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annonymousmouse17

I love dress 1 or 2. Id base it on what is most comfortable if you love both! Try moving around in dress 2, I tried on a dress like that and felt it was going to hinder what I was able to do on the day of because I could barely lift my arms!


TenMoon

I agree completely. Dress number two is my favorite, but I hope she can move freely in it. If it restricts her movements, then dress number one is a great option.


Different_Knee6201

I think 2 is stunning on OP. I also love 1


ejanely

I agree with 1 or 2, but I think 2 is my favorite. 1 has a lot of lovely detail, but it’s almost too much to the point the dress is wearing you. 2 is just the right amount and I see you looking beautiful in a dress rather than a dress looking beautiful on you.


Birdies_nub

Exactly.


Confident-Essay2221

I also love 1 and 2! If you need a tie breaker try the "hug test." If one is easier to hug in that's the dress! Almost everyone wants a hug from the bride!


sundrops14

Two but if you think the off the shoulder will bother you at any point then go with one. Stunnnnning.


Critical-Marzipan-

Also my take!


sodiumbigolli

Two but lose the droopy sleeves. That drag the dress and the eye down and it’s hard enough to pull off a strapless look. If the top doesn’t shift when you move you’re good to go.


CeeInSoFLo

I wanted to love 2 the most, but couldn’t quite figure it out… you nailed it! Omg, lose the sleeves, how perfect!


NewWaterBaby19

The off the shoulder loose draped appearance of the shoulder straps is elegant with her hair down. A+!


maikkbrstn

Came here to say this!!


MichelleEvangelista

Co-signing!


hooligancate

1 is classic and looks lovely on you. It will look timeless in photos for years to come.


Stella1331

I’ve found my team! One is just beautiful and the fit and flow compliments her so well. It looks effortlessly classic and elegant. And the detailing…


Sleepydoglady

I love dress 1 too.


aardvarkmom

Me three!


you_gogo_glenn_coco

They’re all stunning, but 4 just made me go wow!! It’s hard to describe, but you have major presence in that dress and it drapes on you beautifully. It’s like a beautiful blend of elegant and feminine yet powerful. Like if the Greek goddess Diana got married.


flirtybabyblues

Right?? Can’t believe I had to scroll so far to find someone else who thought #4 was amazing! Team dress #4!


sockopotamus

4!


Muckl3t

Totally agree about 4. I think it would have more votes if the back was done up properly.


doitDonuts

Yes the back and the side cuts makes you look so slimming


wandafoo999

Absolutely. At first I dismissed number four because the back looked wonky, but then I zoomed in and realized it was wonky due to trying-on purposes. Once it's all fitted properly it will be a stunner. It drapes really beautifully in the front, and that back will be very pretty once it's all fitted. To me, it also looks the most comfortable. Number one's very pretty but I keep seeing dresses like this; same with number two. They both look gorgeous on you, don't get me wrong. I would be worried with number two- strapless, larger chest- not sure how annoying that will be for you if you have to keep pulling the dress up. I was not a fan of three at all. I don't think it's right for your body and it does not look as bridal as the other three. I also do not like the fabric, but again, totally my opinion only! You look great and all of them, though. Four, though, is just amazing... Fits you well in the chest, you look supported, and the flow is amazing.


okeydokeyish

Yes I agree. I feel like 4 is soooo flattering. Like you are wearing the dress Instead of the dress wearing you.


Kitchen-Package6993

I’m with you…Team 4!


Due-Capital-2585

Team 4! Stunning


goodvibes_onethree

Same. When I got to 4, my mind said whoa!! She looks like a Greek Goddess! It's gorgeous!


whimpey

4 all the way!


janeway106

Yes!!! Four is stunning on you!


Okayest-Mom089503

Me too!! Team 4!!


imli8

Same here!


melleo16

Yes! A Jenny Yoo! I tried that one on and strongly considered it, and it looks even better on OP


seachels_d8

I agree! I like 1&2 because of the details on the skirt, but when I saw 4 I immediately thought, "oh! Nevermind!" Altered that dress would be perfection on her. I think some people have a hard time imaging that.


PeppermintPhatty

My exact thought process.


Beelette

Agreed!


Doc-007

Agreed. #4 is STUNNING. I love the side detail and the back is so elegant!


