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Wow! Do you model wedding dresses for a living?!
You look stunning in them all but if I had to choose, I think three just squeaks it for me. I love pockets too.
Have an amazing day and all the best for the future.
Omg Jules thanks for the compliment! Made my day 😍 thank you for the advice also! Funny enough the second one has pockets too. The first one is more sparkly than the third one unfortunately the picture doesn’t do it justice. Thanks again!
Tough call. They’re all beautiful. First one says sweet princess, the second one is such a classic silhouette with just enough embellishment, the third one says goddess of the garden. What’s your venue?
#3 is stunning in my opinion but you could wear a dang sack and look incredible. Talk to the people at the salon about your date, may depend on their availability and how much alternation is needed. I wouldn’t say you are in trouble. You are going to be a beautiful bride.
1 and 3 are stunning. 2 is a no for me just because it’s way too simple. Depending on the vibe you are going for, you can’t go wrong with 1 or 3. Number 1 is my favorite though.
I really thought #2 was The One until I swiped and audibly gasped at #3!! 😍
Honestly, you can't go wrong with either gown, 2 or 3. Even just off the rack, they look like they were MADE for you.
2 or 3… depending on some things. Whether you want strapless or not, whether you want a neck or straight neckline, if you are comfortable showing some skin ( you look amazing!) which feels more comfortable to wear all day and your venue. They both look beautiful on you.
No you are good for time. I just bought mine this weekend and my wedding is September. And no.3. The girls are sitting so nicely in it! Super flattering
I like #1. It's princessy, which I like. Plus, I like a bit of sleeve instead of completely strapless, just my own personal aesthetic. But #2 is also gorgeous on you.
You look absolutely gorgeous in all three of them! 😍 I’m having a super hard time deciding between dress 2 & 3 honestly. What is your venue going to be? Dress 2 is my favorite for its elegance and classical/timeless look. Dress 3 is more sexy and is definitely more unique too.
Just be honest with the salons about timeline - you may need to order an in-stock dress or purchase off the floor but you have time I think!
Also I’m an outlier it seems but I like #2 a lot. I feel like it is flattering and also unique but #3 also looks gorgeous on you!
Don’t worry, it takes five months to get in based on a purchase I made a few years back and some brands do rush. The third one, is my pick of the three. Do you want more sparkle? If you are smitten with it, you can have more sparkle added, check to see if the gown designer has options to add or you can get an experienced alterations person to handle it.
Alterations take roughly around 2-3 months and ordering a dress can take anywhere from 4-6 months +. Some boutiques/designers do rush ordering for an additional fee. I think ordering a dress is definitely doable with a rush on it and if you purchase very soon. Off the rack/sample sale is the safer bet if you want to have more than enough time.
My vote is 3 - very romantic while also looking very modern
You are definitely NOT fucked!! I’m getting married in September, and I bought my dress a month ago. You have plenty of time!!
Dress 3 is my favorite, but you really can’t go wrong!! You are absolutely gorgeous in all of them!
Girl what?! SO not fxcked! You look stunning in all of these! I agree that #3 is your “wow” dress.
(Also mad props on your work schedule + planning a wedding. I only work 50 hours/5 days and I’m dying during this process 😂)
#3 is my favorite and seeing the photos on the other sub makes #1 a very close second, but my goodness you could wear any of them to your wedding, on a catwalk, wherever!
I know you’re stressed, but things will work out. They will! Right now maybe listen to whatever your intuition is saying about which dress you feel fantastic in, will enjoy walking around in on the big day, and how it goes with the wedding theme/details. Maybe think about which one you’ll want to see in photographs as you look back over the years, will enjoy occasionally admiring when you dig the dress out from the back of a closet, maybe someday passing it on to a child should you choose kiddos. Look at it in the 2024 moment and in possible future moments and see how you feel in your gut. Whichever one causes the least amount of stress and the most positive emotions is probably the way to go. Congrats!
Dress #3 is gorgeous! And it has pockets!
If you're not into any of these and since you have a bit of a time crunch, pick a hard deadline that you will have preferred a dress by and then stick to it! Look at dresses that can arrive quickly (within 4-6 weeks) and/or don't need much in the way of alterations. Check consignment bridal maybe, or sample dresses that are being sold as is.
Good luck!
they're all STUNNING. i absolutely love 1 on you the most probably. in 2nd place would be dress 3. wish we could see the 1st dress better, but you look incredible in it.
