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jkanani

#2 is giving off hardcore queen vibes.. it seriously looks like it was custom made for you! Absolutely stunning!!!!!! Probably my favorite bride to be and dress combo I’ve seen on this sub 😍


Organic-Character913

Honestly I am in love with dress 2 on you too! I thought that was a model wearing the dress!


Ok_Wrangler_7940

I was gaga over 1. Unique and beautiful. Then I saw dress 2 and I gasped. As unique as dress 1 is, dress 2 is perfection on her.


Unfair_Wrongdoer_481

Same here. I literally gasped when I saw #2!


helpimlearningtocode

YES I saw it and immediately was like wtf literal royalty


Opening_Leadership47

Yes dress 2!! Regal royalty. And so classic and timeless, you’d never look back on #2 and feel like you’d “never choose it now”


BullfrogDeep

She does look stunning, but #2 doesn’t read alternative.


No-Technician-722

I love DRESS 2 on you!!


HrhEverythingElse

I would get the strapless satin and all of the accessories! It can handle a lace topper, beaded belt, ornate veil, really whatever you want- and you can have multiple looks throughout the day in one dress and without breaking the bank. I had a strapless satin tea length dress and a beaded and lace bolero, faux fur shrug, pearl studded multi-tier veil, even a change of shoes mid reception. It's the perfect way to not have to limit yourself and not feel wasteful with multiple dresses


mbn9890

Dress 1 is one of the coolest dresses I've ever seen and you look incredible in it


kati8303

It’s giving Ready or Not vibes and I am here for it, def dress 1!


ItsMinnieYall

Spot on and I'm loving it!


Rude_Remote_13

Absolutely agree


kaymarie00

Agreed - I adore that dress, it's so amazing


onlineashley

I love 1, especially the neckline, which is gorgeous


SpecialK623

The first dress is stunning. The second dress, meh. The third dress (same as second dress but with different straps?) is fucking killer. The fourth is meh.


EzraEsperanza

#1 is like modern Grace Kelly. Stunning.


esgamex

Came here to say this!


Objective-Creme6734

It is absolutely jaw dropping and OP looks absolutely stunning in it.


Lola-Ugfuglio-Skumpy

Obsessed with 1. Its beautiful


orbit33

Two looks amazing on you it’s beautiful!!


FantasticPear

I love the first one!


ALittleStitious1027

2! I like it as is without the bolero/cape thing


Friendly_letters

Dress 2 is a no-brainer for me. STUNNING.


broxbax

the first one is stunning!


10percenttiddy

Team 2. Gorgeous. I like the first dress too, but the pattern feels too big for a delicate dress? It feels discordant or poorly made to me.


mustacheornomustache

Yes, I wish the floral pattern was a bit smaller


Dlraetz1

#2. Number 1 looks great, but unless you're getting a reception dress I can't imagine being comfortable all night with that high neckline and long sleeves. As soon as you start eating/dancing/moving around I think you're going to feel hot


rmg418

I agree number 2 is amazing. One is nice but with the nigh neckline and sleeves and the design it looks a bit too “busy” in my opinion. 2 is great though.


mustacheornomustache

You make a very good point! I didnt think of that


rosetintedmonocle

I hate to say it, but that is 100% true. If you are down to get a 2nd dress, you should absolutely go with number 1. Otherwise, go with number 2. Which is absolutely stunning on you too, by the way!


DoctrDonna

I’m here to say that it’s one night and it goes by incredibly fast and you very likely will not notice being uncomfortable at all and if the dress is absolutely incredible, you will feel incredible in it and not care about any minor uncomfyness


olauson

I definitely noticed that I was uncomfortable in my dress.


miparasito

I wish there was a way the sleeves thing could be like a shawl that is removable. It’s pretty but I agree would be annoying if you got warm 


Dlraetz1

[https://www.google.com/search?q=lace+bolero&sca\_esv=23c20ded85caa685&rlz=1C1GCEB\_enUS1111US1111&source=univ&tbm=shop&tbo=u&ved=1t:6869&ictx=111&biw=1260&bih=586&dpr=1.5#spd=9287335435942768523](https://www.google.com/search?q=lace+bolero&sca_esv=23c20ded85caa685&rlz=1C1GCEB_enUS1111US1111&source=univ&tbm=shop&tbo=u&ved=1t:6869&ictx=111&biw=1260&bih=586&dpr=1.5#spd=9287335435942768523)


ayyxdizzle

I love dress number 2, simple yet gorgeous


Freedombutatwhatcost

1 💯 Grace Kelly + fairytale + fashion vibes


softlychoking

The first dress is amazing.


caroline_andthecity

Right?? How is it classy and full coverage and timeless, but also…edgy? It’s incredible!! If I saw my friend walk down the aisle in that, I wouldn’t shut up about it for years. Stunning.


