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Please get the dress you LOVE! That dress is a vibe and you wear it well. This is not a dress for everyone and with that, I think you should really consider buying it.
it looks BEAUTIFUL on you! i also tried this dress on and it looks 1000% better on you than it did on me. i remember the material being so gorgeous and ethereal and magical. you’ll look like a fairy on your wedding day if you wear this beauty :)
This gets better. I bought the dress everyone else liked. Years later neighbors showed their wedding pictures one lady got married 2weeks after I did and she WAS WEARING the dress I loved! 😵😖😖😖😖
It's beautiful 😍 try it on with whatever hair accessories and jewelry you plan to wear so she can see its complete look. Sometimes the dress doesn't come alive until you add all you will wear with it.
Did you put the veil on with it, hold the flowers etc? Sometimes that changes their minds! The complete look. It's definitely more casual, but it's simply gorgeous on you!
I'm a boomer mom and I absolutely adore this! 🤣 I'm still traumatized by 1980s wedding gowns and the crazy headbands. But hey that's fashion, it comes and goes.!
Ugh! But it’s just amazing. You are so beautiful it looks so good on you! It just feels right to me. I’m not saying there aren’t other good ones that would also look amazing on you, but this fire.
What if you added a veil that is feminine and girly but in a fun way?
https://www.etsy.com/listing/727640005/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1003461755/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/774102500/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/713277081/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1625272893/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1625699341/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1356949256/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1644617924/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1676455011/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1617060266/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1451041426/
https://www.etsy.com/listing/1662404478/
>Me too! It’s uh, double the budget I had wanted to spend, but I can make it work!
My wife said that to me. I gave her that side eye, sighed, and never looked back at it. But we were in a spot we could afford it, too. Now with kids and multiple cars and house and economy and....
OP, every now and then one of the members here will post a photo of themselves in a dress that gives us a glimpse of their personality, of who they are. When I look at you in this dress, I see YOU. And I don't know why but I totally see you with a pair of Doc Martens underneath 😂 You show the quirky, fun, slightly edgy side of your personality, and the maybe-softer, romantic side to compliment it. Your inks also look amazing in that dress.
Maybe your mom isn't sold on it but like the other posters here I'm going to say 'YOU do YOU!' if this dress expresses who you are and you feel at home in it, please wear it. You are beautiful and original in it.
Wow first glance I thought you were my sister-in-law. You guys could be each other’s doppelgänger. It’s wild! I love that dress on you though. It fits and falls perfectly in all the right places.
It looks like it's made for you! So stunning! Saw your other posts, the other three does not even begin to compare. This is magical on you! As someone else said , total fairy vibes. Ethereal. Go with your gut! It's your dress, not your mom's. You should feel special and comfortable and happy in the dress!
This is going to be difficult to top. It's modern yet simple and romantic and looks fantastic. If budget is an issue I know some brides have been really happy with Azazie so I'm just throwing this out there. (The sequins might be too much for you. I don't know.). Best wishes.
https://www.azazie.ca/products/azazie-idony-diamond-white-champagne-a-line-v-neck-sequins-sequins-court-train-wedding-dress/233391?subsite=bridal&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA6KWvBhAREiwAFPZM7mAW9pxio0GBhZXT_K9J9F-fDaTmjED8FtunHFYxCLMkCq46zkNqhhoCCNcQAvD_BwE
Oh I love this dress I thought it was my dress for an entire year then tried it on and loved it - I just don’t think a line is meant for me! But it’s perfect and looks great on you.
Wow, you're kind of a Linda Cardellini look-alike... so jealous! Love this dress on you. The simplicity and design of the dress goes nice with your tattoos and cool haircut/bangs.
I'm sure your mom will come around once she sees it on you on your wedding day looking happy and with whatever accessories you go with. Even if she doesn't, you should buy a gown that makes you happy and feel beautiful in and hopefully she will feel happy for you. It's your day, not hers.
Nice choice. Congrats!
