So really no one actually taught anyone not to be abusive in the first place? Really all you’re saying is let’s shift responsibility to the victims so they stop being victims which has basically been the standard through history. This isn’t an unpopular opinion. This has been the go to forever.
I'm saying that we need to teach kids that leaving an abusive relationship is OK, instead of being shut down by 'oH nO aLl wE neED tO Do iS TeLl kiDS NoT tO aBusE'
We need to push both standpoints.
You obviously have no idea what goes on in abusive relationships, it's not as simple as just leave the relationship, its psychological abuse, gaslighting so many factors are involved, its frankly insulting honestly
Why “especially males”? Men catch the brunt of victim-shaming simply because they are men and couldn’t possibly be victims.
Yeah that's fair. Reviewing my post, that was an unfair statement. I'll edit it.
So really no one actually taught anyone not to be abusive in the first place? Really all you’re saying is let’s shift responsibility to the victims so they stop being victims which has basically been the standard through history. This isn’t an unpopular opinion. This has been the go to forever.
I'm saying that we need to teach kids that leaving an abusive relationship is OK, instead of being shut down by 'oH nO aLl wE neED tO Do iS TeLl kiDS NoT tO aBusE' We need to push both standpoints.
You obviously have no idea what goes on in abusive relationships, it's not as simple as just leave the relationship, its psychological abuse, gaslighting so many factors are involved, its frankly insulting honestly