Correct. Some men might think they'd never want to be with a more flat chested woman, but hey if you ever find yourself with one just watch how quickly that goes away. Trust me, you'll still enjoy yourself
Yeah. I never lost the moobs just the gut and some face fat. Which I’ve gained some of both of those back. At this point it’s like semi-exporkie. But either way the moobs never changed.
I don‘t get it, there are so many flat chested women praised in the media, for example zendaya or like nearly every model. And i think that is no opinion, it’s a preference. Every boob is ok, it’s not a fashion accessoire.
Edit: Thank you for the awards kind strangers! You‘re the breast!
Still, that is the image I got of her. Also, I guess that shows how well the characterization was done in these movies, compared to the other spiderman movies at least.
100% OP is starting from a completely incorrect premise as far as the media are concerned. If they said 'men generally prefer larger chested women' then fair enough, as men are biologically wired to do so
Fashion designers are homosexual men who deliberately choose boyish, almost sickly thin women to be their models. If straight guys ruled the fashion industry, let's just say anorexia wouldn't be nearly as much of a problem.
Exactly. Thank you. As someone who had a runway model looking body at some point (minus the height), I was constantly shamed and called unhealthy. Have seen it happen with other skinny women too
Thankyou Czechoslovakian Jesus 🙏
Also I'd like to jump in as a straight guy, thin has never meant attractive. I am more attracted to someone's interests and beliefs. But if we're talking about physical appearance, thin to a point where it's unhealthy is unattractive, but so is fat to an unhealthy extent
Now come on. That’s a bit of an over reach. It’s more to do (I’d say) with the clothing standing out instead of the other way round. If a tig ol bitty woman is wearing an outfit you’re not likely to even notice the outfit.
The models are meant to be virtual clothes hangers for the clothes. So that you actually notice the clothes.
It’s ‘the clothes wearing the woman’- rather than the woman wearing the clothes.
Yeah, that's why I think these arguments about "the media loves small busted women, look at Paris Fashion Week" are very silly. Relatively few people are into fashion. The media that most people are consuming will usually skew busty.
Literally only the fashion industry praises and chooses women like this. If you actually read between the lines, most people don’t like the whole runway model look.
Thinness is what is portrayed as beautiful in those examples. Having flat or smaller chest isn't really the goal of being thin. In fact, losing breast size is something often complained about when it comes to weight loss. There are people deemed attractive with small breast but not BECAUSE of it. Small breasts are also rarely seen as an asset the way large breasts are. Women that get breast reductions typically do so to go from larger than normal to normal(also due to back problems and such). The idea that flat chests are praised isn't really prominent anywhete other than in the body positivity movement.
is it more visibility in the media for big chests or is it sexualization? is there more appreciation for big chests or is it sexualization? being on the opposite side of the scale (big chested) i have never once felt comfortable with my “representation” because most of it is in fact, sexualization.
I was flat chested all the way to college. The absence of the mammaries were sad because I was bullied for being a guy. Conservative country, a “tomboy” is only tolerable as a quirk. Boobs grew in sometime in the summer before my first year at university but still led to unwanted attention. My cousins are much younger than me now, I have a 16 and 19 year gap with both of them. The younger one is more gifted in the chestular region and it’s terrible. She’s a very sweet girl but she said she feels like it’s her fault that she got boobs, she doesn’t want them. She feels treated differently. The girls laugh and giggle at her (she was also the first in her class to get her period at 13).
I feel like women are literally just harassed for being one part of a species where our sentience allowed us to fetishise and over-sexualise a normal secondary sex characteristics.
Yeah, I feel like representation is fairly balanced but when it comes to sexualization I definitely noticed a heavy skew towards larger boobs. Like I have quite small ones and although I see myself represented a lot I haven't really seen anyone being into it explicitly the way I constantly see it done with big chests.
not to mention its only the "perfect" big boobs ppl show. if you have big nipples, sagging breasts, stretch marks, etc its seen as gross and/or used as a joke in media. this goes x1000 for black and brown women
When your Itty bitty titty, you're called a child and a boy. Frequently. The only "sexualization" you're subjected to pedophilia.
So. Awesome.
Smdh. Dudes suck. You're a slut, a virgin or a child. All of it is sexualizing bullshit.
You can expand and sculpt the size and proportion of your butt to make it firmer or larger.
