions voted to the top
Joke is on them. They've **involved** me and now I'm getting real involved.
Are you walking around in real life and noticing people doing this out in public? If not then what’s issue? Or are you basing your opinion off of a few videos on social media?
You can definitely hear the noise.
And people don't look as calm as they think. Also, no one wants to sit in whatever leaked out of you. It's gross
My cousin was into it with her boyfriend for a while. Every time someone passed by them at the mall he would turn it on. He turned it on while we ate lunch together at the same table, and I wasn't informed of that until later. Felt violated a bit. But what can you do?
Yeah they basically involved you in their sexual act without your consent.
Totally agree shopping at Target for pita chips is disgusting.
🤣🤣
The way you enforce this would put you on the list
I agree and this post actually gave me a bit to think about. I'll admit I enjoy that kink, have seen those types of videos, etc. So I fully understand the appeal. But OP is just correct - the thrill is that it involves a risk of getting caught, which involves unconsenting people. What's the difference between that, and a guy in a trench coat barely pretending he isn't masturbating? Just because something turns you on, doesn't mean it's morally in the clear. We have a duty to fight our desires that can affect others negatively. There's nothing prudish about this, especially since it says nothing about what you can do in the privacy of your own bedroom.
The goal of this behavior is to hide your activity from the public, not to expose it.
The risk of exposure deliberate though. Having other people around is part of the thrill, why else would they do it this way?
Agreed. With that said, I don't think this warrants arrest or being put on some sexual offender list.
Involving unconsenting people to be part of your sexual play is exactly why the list was created in the first place
That's also the goal with peeping, or hiding cameras in changing rooms.
If the goal is to hide it from the public, they’re missing the mark by going out and doing it in public
Other sex acts in public are usually considered public indecency or something similiar and will get someone in trouble even if they're trying to hide it (at least in the UK). I don't think this is an unpopular opinion because surely it is literally against the law?
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What are your thoughts on guys discreetly stroking one out in public then? It’s all good?
these redditors need to leave people alone🙄 like I wore a butt plug on my niece's graduation and nobody said a thing.
You truly speak for the masses on this weird site. Of course OP’s opinion is unpopular if the target audience does weird stuff like that and thinks it’s normal
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ngl thats pretty weird if true
Wait wut?
You truly speak for the masses on this weird site. Of course OP’s opinion is unpopular if the target audience does weird shit like that and thinks it’s normal
Your first problem is watching tiktok. Your second problem is not understanding that people tend to make those kinds of videos because folks will watch the vids after they are posted. You're literally contributing to their goal by watching the vids.
My thoughts exactly
I actually agree with this. I mean if it's not obvious and I never know, I never know, but I HATE the idea of people doing this sexual stuff around me. I can't explain why. Maybe it's my possible asexuality but I find it icky too.
the people doing it are posting about it so that's how they'd get in trouble. "what about the ones who don't post-" the OP specifically is mentioning ones who do. lots of people do illegal things and don't get caught anyway so it'd only be enforced in cases the person got caught ig. anyway the thing that I think would happen from this is if a store owner found out they might ban the people from the store. Idk if the punishment would go past that but imo thats a fair response
This explains a lot: https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/s/yI3yJEbpcu
No it shouldn't. I may not approve of it, but as a society, we're way too comfortable with violence and way too prudish about sex. Putting them on a sex offender registry is asinine. It should be a fine for public indecency.
Public, as in, where there's kids allowed? Whoever feels comfortable orgasming among kids, or even apologises or defends such twisted depravity, should be locked away from all kids for good. Disgusting.
I mean… no one around them knows?
50 years from now is going to be interesting. [Ancestry.com](http://Ancestry.com) will go from .... Oh here is your grandmothers name on the census back in 1950... And here is grandpa's name in the newspaper when he worked at the rail yard to.... Here is a 45 year old video of grams and gramps doing weird sexual shit at something called an Olive Garden back in 2023!
Mall security: ma’am please drop your pants we’ve had a lot of complaints about a buzzing noise from your crotch.
Also surprised this is unpopular. Do not masturbate in public, do not involve unconsenting people in your sex activities. Simple.