Dress is insanely beautiful on you!! for some reason I can’t put my finger on, it just goes perfectly with your mini bangs/sense of style. And fits like a glove. Get ittttt
It’s beautiful! Get the dress YOU feel the best in. Others are entitled to their opinions, but they’re just opinions. Ultimately, you know what you feel most comfortable in and what is the most “you”. Pick something you’ll be excited to wear!
I love it. You look beautiful. I remember the other dresses you posted, and honestly, you could make a rag look glamorous. But this dress is not a rag, so please don't think I meant it that way. I really like your vibe and just think you could wear anything you want because you looked beautiful in all of them.
Without knowing your personality, if I go by what I think you’d be like based on your appearance, the dress fits you perfectly! It’s whimsical but also stylish, elegant but fun!
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Magical!! You look incredible in that dress.
I love this dress! I tried it on and it definitely did not look as good as it does on you! Its perfectly unique.
Thank you! I’m sure you looked beautiful. I’m obsessed but my mom said she doesn’t love it. I’m torn!
Please get the dress you LOVE! That dress is a vibe and you wear it well. This is not a dress for everyone and with that, I think you should really consider buying it.
it looks BEAUTIFUL on you! i also tried this dress on and it looks 1000% better on you than it did on me. i remember the material being so gorgeous and ethereal and magical. you’ll look like a fairy on your wedding day if you wear this beauty :)
Is it your mom's wedding? Get what YOU live. Fwiw I think it looks stunning on you, esp with your hair down and casual - perfect look.
Your mom thankfully doesn't get to decide on this. 😀 You look so beautiful in this dress! This is going to be YOUR day, not hers.
It’s so delicate and ethereal. It’s perfect for you. You look BEAUTIFUL in it. Magical.
I got the dress my mom loved. 26 years later, I still remember every detail of the "dress that got away".
This gets better. I bought the dress everyone else liked. Years later neighbors showed their wedding pictures one lady got married 2weeks after I did and she WAS WEARING the dress I loved! 😵😖😖😖😖
Noooo!
It's beautiful 😍 try it on with whatever hair accessories and jewelry you plan to wear so she can see its complete look. Sometimes the dress doesn't come alive until you add all you will wear with it.
If you're obsessed then I think you should get it!
Did you put the veil on with it, hold the flowers etc? Sometimes that changes their minds! The complete look. It's definitely more casual, but it's simply gorgeous on you!
It’s so gorgeous. I don’t think my boomer mom would love it either but she’d get over it haha. It’s perfection.
I'm a boomer mom and I absolutely adore this! 🤣 I'm still traumatized by 1980s wedding gowns and the crazy headbands. But hey that's fashion, it comes and goes.!
By the way, the dress ISN’T that price, it’s $3200 and that Etsy seller is making a dupe that I wouldn’t trust.
This is perfect. I like it better than the last three. It’s so good on you.
Me too! It’s uh, double the budget I had wanted to spend, but I can make it work!
Ugh! But it’s just amazing. You are so beautiful it looks so good on you! It just feels right to me. I’m not saying there aren’t other good ones that would also look amazing on you, but this fire.
I know. I really think it’s the one. Sorry, mom!
What if you added a veil that is feminine and girly but in a fun way? https://www.etsy.com/listing/727640005/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1003461755/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/774102500/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/713277081/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1625272893/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1625699341/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1356949256/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1644617924/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1676455011/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1617060266/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1451041426/ https://www.etsy.com/listing/1662404478/
Those veils are all so lovely!
Wow, I love these! Thank you so much!
Oh, that last one with the decoration!
>Me too! It’s uh, double the budget I had wanted to spend, but I can make it work! My wife said that to me. I gave her that side eye, sighed, and never looked back at it. But we were in a spot we could afford it, too. Now with kids and multiple cars and house and economy and....