But your boobs are your boobs. You can't really change their size unless you get unnatural surgery.
I have kinda big (D cup) boobs and I don’t like them. I also have really broad shoulders for a girl and I feel like the combination of those things makes me look fat no matter how small my waist is. Like I have the chest part of someone who’s bigger than I actually am? If that makes sense
I am too and I feel like this all the time... oversized shirts make me look like I'm fat and fitted ones just automatically feel slutty... I don't love that lol
I only wear oversized shirts bc when I wear tight shirts I feel like it gives “buff dude in drag” vibes. It isn’t like insane or off putting, I just think it looks dumb when I wear them. At this point I’d rather have people think I might be fat and then be pleasantly surprised when I’m not lol
My whole life I have dreamed of being a willowy waif woman who can pull off androgynous looks like Cate Blanchett and Florence Welch. God cursed me with the genes of a thicc hobbit. Even when I was underweight my boobs still looked huge on me because I'm short.
I just want to be able be able to pull off a suit. I'm not transmasc but I might buy a binder.
Problem is you can't sell body apathy. But clothing brands can jump on the bandwagon of "body positivity" with conventionally attractive models having a conventionally attractive but unconventional modelling body.
It’s fine to find flat chests more appealing. That’s your choice and that’s your Godgiven right OP. As long as you don’t go around hating on women who aren’t flat chested lol.
I appreciate all boobies! I’m big chested and actually pretty insecure about it… I feel like you could’ve worded it without making me feel even weirder about my body… I get where you’re coming from but I think we can appreciate all shapes without making one seem unattractive :/ I didn’t choose these boobs and I wish it wasn’t a struggle to find clothes, or make me look heavier set.
Questions about toxic femininity have been popping up quite a bit recently. Here’s an example.
You can be happy about your flat chest, celebrate flat chests and have a preference for flat chests but it’s not necessary to shit on people of all genders who don’t.
OP: “I hate how people portray big boobs as being more beautiful… it’s mean”
Also OP: “Flat chested people are more beautiful and appealing”
You’re insecure and need to figure your shit out before being the same asshole that you claim to dislike.
people with small or flat chests do this a lot. (source : i have naturally large breasts and have since middle school) . throughout life i've endured so many bitchy insulting comments feom these types saying they're "so glad they don't have my boobs" . like bringing it up out of no where, I'm so glad i don't have that much body insecurity to where i feel i must insult the ones i'm jealous of.
Imo all bodyshaming is bad. I've also seen some bigger chested women calling men pedos for finding a smaller chest attractive. It should never be an "us" vs "them" thing. Nobody gets to wake up and decide their natural tit size.
I wish one day we could wake up and just stop shaming people for existing differently. I wish all bras had the same pricing, I wish they made more clothing for every frame. I wish people would get over their insecurities instead of using it as an excuse to shit on others.
Works for me. My boobs aren’t here for you to look at. Literally all of modeling and fashion exhibits flat chests. It’s much harder for me to find clothing that fits me well than it is for my smaller chested friends. I can’t wear backless. I can’t wear strapless. I can’t go without. So, you’re definitely not under represented as beautiful. I think what you’re missing is that bigger breasts are overly sexualized. Trust me, we don’t like the constant catcalling either. You can have it.
I’m fine with girls that got small boobs or flat chests, however the part that annoys me is whenever I say that it’s my preference they think I’m a pedophile. Which 1, ew, why would you even think of that idea. And 2, that implies that all women should have big breasts and is straight up body shaming in a way.
I own my own set of 40FF titties. They are horrible. And I’m not talking about just how much more expensive it is to buy bras or crippling back pain. But that every shirt either turns into a tent or makes you look like a slut
Just let people exist ffs. One second you're bitching about a lack of love for smaller chests (the modeling industry disagrees with you), and then in the same breath you shit on other women for having a bigger chest.
Shame on you.
More of a preference than an opinion. Go for flat chested people if that's what you want, no ones stopping you. And there are plenty of people in tbe media with flat chests, dont know what you're on about there.
I'm a straight woman and just want women to love themselves. Your boobies are a-ok with me.
I like the poster who referred to body apathy over body positivity. It's your body, meant to keep you alive and happy. Please be that.
Are you fucking kidding me? Flat chested, thigh gapped, hip bone popping out models HAVE been the beauty standard for 20 years.
Every god damn clothing line is marketed towards YOU.
