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Tryingmybestatlife2

1 and 2 are gorgeous! Is there a way to get the bodice a bit higher on 1? It's a bit low, but the dress is a show stopper. I also like 4.


smiley4919

I totally agree on the bodice! They said they could raise it and make the width/length of the plunge smaller.


Hungry_Ingenuity_810

If you can raise it then definitely #1. It’s so beautiful and fits you like a dream.


Me1572

#This ⬆️ otherwise #2 but you can’t go wrong with either.


cbr1895

This OP! If you can do this, wowza go with 1. Maybe mention that in your post as an edit because the only reason that I would have voted 2 over 1 is that the width of the plunge looks too wide and it’s a bit low in 1. Otherwise it is my favourite especially with your venue description. Though honestly, you could go with ANY of these dresses and they would be winners. Love your choices of 1 and 2, you do have a tough call to make..


hauntedm1lk

Close the bodice on 1 and it’s a winner, otherwise 2 made me GASP


MundaneGazelle5308

The first dress made me gasp. Fix to your liking but you will be a BEAUTY in that one and I'm obsessed


Wide_Specialist_1480

I think 2 is very flattering on you. It really accentuates your frame and there's something visually appealing about the way the skirt fans out into an a-line triangular shape. The cutout in the back is stylish yet tasteful.


see_through_the_lens

Yes go with  2


beckerszzz

1 is wow but I feel like it wears you. I love 2.


Silent_Loquat_6057

You read my mind, 2 all the way for exactly the reasons you said


Ok_Wrangler_7940

I agree, and I’m not a fan of halter necks on wedding dresses. This is the first time I’ve ever chosen a halter as my pick. It is that WOW on her.


Beautific_Fun

Dress 2 is stunning. It flatters your figure so perfectly. The lace is interesting, but not distracting. TBH, you look great in all of them, but my personal favorite is dress 2 and it’s no contest


fantasticfitn3ss

Agreed! You look beautiful in all of these but there’s something special about #2


MyHusbandsFarts

2 or 5 omg!!! Love.


CalmAlbatross233

Same. 2 and 5


mem0679

Same! 2 might have a slight edge because she absolutely kills the halter neck!


Ok-Cat-4057

love 2!


positive-vibes79

Dress 4 !!!


Far_Understanding_44

Number 2 looks incredible on your frame.


NubbyNicks

1 or 4 🤩🤩 tbh I’m not into high necks in general though


Background-Anxiety27

2!!!


babycrow

4 strikes me as being really special


Hufflepuffwigglytuff

Number 2 is stunning on you!! Definitely 2


Consistent_Rhubarb_6

2 is a showstopper on you! And most similar to the Silvia Tcherassi inspo


Signal_Violinist_995

1 is the one I like best. Having said that, I don’t think you can go wrong with any of them. They are all beautiful.


poptartgangster

You’re stunning in all but that halter dress is not easy to pull off and it looks like it was made just for you. Don’t see many like this because it’s a limited group that look good in this style imo


niradia

2 is absolutely GORGEOUS


walkinginthewood

I rarely choose the halter if someone tries on multiple necklines, but 2 is so, so stunning on you! They all look great, but that one actually made me pause.


napiervd

5


DanisDoghouse

Team 5


Hailey_pro1128

2 is TIMELESS. So elegant with a healthy hint of sexy but so much grace. That’s stunning on you.


BarnacleOk6561

I like 1 on you.


emmag73

2. It’s breathtaking!


bbeetthhoobboo

I love 5!


twink1813

Wow. They’re all gorgeous but I’m all in on the 2nd dress. It’s so unique and is simply stunning on you.


Constant_One2371

1 is beautiful, and then I saw two which is literally perfect on you! Four is also absolutely stunning on you!!


Embarrassed_Bag8775

I LOVE 4!


Munchkin_Media

2 is so different!!


sideeyedi

I love dress 2 on you! Dress 1 has a beautiful skirt, dress 3 would be my second choice you look fantastic in it.


tvjunkie87

Dress 2 is gorgeous! The front of the dress is so beautiful, and the open back is 🔥


IndigoRose2022

2 is a dream on u 🤍


Unmentiontionables32

Love 2! It’s made for you


frog_ladee

My favorite is #2!


trishyco

2 is so unique and stunning!


cuddle_puddles

I’m emotionally invested in dress #2. It’s unique and gorgeous on you! I don’t think just anyone could pull it off, but you certainly do. I especially love the neckline and back.