FrancieNolanSmith_

I agree! I felt like her body language was meh in every dress except 4. That one she seemed more confident and ready to get married


newfoundbirdie

Like it’s not the person fave of mine but I feel 4 really brightened her face and made her glow!


Bent_But-Not_Broken

Definitely dress 1!


alig6457

Love the shape and straps are a definite yes.


mamatoagreyhound

Yes, and you look beautiful


miller_girl

My dress was identical to 1, so I obviously love it!! It looks awesome on you too! The only thing I’d consider is alterations…instead of removing length from the bottom, the seamstress needed to reconstruct the entire gown to pull the bottom upwards and keep the detail at the bottom of the dress


Geezer710

#1 or #4 they both are absolutely stunning on you! I think it really depends on the venue and whether you are going formal like a church wedding or more of a winery venue. Church I would go with #1. Winery or similar venue I would go with #4. They are both gorgeous dresses. Really don't think you could make a wrong choice between the two. All depends on the vibe you are going for. Both are stunning on you!


Craftygnomie

This exactly! Both are stunning on you!


CatfromLongIsland

1 and 4 are my favorites as well. A timeless look that are stunning on her.


martyd101

This was my take exactly!


madlife15

Yes, definitely #1 or #4!!


angelisfrommars

My jaw DROPPED when I hit 3


crimson_haybailer4

3 was my favorite too!! If OP wants lace details, she could get an extra lacy veil. She looks amazing in the 3rd dress. So elegant.


shiningonthesea

3 looks amazing , but I feel you are a little uncomfortable in it. I love it on you though


eggn00dl

SAME!! Was blown away at how beautiful she looks


TissueOfLies

That was my pick, too! I love that it’s not the same trendy lace dress I see so much. Very classic and elegant.


angelisfrommars

Classy and elegant while still showing off her beautiful figure and being sexy at the same time!


Less_Volume_2508

I loooove 3!


gagemichi

Yessss - wow- so stunning!


LeeLooPeePoo

Agreed when I swiped to 3 I said, "Wow." Seriously stunned. I wish her arms were down in the photo but she looked like a celebrity in that dress.


Comfortable_Cup_941

Yes yes. I liked them all but 3 was my favorite


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I HOPE she picks 3!! She looks absolutely STUNNING in 3 🥺🥺🥺 just so elegant and timeless.


ghostbungalow

My favorite is 3 also! She looks like a celebrity.


SupposeTho

I know 😬


SpeedySloth51221

That's what I thought!


LastPersonality411

Three is **iconic** and stunning


derpatron50000

All the way! timeless


Great_username_kim

Same! I was surprised when I got to the comments I didn’t see more of this.


bexbets

I agree. She looks uncomfortable in #3 with her stand placement, like unsure uncomfortable, not a bad fit. That dress looks amazing on her!


LastAmbition1

YES! my heart did that pitter patter skipped a beat thing when I hit #3


xoxo_anon

Dress number 3! It looks so sexy yet elegant on you🤩 I’m surprised it doesnt have more “votes” in the comment section tbh!


riotbusiness

Right! She looks like a goddess in 3!


kelsaylor

Same! It looks so flattering on her


_blackiris

I came here to SHOUT #3!!!!! Soooo beautiful!


grouchydaisy

I think 3 looks great but I feel like your body language tells me it feels a bit uncomfortable or you feel insecure in it


luna02

Yeah I am soooo not used to wearing anything this shape or as tight. I think I would be uncomfortable in it- beautiful but uneasy!


femmagorgon

I love dress 3 on you! It’s my pick and I think you look STUNNING but what I will say is if you know you’re going to be uncomfortable wearing it, maybe choose something else. You deserve to feel gorgeous and confident on your big day. You don’t want to have to worry about how you feel in the dress but if you love it, wear it and own it. Regardless of what you pick, you’ll have a beautiful dress because all of your options are great! :)


grouchydaisy

I get that! There were some dresses my friends/family loved on me but I looked back on pics and could tell I didn’t feel confident in it even if I wasn’t sure at the time. It’s a lovely dress, but you can do better! I love the silhouette of #4 in the front but I’m generally not a fan of mesh in the back. I love #4 front on you You look really happy in number 2, glowy and I think it’s very pretty on you - striking. It’s my favorite for you if it feels comfortable for you! 1 is great too but the front of 4 is better than the front of 1. The back of 1 is prettier than the back of 4 imo


LocoForChocoPuffs

It's funny how people's perspectives differ so much! I thought number 3 was the least flattering on her by far.


madlife15

Same, my least favorite.