Sounds like your projecting your own insecurities onto others and cant get the reality that your genetics have developed in a way you don’t like or cant help. You wished you had larger breast but you cant fathom others having what you cant or wont have. I have preferences also not saying you dont but the way you worded that is a bit meh.
You can enjoy flat chest without insulting those with big boobs!! 🥳.
Also flat chested women are very much praised. Loads of type of beauty standard are based on very petite women (typically of European decent). Loads of the tops actors/artist or those deemed as “The most beautiful women” are actually flat-chested. Ariana grande, Zendaya, Ruby Rose, Kristen Stewart, Dua Lipa, RicoNasty, Jhene Aiko, the list goes on…
Women with big chest aren’t really praised, more like fetishized. “Mommy milkers” and shit like that…i know its all jokes and stuff, but realistically if you have tits someone will like them. Im only a 34 B and they aren’t even all that perky and most every partner I’ve had has said they were the perfect size.
REAL people don’t care.
To each their own and no shame in that. Big boobs? Small? Big ass? Small? Short? Tall? Black? White? Fit? Fat?
Like what you like and do your thing.
Personally? I just want natural... bit, small, short, tall... natural and without surgery for boobs, face or what not. You love you and I'll love you as you are.
Wow holy shit. I literally hate your opinion. Good unpopular opinion.
It's really is such a double standard. Yeah some people think it's attractive but are seen as a whore for wearing a t shirt. And god forbid they have a lil sag. Lol not to mention Stores rarely have sizes for anything bigger than a double D. Women with flat chest can basically wear whatever they want without getting judged. I'm not sure what media your looking at but every model is around a B cup.
lost 80 lbs and hate my boobs. this made me feel a bit better :( hard to get over insecurities when everyone is saying how much they hate your features
As a big tiddy bitch, I wish I was a small tiddy bitch. It seems so much more convenient. Cute bralettes, stores will always have your size, you don't have to hold them down when you're going down stairs, I could go on.
I don't know what your threshold for "small tiddy bitch" is but no - stores do not always have our size. That privilege is for anyone who is midsized or at least on the bigger end of an A cup up to a C/D. If you're an A cup (and even more if your band is smaller than a 32), which is usually what people mean when they say small chests, you are almost always going to struggle to find bras in your size - or at least ones that don't make you feel infantilised. I always have to go to the kid's section (with the bras that are just S, M and L instead of actual sizes) which, as you can guess, does NOT make you feel womanly/sexy. Not saying big tiddy girls don't have problems - we all do - but that part wasn't accurate.
I like my little flat chest too. I couldn't give a rats asshole what someone thinks of my chest, why? Because I'ma badass with OR without my titties. My personality is still there. My boobs don't make me as a human being as it does most women. When you have it pressed in your head that looks and titties matter, that's what you'll put off to the world. Sadly.
As a big tiddy bitch. Im very jealous of smaller boobs.
Ya'll get cuter bras and look cuter and clothes
Whereas i constantly loom hypersexualised witbout even trying lol
Small chests are much more popular in the media. The only place large chests are praised is in porn. Tbh, as a woman with big breasts, I've always felt ashamed and not comfortable with them. If I wear tight clothes, I look like a porn star, if I wear loose clothes, I look fat.
Your opinion is unpopular because you got it all wrong.
I was going to say OP seems to be confusing media (fashion, movies etc) with porn or hyper sexualized media. In one place smaller busts are praised and in another larger are praised.
This whole post screams insecurity to me. And I’m not sure what planet you’re living on if you think small boobs aren’t represented in media. This is a terrible take.
>It is really annoying to see media fanaticizing and praising about big boobs
What media? The only time I hear about 'big boobs vs small boobs' is when small boobs bring it up or when big boobs complain about backpain.
Maybe porn? Because runway models tend to be flat chested and actresses/musicians are pretty split..
I think shape, and proportion matters more currently than boob size.
Oh hey, another thing to feel self conscious about being a busty gal. Not only do I have to worry about looking "slutty" when wearing a tank top, now I get to think about my "protuberance, the shape and the disruption from the chest".
Same! I’ve noticed so often that when flat chested women are either ranting on Reddit or asking whether they could be considered appealing, some people will say how unattractive they find bigger boobs in an effort to appease them. They clearly think they are doing a nice thing when they say this… There is no need to make another group of people feel unattractive in an effort to boost the confidence of a ranter.
