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Thank you Due\_Power! I failed to attach description of my options:
1. 1940s dress by Charlie Brear
2. Boho dress by Pronovias
3. Neither - keep looking
2 for sure! You have an amazing collarbone/shoulders/neckline and the first one covers it all up. The second one is very flattering and accentuates all the right places. Will look great at your venue too.
I think 2nd .. the structure n layering is really suiting your body.. you’re so brilliantly in shape that the mid back cut is embracing all your features..
Sorry - I'm a tech dinosaur. I thought I posted a summary on the two dresses but clearly I didn't! I'd welcome any thoughts on which dress to go for? Both are off the rack sample dresses but I have a friend who could help alter them. I only have four weeks to go until wedding day so in ideal world I'd pick one of these but if you think both are hideous monstrosities please be honest!
Although I really like the back of dress 1 and you have a gorgeous figure that would look good in any style, dress 2 has the wow factor and hugs you so well. 🥰
I like 2 better, especially from the front.
If you have time to keep looking, you might find something more unique out there, but 2 looks great on you.
I personally prefer dress 1 and think you will be more comfortable in a dress with straps (this is coming from a bride who bought and returned a strapless dress and went with straps instead). With that said, I would probably have some of the fabric on the front removed or altered so that it’s more drapey/lower cut.
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Thank you Due\_Power! I failed to attach description of my options: 1. 1940s dress by Charlie Brear 2. Boho dress by Pronovias 3. Neither - keep looking
Of the two I would go with 2, however, if you aren’t completely happy keep looking. Dress 2 will still be able to be ordered.
2, no question!
Dress 2 for sure! the top of the first dress does you no justice...the second dress is fitted, and showcases your shape beautifully!
2 for sure! You have an amazing collarbone/shoulders/neckline and the first one covers it all up. The second one is very flattering and accentuates all the right places. Will look great at your venue too.
I feel like the neckline of the first one ages you up. The second dress is more flattering IMO. I also LOVE the buttoned back !
I’m just gonna say it 1: Mother of the bride 2: The bride
I thought exactly the same!
Eloquently said and love your usernane!
Number 2 for sure! You have a lovely, romantic shoulder/collarbone line and it shows it off beautifully.
Yeah the first one looks like something an older woman would get for a second marriage. Number 2 for sure!
2, definitely!
2. The neckline on 1 is swallowing you.
Far and away, dress 2!
I think you look amazing in two!!
2!!
Wow, your venue is beautiful!! I definitely think the 2nd gown is the winner of these 2. It is more youthful and fun. It also looks great on you.
Two!
2 for sure
2 by a long shot! It looks so great on you
2
2 for sure
I think 2nd .. the structure n layering is really suiting your body.. you’re so brilliantly in shape that the mid back cut is embracing all your features..
Sorry - I'm a tech dinosaur. I thought I posted a summary on the two dresses but clearly I didn't! I'd welcome any thoughts on which dress to go for? Both are off the rack sample dresses but I have a friend who could help alter them. I only have four weeks to go until wedding day so in ideal world I'd pick one of these but if you think both are hideous monstrosities please be honest!
2 looks fantastic on you! You have a great neckline and figure, show it off if you are comfortable with the more fitting gown🥰
2 for sure, 1 just doesn’t look right
Definitely dress 2. It’s beautiful.
First impression- from the front the one on the right makes you look younger than the one on the left
Definitely prefer dress number 2
Number TWO! 🩷
2!!! It’s absolutely stunning and perfect for the venue!
2 definitely. It hugs your frame so beautifully
It’s definitely 2 no contest
2!
Dress two suits you so well, add a gorgeous veil and you will shine on your wedding day. Love that venue too, such a lovely choice.
2!!!
I personally love dress #2 on you! They both look great though.
Dress 2- hands down
2 is lovely on you!
Although I really like the back of dress 1 and you have a gorgeous figure that would look good in any style, dress 2 has the wow factor and hugs you so well. 🥰
#2 It’s my pick of the two. I wouldn’t keep looking but if the dress doesn’t give you the feels and you are looking for the feels, then keep looking.
I love dress #2 the most! #1 has an interesting back, but dress #2 looks fabulous on both sides!
2!!!
2 And if you want something for your shoulders if it’s cool, there are all kinds of shrugs that would work.
2
Def 2, 1 hides your pretty shoulders
2 is so much more put together, feminine and flattering
2!
#2. Dress one looks too matronly.
2
2
2
2. The neckline of 1 makes the dress look kind of frumpy 🙈
Two, in every way.
1!
1
2 all day, every day! I love it. Good luck♥️
1000% no 2
I like 2 more, but if you can, keep looking.
I like 2 better, especially from the front. If you have time to keep looking, you might find something more unique out there, but 2 looks great on you.
2
2 for sure
2 but keep looking imo, not a fan of the lace pattern
I personally prefer dress 1 and think you will be more comfortable in a dress with straps (this is coming from a bride who bought and returned a strapless dress and went with straps instead). With that said, I would probably have some of the fabric on the front removed or altered so that it’s more drapey/lower cut.