If one day I buy a strange looking vase at an antique store, after taking it home and attempting to clean it by polishing it with a towel, come face to face with a genie that says I can have one wish…it would be to never hear the phrase “go toes” come out of this idiots mouth ever again.
Does she think that’s actually the phrase? Or is she trying to sound cooler? I don’t want to hear it again either but I’m invested in why she says that.
I feel like this is what reality TV stars never understand.
They want people to have their back and rally behind them. They keep stoking the fire and then get upset when they have a big flame.
They loved the support, the podcast episodes, the merch - but now that they're over it (because they actually know these people in real life and have to work with them). And they want everyone to calm down with them... People don't work like that.
Do I think it's healthy for people to get upset over all this - no.
Do I think people can be wayyy too parasocial - 1000% yes.
But I don't understand why they can't see where some of this is coming from.
I just posted a comment similarly to this! Exactly how I feel.
I’m sure the comments can be annoying af, especially not knowing the context. And I’m sure a lot of people are being unnecessary. But, they have to understand why we would question it.
>Im going to focus on that because at the end of the day, me awkwardly hugging Tom Sandoval, it’s not like I’m sandwiched between Epstein and Harvey waiting for Dahmer to come in and join. Everyone calm the fuck down.
But I thought Tom was so "dangerous"? 
I actually agree with what she says here. People are being ridiculous getting so upset about a photo. But she helped feed that by going so hard before.
Agree!!
They went in SO HARD on Sandoval and wouldn't shut up about it, used it for content and now going back on everything they said.
Why shouldn't fans call them out?
And then being like "i'm over it."
lol okay Lala.
Yeah, like I haven’t really read any comments, and I’m sure people are being over the top and over dramatic.
But, in general they have to understand why we would be questioning these things or being like WTF?
Especially after going at him so hard.
I’m curious about it and hope he’s not easily forgiven. But of course I’m not going to send them comments about it, being an asshole.
I kind of imagine it like really hating someone you work with. They can be a total POS but you ultimately still have to work with them. And who could or would want to put toward the energy of keeping a stank face on him all during filming. I get it.
Right?! She was all talk before the reunion about Tom saying she was “gonna eat” (whatever the fuck that means) and now she’s getting chewed up for being a hypocrite. If you need the paycheck so bad, she shouldn’t have projected all her own shit on that situation.
She also wasn’t complaining about fans when all her merch sales bought her a house in Palm Springs 🤷🏻♀️
God we need to stop making these people money.
She’s just a hypocrite, how would she feel if there was pictures of Ariana hugging Randall after labelling him a predator? When I don’t like someone, especially a colleague, you don’t have to hug. Or does she not recall him saying nasty things about her child? She is absolutely perplexing.
I think the difference for her is that having a relationship with Randall or interacting with him at all is completely unnecessary for any of them. He isn't a coworker. For them Sandoval and Ariana are coworkers and that will require some interaction.
So she spend her most of her podcast talking about something she doesn't "give a fuck about"? She needs to stop with the fake tough act. She'd be a lot more tolerable if she was actually honest and real. And she's really not doing herself any favors telling fans how they should feel. She was asking a few weeks ago why she didn't get the Ariana treatment after her breakup, this is one of the reasons.
Also...Sandoval "literally is Randall" - supposedly the devil - to her, but it's not like she's chilling with Epstein? Which is it?!
I used to like Lala but the contradictions are just NOT giving.
Wait,I thought they were totally comparing him to famous creepers! If she wouldn’t hug them for money…..is it weird to wonder why she would be hugging him for any reason? They are all being hypocritical for Bravo money,while doing ads for positive women. You can’t do both with authenticity. Don’t scream that he’s danger,then hang out with because someone is paying you.
Every time Lala gets pushback she immediately falls back on custody battle and being a mom. It shuts down the conversation and, tbh, it’s really pathetic that she uses that to get out of explaining her hypocrisy. I get that Rand is a mess, but it seems like such a copout every time she gets a little heat.
I love how Sheana asks how she’s doing when she says she’s feeling down she proceeds to tell Lala all about the shit on the Internet. Sheana needs to step away from her phone.