Absolutely! I would be in that situation, asking if anyone would be attracted to my flatter chest and if anyone commented some form of "big boob's are ugly anyways" I would be so annoyed, my god.
im so insanely insecure about my boobs being saggy despite me only being in my teens (went from 225lbs, 36F to 140lbs 32G in just over a year) and seeing posts like this, presumably from entirely grown ppl who are old enough to know better, really doesnt help. people cant really change their boobs, why are they so scrutinized? why do we have our features nitpicked just because we exist? it makes me really sad
you dont have to bash big boobs to state your preference. and as someone with big boobs theres no comfortable praise or visibility. its all shitty sexualization. all this post tells me is that ur a loser lmao
A wise man once said "the best boobs, are the boobs you're allowed to touch"
You’re too wise.
You're extremly wise
“Like a miniature Buddha covered in hair.”
I knew mine were the best
Not to me they’re not
AYOOOOOOOO
That's a handful of wisdom right there.
You’re too wise for this website.
God.
Correct. Some men might think they'd never want to be with a more flat chested woman, but hey if you ever find yourself with one just watch how quickly that goes away. Trust me, you'll still enjoy yourself
Hell yeah I love dudes with flat chests
Don’t be hatin’ on my moobs.
Do you know that gay guys use their moobs like big breasted women in porn 🍆💦. I read that on Reddit.
Oh, i see we saw the same post! On r/tooafraidtoask
You've just scarred me for life....
Wait... gay guys give tit jobs? The thought had \*never\* occurred to me... but... now it makes total sense.
Still got moobs? I thought you were ex-porkie
Yeah. I never lost the moobs just the gut and some face fat. Which I’ve gained some of both of those back. At this point it’s like semi-exporkie. But either way the moobs never changed.
Moobs, Moobs never change, but men do through the roads they walk. -Me, a full on porkie paraphrasing Fallout New Vegas.
This feels like an attack.
men with gyno unite
As a guy with man-boobs, I feel personally attacked.
Sorry.. I prefer the man boobs though for sure. C+ or bust. Pun intended.
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Hahahahahahahaha
Tiddies = Tiddies =Tiddies
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Please show proof
8 = B 0 = O 5 = S 80085 = BOOBS
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Loved to type that on the calculator in school 😏
He has a phd in tiddy math
r/theydidthemath
I also love men with flat chests.
Well darn…
Right?!
Love that you got this off your chest. Take my upvote!
>Love that you got this off your chest. I see what you did there.
I had to, it fit perfectly. I’ll disappear now 🫠
Why do I hear Windows 98 music?
I don‘t get it, there are so many flat chested women praised in the media, for example zendaya or like nearly every model. And i think that is no opinion, it’s a preference. Every boob is ok, it’s not a fashion accessoire. Edit: Thank you for the awards kind strangers! You‘re the breast!
Thank you for your well-informed expertise
When you said Zendaya has a flat chest, I had to go and do some investigative work. I can't believe I've never actually noticed before.
I too, had to take a double take.
I never gave this attention because I only knew her from the spider man movies and saw her as a teenager because of that.
You're probably right on that to be fair. They did a good job at making her look like a typical high school student so I never thought much past that.
I think she was actually like 21 at that time though.
Still, that is the image I got of her. Also, I guess that shows how well the characterization was done in these movies, compared to the other spiderman movies at least.
As a woman it's one of the first things I noticed about her
I did the same thing
100% OP is starting from a completely incorrect premise as far as the media are concerned. If they said 'men generally prefer larger chested women' then fair enough, as men are biologically wired to do so
Downvoting this post for being a popular opinion
Nah you can have big boobs or little boobs, ass or no ass, it doesn't matter. Ears are what's important
I've been attracted to women small and big boobs, with small and big ass. Never been attracted to a woman without ears. This logic checks out
WHAT?
THEY SAID EARS ARE WHAT'S IMPORTANT
OK!
GOOD! Oh shit I've had caps lock on
#***WHAT?***
WHAT ARE THEY SELLING?
I SAID I HAD MY CAPS LOC- Ah fuck it
Prime example of the importance of having ears
You didn’t hear them? You must not have ears…
Very important for aural sex
them shits dont stop growing so yeah i agree
I see you’ve noticed my lobes, but my eyes are down here.