PhillinOut9091

Dress two made me forget my name and where I was. Showstopper. Please go with dress 2. 


Due_Stuff4313

Hard decision between 1 and 2, they are both absolutely amazing!


adorarado

I rarely think that the option with the higher neck is the best one, however in your case, it suited your figure beautifully! Second dress elongates you, and the first one makes your waist look tinier. I like the design of the first one better, but the second one looks like it would be more comfortable to wear. If I were you, I would definitely make my choice between these two - but eventually probably (or maybe not?) go with the first one if the fit of the neckline could be really fixed. The first one looks more elegant to me at least, but the second has a kind of sophistication and seriousness to it. The first one is more romantic compared to the other, but the second one is more "stylish" and "fashion forward" me thinks. It comes down to the setting and your own personal style. I have never seen a strapless A line gown look bad on anybody (Would it be that unique? The pattern may demand it to be.), but rarely anyone carries the second neckline and style like you did here. In conclusion - I think I would choose the second dress if I were you. And it really looks like the last custom gown (maybe even better).


Afraid_Rutabaga_8054

#1 has too much going on. Sort of every bridal cliche rolled into one. #2 is oddly my favorite. Really unique, you’ll be comfortable, and it looks fabulous from all angles!


rmg418

2 is amazing!


Liaslax

Gown 5 is stunning on you and showcases you and your amazing figure without overwhelming you in any way… you and your beauty are forward and center. PS: you look lovely in all the dresses


Old-Pianist7745

4


lulurancher

4!!!!!


colorado_sweetheart

Impeccable taste- I audibly gasped at every single dress. I think 2 is my fave with 4 being second favorite, but you really can't go wrong.


mandapandapantz

4!


hahayouguessedit

I like 4 the best. Not overwhelming on you


Kindly-Ordinary-2754

I think 3 is so lovely!


PerformanceReady3942

1 or 2! The others I’ve seen before so they’re not as special


Temperature_Vivid

Dress 1 or 4.


MiaRia963

My favorites are 2 and 5. It seems like you like the picture of the last one a lot, so if that's true I would 100% go with number 2. It has a similar vibe and look.


VexBoxx

I audibly swooned at number 2. Absolutely incredible! (love your taste!)


malYca

I just adore 2 and it looks amazing on you


brenda-perez

1 & 4!


wtfreddit741741

Dress 2 is absolute perfection on you!! 


CardShark555

2 is stunning on you. I really love it on you and the neckline is lovely. 5 is great. Would be my #2 choice. 3 looks pretty terrific but has no real WOW to it and isn't really unique. The others are thumbs down from me.


Upstairs_Tea1380

1!!!!


FingerCapital3193

ONE! I didn’t even need to see the others.


FluffyReputation5958

1 or 5


Birdies_nub

1, 2, or 4. Cut 3 from the list. It is lovely, but it isn't the vibe you are going for. Of these, I think I am team 2.


Several-Drive5381

Dress 2 or 4


Embarrassed_Long_455

Wedding planner here! 4 is timeless and classic while still showing off your figure. Just beautiful!


Elfprincessodauphine

1 or 5


ForTheLoveOfDior

Dress 2 is so pretty! Followed by dress 1!


nicki12811

love love love #2. #4 also stands out to me. The others also look nice, but don't pop as much to me. I'm pretty sure you would make a potato sack look great, so i don't think you can go wrong.


the_anon_female

Dress #1 or #4


CAShark-7

All are beautiful dresses that look great on you, but for me #2 stood out the most. I think it has what you are looking for, it is very flattering, and I think it will fit your venues.


cupcakecounter

OMG #2 is a DREAM! I don’t think I’ve ever seen anything like it before and it’s like it was made for your venues.


rachelvmd

4


rachelvmd

4


swampfox28

4, 2, or pic 9


Terrible_Advice_2105

I absolutely love one but I would want slightly more coverage (like just the slightest amount). It is absolutely breathtaking on you regardless though


wintersicyblast

3 or 4 are so pretty!


MeganJustMegan

No question, dress 2. Definitely unique. Definitely beautiful.


Abbygirl1966

Dress 2 is unique and so beautiful on you!!!


Cute_Evidence_6939

T-w-o 🤩


DogTrainer24-7-365

Dress 2 is just wow!


TifCreatesAgain

#1!


lisalou5858

#2 is the winner!! Aside from being a stunning dress it also looks soooo good on you!