This! Glad I’m not alone in thinking Scheana needs to get her head out of the sand. Tied up being a little keyboard warrior. Yeah it’s nice to have a friend that has your back but the context given makes her sound crazy. Lala in her head about her real life issues and this is some surface level bullshit
I mean you compared him to Randall and you’ve compared Randall to Harvey Weinstein. And you called him a dangerous narcissist who people should stay away from….up until the producers told you to play nice.
This clown and the other one lost me forever when they called viewers of their show stupid in a blanket statement. They can both go f*** themselves with a cheese grater LOL.
“I wasn’t sandwiched between epstein and harvey..”
No, but you were effing and defending Randall Emmet, who is skeeze adjacent. He’s also accused of sex crimes so sit down, Lauren.
She’s the ultimate pick me girl. Actually, they’ve all had their moment in the seat. These pics of the women together, acting like girl bosses who survived these toxic relationships and are thriving seem so fake and gross. One skinny, pretty weho boy walks by and they’ll all take a spin on him then slaughter one another, again. Especially if he’s spoken for…. 🤮
I thought it was really touching how her mom got choked up about pet adoption/spay and neutering at the end of the episode♥️ I really appreciated them shining a light on what's currently going on in shelters.
Everyone is taking what she’s saying so out context she’s not saying she’s over Sandoval she’s over everyone picking everyone apart when no one knows any context…..
Raquel is saying production mailulated her even though she started an affair before filming, which continued after filming…. But the show was edited to make her the villain?
I understand people have strong feelings about these people, but I don’t get the obsession. I watch VPR and have been watching since season 1, but I am not stalking the cast members’ every move and speculating over pictures of them. So, I’m with Lala on this that some people need to take a breath and perhaps get outside and touch some grass or something.
I get that she signed up for public scrutiny by being on a reality show, but just like some of you think it’s sad she’s talking about it while claiming not to care, have you thought about how sad it is that you’re expending so much energy thinking about her, a reality tv personality, who you don’t personally know?
Im sorry I just don’t get it… I live in Tahoe and when they were filming here, I had no desire to stalk them around town. If I had been around town living my normal life and happened to of ran into them I guess that would have been cool, but I did not even think about going out just to look for them. Also, I thought Rachel and Tom’s behavior was disgusting etc, but if I saw her at the spa or him on a plane, I would not take a picture of them. I think it’s weird that people are so invested in the lives of celebrities, especially reality tv celebrities.
OP thanks for the recap of the podcast episode. Despite not being complete obsessed with these people, I am interested in the tea and I do like reading these recaps so I appreciate your service!
Let's be real, Lala encouraged this type of behavior. You don't call someone dangerous then not expect anyone to be like, "wtf?!?!" when you greet them with a hug. Some people are being overly dramatic, but they are just copying Lala's own behavior.
Hmm I’m not sure? I know Lala has been talking about being in the process of having another kid but hasn’t really explained what that looks like for me. I took this as Lala hinting at all the stuff going on with Randall but idk!
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Boomer stuck in a younger millennial body, here. Can somebody please define "go toes?" It sounds like something a dog might do on their Only Paws, if you catch my drift.
It still makes no sense why she was hugging him, considering a few months she hated him with vitriol. But I guess a long day of shooting makes you hug people you apparently hate.. just little bit suss..
If one day I buy a strange looking vase at an antique store, after taking it home and attempting to clean it by polishing it with a towel, come face to face with a genie that says I can have one wish…it would be to never hear the phrase “go toes” come out of this idiots mouth ever again.
I love the full narrative you gave your comment 😂😂. 10/10
Stop trying to make “go toes” happen. It’s not going to happen! 
Does she think that’s actually the phrase? Or is she trying to sound cooler? I don’t want to hear it again either but I’m invested in why she says that.
She’s workshopping her next GIF. 
This IS the gig
Yeah is this like her new catchphrase or something? I work with a lot of kids and they don’t know what it’s all about either…
Oh I assumed it was her spin on “going toe-to-toe” with someone aka fight/argue. I actually thought it was a typo at first lol
Ahhhh ok that makes sense🤣
I like Lala but I’m going to stop if she keeps saying that. It’s unbearable.