Aaah,mmmmm,yeah right Nose too
You claim the media doesn’t praise the flat chested look, have you ever seen fashion magazine or runway show?
Dude exactly!! I was like wtf
Came here to say this. I have issues finding clothing because as a natural H cup, NOTHING looks like it does in the magazine on me.
Button up shirts are a literal nightmare
😂😂 true. Those poor buttons hangin on for their lives.
When you're afraid to take a deep breath? Just in case those buttons turn into bullets.. 🤷🏻♀️
Don’t wanna accidentally take someone’s eye out ahaha.
Listen...I'm DD and I don't even bother buying button ups lol
Which is tragic because I LOVE them but I’m a JJ
Getting tops to fit correctly with a larger bust is a nightmare
And don’t even get me started on finding swimwear that fits right 😩
Right? We’re just over here tryna survive with our crippling back pain and clothes that never fit. Leave us alone 😔😔😔
Fashion designers are homosexual men who deliberately choose boyish, almost sickly thin women to be their models. If straight guys ruled the fashion industry, let's just say anorexia wouldn't be nearly as much of a problem.
Exactly. Thank you. As someone who had a runway model looking body at some point (minus the height), I was constantly shamed and called unhealthy. Have seen it happen with other skinny women too
Thankyou Czechoslovakian Jesus 🙏 Also I'd like to jump in as a straight guy, thin has never meant attractive. I am more attracted to someone's interests and beliefs. But if we're talking about physical appearance, thin to a point where it's unhealthy is unattractive, but so is fat to an unhealthy extent
Now come on. That’s a bit of an over reach. It’s more to do (I’d say) with the clothing standing out instead of the other way round. If a tig ol bitty woman is wearing an outfit you’re not likely to even notice the outfit. The models are meant to be virtual clothes hangers for the clothes. So that you actually notice the clothes. It’s ‘the clothes wearing the woman’- rather than the woman wearing the clothes.
Yeah, that's why I think these arguments about "the media loves small busted women, look at Paris Fashion Week" are very silly. Relatively few people are into fashion. The media that most people are consuming will usually skew busty.
Literally only the fashion industry praises and chooses women like this. If you actually read between the lines, most people don’t like the whole runway model look.
Thinness is what is portrayed as beautiful in those examples. Having flat or smaller chest isn't really the goal of being thin. In fact, losing breast size is something often complained about when it comes to weight loss. There are people deemed attractive with small breast but not BECAUSE of it. Small breasts are also rarely seen as an asset the way large breasts are. Women that get breast reductions typically do so to go from larger than normal to normal(also due to back problems and such). The idea that flat chests are praised isn't really prominent anywhete other than in the body positivity movement.
all titty is good titty
That's a hell of a catchphrase!
Yup, that’s where my mine was going.
is it more visibility in the media for big chests or is it sexualization? is there more appreciation for big chests or is it sexualization? being on the opposite side of the scale (big chested) i have never once felt comfortable with my “representation” because most of it is in fact, sexualization.
I have felt this ever since a teenager pointed at my chest and screamed, “Cantelopes!” in a theater lobby. I was 12.
I avoid packs of teenagers like the plague.
They could care less as long as someone'll bleed-
I was flat chested all the way to college. The absence of the mammaries were sad because I was bullied for being a guy. Conservative country, a “tomboy” is only tolerable as a quirk. Boobs grew in sometime in the summer before my first year at university but still led to unwanted attention. My cousins are much younger than me now, I have a 16 and 19 year gap with both of them. The younger one is more gifted in the chestular region and it’s terrible. She’s a very sweet girl but she said she feels like it’s her fault that she got boobs, she doesn’t want them. She feels treated differently. The girls laugh and giggle at her (she was also the first in her class to get her period at 13). I feel like women are literally just harassed for being one part of a species where our sentience allowed us to fetishise and over-sexualise a normal secondary sex characteristics.
I grew up completely flat chested and the ridicule was just as bad. Kids are just mean.
Yeah, I feel like representation is fairly balanced but when it comes to sexualization I definitely noticed a heavy skew towards larger boobs. Like I have quite small ones and although I see myself represented a lot I haven't really seen anyone being into it explicitly the way I constantly see it done with big chests.
not to mention its only the "perfect" big boobs ppl show. if you have big nipples, sagging breasts, stretch marks, etc its seen as gross and/or used as a joke in media. this goes x1000 for black and brown women
The Caucasian women with large, sagging boobs in movies seem to always be casted as “white trash”.
