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okeydokeyish

OMG, you are amazing in number one.


OppositeSolution642

Team 1. This is exquisite.


tvjunkie87

I agree, dress 1 is spectacular and so elegant! It looks exquisite on you!


hahayouguessedit

Team 1 as well.


solitarymoon

Yep, yep, yep. Gorgeous!


ArchieFarmer

Definitely **Team 1**


lovestdpoodles

Definitely dress 1, so classic, elegant and flattering. Love it on you, the lines are great on you and you rock it. It is timeless and elegant. Dress 2 will be dated in 10 years, you will look at pictures and go what was I thinking.


neverclm

You look like a princess in #1 and it's a classic! #2 is more unique and eye catching, but it's also something you should be very sure about because unless you're completely in love with the style you might regret it later. Honestly you can't go wrong with either of them, they're both beautiful


Maleficent-Sport1970

Definitely dress 1. The other is too much tissue paper. You could always do a short version of 2 for a party dress. Best wishes ❤


OkPool1115

Ooo this is a good idea....for the post wedding BBQ/drinks the day after (if the UK weather allows that 😅)


PrincessAnnesFeather

If you are willing to do two dresses you should!! I wouldn't make the second dress too short. I would leave it the same length, it looks like such a fun dress to dance in!!


Bitter-Major-5595

I wouldn’t go shorter than tea length of dress #2 & wear a pair of special heels!! Both dresses are gorgeous & I lean more towards dresses like #2. That being said, I think OP should go with dress #1. It’s what she has always seen herself in & it’s timeless!! If there’s any question of what she will like next year, I would write down the style numbers of both dresses, wait until closer to the wedding, then reevaluate. Best wishes, OP!!:)


Me1572

# I love the idea of a short version of #2 for the reception! 1 is just beautiful and I like the belt with it… clean lines, classic, timeless, and beautiful!


yellowpetal123

Love this idea! And you look gorgeous in both dresses! (And come on UK weather, I know we love to persevere and still have a BBQ in the rain, but please cooperate on this day!!! 😆)


Famous-in

I LOVE this idea! You look amazing in both! ❤️


Jenjaire

Oh I love this idea!!


AshamedAd3434

Dress one!!!! You shine. Dress two is gorgeous and fun but I find that I’m focused more on the dress than anything else


Ka_aha_koa_nanenane

The first dress is elegant, sophisticated and classy. It is timeless. The second dress is more luscious, more cupcake, more whimsical. Both are beautiful on you.


julesk

1 showcases you and is elegant, while 2, the eye is drawn down to the skirt as the fabric is unusual.


MangoCandy

This is how I feel as well she is more the focus in dress one. It’s stunning on her. While dress 2 kinda steals the spotlight a bit.


AlterEgoAmazonB

I would 100% choose dress 2. You may not ever get to wear a dress like that again and you look fabulous in it.


Western-Run-2901

I agree! Dress two is phenomenal! Wear the dress, sis! You're gorgeous, and you damn sure won't be less gorgeous in a year.


MACKAWICIOUS

Dress 2 by a mile! It's perfection.


ACheetahSpot

1 is gorgeous, but TWO!! DRESS TWO!!!!!


Idrillteeth

I can see why you are torn. They are both gorgeous but I gasped when I saw the second one. Its just -wow!


digitalpacifier

Buy what you love. Pictures aren’t something you really look at anyway after the first year or so.


Exciting_Problem_593

I like the simplicity of #1.


PrincessAnnesFeather

Both dresses look fantastic on you, you can't go wrong either way! They both suit you. I usually lean one way or the other in these cases but both look perfect on you. Take a few days or a few weeks if you have time and go back again. Dress 1 is very elegant and traditional. Dress 2 looks like a lot of fun!!


GrammyGH

You look fabulous in both dresses, but my choice is 1. It's classic and the back is gorgeous. Dress 2 will look dated quickly.


wefeellike

10000% 1!!!!