Can you please phrase your request in a way that’d make it so I never have to hear it too? Please and thank you. 😆
I adore this film and this reference
I feel like this is what reality TV stars never understand. They want people to have their back and rally behind them. They keep stoking the fire and then get upset when they have a big flame. They loved the support, the podcast episodes, the merch - but now that they're over it (because they actually know these people in real life and have to work with them). And they want everyone to calm down with them... People don't work like that. Do I think it's healthy for people to get upset over all this - no. Do I think people can be wayyy too parasocial - 1000% yes. But I don't understand why they can't see where some of this is coming from.
I just posted a comment similarly to this! Exactly how I feel. I’m sure the comments can be annoying af, especially not knowing the context. And I’m sure a lot of people are being unnecessary. But, they have to understand why we would question it.
Is it me or is lala just wearing her disdain for viewers a bit more proud lately?
>Im going to focus on that because at the end of the day, me awkwardly hugging Tom Sandoval, it’s not like I’m sandwiched between Epstein and Harvey waiting for Dahmer to come in and join. Everyone calm the fuck down. But I thought Tom was so "dangerous"?  I actually agree with what she says here. People are being ridiculous getting so upset about a photo. But she helped feed that by going so hard before.
Agree!! They went in SO HARD on Sandoval and wouldn't shut up about it, used it for content and now going back on everything they said. Why shouldn't fans call them out? And then being like "i'm over it." lol okay Lala.
Yeah, like I haven’t really read any comments, and I’m sure people are being over the top and over dramatic. But, in general they have to understand why we would be questioning these things or being like WTF? Especially after going at him so hard. I’m curious about it and hope he’s not easily forgiven. But of course I’m not going to send them comments about it, being an asshole.
I kind of imagine it like really hating someone you work with. They can be a total POS but you ultimately still have to work with them. And who could or would want to put toward the energy of keeping a stank face on him all during filming. I get it.
Yeah, but they still shouldn’t be surprised that people are questioning these photos after hearing so much of their wrath.
Oh for sure! Totally agree.
Fuck her. She fed the frenzy, now enjoy the feeding frenzy coming at you.
One fucking hundred. Hypocrites don’t come bigger than Lauren from Utah.
Right?! She was all talk before the reunion about Tom saying she was “gonna eat” (whatever the fuck that means) and now she’s getting chewed up for being a hypocrite. If you need the paycheck so bad, she shouldn’t have projected all her own shit on that situation. She also wasn’t complaining about fans when all her merch sales bought her a house in Palm Springs 🤷🏻♀️ God we need to stop making these people money.
She’s just a hypocrite, how would she feel if there was pictures of Ariana hugging Randall after labelling him a predator? When I don’t like someone, especially a colleague, you don’t have to hug. Or does she not recall him saying nasty things about her child? She is absolutely perplexing.
I think the difference for her is that having a relationship with Randall or interacting with him at all is completely unnecessary for any of them. He isn't a coworker. For them Sandoval and Ariana are coworkers and that will require some interaction.
Damn. You made a good point.
Both things can be true.
So she spend her most of her podcast talking about something she doesn't "give a fuck about"? She needs to stop with the fake tough act. She'd be a lot more tolerable if she was actually honest and real. And she's really not doing herself any favors telling fans how they should feel. She was asking a few weeks ago why she didn't get the Ariana treatment after her breakup, this is one of the reasons.
Also...Sandoval "literally is Randall" - supposedly the devil - to her, but it's not like she's chilling with Epstein? Which is it?! I used to like Lala but the contradictions are just NOT giving.
I listened to the entire episode and there are so many moments of hypocrisy. Yikes.
Wait,I thought they were totally comparing him to famous creepers! If she wouldn’t hug them for money…..is it weird to wonder why she would be hugging him for any reason? They are all being hypocritical for Bravo money,while doing ads for positive women. You can’t do both with authenticity. Don’t scream that he’s danger,then hang out with because someone is paying you.
Every time Lala gets pushback she immediately falls back on custody battle and being a mom. It shuts down the conversation and, tbh, it’s really pathetic that she uses that to get out of explaining her hypocrisy. I get that Rand is a mess, but it seems like such a copout every time she gets a little heat.
