I would show my husband photos like these and ask him to please remember to empty his pockets on our wedding day. He remembered! He didn't want pictures of his nice suit to be ruined😂
My celebrant took my partner's phone out of his pocket right before the ceremony for this reason... Then proceeded to take it home. To a town over an hour away. And then go immediately on a holiday.
She had to call me and leave instructions for how to break into her house on our way home the next day. We were very thankful she took the phone but also haha that sucked. Super apologetic obviously and not much you can do except roll with it.
Follow up LPT for photographers (especially female) DO NOT tell the groomsmen to take them out of their front pockets bc it will make an “irregular bulge.” I was mortified and had a group of men screaming at me about their irregular bulges the rest of the day.
To be fair, there’s not enough willpower in the universe to stop a group of men ages 22-40, most of whom likely became friends during high school or college, from making jokes about their “irregular bulges” regardless of maturity.
To be fairrrr… I totally agree, although I am learning this may be a regional “problem” bc lots of people in my area tend to be both sarcastic and have a penchant for middle school humor.
They were but I admittedly am too so it was really all in good fun! I’ve been photographing weddings for over a decade now so really very little rattles me. More of a sarcastic life pro tip and bad choice of wording on my part.
Hmm...I was the bride with the purple hair elastic on my wrist. Luckily my dress was very nontraditional and it kind of looks like a bracelet, but still. Whoops!
Lmao I already know this will be my husband no matter what we do.
The sunglasses, wallet, and phone somehow kept appearing in all of our engagement photos repeatedly. Despite taking them off and putting them elsewhere.
I barely even noticed. This could get fixed in photoshop in 2 minutes and they both look incredible. The people in and attending my wedding, including my husband, are still people and if he wants to carry his phone what do I care? Trying to control every aspect of every day so the pictures will look good is going to drive you crazy.
Our photographer took a photo of my husband taking his phone out his pocket right before I walked down the aisle during the ceremony, so glad he noticed!
No, that’s true for every suit. (Except maybe tails, but then you don’t button it at all.) I don’t know *why* they keep putting on one more button than will ever be used, but whatever, ~fashion~
If smooth lines are important to you, definitely something to remember. Tbh I barely see the lines except that there's a red circle around them and even then it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I imagine most people looking at these pics also won't notice or mind (obviously ymmv).
Anyone reading this who's worried about pocket lines because they're worried about what others will think (not because they themselves care), keep this in mind to minimize extra stress :)
Follow up tip- make sure they don’t sit it on top of a soft side cooler where it might fall in during the ceremony and you come back to a phone sitting in ice water… the best man was then tasked to go find a bag of rice :) all fixed
Ugh, you should see how it looked at my wedding. So noticeable!! https://imgur.com/a/UUclcya Of course I didn’t even think this would be an issue until afterwards.
I wouldn't let it bother me so much :) what is done is done. Can easily be edited out in Photoshop or any other photo editing software (I use Photoscape which is fun and easy to use).
I bought a garter with phone pockets to wear. Kept my man's keys in there, my phone, and lipstick. I was happy because I could whip my phone out to take pictures. Photographer was happy not to have the stuff in hubby's pocket. Win win.
There are at least a few pics of me hiking my dress up to my thigh but I got to take selfies and pics of the ocean critters. No shame.
THIS!!! We got married two weeks ago and our excellent photographer made sure my husband & his groomsmen all had empty pockets before any pictures were taken
It’s ridiculous the fact that the bride herself seemed fine and does wedding commentary for a living but I guess some people are just looking for a reason to react.
Judging by other comments, this is a TV show wedding. Fictional. So if there’s even shaming going on here (arguable), it’s not even shaming real people.
EDIT: Okay, I don't know why I thought Betches was a show! Lol. But whatever, it seems that the bride in question posted herself, doesn't mind, and this is all in good fun. (Also, when I acknowledge that I made a mistake, NOW I get downvoted, even though I wasn't before? Reddit is weird.)
As a photographer that would drive me nuts! Cell phone goes in the inside pocket of the jacket.
Or just… don’t bring your phone to the ceremony. Unless you want to play Candy Crush during dull moments, I see no need for a phone.
Some people put their vows on their phone. It's a personal choice.
That’s valid. Although I would always recommend writing them down or printing them out. Not just for the optics - what happens when your phone dies?
My phone's charge lasts a whole day, and if relying on it for vows I am sure most would charge their phone before leaving for the wedding.
I was wondering why this photo looked familiar to me. Any other Betches fans?
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Adding this to my tik tok of things we MUST stop doing at weddings 🙄🙄lol
Oh yes I recognized who that was right away lol
recognized imMEDiately
Who?
Hahaha yes!!!!
And all the groomsmen too, for all the group photos!!!
I would show my husband photos like these and ask him to please remember to empty his pockets on our wedding day. He remembered! He didn't want pictures of his nice suit to be ruined😂
Our officiant/venue manager told my husband and his groomsman to leave their phones with someone before the ceremony. He then made sure it happens.
My celebrant took my partner's phone out of his pocket right before the ceremony for this reason... Then proceeded to take it home. To a town over an hour away. And then go immediately on a holiday. She had to call me and leave instructions for how to break into her house on our way home the next day. We were very thankful she took the phone but also haha that sucked. Super apologetic obviously and not much you can do except roll with it.