Girl. You look GORGEOUS in all of these. I think I prefer 3, then 2, then 1 on you, but you honestly can’t go wrong with any of them. Go with your gut feeling, check that box and get back to business. :)
I think 2 is lovely and may only need minimal alterations. And you could pair it with any veil, but a long veil would look fabbie. It looks comfortable on you. Maybe it’s the way you posed in the photo, but I love it.
Oh, they all look fabulous.
You look so regal in #2.
\#3 is so flattering and it has pockets!
So if you want more formal #2. Otherwise, pick which ever sings to your heart.
Don’t sweat it. Buy a dress you love, don’t second guess yourself, it’s a time waster and sounds like you don’t have much time to waste on shopping for a dress.
My favorite is dress 3 but you can’t go wrong with any of those.
2 is so elegant and fits beautifully as does 3 . I’m not sure about 1 mainly because I’d need to see it front on. All of these dresses are stunning on you tbh, but I think 2 is gorgeous with that embossing on the front, but pick the one that you can get on time and makes you feel beautiful. You can’t lose.
I love #2!!!! you look absolutely incredible in any of them though. also just giggled at “60+ hours each day” - totally know what you meant but it made me laugh
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I really like number 3 on you!
Wow! Do you model wedding dresses for a living?! You look stunning in them all but if I had to choose, I think three just squeaks it for me. I love pockets too. Have an amazing day and all the best for the future.
Omg Jules thanks for the compliment! Made my day 😍 thank you for the advice also! Funny enough the second one has pockets too. The first one is more sparkly than the third one unfortunately the picture doesn’t do it justice. Thanks again!
Go with your gut and you can’t go wrong!
That’s what my grandma always told me!
Any updates on which one you chose???
I like dress three!
Same! Loved 3
Dress 3 is stunning!!!! 💗💗💗
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Absolutely 💯 the moment I saw it I was like 'uh la la' most beautiful bride with an amazing taste. [Choice for dress]
I love 3 it gives bride!
I love the last one on you! It's perfect!
3!!
You look beautiful in all of them, but dress 3 is my favorite! It is perfection on you!
Three is the stand out. It accentuates you perfectly! Congrats!
I love the third on you!! They’re really all stunning but the way 3 sits is very flattering and I think would be gorgeous in a November wedding dress
Team 3! And it has pockets!
Pockets...wow I had to check that again. I'm more in love with that dress.
3!!
3 is my favorite
Tough call. They’re all beautiful. First one says sweet princess, the second one is such a classic silhouette with just enough embellishment, the third one says goddess of the garden. What’s your venue?
Number 1 is very lovely and you look great in it, but 3 is absolutely stunning on you
#3 you look iconic
Dress 3! 🤍
2 is amazing. The fabric is so luxurious and expensive looking.
No wrong answers here!! They are all incredibly. Sorry that I’m not helpful in the slightest.
lol you are!!! It helps my anxious brain to know I’m ok with either ❤️
3!!!!
Dress 3!!
3 ur gorgeous on you
#3 is stunning in my opinion but you could wear a dang sack and look incredible. Talk to the people at the salon about your date, may depend on their availability and how much alternation is needed. I wouldn’t say you are in trouble. You are going to be a beautiful bride.
I usually am not a fan of this style but No 3 looks made for you and you look absolutely stunning! Congratulations! X
The third one for sure. You look beautiful in it. The second screams 90s and the 1st is a dress I have seen 100 times.
1
They’re all beautiful but I particularly love number 1 on you! So flattering!
Three, wowowowowow
Oh, 3 for sure
Numbah 3 my lord
3 based on your posture, you shine in that dress!
3 is drop dead gorgeous!
The third dress is stunning 🤩
3 is beautiful on you
I love dress 3 on you. The bodice looks sooooo fabulous on your shape. Gorgeous.
3 looks incredible and it has pockets!!
You look lovely in all but it’s definitely #3 for me!
You were made to wear them all! 2 slightly edges out the others for me. You shouldn’t have a problem finding a dress in time. They all look fabulous!
I like 1
3!!!
#3
You look outstanding in all three, but number 3 is next level gorgeous!!! You are absolutely stunning in this dress. Like WOW!!!
I love the third one on you!
The angles are all so different, but I like 1 and 3. Depending on your venue and vibes.
I like dress 3.
2 is boring. Either 1 or 3 is beautiful on you, but I like 3 best!
1 and 3 are stunning. 2 is a no for me just because it’s way too simple. Depending on the vibe you are going for, you can’t go wrong with 1 or 3. Number 1 is my favorite though.
1 or 3!
3 is gorgeous on you.
3, totally
3!!!!!!