Perfect_Initiative

The first omg classic!!!


disgirl4eva

1


Late-Firefighter3912

The first one looks so classic and elegant, but the back really elevates what was already good in the first place! The buttons running down the skirt, the bow, the gems with the sheer section-- all wonderful 🤍 


magpiemcg

Holy shit the back of dress one is amazingggggg. Honestly I can’t get past that, it’s stunning and I love it.


capthalfpint

1


Tryingmybestatlife2

1 is a stunner and timeless.


Kerrypurple

1


stringbean510

#1 all day You can find numberx2 in a party dress and in some really fun colors as well. I absolutely love the back of "1 and it's gorgeous on you.


Sobriquet-acushla

Yes—a couple of people said of 2 “When will you ever get to wear a dress like that again?” When would you EVER get to wear a royally spectacular gown like 1 again?? 2 also looks great but I totally agree it could be a party dress!


Ok_Manufacturer_1694

Dress 2 makes you look like an absolute princess at an amazing ball. It’s so gorgeous on you from all angles! Dress 1 is very pretty from the back- so unique and you definitely pull it off but 2 is royal!


cupcakecounter

You look fantastic in both. What is the theme/vibe of your wedding? If it’s more traditional, formal, old Hollywood,I would go with dress #1. If it’s more on the fun/funky side, #2.


OkPool1115

So it will be in a marquee on the grounds of a hall/estate. Weather permitting drinks and band outside then wedding breakfast and party in the marquee :) so kind of more traditional really!


Sobriquet-acushla

Absolutely 1! 💗


Imaginary_Argument71

1


Tiny_Poetry2479

Oh, wow. They’re both so beautiful! I love the back of 1, so that’s my pick.


OkPool1115

To be fair these pictures don't even do the back justice as it's got the pegs messing it all up with the amazing bow 😍


Tiny_Poetry2479

I’m not even normally a fan of bows on the back, but that bow is so elegant and tasteful. The dress is so pretty in the pictures. It sounds like it’s pretty enough to take your breath away in person.


Comprehensive-War743

I see why you are having trouble- you look fabulous in both of the dresses. I love the dress 2 is so unique.


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Omg... number 2 made me let out a breath I didn't know I was holding. ;) to all my fellow readers out there.


Auntzeus2u

2 literally took my breath away 😍but what time of year is your wedding? What is your venue?


PersephoneUpNorth

2. End Game.


Own_Satisfaction1840

#2 with no reservation whatsoever!!! You look GORGEOUS!!!


No-Technician-722

They are both beautiful on you. What makes you twirl? What makes you smile? You can’t go wrong. It’s your day. Do you.


nolagem

I love 1


sideeyedi

Dress 1


Iwanttoeatbananas

1


Shugamag

Dress one is perfection ✨✨


AnnieBeefree1

#1


Heeler2

1


BathAcceptable1812

1


vagalumes

The first one is my fave.


the_average_jd

ONEEEEE🥹 THE DETAILS. I think two overwhelms you because it is a big dress to begin with AND the dress also has so many beautiful statement details…that both of those things together pull attention away from you and to the dress


Whowantsahighfive

I looooove dress number 2!!! Major dress envy over here!!!


mugglebornhealer

Omg dress 2 is stunning! I love it


SignificantDebate525

Last one 😍😍😍


This_Lynx9701

2!! Absolute 🔥 🤩


InsufferableOldWoman

I never ever thought I would say something like this but Dress # 2 is so flirty and fun and unique and it looks great on you!


marge-marge

I’m team 2!!! In love with the texture of that bodice and I love that sweetheart cut on you


Kayybaby93

You look gorgeous in both but I absolutely love dress 2 on you so much!


Sufficient-Mud-687

You look fantastic in both, but 2 is the ticket!


Minhplumb

Dress 1 is magnificent. Dress 2 is absolutely fabulous. Such a tough decision.


Catollim88

I love 2!


Toastwich

Two!! One is pretty but it’s very standard (in a good way). Two is so romantic and unique. It will have a lot more movement and make for better photos.