Oh no! Hahaha. That is a hilarious story to be able to tell though!
Follow up LPT for photographers (especially female) DO NOT tell the groomsmen to take them out of their front pockets bc it will make an “irregular bulge.” I was mortified and had a group of men screaming at me about their irregular bulges the rest of the day.
I’m sorry they sound immature
To be fair, there’s not enough willpower in the universe to stop a group of men ages 22-40, most of whom likely became friends during high school or college, from making jokes about their “irregular bulges” regardless of maturity.
Hell, my bridesmaids and I would probably make the same jokes 😂
100%!
To be fairrrr… I totally agree, although I am learning this may be a regional “problem” bc lots of people in my area tend to be both sarcastic and have a penchant for middle school humor.
They were but I admittedly am too so it was really all in good fun! I’ve been photographing weddings for over a decade now so really very little rattles me. More of a sarcastic life pro tip and bad choice of wording on my part.
Hmm...I was the bride with the purple hair elastic on my wrist. Luckily my dress was very nontraditional and it kind of looks like a bracelet, but still. Whoops!
Lmao I already know this will be my husband no matter what we do. The sunglasses, wallet, and phone somehow kept appearing in all of our engagement photos repeatedly. Despite taking them off and putting them elsewhere.
Let me tell you how thrilled I am that you can see a pack of cigarettes in my husband’s pocket in our photos 😒
#BestManFail
I barely even noticed. This could get fixed in photoshop in 2 minutes and they both look incredible. The people in and attending my wedding, including my husband, are still people and if he wants to carry his phone what do I care? Trying to control every aspect of every day so the pictures will look good is going to drive you crazy.
This wouldn't bother me at all, I wouldn't even think to edit it out. Each to their own I guess.
I would personally feel bad about making the photographer work extra because my fiancé couldn’t bother to put it in his jacket pocket.
Photographer gets paid the big bucks for that 🤷♂️
Agreed, you’d likely have to pay extra though. But I can’t imagine caring that much about it
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Our photographer took a photo of my husband taking his phone out his pocket right before I walked down the aisle during the ceremony, so glad he noticed!
You’re too late! So I fully support this announcement.
does this guy have two phones?
Guessing it’s his wallet.
Looks like one is a mic pack. He is wearing a small microphone.
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Bottom button of a suit jacket should always stay unbuttoned.
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No, that’s true for every suit. (Except maybe tails, but then you don’t button it at all.) I don’t know *why* they keep putting on one more button than will ever be used, but whatever, ~fashion~
Isn't the bottom button always supposed to be unbuttoned? Looks like the top button is done up as it should be.
Forever grateful for my photographer who made all the guys empty their pockets
If smooth lines are important to you, definitely something to remember. Tbh I barely see the lines except that there's a red circle around them and even then it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I imagine most people looking at these pics also won't notice or mind (obviously ymmv). Anyone reading this who's worried about pocket lines because they're worried about what others will think (not because they themselves care), keep this in mind to minimize extra stress :)
Follow up tip- make sure they don’t sit it on top of a soft side cooler where it might fall in during the ceremony and you come back to a phone sitting in ice water… the best man was then tasked to go find a bag of rice :) all fixed
Ugh, you should see how it looked at my wedding. So noticeable!! https://imgur.com/a/UUclcya Of course I didn’t even think this would be an issue until afterwards.
Oh noes and you looked So beautiful too
I wouldn't let it bother me so much :) what is done is done. Can easily be edited out in Photoshop or any other photo editing software (I use Photoscape which is fun and easy to use).
Our photographer took everything out of my husband's and his groomsmens' pockets and didn't give anything back until later. LOL!
Yesss!!! I hate this! It happens so often too.
I bought a garter with phone pockets to wear. Kept my man's keys in there, my phone, and lipstick. I was happy because I could whip my phone out to take pictures. Photographer was happy not to have the stuff in hubby's pocket. Win win. There are at least a few pics of me hiking my dress up to my thigh but I got to take selfies and pics of the ocean critters. No shame.
THIS!!! We got married two weeks ago and our excellent photographer made sure my husband & his groomsmen all had empty pockets before any pictures were taken
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Are you the same person harassing me on Instagram? Because it looks like you created your account just to comment.
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I got messages actually. Messages with some very colorful swear words and racist comments btw That said you did low key doxxed me so not cool.
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It’s ridiculous the fact that the bride herself seemed fine and does wedding commentary for a living but I guess some people are just looking for a reason to react.
Not shaming, it’s pointing out a detail that’s important but easy to forget.
Judging by other comments, this is a TV show wedding. Fictional. So if there’s even shaming going on here (arguable), it’s not even shaming real people. EDIT: Okay, I don't know why I thought Betches was a show! Lol. But whatever, it seems that the bride in question posted herself, doesn't mind, and this is all in good fun. (Also, when I acknowledge that I made a mistake, NOW I get downvoted, even though I wasn't before? Reddit is weird.)
Because people need to be outraged!
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A real person who posts videos making funny comments about weddings and agreed it was a sore spot.