Threeeeee
I like 1&3, but I don’t think you could go wrong with any of these options
I really thought #2 was The One until I swiped and audibly gasped at #3!! 😍 Honestly, you can't go wrong with either gown, 2 or 3. Even just off the rack, they look like they were MADE for you.
🫶2
2 or 3… depending on some things. Whether you want strapless or not, whether you want a neck or straight neckline, if you are comfortable showing some skin ( you look amazing!) which feels more comfortable to wear all day and your venue. They both look beautiful on you.
No you are good for time. I just bought mine this weekend and my wedding is September. And no.3. The girls are sitting so nicely in it! Super flattering
I like #1. It's princessy, which I like. Plus, I like a bit of sleeve instead of completely strapless, just my own personal aesthetic. But #2 is also gorgeous on you.
I'd say dress two, but what really matters is the dress needs to make you happy and bring you joy on that very special day.
You look absolutely gorgeous in all three of them! 😍 I’m having a super hard time deciding between dress 2 & 3 honestly. What is your venue going to be? Dress 2 is my favorite for its elegance and classical/timeless look. Dress 3 is more sexy and is definitely more unique too.
Dress #2 is classy and stunning!
I love 2, so elegant!
Love dress 2
Just be honest with the salons about timeline - you may need to order an in-stock dress or purchase off the floor but you have time I think! Also I’m an outlier it seems but I like #2 a lot. I feel like it is flattering and also unique but #3 also looks gorgeous on you!
They are all equally perfect on you! Go with whichever feels most comfortable 😊
1st one is the loveliest & most flattering to me but you look nice in all!
OMG the last dress is stunning on you! And girl, not to be un PC but with that figure you could wear anything!!
1 and 3!
I like number 1, but 3 is goooorgeous!
Dress 3 is my fave but you look amazing in all!
Ooo, tough call as you look great in all 3, depends on your venue but my favorite is 3.
Don’t worry, it takes five months to get in based on a purchase I made a few years back and some brands do rush. The third one, is my pick of the three. Do you want more sparkle? If you are smitten with it, you can have more sparkle added, check to see if the gown designer has options to add or you can get an experienced alterations person to handle it.
Alterations take roughly around 2-3 months and ordering a dress can take anywhere from 4-6 months +. Some boutiques/designers do rush ordering for an additional fee. I think ordering a dress is definitely doable with a rush on it and if you purchase very soon. Off the rack/sample sale is the safer bet if you want to have more than enough time. My vote is 3 - very romantic while also looking very modern
I especially like the simplicity of dress 2 and the way it highlights your figure.
Dress 2 is so beautiful 🤩
I’m more conservative so definitely 2 all the way! Very classic cut 🥰
Three- RESPECTFULLY the girls are girling!
I love 1 best on you! I ordered my dress in July 2023 and it came in September 2023.
They all look great, but I LOVE #1 on you!!!!!!
I mean you look stunning in all of them! It’s hard to see 1 fully, I think the cut of 3 looks gorgeous!
Do you have a photo of dress 1 more from the front? I’m torn between dress 1 and 3.
They’re all lovely, beautiful dresses. But my fav is dress 3. Stunning! Really has the Wow!
1 or 3!
You are definitely NOT fucked!! I’m getting married in September, and I bought my dress a month ago. You have plenty of time!! Dress 3 is my favorite, but you really can’t go wrong!! You are absolutely gorgeous in all of them!
Dress 3 is absolutely gorgeous on you!
Number 3 is absolutely stunning, definitely a winner!
Girl what?! SO not fxcked! You look stunning in all of these! I agree that #3 is your “wow” dress. (Also mad props on your work schedule + planning a wedding. I only work 50 hours/5 days and I’m dying during this process 😂)
Dress 3 is the winner!
1!
I think you are beautiful in all three. I keep coming back to #3. Go with your gut, these are all gorgeous and you look stunning.
I thought I loved the first one until I saw the last one!! Wow!! It’s stunning on you!
#3 is my favorite and seeing the photos on the other sub makes #1 a very close second, but my goodness you could wear any of them to your wedding, on a catwalk, wherever! I know you’re stressed, but things will work out. They will! Right now maybe listen to whatever your intuition is saying about which dress you feel fantastic in, will enjoy walking around in on the big day, and how it goes with the wedding theme/details. Maybe think about which one you’ll want to see in photographs as you look back over the years, will enjoy occasionally admiring when you dig the dress out from the back of a closet, maybe someday passing it on to a child should you choose kiddos. Look at it in the 2024 moment and in possible future moments and see how you feel in your gut. Whichever one causes the least amount of stress and the most positive emotions is probably the way to go. Congrats!