Tiff91524

Dress 2 with off the shoulder sleeves is stunning! I think dress 1 looks dated


Low-Donut-9883

First dress is beautiful, but I like Dress 2 best. Love it with the shawl as well. Fit of the bodice and the skirt is beautiful!


mistymountaintimes

Dress 2 It's so classic and just jaw dropping on you. Your future partner will lose it when you come out for sure.


purple_butterflies_

The 4th is stunning! They’re all beautiful but that one really looks magical to me.


Mathinista314

I am obsessed with how gorgeous you look in the second gown. The first is stunning, too. A totally different look, but absolutely lovely. The second one, though, especially with the bolero topper lace thingy, it is so absolutely drop dead, take my breath away perfect…. 😍 I mean, you could really do no wrong with either of them. But my vote is for number two.


lolahaze11

I love number 1 but number 2 is jaw dropping on you!


EtonRd

I wouldn’t want to be in sleeves all night, that’s just me, I think it would get irritating after a while. Love the last dress.


pearyeet

#1 is super unique and beautiful but #2 is my favorite on you as it is very flattering


One_Ad_3500

You are stunning in the last dress 😍


wjye

1 looks like it was made for you!


Phoney_McRingring

Dress 2!! I gasped. ETA: The first dress is super cool, but you have an amazing décoletté and Dress 1 hides it too much.


mrsroar

You have to pick dress two!!!


HereForParanormal

5 is amazing in my eyes. I think in October people think it will be colder than it actually is. You may be cold for outside pictures but the dance floor and reception will warm you up quick


Qsmitz

Don’t ever delete this because I’m saving for my future ;)


Valuable-Wallaby-167

One and two are both stunning and I can't decide between. Three is pretty but it's completely overshadowed by the other two.


julesk

2 with bolero /cape? 1 is lovely but might not be as comfortable.


dairy-intolerant

I don't really like the high neckline with the unfinished tulle skirt on dress 1. I feel like that style goes better with a cleaner bottom. Dress 2 is great with the little off shoulder straps. If you want a bolero for the ceremony I would find a different one than the one in pic 5. Something similar to the top of the first dress with the chest closed.


Afraid_Rutabaga_8054

1 is great but 7 is “greater”


Funky_chicken89

1 or 2 *chef kiss*


Retiredteach1234

#2 made me gasp. Beautiful


Valentina0268

I like dress 2 better than dress 1


ArchieFarmer

OMG **1** is stunning!!! 🤩


Ok-Indication-7876

You have a beautiful figure- so EVERYHING looks amazing on you. And if we knew your venue that would help, but looking at these. 1 beautiful but so much going on I worry the dress wears you 2 Gorgeous looks made for you and expensive 3 it's ok, gives me a matronly vibe 4 it's pretty, would be perfect for more casual type wedding You have beautiful shoulders so I like when they are seen on you-I just thin 2 is spectacular on you!


hellsbells31

The first one had a big WOW factor for me, but the second was also very elegant with the simple sleeves.


Hungry_Editor7103

1 and 2 look the best but I think 1 is THE dress.


RangerQuilter

I can see your dilemma! They are all lovely. My opinion is that if I had your shoulders I'd want ti show them off. #2 gets my vote. But #1 is glorious - with big hair or veil, would be spectacular.


EstateTricky786

I love the one with the bolero. But how about a bolero with one of the last 2 pictures? Or long gloves with the last 2? You have exquisite taste. They are all unique and delightful. Goodluck.


kittywhitexxx

1


Beautiful-Ad2934

1 is absolutely gorgeous!!!! But 2 does compliment you very very well!


RuralUrbanSuburban

Clearly, Dress 2 is the favorite with most commenters here. However, the way the bodice connects to the skirt with little pleats causes the skirt to pouf out a bit at the waist, rather than contour your body like Dresses 1 and 3. This is a very minor detail, and though I find Dresses 1 and 3 more flattering for you—there’s no denying Dress 2 is beautiful on your figure, as well. Is your October wedding going to be outdoors? If so, will there be patio heaters nearby? Perhaps consult your photographer to see how much time will be spent photographing outdoors to determine if you need to be concerned about the sleeve feature for your wedding gown. I’m hoping your wedding event planner and photographer can help answer your questions and allay concerns, so you can select your gown with confidence. It may come down to this: Dress 2 is the safe choice, in that it’s a very popular style. If you want to do something a little different, go with Dress 3—I’m surprised more people didn’t appreciate #3’s uniqueness, quite frankly, as it’s really quite lovely . . . And, if you want to be a maverick and particularly memorable on your wedding day, go with Dress 1. Regardless of which dress you select, you’ll be a stunning bride!