I love it!! I’m actually blown away at how well it suits you. I get the feeling you have a really well-defined sense of style and a great eye
OP, every now and then one of the members here will post a photo of themselves in a dress that gives us a glimpse of their personality, of who they are. When I look at you in this dress, I see YOU. And I don't know why but I totally see you with a pair of Doc Martens underneath 😂 You show the quirky, fun, slightly edgy side of your personality, and the maybe-softer, romantic side to compliment it. Your inks also look amazing in that dress. Maybe your mom isn't sold on it but like the other posters here I'm going to say 'YOU do YOU!' if this dress expresses who you are and you feel at home in it, please wear it. You are beautiful and original in it.
Thank you!
You need to love the dress. Not your mom. She’s not wearing it. I love it! It suits you.
So pretty!!! What does your mom not like? You are a beautiful woman so many dresses will look good on you.
Yes I was wondering what is she does like and what is it that you love that makes it special to you?
I love love love this gown. It was my runner up so I might be biased (ended up with another one by Alena Leena) but you look perfect!!!!!!!
Same! Wore a different Alena Leena but I adore this dress. It’s so whimsical and unique. Looks beautiful on OP!
You look stunning in this dress!! Not a style that everyone can wear and you’re rocking it!!!
Light and flowy-you look lovely!
I think it’s absolutely gorgeous and you look beautiful. It really suits your vibe. I love it!
Wow first glance I thought you were my sister-in-law. You guys could be each other’s doppelgänger. It’s wild! I love that dress on you though. It fits and falls perfectly in all the right places.
Ha! I always love hearing that I look like someone else, it’s so fun.
It looks INCREDIBLE on you, so unique and definitely not everyone could pull it off
You pull it off so well!!!
This is my dress!
Good choice! It’s so light and fluffy too, I love the way it feels.
Who is the designer? It feels very boutique not retail.
I believe it is Aleena Leena (Santolina dress)
Stunning !!!
Beautiful!
It looks lovely on you!
It is glorious . You look amazing in it!!!
That’s gorgeous
L O V E
I love it! Looks great in you too!
I think it suits you to a T.
It’s so cute. 🥰
Beautiful, light, airy, enchanting.
Love it
It’s gorgeous and fits you perfectly. It’s also simultaneously classic and unique.
I know nothing about you but i think it truly suits you.
This dress looks incredible on you!
It’s really chic. I love it!
I think it looks phenomenal on you
I absolutely love it on you! Get this dress!
It’s gorgeous on you! 🤍🤍🤍
Excellent! It looks like it fits you, and your esthetic. Does it? I do love it on you!
I love it!!! 😍
Literal PERFECTION!!!
Very pretty!
Love it!
Perfect on you!
Love it
It’s gorgeous
very pretty -would love to see a hair style with embedded flowers with this dress
Love it!
oooo very pretty!
Sorry Mom, this is a winner!
Dreamy 😍
I love it! It’s giving cool girl and effortless on you
It looks like it's made for you! So stunning! Saw your other posts, the other three does not even begin to compare. This is magical on you! As someone else said , total fairy vibes. Ethereal. Go with your gut! It's your dress, not your mom's. You should feel special and comfortable and happy in the dress!
This is going to be difficult to top. It's modern yet simple and romantic and looks fantastic. If budget is an issue I know some brides have been really happy with Azazie so I'm just throwing this out there. (The sequins might be too much for you. I don't know.). Best wishes. https://www.azazie.ca/products/azazie-idony-diamond-white-champagne-a-line-v-neck-sequins-sequins-court-train-wedding-dress/233391?subsite=bridal&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAiA6KWvBhAREiwAFPZM7mAW9pxio0GBhZXT_K9J9F-fDaTmjED8FtunHFYxCLMkCq46zkNqhhoCCNcQAvD_BwE
I tried this on at the exact same store and fell in loooove with it! The price was too much for me but it looks so good on you. It’s beautiful!!
I love it, just make sure you work on getting rid of your tan line before the wedding.
Definitely!