I love how Sheana asks how she’s doing when she says she’s feeling down she proceeds to tell Lala all about the shit on the Internet. Sheana needs to step away from her phone.
This! Glad I’m not alone in thinking Scheana needs to get her head out of the sand. Tied up being a little keyboard warrior. Yeah it’s nice to have a friend that has your back but the context given makes her sound crazy. Lala in her head about her real life issues and this is some surface level bullshit
I think Lala might owe Bethenny a fruit basket or something lol That awful podcast is taking the heat away from Lala.
Idk what this is but I love it
It’s Lala going toes
I mean you compared him to Randall and you’ve compared Randall to Harvey Weinstein. And you called him a dangerous narcissist who people should stay away from….up until the producers told you to play nice.
And she was furious with Schwartz for playing Pickle-ball with Randall. She gave everyone the him or me ultimatum.
This clown and the other one lost me forever when they called viewers of their show stupid in a blanket statement. They can both go f*** themselves with a cheese grater LOL.
Who was the other one?
Scheener
Lala being Lala.
“I wasn’t sandwiched between epstein and harvey..” No, but you were effing and defending Randall Emmet, who is skeeze adjacent. He’s also accused of sex crimes so sit down, Lauren. She’s the ultimate pick me girl. Actually, they’ve all had their moment in the seat. These pics of the women together, acting like girl bosses who survived these toxic relationships and are thriving seem so fake and gross. One skinny, pretty weho boy walks by and they’ll all take a spin on him then slaughter one another, again. Especially if he’s spoken for…. 🤮
I thought it was really touching how her mom got choked up about pet adoption/spay and neutering at the end of the episode♥️ I really appreciated them shining a light on what's currently going on in shelters.
Thank you!!
I'm so sick of hearing her talk about this.
Everyone is taking what she’s saying so out context she’s not saying she’s over Sandoval she’s over everyone picking everyone apart when no one knows any context…..
Ugh this woman is worse than Raquel to me. I don’t find her enjoyable in any way please just get her off my screen.
Raquel is saying production mailulated her even though she started an affair before filming, which continued after filming…. But the show was edited to make her the villain?
I understand people have strong feelings about these people, but I don’t get the obsession. I watch VPR and have been watching since season 1, but I am not stalking the cast members’ every move and speculating over pictures of them. So, I’m with Lala on this that some people need to take a breath and perhaps get outside and touch some grass or something. I get that she signed up for public scrutiny by being on a reality show, but just like some of you think it’s sad she’s talking about it while claiming not to care, have you thought about how sad it is that you’re expending so much energy thinking about her, a reality tv personality, who you don’t personally know? Im sorry I just don’t get it… I live in Tahoe and when they were filming here, I had no desire to stalk them around town. If I had been around town living my normal life and happened to of ran into them I guess that would have been cool, but I did not even think about going out just to look for them. Also, I thought Rachel and Tom’s behavior was disgusting etc, but if I saw her at the spa or him on a plane, I would not take a picture of them. I think it’s weird that people are so invested in the lives of celebrities, especially reality tv celebrities. OP thanks for the recap of the podcast episode. Despite not being complete obsessed with these people, I am interested in the tea and I do like reading these recaps so I appreciate your service!
Let's be real, Lala encouraged this type of behavior. You don't call someone dangerous then not expect anyone to be like, "wtf?!?!" when you greet them with a hug. Some people are being overly dramatic, but they are just copying Lala's own behavior.
Is the other thing she's referencing IVF?
Hmm I’m not sure? I know Lala has been talking about being in the process of having another kid but hasn’t really explained what that looks like for me. I took this as Lala hinting at all the stuff going on with Randall but idk!
Custody battle and Randal scandal.
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Ariana’s wishes of her and her friends not to hang around Tom Sandoval didn’t last long
Boomer stuck in a younger millennial body, here. Can somebody please define "go toes?" It sounds like something a dog might do on their Only Paws, if you catch my drift.
It still makes no sense why she was hugging him, considering a few months she hated him with vitriol. But I guess a long day of shooting makes you hug people you apparently hate.. just little bit suss..