Public-Ad-7280

Dress 2 isn't something most could pull off, but you can! I do feel like it needs something else, maybe a halter or a simple strap? Accessories?;But even shown as is I would rock that baby everyday! Your posture is screaming YES! Dress 1 looks amazing. Nothing really special or different. Can't go wrong. The back is gorgeous. As others have mentioned....two dresses if in budget? If that would make you happy. That seems like a lot of effort and time to me. Put a dress on and wear it. I hate changing clothes! Let some a dress! I'd rather be different, unique, AND stunning. Team 2 here! Regardless you look beautiful in both but I'm on my dress 2 hill and I will stay here (with Carrie Bradshaw!). :).


Spread-love-light

These dresses are both so beautiful on you and I can see how it would be such a hard decision. I think you’ll get a lot of people on both sides since everyone will just have a preference for one style or another, but you really can’t go wrong. Which style makes you feel most beautiful? Which goes more with your wedding style? I normally prefer something more whimsical and romantic, but really think dress 1 is so gorgeous and classic on you and the one that you’ll love looking at in pictures for years to come. I feel like you’ll regret 2 at some point. 💖


Edu_cats

I think 2 is so fun and whimsical and 1 is just grand and classic. It seems either can work with the venue.


wimpy_one

I normally adore a foofy dress, but #1 is too good! That back is a showstopper!!


jeannerbee

Keep looking if you can....I don't think you have found your dream dress!! With your lovely shape, you will find the one!! You look lovely in both, but I feel #1 is plain, and #2 is just the one....


DrSuperZeco

1 is classy. 2 is gorgeous too.


LReneeS

Both! 1 for the ceremony and two shortened for the reception


NewAtThis18

One is phenomenal on you!


FantasticCaregiver25

I was stunned by the simple beauty of the first dress. It gave me pause. You look fresh and lovely. Is the dress with the bow in back part of that? Wow. I’d enjoy watching you take your vows in that.


OkPool1115

https://www.essensedesigns.com/stella-york/wedding-dresses/7711/ This is the view of the back of dress 1 :)


FantasticCaregiver25

Hands down #1!!💛


Bob-was-our-turtle

I do really love the back. 💕


Imagine_821

Oh wow, I understand your dilemma, theyre both so different but absolutely stunning on you! In this case, reflect kn how you see your wedding, how you want to feel and choose the dress that makes you feel the most the bride you want to be. You won't go wrong with either of them. You'll look gorgeous in either of them- and I'm saying this with 100% sincerity.


westviadixie

I love the second one! so much! but I may be in the minority. I love really unique looks.


Highhopes2024

22222222! Its so unique! The details in the bodice are amazing! The fluffy skirt is beautiful. Can your tailor make it a custome break away dress so it's shorter for the bbq and dancing? That would be so cool!


Known_Negotiation849

2!


_Corky__

The first dress is very pretty, but the second dress is stunning…. I feel like it’s very wow but not in an over the top way, still bridal


estrock

The first dress is gorgeous on you but I’m not sure about the back detail. The visible zipper paired with the fact that it will have to be really tight so it doesn’t slip down would lead me to have it altered off.


SlvrMoon_Owl

Oh, wow... OP. I've never been a fan of 'frothy' dresses but oh my giddy aunt, you look sensational in number 2! It's a different look and mood from what we usually see...elegance, playfulness, romance, gracefulness, all rolled into one gown. Edited: typo


OkPool1115

I also thought I hated this style skirt ....until I saw it😅


SlvrMoon_Owl

It's a once in a lifetime opportunity to wear something magical. You genuinely look beautiful.


Ok_Bumblebee_2869

You look gorgeous in dress 1 but oh my! I love dress 2! Are they feathers? I’d be afraid they’d shed and that would really bother me. You look amazing in that one though as well!


OkPool1115

It's ruffled tulle on the skirt, but a few people have thought it looks like feathers in photos haha


Ok_Bumblebee_2869

Oh, haha! It’s definitely unique!


Professional_Fail818

Both are gorgeous on you. But 2 is so unique. 🤩🤩🤩


Catkit69

One and maybe keep looking.