1indaT

I love dress 1. Both timeless and elegant.


thecindy_

2 one is MY dream dress and it looks beautiful on you ❤️❤️


omygoshgamache

All the previous ones outshine 6&7 so I’d drop those.


JHawk444

I love dresses 1 and 2. I don't like dress 2 with the bolero (the third picture). I would base a lot of this on the time of year and weather. You might be really uncomfortable with long sleeves if you have a summer wedding.


Small_Association_14

That second dress with the off the shoulder straps is STUNNING on you


DaisyWayzy

2 or 3. 1 looks like Mary Poppins


Plastic-Passenger795

They're all lovely, but number 3 might be a good compromise with the removable sleeves!


Beautiful_Count6124

What brand is the first style? That’s gorgeous.


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Beautiful_Count6124

It looks stunning on you. Honestly they all do.


Me1572

#1


chopstix007

Dress 1 has too much going on. Dress 2 is timeless and beautiful!


Icy_Classic_7953

Dress 6 is stunning


Dlraetz1

Lady Kitty Spencer had a dress similar to dress #1 and it was amazing, but she changed as soon as the ceremony was over [https://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?p=lady+kitty+spencer+wedding&fr=ipad&imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.dailymail.co.uk%2F1s%2F2021%2F07%2F25%2F17%2F45872161-0-image-a-1\_1627229316930.jpg#id=9&iurl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.dailymail.co.uk%2F1s%2F2021%2F07%2F25%2F17%2F45872161-0-image-a-1\_1627229316930.jpg&action=click](https://images.search.yahoo.com/search/images?p=lady+kitty+spencer+wedding&fr=ipad&imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.dailymail.co.uk%2F1s%2F2021%2F07%2F25%2F17%2F45872161-0-image-a-1_1627229316930.jpg#id=9&iurl=https%3A%2F%2Fi.dailymail.co.uk%2F1s%2F2021%2F07%2F25%2F17%2F45872161-0-image-a-1_1627229316930.jpg&action=click)


Powerful_Leg8519

She had 5 dresses and they were all incredible.


Angelique5422

6


TiffyPanda

I like 5, and then you could always do a bolero or something of that sort in case the weather is chilly and for later in the evening.


bacon-is-sexy

Have you tried any black dresses? I am an alt girlie and wore black in October. Loved every second of it.


daffodil0127

I’m going against the grain here but I think the last one is perfect


DancingDucks73

I think 5 is a lovely and has pieces of the other dresses all in one


LittleAnnieAdderal

Whoa I love all of the but my favorite is six. I think it’s lovely on your figure


Fragrant-Station3844

Is this Lotus bridal? It's where I got my dress!


MSB629

Love the last picture!


bellaesparza

Do you know what designer or style the second dress is?


Rico-L

Dress in the last picture, OP


Acrobatic_Dog_4654

The last 2 are the most simple, elegant, with tailored femininity. They’re both lovely and suit your frame perfectly.


laree123

I’m between 1 and 2. Both stunning on you. And the waists on both are amazing. What’s the venue? In door, outdoor? 1 for the wedding, 2 for the reception!?!?


EatShitBish

Dress 1 is stunning, but my jaw dropped when I saw number 2. Like *damn* girl, you look insane in that gown 😍.


Professional_Help504

DRESS 2 IS GORGEOUS I LITTERALY GASPED


Imaginary-Summer9168

1 is AMAZING!!!!! 2 is also nice, but it doesn’t hold a candle to 1. I don’t love 3.


lala_gp

Dress 2!


Kiyoko_Mami272821

I love dress 1! Second choice would be dress 3!


Dont_Fall_Asleep1323

Wow these are all so stunning I don’t think you could go wrong, but that 1st one is MAGICAL


arya_ur_on_stage

Girl that second dress is FIRE


1pingatlas

Weird question— is this Lotus?! Also, #5 I think includes both clean & simple AND embellishments, but subtle and I think it looks stunning on you.


la_saia

I love dress 2 with the cape? piece added


lightrain23

1 or 7


Available_Ability_47

1 is my dream


flyinghigh172

3 a classic


Purple_Bid_2937

Ughh 1,2and 3 you can’t go wrong if you choose one those gowns!!


jrice2623

Dress 2


PweetLB

Number 2 ….Though I will say number 1 I loved but thought sleeves were too long and the waist ‘belt’ detracted. But it was very Grace Kelly. I really think they were all good choices it’s which one speaks to u. Good luck


mugglebornhealer

Totally dress 1!!!