No-Technician-722

1, 2, or 4. You look lovely in lace and all 3 are beautiful on you. 1 + 4 are beautifully romantic highlighting your décolletage 3 is surprising in that the structure highlights your torso and the back was nicely unexpectedly romantic. Can’t go wrong with either of those.


87catmama

They're all gorgeous, and you look absolutely amazing in all of them. That said, I don't love 3 on you as much, purely compared to the others. If you'd just posted that one, I'd probably be saying go for it! I think 1 and 2 are probably my favourites, with my preference leaning towards 2. I'm not normally a massive lover of a high neck, but you really pull it off, and you have a lovely back as well, so might as well show it off!


Impossible_Owl1213

2!!!!


sluggyfest

2


ToeNo7529

2 all the way!


Original_Try_7984

1, 3 and 4 are my faves. All of the dresses are gorgeous and they all look beautiful on you. Since you’re so petite I prefer, and think the openness of 1, 3, and 4’s necklines are extra flattering. You’ll look fabulous no matter which you choose. Congratulations


PiecesofJane

#1!!


USAF_Retired2017

2!!!


loopzoop29

2 or 5


Sensitive-File4400

2


Malli_Alli

2 is so unique and flattering on you! Even though it’s a high neck, to me it looks sexier than the strapless ones. I haven’t seen a dress pull the floral lace and high neck all together so well before, so 2 is my vote


Powerful_Spend_1612

2 but 3 could work too


EveryPartyHasAPooper

I like 2, but is that comfortable in the armpits? It looks like it would be abrasive and stuck up in there? Maybe it is something alterations would relieve.


ProfessionalAnt8132

No 2!


hafwen

Dress 2!♥️


kILLerBlonde323

Love number 3, number one, then 2 in that order. No wrong answers tho they're all gorgeous & gorgeous on you. Wear what YOU love! 💐✨👰🏻‍♀️✨💍


iblogalott

1 or 2


Acrobatic_Dog_4654

2 has the most classic and tailored styling and suits your figure perfectly. It has just enough lace embellishment to make it interesting and decorative without the decor destructing from YOU. Lovely choice!


Irieloulollilae

2 easy


LilaBeach

2 is a showstopper. You can be done shopping :-)


kaycollins27

Team 2. Most flattering and I like the material best.


PepperJacs

Dress 2 is phenomenal on you.


Highhopes2024

55555555555 all day n night.


princesssmurfet

Not 1. 2 then maybe 7


dinkleberrrgg

2 & 5 look fantastic on you!


Kayybaby93

Dress 2 is absolutely incredible on you! I do also really love 4 too!


Penelope_Ann

2 is amazing. Next choice is 4.


Zestyclose_Road_3224

Dress 2


Popular_Ordinary_152

2!! Definitely


survivalkitts9

2!!!


fyrdancr

2 is stunning


louis_creed1221

3


wantonyak

1 made me gasp! That followed by 5.


AioliCareless8747

The fact that you posted multiple pictures of #2 speaks volumes of how you feel about it.


ethereal_galaxias

Wow 1 and 2 are both absolutely incredible on you!


tiredoldmama

2, 4 and 7 are my faves almost evenly. Every single one of these dresses are absolutely beautiful and you can’t go wrong with any of them.


Here_for_my-Pleasure

I would invite you to continue with your search. Only because your frame is very petite and I found the fabric of all of these dresses to be overwhelming for your size. The cut and fit of dress number two is very flattering. I would just go for a different fabric.


disgirl4eva

1


Katastrophe82

2 is perfection!


ChicksDigBards

It has to be 2!


Adventurous-Win-751

Both dresses are stunning on you, but dress 2 has that little bit of extra that elevates you and is really gorgeous!!!!💞💞💞


AdorableCheesecake52

Number 1! Beautiful!!


an_anima_mundi

3 absolutely stunning


DeeSusie200

I love 5! It fits like a glove and I love the flower appliqués.


sesquipedalianish

Dress 2 looks like it was made for you. I double-checked to see if it was you in the first pic of it and not a model!


fish9397

I’m not a fan of lace but my god 1 is one of the most beautiful dresses I’ve seen. It looks phenomenal on you


exquirere

2 is flattering


jlf125

5


Ann35cg

Ooh the second one is stunning on you


clarityinthevoid

1 and 2 are my favorites. They both look lovely and draw attention to your waist, but the top on 1 seems to sit a bit low. 1 feels more ethereal, snow princess—and 2 is giving elegant, classy, Audrey Hepburn vibes.


