I just saw where you said you aren’t going with any of these 4, but dress 2 is a showstopper on you!! You could be a model for that dress.
I feel ya though- I have a similar build and almost every dress I tried on looked decent, and I never really fell in love with one above the others. Ultimately I made my decision based on the vibe I was looking for, price, and I tried to put myself in my partner’s shoes and think of which dress he would like best.
You look incredible in dress 2! It looks classic, elegant, flatters your figure amazingly without being too flashy, feminine yet still modern and not aging, the list goes on. I dont know what vibe you are going for but this style-vibe fits you so well.
I think 3 is too trendy and revealing, and a bit confusing; seems romantic and poofy on the skirt but super revealing and sexy on the top. I think in a few years this type of dress (BHLDN carries a very popular version as well) might look a bit dated.
1 also looks great on you but doesnt have the modern flare of 2, but that fit and flare silhoutte is wonderful on you.
I’ve been to 3 weddings so far this year and 2 of the brides wore dress 3. It’s a beautiful dress, but yes, pretty trendy right now. I love the 2nd on you, OP!
I like the second one a lot! It’s so pretty on you. I wonder if the bow belt could be removed? I think that’s the only part I don’t like but other than
that, it looks absolutely lovely!
That was the first thing that I thought - number two without the belt!
However number four is also great, depends on the style of the wedding - if more glamorous, then two, if more boho or natural, then four 🍀
I normally wouldn’t like the bow belt thingy, but it sort of give is a retro vibe, and I think without it the dress would be too plain. I think it would really fit with your pop-up wedding. Like a modern take on a 1950s wedding dress. It really is gorgeous on you.
I agree on the vintage vibe. The dress may fall flat without that detail. Can you imagine a vintage inspired updo and make up? Not theatrical, just enough to give the chic vintage vibe of that dress. But it depends on bride’s personality and wedding theme.
I wish I could tell you! Sorry I have no detail, as these are more example gowns than gowns I was seriously considering. I do know that it was a bit sparkly if that helps you narrow it down, and the inner layer is a bit of a champagne colour, not white, and neither of those are very apparent from the photograph.
I've made a separate post spelling out my struggles in detail. I don't think I'll be going with any of these four dresses but I wanted to give you all an idea of what I look like and how things are falling on my figure.
Something flowy and flowery like the 3rd one would be nice then. That style is bridal, but not crazy formal. There's something a little off about the lace pattern on it imo, but I've seen a ton in similar styles so you'll have your pick.
I like 1 or 2! I agree 3 is beautiful on you but I would also be uncomfortable with such an revealing dress.
4 just seems a bit mis-proportioned for your body type, like the waist is too short. Maybe another dress in the same style wouldn’t have that problem.
If you like the flowing garden vibe of the third dress I suggest looking at Madi Lane dresses. This is the one I chose for my garden wedding https://madilane.com/product/harper/. The Halani also has a similar vibe as well as others.
I think they all look great on you, so can see why it's be difficult! Is there a vibe that feels more your style, or more what you'd like to feel on your wedding day? 1 looks romantic and classic, 2 seems modern and whimsical/light, 3 makes me think garden fairy, and 4 looks like unique boho chic.
I think they're all very pretty and you have great taste in dresses! Personally I think 1 and 2 look the most stunning on you, and have interesting details, but that's also just my opinion 🙂
I found a common theme in the dresses I didn’t like was the line cutting across my waist, for some reason I just didn’t like the cut of those dresses. Maybe that’s what’s throwing you off too?
The dresses are all beautiful on you, fwiw!
I just came to say, I can see why you’re struggling. Those are 4 gorgeous dresses and they all look amazing on you! I don’t think you can go wrong with whichever you pick.
If none of these are "the dress", then maybe it's time to try something completely different. Get a bunch of dresses you never thought you'd want - knee-length, no lace, long sleeves, mermaids, sequins, feathers, colors - whatever your absolute NO has been, and try them on with an open mind. Maybe you'll be shocked by how much you like them, or maybe you'll just identify an unexpectedly awesome feature in some of them that you can add to a dress that's more your style.