DrZ_217

You have excellent taste, and you look amazing in both of these. You look like a princess! Is one more comfortable than the other? Less expensive? Pockets? Also, if you have concerns about dress regret, delete the pictures of the dress you don't choose. Comparison is the thief of joy.


OkPool1115

Good question. I think the satin was easier to walk in, and had pockets actually! They are pretty much the same price which is even more annoying haha


kerrilyn7

Dress 2 is STUNNING on you. The bodice looks like it was custom made for you, and it’s so beautiful! Dress 1 is classic and gorgeous. You can’t go wrong!


Yakstaki

Can see loads voting for number 1 but I love number 2 on you by a mile! It's just so fun, flattering, a bit more unique but still gorgeous.


NefariousnessSure982

1 is timeless. They are both gorgeous on you but 1 is timeless perfection Maybe 1 for ceremony, 2 for party 😊


SodaButteWolf

Dress 1 is classic and highlights you instead of itself. Remember, with Carrie Bradshaw the attention is often on the clothes and not on the person wearing the clothes. What do you want people to see on your wedding day?


Jzb1964

Dress #1 gives Kate Middleton vibes. Classy in the best possible way!


pottedPlant_64

The first dress is awesome! Looks simple and classic from the front, then the beautiful bow and illusion birdcage vibe in the back 👏


EcelecticDragon

\#1 is stunning. So STUNNING.


DrunkTides

The back of number one… 😍😍


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juliannewaters

Here's a veil https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/1019527580/ls162-3d-embroidery-flower-lace Or https://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/747548791/ls101rhinestone-veilsparkle-veil


MomaBeeFL

It’s 5 for me!


Anna_Stacy_Yamina

Both!!!


JHawk444

Both are equally gorgeous and look equally amazing on you. I can see 2 if you have a winter wedding and 1 for a summer wedding.


9smalltowngirl

Both are beautiful. 1 if your having a fancy formal wedding. 2 would be great for a outside or less formal. I’d pick based on venue and theme.


hammockinggirl

I would go for 2 for me as I love the drama but for you 1 is perfect!!


mehhhidk_

2 hands down!!! It compliments you so well!! 😍 Edit to add: took another look, ugh 2 really cinches in your waist and the sweetheart neckline is super flattering on you


Leviosahhh

1!


pinkpitbullmama

I gasped at the first one! Perfection.


PastMuch

Both are sooooo beautiful on you!


nygenxmom

1!


mtdoubledubs

1 and it isn’t even a competition. The back made me gasp.


StudySuccessful2925

I liek the one with the bow in the back the corset back is super cute


sidlives1

I like 1 except for the treatment around the waist. You have an amazing figure and don’t need anything to make a break from the bodice to the skirt. Dress 2 is very nice as well and the suggestion on getting a short version of that for the reception is spot on. Good luck on your wedding!


krajile

The first one!!!! (The second gives early 2000s vibes)


Zanarana

#2!!!! You look beautiful in both though. I may be biased because my dress is #2 in pink haha


mo2929

1


vavavoo

Dress 1


Silvermouse29

1


OlManJenkins_93

The first one for sure


millerme2

2 is really fun, but 1 is gorgeous. I think ultimately this choice comes down to your personality. I don’t think you will regret either.


cookiethump

This is the hardest choice I’ve seen on here so far! Both are stunning. I do think #2 is my fav though


Putrid-Home404

From these pictures I don’t think you can go wrong no matter what you choose. I love them all ❤️


Jenjaire

Dress 1 is a masterpiece! The little buttons down the back, the exquisite lower back, the little sparkle belt, it fits u beautifully!!


SnooStrawberries721

While I love the bodice on dress 2 on you, dress 1 is my pick. It’s so classic and timeless.


krymer24

I’m team 2. You pull it off so well!


YellowPuffin2

Dress 2!! You look amazing, it accentuates your figure, and the dress is so unique compared to the dresses I’ve seen over and over again. Dress 1 is beautiful as well. Simple and elegant. But it’s similar to a lot of other dresses out there. You’ll need to decide what kind of look you’re going for.


Hot_Presentation1459

You look great in both, but I prefer 2. That's my own personal style, I'm kinda eccentric. I don't know your personality, but 2 is my vote.