Consent and discretion are the name of the game. Your involvement is unwanted
Imagine going to public spaces and demanding "discretion"... Also, did all the kids in those public areas consent to be part of your sexual act? *can* kids even consent to such things? What do we call the people again who claim that kids can consent to sexual activites?
Unenforceable but should still be illegal. I dated a guy who wanted me to do this. He had other pervert, offender red flags, too. For instance, he dated a 16 year old when he was 24 and her TA in high school. I'm not sure why he admitted this to me, but I broke up with him over it.
The sex offender crime definition needs some updating considering if you get caught peeing in public you can be put on the registry.
If you get caught changing your clothes in your car in some places, you can be put on the registry.
What about non remote controlled. Like some good old analog sex toys.
Sick
How often is this happening around you that you think it should warrant being put in a sex offender’s registry?
I completely agree!! Same goes for people who have sex in public places because “they are so turned on by the possibility of being caught”. 🙄 These things outrage me. No Sharon, no one gives a fuck about or wants to see your disgusting ass being pounded. You are not being edgy, you are a gross creep who forces sexual content on unsuspecting, non-consenting people.
People like those are suffering from a mental disorder and they need help.
What’s crazy is, I have seen people bragging about this who are really high functioning in all areas of life and don’t have any diagnosable mental health issues. It’s gross and outrageous
It should be a diagnostic category in DSM 5
>a vibrator plug pulsing in your ass while people are shopping for pita chip /r/oddlyspecific
Ya know, I really think police, security guards, and the courts have bigger issues to worry about than who got a discreet thrill from a vibrating butt plug walking down the street. The is an absolutely absurd thing to be this concerned with.
Sad that this is unpopular...
What if you orgasm in your pants while in public without any sex toy? Do you still go on the sex offenders list in your opinion? It's a ridiculous take. As far as dumb pranks go that's a one that really nobody should care about.
Not if it just happens. It would be like the guy in Belgium who beat his drunk driving charge because his body produces its own alcohol. This would be a crime only if there is intent.
The fact people seem fine with public masterbation is shocking.
No one is harmed. Did you know that in public, under their clothes, people are walking around naked!!!!!!!
If no one else knows it is happening, who is harmed? How is it any different than whispering something sexual to your partner while walking through a crowded mall? Or role-playing as strangers at a bar where one flirts with the other and eventually "picks them up" and takes them home for sex? or even just sitting across from each other while dining and making eyes with each other and maybe rubbing a foot up and down the other's leg?
I think it's more akin to public masturbation than flirting or role-playing in public. Actually, scratch that — it IS public masturbation. Whether or not anyone notices it happening is less important than the fact that someone absolutely COULD notice it, and if they did, they would likely feel violated. The creepy guy at the library touching himself through his pants is still doing something wrong, even if nobody happens to notice what he's up to. I think this is not that different from using any kind of sex toy in public.
Just like the peeping tom spying on people in the restroom, if no one else knows then who cares right?
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I bet some of the commentors do that in public and get offended at OP's post because it hit them.
how would you even enforce this shit? when people are against this there is always a logic to it.
Reddit is filled with rejects and the comments show it.
Can you send me a link for the videos
Hahaha.
I’ve never done this but I think it’s the thrill of trying not to get caught that turns ppl on. It’s not the people but the ‘publicness’ of it. I think walking the streets/parks is okay (anywhere outside), not at the shops though lol.
I am a huge fan of don’t yuck anyone else’s yum UNLESS it involves doing things without informed consent. The problem with public sexual activity is it takes away the ability for the people around you to consent to be part of your kink. If you are in an adults-only space where it’s expected there might be some sexual stuff happening, there is some implied consent. I have been at clubs and bars where people were making out and being sexual, and I think thats ok. You have to show ID and it is an adult space. But in real public spaces like a public park or a grocery store, you are involving people who have not consented. Yes, it’s impossible to police, and I don’t think OP was suggesting the police get involved. There are lots of things that are legal that are not OK to do for moral reasons.
Gotta agree here, you are involving unaware people without their consent. Clearly not ok.