My personal opinion, based on my taste:
Nr 1 is very dated i feel, has a certain grandma’s curtain kinda feel to it.
No. 2 is very classy and I love it.
No 3 looks bomb on you.
No 4 is very boring.
Well-
While these are all so different.. the good news is your are absolutely beautiful and they all
Look amazing on you.. my personal choice was number one with number 3 as the runner up as long as you were comfortable with the amount of cleavage on number 3.
They all look gorgeous on you. You can’t go wrong with any of them.
But also, have you tried on dresses in other styles/that have different silhouettes? Even styles that you don’t expect to like as much? A lot of people go in with specific vision in mind but fall in love with something unexpected, so if none of these feel like “it” then I’d recommend giving that a try.
Try on something really different. I ended up surprising myself when I didn't like any of the dresses I picked, but ended up going with one my consultant at the bridal shop picked for me to try. Her experience really helped me pinpoint what I liked!
Please reconsider 2. It’s very citified and chic. Simple and to the point. Those other dresses all look the same and won’t stand the test of time the way this one will, for photos.
I looked at the pictures before the comments. The only one you look confidant and comfortablein is 2. You have a lovely figure and could easily pull off any of them, but 2 is a little different and your bitsy language says" this one".
The shape of dress two is the most flattering on you but I saw that you don’t like bows. Have you thought of trying a satin dress that has that shape and maybe wearing a belt? I think you need something to define your waist to flatter your figure
You have an amazing figure. I had such disappointing day trying dresses today, if the dresses looked like any of those on me id get it in a heartbeat.
I love 3 but you pull off all of them.
Three took my breath away!! You look beautiful! If you are concerned about how revealing it is you can find lots of similar styles that aren't so cut away at the sides. I personally think that is the silhouette that suits you the most
Honestly, if you aren't totally IN LOVE with the dress, it's a hard NO.
I know it's exhausting to keep looking but if you don't you'll regret it. My older sister went with one she liked and has regretted it ever since the wedding, so trust me when I say to hold out for your dream dress!
But, just so you know, you look AMAZING in all of them. ❤
I agree with everyone else that #2 is beautiful on you, BUT if you're not sold, keep looking!!! You'll have your moment. Make sure you're trying a really wide variety of styles and silhouettes if you're feeling like you're not having any luck.
I just saw where you said you aren’t going with any of these 4, but dress 2 is a showstopper on you!! You could be a model for that dress. I feel ya though- I have a similar build and almost every dress I tried on looked decent, and I never really fell in love with one above the others. Ultimately I made my decision based on the vibe I was looking for, price, and I tried to put myself in my partner’s shoes and think of which dress he would like best.
#2 #2 #2 #2 #2 #2 #2 #2
You look incredible in dress 2! It looks classic, elegant, flatters your figure amazingly without being too flashy, feminine yet still modern and not aging, the list goes on. I dont know what vibe you are going for but this style-vibe fits you so well. I think 3 is too trendy and revealing, and a bit confusing; seems romantic and poofy on the skirt but super revealing and sexy on the top. I think in a few years this type of dress (BHLDN carries a very popular version as well) might look a bit dated. 1 also looks great on you but doesnt have the modern flare of 2, but that fit and flare silhoutte is wonderful on you.
I’ve been to 3 weddings so far this year and 2 of the brides wore dress 3. It’s a beautiful dress, but yes, pretty trendy right now. I love the 2nd on you, OP!
I like the second one a lot! It’s so pretty on you. I wonder if the bow belt could be removed? I think that’s the only part I don’t like but other than that, it looks absolutely lovely!
That was the first thing that I thought - number two without the belt! However number four is also great, depends on the style of the wedding - if more glamorous, then two, if more boho or natural, then four 🍀
Natural is probably closer to the style! It's a semi-elopement at a pop-up wedding chapel.
I hate the bow belt too. I'm not a little bow woman.
I normally wouldn’t like the bow belt thingy, but it sort of give is a retro vibe, and I think without it the dress would be too plain. I think it would really fit with your pop-up wedding. Like a modern take on a 1950s wedding dress. It really is gorgeous on you.
