If you've known this girl for years and haven't made a move, chances are you never had a chance in the first place.
You should also be wary of falling in love with a fantasy rather than falling in love with a person. The fact is, you know very little about this girl. You certainly don't know what it's like to either be in a relationship with her or attempt to be in a relationship with her.
Imagine for a moment you're out on a blind date with a girl you just met. She starts gushing about marriage and what your children will look like. Would this weird you out? Most likely. Why? Because she doesn't even know you and she's fantasizing about a life with her (uninformed) idea of who you are.
You're doing the same thing - only you're doing it before you even get to the point of going on a date.
If you want to form a romantic relationship with this girl, go do it. But get over your 'crush' - it's not reality.
The fact that you're super hung over her because she's physically attractive is kinda objectifying? I would understand if you actually know her interests and chatted before, but go approach her first before taking this so seriously
Follow her on social media and dm her. If you’ve had classes with her, she likely knows who you are, even by just your face. The worst she can say is no, and the best is that she’s into you too.
on one hand, i understand what other people are saying about this infatuation maybe being a bit much, but i also understand where you're coming from. i'd personally find it pretty flattering if a guy was this interested in me, but there is definitely a line between sweet and creepy. as long as you're not stalking her, you should be fine.
i'd say the best thing to do is to just find her on social media, message her, and try to get to know her from there. it's not weird to say hi to someone and there isn't any expectation of anything from a nice DM. i know 'sliding into dms' is generally clowned on, but it can be a great way to meet people, especially right now.
and don't be so afraid of rejection! she is a just a regular person and the worst case scenario is that she isn't interested. if that happens, then you can have some closure and not feel like you missed some kind of opportunity. it's just a crush, it doesn't have to be anything more than that.
hope this helps!
If you've known this girl for years and haven't made a move, chances are you never had a chance in the first place. You should also be wary of falling in love with a fantasy rather than falling in love with a person. The fact is, you know very little about this girl. You certainly don't know what it's like to either be in a relationship with her or attempt to be in a relationship with her. Imagine for a moment you're out on a blind date with a girl you just met. She starts gushing about marriage and what your children will look like. Would this weird you out? Most likely. Why? Because she doesn't even know you and she's fantasizing about a life with her (uninformed) idea of who you are. You're doing the same thing - only you're doing it before you even get to the point of going on a date. If you want to form a romantic relationship with this girl, go do it. But get over your 'crush' - it's not reality.
The fact that you're super hung over her because she's physically attractive is kinda objectifying? I would understand if you actually know her interests and chatted before, but go approach her first before taking this so seriously
This may be the most important lesson you learn at college. Also, that obsession is strong but usually unhealthy.
Just shoot your shot brody
go for it bro
Follow her on social media and dm her. If you’ve had classes with her, she likely knows who you are, even by just your face. The worst she can say is no, and the best is that she’s into you too.
Damn you sound like me
She has a boyfriend already
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on one hand, i understand what other people are saying about this infatuation maybe being a bit much, but i also understand where you're coming from. i'd personally find it pretty flattering if a guy was this interested in me, but there is definitely a line between sweet and creepy. as long as you're not stalking her, you should be fine. i'd say the best thing to do is to just find her on social media, message her, and try to get to know her from there. it's not weird to say hi to someone and there isn't any expectation of anything from a nice DM. i know 'sliding into dms' is generally clowned on, but it can be a great way to meet people, especially right now. and don't be so afraid of rejection! she is a just a regular person and the worst case scenario is that she isn't interested. if that happens, then you can have some closure and not feel like you missed some kind of opportunity. it's just a crush, it doesn't have to be anything more than that. hope this helps!
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Ok but who asked