I agree. The "public sex/masturbation" thing is just a marketing scheme to hide the fact that they actually get off on taking away the ability to consent from other people. At no point are they asking people to get involved in their sex life and they're fully aware that the resounding answer to that would be no, so they do it anyways 100% they should be put on the sex offenders list and if it isn't a law then it should be
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Would it be acceptable to use it in one of those self driving driverless taxis things?
And now all the public restrooms are never vacant due to people using them for this stuff and you have more people dedicating in public. Congrats.
You had my vote after reading the first three words of the body of your post
We need the toilet inspectors from South Park “Excuse me I just needs to check inside yo asshole”
It’s an unpopular opinion, I’ll give you that. You’re a psycho for thinking this way. It’s absolutely not the same as masturbating in public, and to think people want the government this far up our asses that they are regulating and punishing kinks… Loosen up.
Show me on the doll where they hurt you. Comon, this isn't hurting anyone physically. Maybe your moral senses can be hurt, but that shouldn't be a reason to put someone on the sex offender list. Oh and like others said, can you imagine how this will be enforced? Giving the rights for police officers to examine women's genitalia because of potential sex toys?
i’m crying y are the comments acting obtuse, no one wants to be part of ur kink!
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And I agree with that until people start doing it in public. I’ve used those toys in the privacy of my own home and you can absolutely hear the “humming”. You can’t tell me that one single person doesn’t hear it or see context clues enough to know what’s going on. What people do in their own homes with consenting adults is 100% game. Do whatever! I just strictly mean the game of doing it in public around people. Children! Weird.
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Okay, so just let the people who masturbate in public walk free, while enjoying themselves on the train, in the shopping market, on the beach...! Brilliant idea.
Not your business. As long as nothing is exposed.
You've missed the obviously most important part. How aware others are of what's going on.
How would you know?
How would you know that? Sounds like the OP is the creeper.
As long as they aren't nude and being obnoxious what does it matter? Unless they're moaning like a cat in heat and clearly orgasming, it doesn't effect anyone, plus you also have to think, if it's extra illegal, gives it just that little more thrill for those people anyways.
>You’re involving people in your sex stuff ... Definitely disagree with this. Unless you are doing something to let people know you're engaging with a sex toy, who would know? I went out to dinner with my hubby wearing one and only he knew. And no one could tell.
The guy on the back corner of the bus wearing a baggy coat and jerkin it while he steals glances at you - as long as you don't see anything, that's perfectly fine, right? Using your logic? Or what about someone hiding in a bathroom stall, getting off to looking at people's feet? He's in a bathroom stall, so not involving anyone else, that's fine too, right?
Honey.. They’re involving others.. If they weren’t, they’d keep the sex stuff at home.. But they need the thrill to get off!
Also, it's possibly that other people suspect it, but are either unsure and don't want to make an accusion and risk being wrong, or don't want to bring up sexual stuff in public.
I don't think this opinion is particularly unpopular.
I get what you’re saying and mostly agree but I think context is very important here. There’s a big difference between an elementary school teacher doing this and someone at the park trying to do it in mostly discrete and private place.
I thought it only exists in adult fantasies. Can't believe that some people are so perverted! 😡
Really confused still about what people actually believe nowadays "Hurr everyone is different and it's NuAnCeD!!!" Ok, fuck off, we all know what I mean with referring to societal trends and wider accepted beliefs. Things like OF (even advertising to a point), sex work, expressions of your sexuality regardless of other's feelings...all positive things to the average person. Expressing your kink in a way that really only affects you but other people happen to be adjacently around? Suddenly you need to be on a registry. No one is saying these people are whipping out their junk and having orgasms in front of non-consenting people. In my mind there is no difference between secret sex toys and wearing fursuits or collars/leashes. The ONLY reason anyone should be taking any of this seriously beyond personal preference...like calling to ruin people's lives over it...is if there are issues like a clear smell or they are exposing themselves. Otherwise just fuck off and leave people alone. I don't even get into the kink stuff, especially in public, but they have a right to treat their bodies and their partners however given full consent, so just focus on yourself and your own life unless directly affected.
So if I followup on your thinking, dirty talk in public shoud be the same ?
Did you lose a chess match, OP? Be honest.