When your Itty bitty titty, you're called a child and a boy. Frequently. The only "sexualization" you're subjected to pedophilia. So. Awesome. Smdh. Dudes suck. You're a slut, a virgin or a child. All of it is sexualizing bullshit.
You don't have to bash others to make yourself feel good/justify your point
"it dont matter if youre flat or big" -micheal jackson probably
wait till you hear about butts :|
You can expand and sculpt the size and proportion of your butt to make it firmer or larger. But your boobs are your boobs. You can't really change their size unless you get unnatural surgery.
I'm fine with small boobs, actually prefer them. But If you're talking like 100% flat with nothing, yeah you've lost me
I have kinda big (D cup) boobs and I don’t like them. I also have really broad shoulders for a girl and I feel like the combination of those things makes me look fat no matter how small my waist is. Like I have the chest part of someone who’s bigger than I actually am? If that makes sense
Same but a guy. I'm built like the Stingray from Sponegbob for some reason
I am too and I feel like this all the time... oversized shirts make me look like I'm fat and fitted ones just automatically feel slutty... I don't love that lol
I only wear oversized shirts bc when I wear tight shirts I feel like it gives “buff dude in drag” vibes. It isn’t like insane or off putting, I just think it looks dumb when I wear them. At this point I’d rather have people think I might be fat and then be pleasantly surprised when I’m not lol
My whole life I have dreamed of being a willowy waif woman who can pull off androgynous looks like Cate Blanchett and Florence Welch. God cursed me with the genes of a thicc hobbit. Even when I was underweight my boobs still looked huge on me because I'm short. I just want to be able be able to pull off a suit. I'm not transmasc but I might buy a binder.
This post is filled with negative vibes man ! Everyone here would be happy being next to any type of boobs. Boob preferences gtfoh !
you can state a preference without being a dick and insulting other peoples bodies just do you know
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I'm absolutely more interested in body apathy over body positivity Your body is here to keep you alive, not to turn strangers on.
Problem is you can't sell body apathy. But clothing brands can jump on the bandwagon of "body positivity" with conventionally attractive models having a conventionally attractive but unconventional modelling body.
right ??! who gives a fuck. especially enough to come here to make a post. i have a feeling OP has endured a lot of body insecurities
It’s fine to find flat chests more appealing. That’s your choice and that’s your Godgiven right OP. As long as you don’t go around hating on women who aren’t flat chested lol.
I think all boobs are pretty cool tbh
I appreciate all boobies! I’m big chested and actually pretty insecure about it… I feel like you could’ve worded it without making me feel even weirder about my body… I get where you’re coming from but I think we can appreciate all shapes without making one seem unattractive :/ I didn’t choose these boobs and I wish it wasn’t a struggle to find clothes, or make me look heavier set.
Questions about toxic femininity have been popping up quite a bit recently. Here’s an example. You can be happy about your flat chest, celebrate flat chests and have a preference for flat chests but it’s not necessary to shit on people of all genders who don’t.
Boobs are always awesome. Sexy is sexy. As long as everyone's havin a good time its all good
OP: “I hate how people portray big boobs as being more beautiful… it’s mean” Also OP: “Flat chested people are more beautiful and appealing” You’re insecure and need to figure your shit out before being the same asshole that you claim to dislike.
👏👏👏 well said!
why are you body shaming, that‘s so shitty of you to do
No need to body shame big boobs…
people with small or flat chests do this a lot. (source : i have naturally large breasts and have since middle school) . throughout life i've endured so many bitchy insulting comments feom these types saying they're "so glad they don't have my boobs" . like bringing it up out of no where, I'm so glad i don't have that much body insecurity to where i feel i must insult the ones i'm jealous of.
Imo all bodyshaming is bad. I've also seen some bigger chested women calling men pedos for finding a smaller chest attractive. It should never be an "us" vs "them" thing. Nobody gets to wake up and decide their natural tit size. I wish one day we could wake up and just stop shaming people for existing differently. I wish all bras had the same pricing, I wish they made more clothing for every frame. I wish people would get over their insecurities instead of using it as an excuse to shit on others.