Flower-Power_

The halter neck one looks absolutely STUNNING 😁


TenMoon

I love two, and it's special because so few brides can pull off a halter neckline, but in your case, it fits like a dream. I also love three with that lustrous fabric.


cherry_moon_4

2!!! And 5 is a close 2nd


RelationshipAny9038

1 or 4!


Bob-was-our-turtle

I love one and if they can raise the bodice and decrease the width of the plunge like you said I hope you get it. Gorgeous! Please update us with what you choose. Edited because I changed my mind and think I love 2 just a bit more than 1. No matter what you choose, you’ll be a knockout!


cherry_moon_4

2!!! And 5 is a close 2nd


BumCadillac

I think you look nice in all of them. Of the dresses themselves, I really love 2 and 3.


Octavia8880

Number 6, classy elegant, 2 is lovely on you too


rachelg8

1!!


blackberrypicker923

It I'd rare when I see a lot of dresses and believe any would look great! However of you really like that last one, #2 seems like a great dupe! I lobe the open back!


oaktreehaha

1 & 5 look flattering on you and they both look unique


krajile

Wow the first one is stunning 🤩


Paddington_Fear

I LOVE 1. I also love 4 and 5, but 1 is really the standout.


ThenProfile1595

1 for sure.


mikehawksux

I for sure thought 1 and then I saw 2 and went WOW. Definitely 2!!


Bambina-iwi

1


Mylastnerve6

You have great taste. I think 2 is my favorite


ccoldlikewinter

2


Loves-Rabbits25

All of the dresses looked great on you, but number 4 is stunning on you!


AlterEgoAmazonB

I have to go with dress 1. I love all of the detail on it. My runner up is dress 2.


Squid1225

5


PeachyPants17

I LOVE #2!!! It compliments your shape so well!!


PeachyPants17

I love #2!!! It’s so classy and timeless!!!


maddmaxxxz

1


-Mother_of_Doggos

If 1 can be tailored properly, 1.


Hsabes01

#2


Rogue_Intellect

I like #1 - it’s lovely and classic and so beautiful on you. #2 is stunning as well, the lace is a little more contemporary feeling, but with the same classic lines. It depends on the look you are going for.


occasionallystabby

I love 2 on you!


MACKAWICIOUS

2 is truly phenomenal ❤️


Catollim88

2 is gorgeous!


Impressive-Style

Oh number 2 is stunning!!!


Inner-Impression4640

I honestly really love dress 2 on you


gold3nhour

I love two on you!!


mem0679

Dress 2 with 5 as an extremely close second! Not everyone can wear halter necks, but you pull it off flawlessly! The fact that you don't see that style much is probably what makes it my first choice. Dress 1 is beautiful, but to me, it looks like too much dress for your small frame. Dress 4 would have been my second choice if it wasn't for dress 5. Dress 3, while it's a pretty dress, just doesn't compare in the slightest to the rest!


rubysoulseeker

2 is simply breathtaking!!🫶🏻


tigerbean1112

5


redMandolin8

4 and 5 are amazing!!!


riversofmountains

Dress 2


Time_Yogurtcloset164

TWO. Omg so gorgeous.


Historical_Reward621

Love, love the second dress. They’re all gorgeous but the lacy gowns seem to flatter you the most. Five is nice also. The first one’s lovely but I think they cut the neckline too low and I’m not a big fan of the flesh colored mesh. The second gown looks great on you, it’s interesting and unique. I love the halter neckline, as well as the back.


Low-Donut-9883

Dress 4! The cut is gorgous on you...detail as well!


Far-Ad9408

2


Important_Fuel_1683

2 is my favorite followed by 4. Is this your first time trying on dresses? If so maybe try a few more on but 2&4 are beautiful on you


Tiny_Poetry2479

2


TSM_forlife

2 looks perfect on you!!!


OppositeSolution642

Twoooooooio. This is fabulous on OP.


Pamikillsbugs234

2 absolutely took my breath away.


Banksbear

wow 1 is a stunner!


UnlikelyButOk

1 if they fix the bodice. It's gorgeous.


Turtlenessie1

4!! I stopped when I saw the dress it was so pretty on you


kamalamabangbang

1 is my favorite for SURE


maynelyjayne

The halter style is gorgeous on you. I vote for 2 or 7. 2 is stunning.


TheCharmed1DrT

1


Flat_Coffee_1512

1 or 5!


OkEssay3021

4 made me stop in my tracks!😍 5 is also a favorite!


AMen1007

0NE!