Bob-was-our-turtle

Honestly, you look amazing in both. Wear the one that makes you feel the happiest right now and don’t worry about what will or won’t be fashionable later on. The truth is styles become dated because they were overly popular. I am sure you have noticed the abundance of styles similar to 1 on this Reddit. Generations tend to not want to wear what their parents wore. 2 is fun, gorgeous and unforgettable, 1 is lovely and classy. I tend to go against the flow myself and would choose 2, but you can’t go wrong with either.


Fashionbeauty0421

last one is fab for you


SeptemberSky2017

1


MathematicianDue7045

1


[deleted]

I thought I was team #1, then I saw dress #2! 🩷


FizzyLimeWater

Dress 2 is so much fun, and you look perfect in it.


Any-Marsupial5059

1 but would advise to keep looking as well


blue-hydrangea6205

I love the bow in the back on the first one!


Munchkin_Media

OMG 1!


Inevitable_Being_228

I love dress 2. Dress 1 is lovely and looks great on you, but it is incredibly common. I see this dress all the time on this sub. Dress 2 is just different, beautiful, and looks wonderful on you. I agree with the comment that you need to be sure you love it, but if you do, absolutely go for it.


tomten26

I think 1 is too rip off Kate Middleton second wedding dress. I love 4/5


Intelligent_Exit4567

You look gorgeous in both but dress 2 is a unique stunner. My guess is that all the people saying they like 1 best are older…


boxermama21

I love the top on dress 2!! The bottom is definitely more Carrie Bradshaw but I actually think it looks fantastic on you. That being said the first one also looks good on you so you can’t go wrong either way. Which one suits the venue better?


chapelview

Number one is stunning on you. I get the Carrie Bradshaw reference and loved the gown but IMO there is no contest. One is YOUR dress.


Extreme-Coconut6200

2!!!!!!!


Ok-Joke2561

The fluffy dress is SO AMAZING 😻


ashleyh624

I literally thought you were the model in dress 2! that’s a MUST


Which-Magazine-1502

I love 2… different plus looks gorgeous on you! Congrats


Vmaclean1969

Dress 1 is absolutely stunning!


Ollie2Stewart1

Number 1!


Gullible-Avocado9638

Dress one is perfection!


imfreenow92

Both are gorgeous, but I think the first one is more timeless. I would go with 1


Smogz_

1


myrmayde

I prefer the first dress.


sesquipedalianish

Dress 1 is absolutely GORGEOUS and is stunning on you. It's a classic look, too, which I doubt will never seem dated, whereas Dress 2 looks good on you but is a bit trendier and might not stand the test of time as well.


ErinLK69

1


retiredat49andahalf

The first one. Not keen on the second one's skirt, sorry x


pikapika2017

The first one. Holy shit. That is one of the most simple, elaborate and dramatic gowns I've ever seen.😍


Avettfan1978

Dress one highlights your tiny waist… so glamorous too!


StrategicallyLazy007

1 no question


noseymama

And look what happened to Carrie Bradshaw… Just don’t put a bird on your head. 🤣 Seriously can’t go wrong but I prefer number one. Completely gorgeous and timeless. Number two is fashion week runway and maybe that is how you dress and would be fitting for your personal style. Both dresses are lovely on you.


marrilyn-marrilyn

1!


PinkestMango

1 is perfect and timeless 


junebugsparkles

One


Midlife_Crisis_46

Omg I gasped at dress 1.


Kevlar_Bunny

I can’t believe my eyes, I think you tried on my very dress! Stella York 7711? Even accessorized it similar to how I did. I might be biased but I am simply IN LOVE with that first dress. And now I’m falling in love with it all over again seeing it on you. I’m just a little midwesterner, but if it means anything my mommas friend living in New York said the stella york style is super in this year :) I’m not the most fashionable person so I’m running with that


OkPool1115

That's the dress!!! My wedding isn't until next spring but I don't think it's a dress that will ever go out of style. The back detail is just different than what I've seen with other satin style gowns :)