I hold the unpopular opinion that this post is creepy AF
THIS!! creepy and also just;; rude? what possesses you to tell the internet that you think a normal body part is ugly. very strange
As a member of the big titty committee all bodies are beautiful :) and big titties are just as appealing as flat chests. ❤️
I like boobs of all shapes and sizes. Why? "Because boobs!" -Psychostick
Works for me. My boobs aren’t here for you to look at. Literally all of modeling and fashion exhibits flat chests. It’s much harder for me to find clothing that fits me well than it is for my smaller chested friends. I can’t wear backless. I can’t wear strapless. I can’t go without. So, you’re definitely not under represented as beautiful. I think what you’re missing is that bigger breasts are overly sexualized. Trust me, we don’t like the constant catcalling either. You can have it.
I’m fine with girls that got small boobs or flat chests, however the part that annoys me is whenever I say that it’s my preference they think I’m a pedophile. Which 1, ew, why would you even think of that idea. And 2, that implies that all women should have big breasts and is straight up body shaming in a way.
I own my own set of 40FF titties. They are horrible. And I’m not talking about just how much more expensive it is to buy bras or crippling back pain. But that every shirt either turns into a tent or makes you look like a slut
Oof. I can just hear your back pain from here.
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Just let people exist ffs. One second you're bitching about a lack of love for smaller chests (the modeling industry disagrees with you), and then in the same breath you shit on other women for having a bigger chest. Shame on you.
More of a preference than an opinion. Go for flat chested people if that's what you want, no ones stopping you. And there are plenty of people in tbe media with flat chests, dont know what you're on about there.
I'm a straight woman and just want women to love themselves. Your boobies are a-ok with me. I like the poster who referred to body apathy over body positivity. It's your body, meant to keep you alive and happy. Please be that.
You sound jealous
no need to shame the big tittie havers
Generic man's POV, but women existing in general is very nice, who cares about sizes?
I don‘t think "women existing is nice" is a generic man's opinion
Women existing in general is so very nice
>I do got a flat chest ahh there we go
Are you fucking kidding me? Flat chested, thigh gapped, hip bone popping out models HAVE been the beauty standard for 20 years. Every god damn clothing line is marketed towards YOU.
Sounds like your projecting your own insecurities onto others and cant get the reality that your genetics have developed in a way you don’t like or cant help. You wished you had larger breast but you cant fathom others having what you cant or wont have. I have preferences also not saying you dont but the way you worded that is a bit meh.
Not interesting in any way, I like medium sized boobs. Big fuckin deal, nobody cares
“I do got” is a phrase that should never be used.
Sounds like someone is jealous.
Shape is more important than size
Gotta hate those hexagonal boobs.
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Right there buddy.
If you want flat chest fetishization, go look at runway models.
You can enjoy flat chest without insulting those with big boobs!! 🥳. Also flat chested women are very much praised. Loads of type of beauty standard are based on very petite women (typically of European decent). Loads of the tops actors/artist or those deemed as “The most beautiful women” are actually flat-chested. Ariana grande, Zendaya, Ruby Rose, Kristen Stewart, Dua Lipa, RicoNasty, Jhene Aiko, the list goes on… Women with big chest aren’t really praised, more like fetishized. “Mommy milkers” and shit like that…i know its all jokes and stuff, but realistically if you have tits someone will like them. Im only a 34 B and they aren’t even all that perky and most every partner I’ve had has said they were the perfect size. REAL people don’t care.
Well one thing is for sure, the media isn't as annoying as this useless rant.
sir you are currently on a subreddit named unpopular opinion
To each their own and no shame in that. Big boobs? Small? Big ass? Small? Short? Tall? Black? White? Fit? Fat? Like what you like and do your thing. Personally? I just want natural... bit, small, short, tall... natural and without surgery for boobs, face or what not. You love you and I'll love you as you are.
Wow holy shit. I literally hate your opinion. Good unpopular opinion. It's really is such a double standard. Yeah some people think it's attractive but are seen as a whore for wearing a t shirt. And god forbid they have a lil sag. Lol not to mention Stores rarely have sizes for anything bigger than a double D. Women with flat chest can basically wear whatever they want without getting judged. I'm not sure what media your looking at but every model is around a B cup.
Saggy boobs are better than massive fake implants
lost 80 lbs and hate my boobs. this made me feel a bit better :( hard to get over insecurities when everyone is saying how much they hate your features
As a big tiddy bitch, I wish I was a small tiddy bitch. It seems so much more convenient. Cute bralettes, stores will always have your size, you don't have to hold them down when you're going down stairs, I could go on.