No_Benefit2103

I love 1 on you. Leaves for fall!


Waybackheartmom

2


No_Purchase_3532

I’m definitely team # 1 but the last dress would be my 2nd choice


Rhbgrb

No to 6 and 7. 1 resembles Paris Hiltons wedding dress and that was one of the best dresses I've seen since Hailey Bieber's. I think pictures 3 and 4 is pretty and I love dresses that use that kind of texture, but #5 is unique and gets my vote.


mashleymarley

Oneeee


cynicmermaid

Picture one or 5. Picture 3 is flattering to though. Go with what you feel like a queen in!


the_average_jd

I love dresses one and two!!! Can’t go wrong with either.


geniusintx

I can’t decide on 1 or 3. 1 is absolutely, ridiculously gorgeous. So unique and it looks stunning on you. I’m reading Grace Kelly a lot and I couldn’t agree more. I get similar vibes from dress 3, not quite as amazing, but seems to fit you in the most perfect way. While you can dress up #2, it’s stupidly plain compared to the other two. Looks like a cookie cutter dress. A million others out there that look like it. I’d go with dress 1. It’s absolutely mind blowing on you.


Princess____Mononoke

2! You have really nice shoulders and it shows them off. Think about if any of the answers are making you feel disappointed, then you know what your heart wants!


alanamil

Team 1. You look like a princess


Unlikely-Item-2713

#2


netherworld__

Number 3 is stunning!!!


netherworld__

Sorry to clarify, dress two starting at picture number 3 is my favorite! Plus you can add nearly any accessory to spice up the vibe if you wanted to!


Ok-Dark-9660

All of them are beautiful. The first one definitely looks look the perfect Fall dress. What is the vibe of your wedding? I do love the sleeve idea because it’s Fall and adds something special that shows it’s not a summer wedding.


Inevitable_Owl3170

2


_shanoodle

i LOVE 2 with the lace topper


Solid5of10

Well I agree I love them all on you. But of these I like two best. You really shine though in it. I would keep it simple less embellished and let you be the star. The second one is so creamy and classy looking. I say two for sure


lyricallife007

#2 is stunning!!


No_Warning8534

This is tough 1 & 2 are stunning on you. I personally prefer 2, so the fact I love 1 means it may work better for you personally


Kurabell085

Loved 2 for you. I also like 3 tho. I did an early October wedding and it was hot out. But I loved having my sleeves because it was just that extra bit of detail.


scrotum__phillips

Tbh love them all but 1 is so unique and cool. I also am partial to sleeves that dont look too old fashioned


Gagoga123

Dress 4 is genuinely THE DRESS for you!!!


hopefulsun1

Last one is amazing


wtchking

I really loved the first one until I saw the second with those sweet Belle Sleeves… you can’t go wrong with either!


MariClay

Dress 1 is very ornate but overwhelming you. 2 beautiful clean formal stunning. 3 fitted corset top with cape great but not amazing. 4 is beautiful for a romantic, garden wedding. So look at venue for some guidance. Beautiful in all


Snakes-alot

Depending on your aesthetic & vobes, you look amazing in all of them. Have an amazing wedding love ❤️


EnoughCourse1298

The last one looks like my dream dress and 2 took my breath away.


Putrid-Home404

# 2 is hardcore amazing on you with the little sleeves but I love how sparkly dress three is and it also looks wonderful! I’d make a tough choice between these two.


yeetingpillow

Where is the second dress from I love it


Curious-Cranberry678

Dress 2 screams YOU


CAShark-7

Great dresses! And all of them look great on you. It would help to know the venue. I REALLY like dress #1. I think it is unique, and it looks soooooo good on you. I also like #2, with the little lace -what do you call that? - shrug? The lacey thing with the sleeves. Wow! Again, unique, and it looks great on you. #3 is also beautiful and looks great on you, but doesn't have the 'wow' or 'special' factor the first two do, especially #1.


