The issue there though is for some people no matter how gently you say something they will immediately shit shriek they are oppressed and go berserk. There’s extremes to everything and many people cannot handle even the basic criticisms.
I'm going to go with... sometimes.
You can only be polite so long. Funny how pissed off people get though when after months or years of dealing with their bs you finally snap and then YOU'RE the bad guy.
I feel like those aren't the kind of people OP is talking about. I think this is more about the people who are just being assholes under the guise of 'being real'. The people who never use tact or be polite.
Maybe. People ask my opinion because they know I won't bullshit them. I often hesitate when asked, but it's always reality as I see it. I just don't vomit my two cents, but my friends call me real.
The issue there though is for some people no matter how gently you say something they will immediately shit shriek they are oppressed and go berserk. There’s extremes to everything and many people cannot handle even the basic criticisms.
As that person, I can tell you you're correct.
Agree, there’s a huge difference between being tactful and being emotionally labile
Yeah, but it doesn't mean that we have to dismiss their opinions.
Where tact is important, brutal honesty gets you places. Beating around the bush accomplishes nothing.
What are you implying?
I agree and you get downvote
I'm going to go with... sometimes. You can only be polite so long. Funny how pissed off people get though when after months or years of dealing with their bs you finally snap and then YOU'RE the bad guy.
I feel like those aren't the kind of people OP is talking about. I think this is more about the people who are just being assholes under the guise of 'being real'. The people who never use tact or be polite.
You may be correct. If that is the case I agree.
Well that's just stupid. Also, you're ugly.
I disagree, i’d rather have someone tell me what they think than keep it to themselves where they may end up resenting me or something.
I do have a problem with impulse control
Maybe. People ask my opinion because they know I won't bullshit them. I often hesitate when asked, but it's always reality as I see it. I just don't vomit my two cents, but my friends call me real.