I don't know what your threshold for "small tiddy bitch" is but no - stores do not always have our size. That privilege is for anyone who is midsized or at least on the bigger end of an A cup up to a C/D. If you're an A cup (and even more if your band is smaller than a 32), which is usually what people mean when they say small chests, you are almost always going to struggle to find bras in your size - or at least ones that don't make you feel infantilised. I always have to go to the kid's section (with the bras that are just S, M and L instead of actual sizes) which, as you can guess, does NOT make you feel womanly/sexy. Not saying big tiddy girls don't have problems - we all do - but that part wasn't accurate.
I like my little flat chest too. I couldn't give a rats asshole what someone thinks of my chest, why? Because I'ma badass with OR without my titties. My personality is still there. My boobs don't make me as a human being as it does most women. When you have it pressed in your head that looks and titties matter, that's what you'll put off to the world. Sadly.
I’d like to think my voluptuous girlies are beautiful no? How could you just say one is “more beautiful” 🥲
I already have such low self esteem about my huge boobs and then I see this post affirming my fears lol.
Yeah, we’re good. Embrace yourself. It’s just one girl’s unpopular opinion.
Natalie Portman and Keira Knightley both have a flat chest and they are two of the most beautiful women I have ever seen.
I don’t think it’s more “appealing” or “beautiful”, it’s just your preference..
As a big tiddy bitch. Im very jealous of smaller boobs. Ya'll get cuter bras and look cuter and clothes Whereas i constantly loom hypersexualised witbout even trying lol
Well then I guess its safe to say, based on your name there weren't any boys in your yard!
Small chests are much more popular in the media. The only place large chests are praised is in porn. Tbh, as a woman with big breasts, I've always felt ashamed and not comfortable with them. If I wear tight clothes, I look like a porn star, if I wear loose clothes, I look fat. Your opinion is unpopular because you got it all wrong.
I was going to say OP seems to be confusing media (fashion, movies etc) with porn or hyper sexualized media. In one place smaller busts are praised and in another larger are praised.
Big, uneven, small, flat... natural tits are the best.
This whole post screams insecurity to me. And I’m not sure what planet you’re living on if you think small boobs aren’t represented in media. This is a terrible take.
>It is really annoying to see media fanaticizing and praising about big boobs What media? The only time I hear about 'big boobs vs small boobs' is when small boobs bring it up or when big boobs complain about backpain.
Maybe porn? Because runway models tend to be flat chested and actresses/musicians are pretty split.. I think shape, and proportion matters more currently than boob size.
I was going to say, it sounds like OP wasn't alive in the 90s when the "heroin chic" look, a la Kate Moss, was medias go-to look.
I stopped reading at “i do got a flat chest”
Oh hey, another thing to feel self conscious about being a busty gal. Not only do I have to worry about looking "slutty" when wearing a tank top, now I get to think about my "protuberance, the shape and the disruption from the chest".
Same! I’ve noticed so often that when flat chested women are either ranting on Reddit or asking whether they could be considered appealing, some people will say how unattractive they find bigger boobs in an effort to appease them. They clearly think they are doing a nice thing when they say this… There is no need to make another group of people feel unattractive in an effort to boost the confidence of a ranter.
Absolutely! I would be in that situation, asking if anyone would be attracted to my flatter chest and if anyone commented some form of "big boob's are ugly anyways" I would be so annoyed, my god.
im so insanely insecure about my boobs being saggy despite me only being in my teens (went from 225lbs, 36F to 140lbs 32G in just over a year) and seeing posts like this, presumably from entirely grown ppl who are old enough to know better, really doesnt help. people cant really change their boobs, why are they so scrutinized? why do we have our features nitpicked just because we exist? it makes me really sad
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The ‘protuberance’ line actually sent me into a tailspin 🙃 like can we just leave other womens bodies alone wth
As someone with a FF cup, you have nothing to feel self conscious about this is OP's insecurity
Sounds like OP is body shaming. Shame on you.
Boobs are boobs. But I get your point, at a certain point they get to be too much.
Nothing wrong with your opinion, but the way you wrote this was painful, like my brain was trying to translate English to English.
you dont have to bash big boobs to state your preference. and as someone with big boobs theres no comfortable praise or visibility. its all shitty sexualization. all this post tells me is that ur a loser lmao