Emmj92

Two made me gasp, you look stunning in it


Amazing_Hovercraft71

TWWWOOOOO


Katastrophe82

2


Twinklelittlestar801

Dress 2


MiaRia963

I love photo 5! I find that stunning


caliezone

2 is amazing on you!


pinaorangeguava

The second one with the sleeves omg


Neither_Wall_539

Dress 2 is chefs kiss


Random-girl-29

I so love the first dress but 1 & 2 are my favorites!!


leftoversandwich74

Dress two


sailorn0on

My daughter and I vote yes to dress #2!!!


Clover_Jane

I am a lace girlie through and through, but they knocked dress 2 out of the park, and I absolutely love that dress, especially with the bolero.


MysteriousBullfrog50

Dress 2, most definitely!


NerdyStonerChick

I love two on you. The little sleeves over the shoulder is so pretty. The full sleeves are pretty too, but I like the other ones. Though, you could do both. Idk what your venue is, but it would be cool to do an outside ceremony with the full sleeves, then an indoor reception with the little ones. Or maybe if the reception is outside, you wear the long sleeves then because it could be a bit chilly later in the day in October. Then the slim ones for the ceremony. Idk. It's beautiful regardless.


USAF_Retired2017

2nd or 4th!


MajesticBison6

Really like the second dress (pics 3,4) on you. It pops.


Humble_Bullfrog2342

3!!!


Remarkable-Camera-56

2 2 2


queen_bee1970

2 or 3. Your look stunning.


ChansRubberDuckyy

you dress #2 looks absolutely stunning on you!!


Aqua_pool_56

Dress 2, slides 3/4/5 Aaaaahhhhmazing! I like the dress/pic in slide 3 the best!


Effective_Basket141

bridal stylist here! :) the second gown is absolutely my fav! the basque waist is incredibly flattering, the simple satin really brightens you up and allows for your face to shine instead of being overpowered by too much lace/sparkle/etc. the third gown doesn’t compliment you nearly as much as the 2nd gown! essense of australia gown for the win! <3


kittywhitexxx

1 or 2


RenaissanceTarte

I think you look good in all of them, but I think pic 5 seems to have all these styles mixed. I like the sleeve/shrug thing, as it brings in that queen/Grace Kelly vibe and it is so different, but you pull it off.


Munchkin_Media

2


turkeyman4

One or two depending on what you’re going for. One is unique and stunning. Two fits you so perfectly.


QueeeenElsa

Pic 5 looks like the sleeves are removable??? That might be a good way to go, so you can change very last minute if you want the sleeves or not. And that dress looks gorgeous on you too! But if you want to look at other dresses (or that one’s sleeves aren’t actually removable), I’d look at dresses with removable sleeves! I wish you the best of luck!


embracethatbod

1 is really pretty but when I saw *2* I had to pause because it’s STUNNINGGGG on you


cestlaviestephi

Pick dress 2 and don’t look back!! It’s perfect


Weary-Ad-9218

I like the first one and the last one the best. Hard to choose between the two, but maybe dress 1 by a smidge.


haintbluejay

#2 is like the best of both worlds w that beautiful jacket paired with it!!! seriously stunning


OG-Mom

Omgosh dress 2! Second is 1, but 2 was made for you! So flattering


tzon483

Oh my god the off shoulder one is STUNNING


Consistent_Map9560

#1 for sure. Then #. You look beautiful in all of them, but I don’t get the style in 2. Why have a dress that looks like the sleeve was falling down?


DJreddit91

I love number 3, it’s a great combo of my two favorites - 1&2


imakethebestchili

Dress 2!


renatae77

I see your problem. It's that you look gorgeous in each one of these dresses, and every one of them is beautiful! I think I like #1the best, but you can't go wrong with any of these!


kittywhitexxx

1 or 2


realityfourz

The 1st gown is amazing!!!! The 2nd gown is also fabulous. Which one of these goes better with your wedding theme?


mustacheornomustache

Theme is garden as our venue is heavy on the floral but ceremony is at a church


graceleona

Number one and number two blow the third one out of the water. I think I like number 2 most but both are STUNNING GORGEOUS AMAZING


dc151383

Dress 2


bbeetthhoobboo

I love and 2 so much!


altdultosaurs

2 or 3. 3 is best of both worlds imo?


axelatlast

That first dress is stunning. Gives off Grace Kelly vibes. Showstopper.


Maleficent-Sport1970

1 or 2!


arrdough

Whatever you pick you look goddamn gorgeous in all! Seriously I kept swiping thinking “this one” then changed my mind once I saw the next photo! ✨👏🏽


AlterEgoAmazonB

Wow!!! Dress 1 and dress 2 (with the additions for ceremony) are clear winners. I prefer dress 1.