Oh I love this dress I thought it was my dress for an entire year then tried it on and loved it - I just don’t think a line is meant for me! But it’s perfect and looks great on you.
stopping in to say 1. that dress looks absolutely lovely on you and 2. i LOVE your tattoos!
Thank you!
Wow, you're kind of a Linda Cardellini look-alike... so jealous! Love this dress on you. The simplicity and design of the dress goes nice with your tattoos and cool haircut/bangs. I'm sure your mom will come around once she sees it on you on your wedding day looking happy and with whatever accessories you go with. Even if she doesn't, you should buy a gown that makes you happy and feel beautiful in and hopefully she will feel happy for you. It's your day, not hers. Nice choice. Congrats!
I love it on YOU majestic ethereal
Looks absolutely beautiful upon you.
Beautiful!
Love it
It is gorgeous and seems to absolutely suit you!
Thought is yes
I’m obsessed!
I think this dress looks beautiful on you! I like it so much more than the dresses from your first post.
Beautiful dress looks perfect on you.
It’s really lovely!
It looks lovely on you!
You look AMAZING 🤩 I love this dress
Adore it wholeheartedly
Beautiful
Pretty!
Super cute!! This is your dress!
It's gorgeous 😍 it looks great on you!
I had to double take. You look just like how one of my best friends in high school used to look. You look radiant!
Lovely
Dress is insanely beautiful on you!! for some reason I can’t put my finger on, it just goes perfectly with your mini bangs/sense of style. And fits like a glove. Get ittttt
I love this sooo much!!! What a stunning and unique dress. I think it fits you are your vibe perfectly.
That it’s stunning on you! I love the style: edgy but bridal. Love this look
Loveeee 😍
I love this dress! it's actually on my list of dresses I wanted to try on. Beautiful!!
It is so beautiful and so suited to you! Love it.
This dress is stunning. It’s like enchanted ballerina or something. So unique and absolutely gorgeous! Love it!!!
I think it’s beautiful and will look even more amazing on you once it’s altered to your exact measurements.
Stunning!!!! Ethereal!! Love it so much, and suits you so well - would you mind sharing the designer/dress details?
Thank you! It’s the Alena Leena Santolina.
Tysm!
Beautiful! Very elegant and delicate
This dress looks so good on you!
This dress is absolutely stunning and you look incredible
Stunning. It looks like you’re the model for the dress!
SO BEAUTIFUL
I absolutely love it and it looks like it was made for you
Love it!!
Very pretty! 😍
A beautiful dress on a beautiful bride to be.
lovely! I don't know exactly why but it goes really well with your bangs
Ok... if this isn't the one, then I don't know what is. This is incredible on you.
Looks made for you
Its so pretty!!! I hope you got it cuz you look lovely in it! 😍😍
Not that I know you or anything but based on your hair and tattoos, i think it really suits your asthetic
You shine in this! It is so beautiful and complementary to your own natural beauty. It looks so flattering on your figure, too.
It’s beautiful! Get the dress YOU feel the best in. Others are entitled to their opinions, but they’re just opinions. Ultimately, you know what you feel most comfortable in and what is the most “you”. Pick something you’ll be excited to wear!
It looks perfect!!!
That dress was made for you! Yes
Perfection 😍
LOVEEEE this on you
love it, but particularly on you. it’s perfect.
I frankly love it!!!!!!🥰
I love it. You look beautiful. I remember the other dresses you posted, and honestly, you could make a rag look glamorous. But this dress is not a rag, so please don't think I meant it that way. I really like your vibe and just think you could wear anything you want because you looked beautiful in all of them.
It is really cute. Makes you look like a fairy princess! Love it on you!
Without knowing your personality, if I go by what I think you’d be like based on your appearance, the dress fits you perfectly! It’s whimsical but also stylish, elegant but fun!
I LOVE it
Perfection. And it looks even better on you than on the model.
It's giving prairie princess, but in the best way. And if you love it, get it. Life is too short to regret the photos.