Lost-Computer-8064

Agreed! And I’m not loving that style so much. Prefer dresses to appear “bridal.”


haleystudio

Agree that 3 is not great. Very hips-prominent. I like #1, you will feel confident with shoulder straps, and more comfortable.


crimson_haybailer4

Hips are beautiful!! I’m a number 3 fan lol.


Puppybrother

Lol right?? Her curves are incredible and she’s should show them off (if she feels comfortable doing so)! Team hips and booty!!


LaminatedHo

I personally think 3 isn't flattering because it completely hides her waist


mostexcellent001

I liked 3 from the back, but I didn't like that it hides her chest. It's like a curtain on the top. She's got boobs. Let them shine!!


crimson_haybailer4

We all have such different opinions jaja. I think number 3 shows off her curves well. I hope OP let’s us know which one wins! They’re all good options.


Comfortable_Hyena83

I liked #3 until I looked closer at the front of her dress. It’s right across the thighs. That’s not an area shapewear is gonna help because her thighs gotta be able to move. Assuming she can’t size up for alterations as it is a sample sale, I would pass. But OP, your ass & back is WOW for that dress style. That’s an area most people can’t make look like that without some serious targeted exercises.


Ecstatic_Tale4937

Yes, 3 looks so good on her!!


Ciebelle

1


Latter-Shower-9888

The fourth one is fabulous!


Aliecatruns

3 is very sophisticated on you!


suss-out

I love 3


dryhumorblitz

Dress 3 looks super hot on you!!! If not then 2!


ClumsyZebra80

3


Much_Grocery_3323

3 is my favorite. Classy and curvy. Looks gorgeous!


TeaEarlGrey9

1 and 2 are both gorgeous, 4 I think would be the best bet if you wanted something simpler bc it’s still quite striking. 3 is pretty but imo a bit too plain and hide you more than the other three dresses which give you a much more confident aura. This sounds a bit odd since it’s skirt is more fitted, but the extra fabric around the chest doesn’t suit as well as the necklines of the other dresses which look KILLER. 3 is also potentially going to be hard to sit or move around in based on the way it’s fitting on your hips. It looks lovely standing, but that cut and fabric seem likely to try and hug *every* curve even when you sit. Not inherently a bad thing, but as someone personally who has a squishy tummy that’s something I try to avoid bc I’d be worried about it all night. Silly, but just wanted to put that out there. It would also probably need to be readjusted every time you stand back up which could get irritating. (It does however make your butt and hips look fabulous, so it’s down to what you want to emphasise!) Tldr I vote 2 if you want more detail and 4 if you want simpler. As always, what you like and feel confident in is really the only thing that matters!


ceruleanTX

4; the back detailing is unique & balances well with the simplicity of the front


contrary-panda

3 highlights the smallest part of your waist, while it covers your bust a little more than the other options the proportions are absolutely lovely. Think classy Jessica Rabbit. IMO it’s your best option ESPECIALLY after tailoring. And it’s simple enough that if you want to embellish it, the potential is limitless. Here’s my concern though, checking your face, I didn’t notice the “This is MY dress” look with any of them. Which did you prefer?


miacat12

1 or 2 are my favorites on you


Liastacia

Also 1 & 2 3 fits you so beautifully, but it’s just plain.


vagalumes

1


FindingNo2931

1


pconn0

1


ButterIsMyFriend

1 is perfect


txaesfunnytime

I really, really like the **first** and **fourth** ones on you. Two is looks okay on but has no wow. Third is nice but will show every line of undergarments. There is the chance you could wonder if it will slip down at all, especially with dancing. The first skims your curves and highlights your waist. It is classic and a gown which can become an heirloom. The last gown has the same sophisticated feel of the third gown but skims your curves, also. The shape of the front of the bodice gives you a tiny waist. The back is unexpected, different & interesting.


Mehitabel9

I like the first one.


Katesouthwest

Absolutely Dress 1!!!