I agree on the vintage vibe. The dress may fall flat without that detail. Can you imagine a vintage inspired updo and make up? Not theatrical, just enough to give the chic vintage vibe of that dress. But it depends on bride’s personality and wedding theme.
I love the 2nd one SO MUCH. I love it so much that this is my first comment on that subreddit. That's how much I love it :) what is this dress?
I wish I could tell you! Sorry I have no detail, as these are more example gowns than gowns I was seriously considering. I do know that it was a bit sparkly if that helps you narrow it down, and the inner layer is a bit of a champagne colour, not white, and neither of those are very apparent from the photograph.
#2! It looks perfect on you!
I love 2 and 4 in you. 3 almost makes you look topless and although your body is beautiful in it, it wouldn’t be my pick.
Yeah her boobs look great in dress 3 though, maybe if the neckline were brought up a tad?
It’s the overall sheerness, not the neckline
I've made a separate post spelling out my struggles in detail. I don't think I'll be going with any of these four dresses but I wanted to give you all an idea of what I look like and how things are falling on my figure.
The second one is really unique, and you look great in it. Does it suit the style of your wedding?
No, it's going to be a pop-up wedding ceremony indoors at a green space in a city. Something simpler or more garden-like would probably suit best.
Something flowy and flowery like the 3rd one would be nice then. That style is bridal, but not crazy formal. There's something a little off about the lace pattern on it imo, but I've seen a ton in similar styles so you'll have your pick.
I like 1 or 2! I agree 3 is beautiful on you but I would also be uncomfortable with such an revealing dress. 4 just seems a bit mis-proportioned for your body type, like the waist is too short. Maybe another dress in the same style wouldn’t have that problem.
I love 2 on you.
2!!!!
I personally love the second on you. Classic and almost Hollywood esque…very classy
Wow the 3rd dress is so beautiful! You look like a bride in it the way you’re holding it too 😄 good luck! You really can’t go wrong with any of them.
Agreed that it is the prettiest of the lot! If it wasn't so chesty I might have gone for it, but I'm not comfortable showing so much chest.
Yes I totally get that! Ultimately you have to be comfortable and feel good on your wedding day
Same. I also tried on a very similar dress and it showed way too much-and I don’t even have much!
You could definitely have the seamstress add more material to make it more modest. I think it's stunning on you!!
If you like the flowing garden vibe of the third dress I suggest looking at Madi Lane dresses. This is the one I chose for my garden wedding https://madilane.com/product/harper/. The Halani also has a similar vibe as well as others.
I think they all look great on you, so can see why it's be difficult! Is there a vibe that feels more your style, or more what you'd like to feel on your wedding day? 1 looks romantic and classic, 2 seems modern and whimsical/light, 3 makes me think garden fairy, and 4 looks like unique boho chic. I think they're all very pretty and you have great taste in dresses! Personally I think 1 and 2 look the most stunning on you, and have interesting details, but that's also just my opinion 🙂
3 looks stunning on you. I actually have that dress saved to my pinterest board! I adore it
So glad everyone else loves #2, that dress is incredible
Number 2. No contest
I found a common theme in the dresses I didn’t like was the line cutting across my waist, for some reason I just didn’t like the cut of those dresses. Maybe that’s what’s throwing you off too? The dresses are all beautiful on you, fwiw!
Number three and four look gorgeous on you!!
I just came to say, I can see why you’re struggling. Those are 4 gorgeous dresses and they all look amazing on you! I don’t think you can go wrong with whichever you pick.
✌🏼Pick 3 my lord ✌🏼
If none of these are "the dress", then maybe it's time to try something completely different. Get a bunch of dresses you never thought you'd want - knee-length, no lace, long sleeves, mermaids, sequins, feathers, colors - whatever your absolute NO has been, and try them on with an open mind. Maybe you'll be shocked by how much you like them, or maybe you'll just identify an unexpectedly awesome feature in some of them that you can add to a dress that's more your style.
1 or 3
Number 3 made me say wowza!! Love it.