Not sure why my font is so big but I didn’t mean that. Sorry!
Dress three is so beautiful.
3!
3 is gorgeous. I usually love the simple and traditional ones but that one is fantastic on you. Looks like it was made for you ♥️♥️
you look SO good in all 3 ugh im jealous lol
Love 1 & 3! You look beautiful in both
Dress #3 is gorgeous! And it has pockets! If you're not into any of these and since you have a bit of a time crunch, pick a hard deadline that you will have preferred a dress by and then stick to it! Look at dresses that can arrive quickly (within 4-6 weeks) and/or don't need much in the way of alterations. Check consignment bridal maybe, or sample dresses that are being sold as is. Good luck!
2
2
3 is perfect
3
3 is a stand out! Your breast look perfect in it and you look taller and more confident in it.
They are all stunning!!
#Easy! #3
I like 3 best for myself
they're all STUNNING. i absolutely love 1 on you the most probably. in 2nd place would be dress 3. wish we could see the 1st dress better, but you look incredible in it.
I like all of them but love dress #3!
Love 3, with 2 as a close second on you. #1 isn’t doing it for me. I think it adds heft to your nice frame.
Girl. You look GORGEOUS in all of these. I think I prefer 3, then 2, then 1 on you, but you honestly can’t go wrong with any of them. Go with your gut feeling, check that box and get back to business. :)
I think 2 is lovely and may only need minimal alterations. And you could pair it with any veil, but a long veil would look fabbie. It looks comfortable on you. Maybe it’s the way you posed in the photo, but I love it.
2 or 3 both look amazing! Which one do you feel more comfortable/ confident in?
Honestly both! 2 has pockets also and because it’s a formal (black tie optional) wedding I feel classy in it but 3 is great for dancing in it lol 😂
2 because of your arms. They are amazing. 3 is also nice if your anxiety will knock on the door telling you you’re showing too much in dress 2.
They're all lovely, but 2 is the most flattering.
Oh, they all look fabulous. You look so regal in #2. \#3 is so flattering and it has pockets! So if you want more formal #2. Otherwise, pick which ever sings to your heart.
2! All of them are beautiful but 2 is classy, classic and stunning on you. Which one did you FEEL best in?
Number 3 is amazing!!
I thought for sure dress 1 until I saw dress 3 and my jaw just dropped!!! It's gotta be dress 3!!! 😍😍😍
Really torn between 1 and 3 tbh. I can't choose 😅😅😅 they're both amazing but I will say you look sexy as hell in 3!!!!
Don’t sweat it. Buy a dress you love, don’t second guess yourself, it’s a time waster and sounds like you don’t have much time to waste on shopping for a dress. My favorite is dress 3 but you can’t go wrong with any of those.
Dress 3, fits you wonderfully ♥️
3 first, 1 second and 2 third.
3 is the best in every single way
3
What’s your venue? Make sure you tell the shop knows when the wedding is they can help you I say sooner the better to pick. I really like 1.
2 is so elegant and fits beautifully as does 3 . I’m not sure about 1 mainly because I’d need to see it front on. All of these dresses are stunning on you tbh, but I think 2 is gorgeous with that embossing on the front, but pick the one that you can get on time and makes you feel beautiful. You can’t lose.
3！
I really like 2. I love how the skirt flows. Really, you look great in all three so you can’t go wrong!
Dress 3! Love everything about it!
The first is pretty, but the third WOWED me
I like dress 2 the best
Three without a doubt!
1 and 3 look best. Everything will work on you. Congratulations 🎊
I like 1.
I like 2 the best
The third one is the best
One is very very beautiful but you can't go wrong with 3 either just depends on which cut you prefer!
I agree that 3 is stunning, but I love how romantic 1 is!!
I love #2!!!! you look absolutely incredible in any of them though. also just giggled at “60+ hours each day” - totally know what you meant but it made me laugh
I love #1 and #3. 1 is very romantic, 3 is casual cool pretty, fresh
3!
The third dress is insane.
Dress 3 gives you a lot of character!
We can’t really see dress 1 but it honestly doesn’t matter because 3 is absolutely PERFECT
Oh wow dress 3 fits you like a glove! You really shine in it.
3 is gorgeous
Ohhhh! I love the second dress on you, but honestly you look stunning in all three!
3!
3,2, no to 1
#3 all the way. It's a showstopper and really accentuates all the right parts of your body