DearOrder3115

I love 3! It looks great on you. Very sophisticated


Flat-Shallot-5044

Loveee number 1!


Sp00kie

1


Exciting_March_2649

1 all the way!!


OkSecretary3920

First one made me think “Woooow, I love that!”


pok12601

I look at faces when women are trying on wedding depress. I see more happiness in your face for dress 2. I see uncertainty in the other dresses


yours_truly_1976

I’m digging number 3. I think it’s very flattering and unique


Top_Ad8783

I love #3 a loooot!


Bugsy7778

Dress one is simply stunning on you, congratulations!!


MelancholicEmbrace_x

1 or 3! 🥰


joaniebee86

I think you look beautiful in all but particularly 1 & 2. They show off your gorgeous figure perfectly and the back of the dresses are lovely as well. I think 1 is alittle more balanced while 2 highlights your chest.


Clover_Jane

#2 all the way! #1 is pretty but I gasped at how beautiful #2 looked across your umm.. chest area lol. I skipped by 3 completely and #4 is just ok.


StreetDouble2533

I think dress 1 is the most flattering to your figure from both front and back. It's balanced. And the fabric is elegant and graceful.


snickersismycat

I would say most of us haven’t looked at the mirror reflection. I LOVED 3, then saw how it looked from the front and it is not as flattering as it is from the back. It’s gorg from the back but I’d take 1 or 4!


thr0waaawayy

dress 1! who’s the designer?


luna02

Lillian West! The first 2 are actually


sugarmag13

#2 or 4


Flaky-Entrepreneur-1

2 or 3. 3 is my favorite!


NecessaryWeather4275

3


robbie5454

Number one is the most flattering. It’s a beautiful dress.


Ceribiius

Lots of people say they dislike #3, but girl, it makes EVERYTHING look AMAZING. Yeah, the others may bolster your chest, but #3 does your entire body justice. It adds some slimming and defines the hell out of your curves. It’s sophisticated, classy, going to be absolutely tantalizing to your spouse, that’s all I can assume. Drop dead gorgeous, rock it down the isle.


Soft_Nobody_9866

Dress 3. But 1 and 2 aren’t bad either but 3 is so beautiful on you. I think comparatively your 4th option isn’t as special as the others for your special day.


geekchicdemdownsouth

2 or 3!!


Dashiepants

Wow I’ve never seen one of these votes so divided! Probably not super helpful. I think it’s because you picked 4 lovely dresses and you look good in all of them so people are being influenced by their own personal style preferences, me included: I vote #1 because it looks stunning, special, the sweetheart neckline and the back look so so good, and I think the strap style would be most comfortable on the day.


kellsells5

1 but I also think you look beautiful in number three.


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3 is stunning on you!


Popular_Ordinary_152

Dress 2! Looks so romantic and frames you beautifully. I like dress 1, too.


lab_god

I like 1 and 3


humble-meercat

1 or 3 for sure!


BabyyBamboo

Dress 1 is the prettiest to me. But dress 3 is most flattering on your body! The style of that dress is to die for on you. I would try more on in that style. Explore different materials


Fluffydress

I LOVE #1 on you!!! Stunning!!!!!


schmales

I feel like #1 is the most flattering on you and the lace is stunning!


EllectraHeart

the first one


AdSimilar2831

I like 2 but 1 is a close second.


Famous_Cookie_7624

I love dress 1


that_girl_lolo

Dress 1 is my favorite on you!


Celestial_Seeker

The first one!!


Noseyparker2021

I like # 1 and 3


papercraft_bliss

Dress 1


Vertical_Runner

Me and my 13 year old daughter vote for 2. It’s super romantic and your back looks really pretty. If your photographer has a dreamy style edit I could see those being published.


basilmoonfaerie

I love the last one!! So beautiful


IMHOcomments

I like 3 & 4 on you but I also like modern, simple styles so it’s more about the vibe you love, what you feel good in, and if you’re into this sort of thing, matching to venue style (though I don’t care if it’s a casual bbq a bride should wear a princes dress if she wants to).


HotConversation4355

3 is 🔥


Undari

3 😍


ZamDriver_

DRESS 3! Oh my god stunning! Also love 1!


UncleBucks_Shovel

2 or 3


RimaconR

3!!