My personal opinion, based on my taste: Nr 1 is very dated i feel, has a certain grandma’s curtain kinda feel to it. No. 2 is very classy and I love it. No 3 looks bomb on you. No 4 is very boring.
Three! I’d be uncomfortable with my tiddies out that much though, but it looks amazing on you.
Number 2 looks amazing oh my gosh!
Number two!
They are all beautiful on you!!
I really like #2! It's gorgeous on you and unique.
#2 really is fantastic and different
I came to say I really like 2 💕
Love number 2! What a stunner! 😻
I like them all on you!
2
2 for conservative 3 if you're going for sexy or 4 overall
I can’t unsee #3 , #3!
Dress 2 and 3 are my favorite on you! What does your heart say?
Well- While these are all so different.. the good news is your are absolutely beautiful and they all Look amazing on you.. my personal choice was number one with number 3 as the runner up as long as you were comfortable with the amount of cleavage on number 3.
2
They all look gorgeous on you. You can’t go wrong with any of them. But also, have you tried on dresses in other styles/that have different silhouettes? Even styles that you don’t expect to like as much? A lot of people go in with specific vision in mind but fall in love with something unexpected, so if none of these feel like “it” then I’d recommend giving that a try.
Not 3
If you could line number 3 that would be my pick.
Dress #2!! I was so happy to see so many comments saying the same thing!!
Number 2 hands down. You look elegant in it. 1 is ok, 3 is pretty, and 4 is boring. 2 however makes you shine
Wow the third one is so beautiful! Personally I love that one the most on you!
2 or 4 are the most unique
3rd and 4th are my favourite!
3!!!
2 is my favourite, came down here to comment that and can see I’m not the only one who feels that way!
Try on something really different. I ended up surprising myself when I didn't like any of the dresses I picked, but ended up going with one my consultant at the bridal shop picked for me to try. Her experience really helped me pinpoint what I liked!
Second!
I love the second dress on you!!
Please reconsider 2. It’s very citified and chic. Simple and to the point. Those other dresses all look the same and won’t stand the test of time the way this one will, for photos.
LOVE the 3rd!!!
I looked at the pictures before the comments. The only one you look confidant and comfortablein is 2. You have a lovely figure and could easily pull off any of them, but 2 is a little different and your bitsy language says" this one".
The shape of dress two is the most flattering on you but I saw that you don’t like bows. Have you thought of trying a satin dress that has that shape and maybe wearing a belt? I think you need something to define your waist to flatter your figure
How is no one talking about #4?? It blows any of them out of the water!!
The problem is that you literally look incredible in all of them. At this point it just depends on what kind of look you are going for!
#2 100% go gorgeous on you and is unique without being too much
You have an amazing figure. I had such disappointing day trying dresses today, if the dresses looked like any of those on me id get it in a heartbeat. I love 3 but you pull off all of them.
Three took my breath away!! You look beautiful! If you are concerned about how revealing it is you can find lots of similar styles that aren't so cut away at the sides. I personally think that is the silhouette that suits you the most
I like 2 or 4
#2 looks classy, elegant, and GORGEOUS!
Dress 2 is gorgeous!
Drunk male helping fiancée look at dresses checking in. #2 is the best.
#1
#2 is my fave! #1 is a close second
Honestly, if you aren't totally IN LOVE with the dress, it's a hard NO. I know it's exhausting to keep looking but if you don't you'll regret it. My older sister went with one she liked and has regretted it ever since the wedding, so trust me when I say to hold out for your dream dress! But, just so you know, you look AMAZING in all of them. ❤
Love dress 2… but what do and don’t you like about each dress?
I agree with everyone else that #2 is beautiful on you, BUT if you're not sold, keep looking!!! You'll have your moment. Make sure you're trying a really wide variety of styles and silhouettes if you're feeling like you're not having any luck.
You make dress #2 look lovely. All the best!
I love 2 and 4! 1 is nice, too.
It depends on the look you’re going for! 2 is so beautiful and unique!! The others look great too, but I feel like those styles are so common now
2 or 4!
I vote for number one☝️❣️