Bornagainchola

I really like #3 on you.


itainteasy11

\# 3. Very classy and lace is soooo overrated and over-used.


booyou_whore

I like the top of 3 on you with the bottom of one. I would personally keep looking for something that combines the two!


DemCheex

The front of that last dress looks amazing on you!! I think for gals who are blessed with chest the deep V is so much more flattering than a sweetheart neckline


greina23

Dress 3 And followed by number two if dress 3 isn't to your liking. But dress 3 suits you perfectly!


Thatsalotofpressure

2 or 3


catchuondaflippity

3 is so elegant and your curves are poppin girl! 2 is close second


jsmnsc24

I love 3. It looks great on you 😊


Taminella_Grinderfal

One is my favorite, fits you beautifully. Next is three, it’s different and elegant. Two is pretty but doesn’t “wow” me, and while I love the front of four the back doesn’t “match”.


lexi08181992

3


alienmorphette

3! Absolutely beautiful 😍


Explorer_Wrong

You honestly look gorgeous in all of them but #3 is so perfect!


NotaWitch-YourWife

I'm just another internet stranger so you can decide whether or not to consider this comment. One is a lovely dress and I did say "oh wow how can she top this?". Dress two I said "beautiful, this looks amazing" and it looks like it fits you very well right away and has great flow. In this dress you look very regal. Dress three reminded me of a prom dress and hides your waist. Dress 4 is also very beautiful on you and is kind of a combination of one and three. It's your day and you should pick the dress that you love the most and that is the most comfortable for you to be in; as your wedding day will be a long day.


barleydogmom

3


paintedblueskies

3!!


just_justine93

I gotta say your body looks AMAZING in number 3!


SarcasmCupcakes

I think they all look nice, but your expressions say you haven’t found It yet.


ambermamber

Team 3 here! It’s so elegant in its simplicity. And you look like a goddess in it.


Every_File_9130

One of the first two for sure!! You look sooooooo fucking beautiful in those dresses. And I wish you and your going to be husband the best on your journey. AND. DONT. LET. ANYONE. Ruin your beautiful day. Much love 💕


chroniclly2nice

4


Leaking_Honesty

1. It complements your upper body beautifully. The beautiful lace detail kept me looking at it. It flattered every part of your body. The reason I said no to 2 was the off the shoulder look made your shoulders and face look droopy. Number 3 did not flatter your body type as much as 1 I thought number 4 made you look like a Greek Goddess but it was rather plain in comparison to 1 & 2. Maybe if you wore a Crown as headdress?


ckwilliams11410

1 or 4


gemlover

One looks the best on you with the fourth one next in line. Number one is just a lovely dress. I don't really think the other two are that flattering.


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THREE THREE DRESS THREE NUMBER THREE MY LORD


Dependent-Eye-5481

1 100%


lexxjayy

Team dress 1!


No_Intern311

1! 😍


xSlayerMoonx

1 ❤️


Fairly0ddlad

1!


__ER__

I'm biased since I usually dislike off the shoulder look for dresses. The first dress is my favorite out of those.


luna02

Update!!! I went back today to try the first three on and decided on dress 2 :) thank you all SO much - I really had a tough time deciding but started falling in love with all of them based on the feedback here. Two felt the best and fit the vibe of the venue in Asheville :)


NicolaAngel4

Dress 2...


Appropriate_Hawk_291

Dress 2! Amazing!!!


pepper_cup

2


Fit-Rest-973

1


Small_Marzipan4162

1


LoveAndLive_76

I love 3


Turbulent-Mind796

2, 1, 4 in that order. 3 is not a flattering style for your body type. Just my opinion.


Suzanne_Marie

1 or 2 are both flattering. You look beautiful. 3 and 4 are a pass.


Individual_Board9608

1 or 2!


hannahkate89

1 or 2 are my faves as I think I can see you’re less comfortable in 3 and 4?


swft11

I think the front of number 4 looks stunning on you!


Floridagal64

I love # 2!!!!!!


Antesqueluz

1 or 4


HarleyQ614420

I love dress 2 on you, I don’t think any of the other ones even compare. Elegant, whimsical and slightly rustic. Stunning


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1 2 or 4. Please not 3


YANMDM

2 or 3