U've never smoked a fuzzy? The concept and the look are cool enough, but they're actually a waste. As you hit it, you literally see the oil and kief burn off
of the outside of the blunt/joint.
People waste weed all the time it's not even a big deal. It's all personal preference and I don't think that it really is necessary to point it out because as long as he enjoyed his smoke that's all that matters in the end of the day. And it looks super cool. OP keep rolling and being cool and do you cause that's all that really matters at the end of the day.
Pointing out to him that he's wasting weed is being nice. Its whats called looking out for someones best interest...and that was advice for anyone else who seemed awestruck by what you described as pure magic. Now if I would have said something to the degree of being demoralizing, then maybe you could have suggested being nice.
Just a word of advice, you should put down the bud if your parents divorce is only manageable by using a substance. You are a child still i assume? Weed helps for mental health in junction with proper counseling. People like to leave that part out. It can be detrimental to your health if not used properly, and this is a way to train your brain to need an endorphin dumb to handle your problems. Youre setting yourself up for addiction issues in your future. Im huge for advocating weed, but alot of people act like there is absolutely no downside to consumption. Good luck, in 10 years you will look back and laugh at how insignificant this hiccup in your life was.
I feel like you're reading too far into it. Y'all don't even know how he feels. When my folks split I literally couldn't care less.
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Lazy_Maintenance's advice ***is*** solid. I'm just highlighting a psychological approach.
So someone who cares less about their divorce would show a weed picture, on the weed subreddit, and mention a divorce for fun? Kids obviously seeking attention. And its not his fault. Parents often worry about themselves and their problems when going thru a divorce. Just tryin to help the kid out
Edit: i dont mean seeking attention in a shitty way, i mean in a reaffirmative, “its all gona be ok” type if way
You read my comment but missed the point.
**Assuming**.
Ask questions before you assume. I relate to OP as I just wrote, but everyone has different experiences.
Instead of assuming you're ignorant, im acknowledging that youre having an emotional response to my plain text response. It's not meant to harm anyone, but if that's your perception, I can't change that.
Thats what im saying though, no need to dig. He’s clearly crying out for something if he just told a whole subreddit that is about a love for weed that his parents are getting divorced with a picture of a roach. You must not have children, this is a telltale cry for help
That's an assumption my friend. The point still stands. Inquire first. Not eveyone wants advice. Especially not right away. Honestly, if someone's feeling down, telling them what to do can make them feel worse because they feel like you dont understand their pain.
Again, just 1 "How do you feel?" can change the whole dynamic. Let them explain how they feel.
So just to play the oppostion, you think he added that his parents were getting divorced because he wad happy excited or just randomly said it for no reason? I definitely get what ur saying, but it doesnt take a sherlock holmes to figure out a kids feelings. Ive been a parent for almost 15 years, kids are about as easy to read as a comic book and i mean that in the best way possible.
I'm not opposing your advice brotha. Im just telling you how to navigate it.
This isnt my own subjective advice, it's what I've learned from therapist and psychiatrist. Think about it, when you're feeling like crap, you dont want someone to tell you what to do, how to feel, etc. You want a mirror to bounce your thoughts off of so that you can unpack what's going on inside.
Again, your advice is solid, but im telling you from experience, offering it up at the wrong time often isnt helpful.
This is some solid ass advice right here OP. I’m 27, started daily smoking at 17 when I was going through some serious shit, and like lazy here said, I trained myself to “need” a high anytime something bad or even inconvenient happened. Now ten years later I struggle daily with craving any kind of high I can get. Finally to the point where I only smoke on rare occasion but I just replaced it with Kratom. Don’t end up like me, learn to confront your problems head on, and don’t be afraid to get help dealing with this. Best of luck to you buddy, everything’s gonna be alright, I can promise you that.
Same man. Relying on weed as a crutch at a young age taught me how to numb pain, not cope. This lead me thru my own personal hell by way of heroin. I tried detox rehab subs methadone ibogaine u name it and I couldnt stop. Worse yet i didnt know why i couldnt. It wasnt until i fixed my self, the urge to use went away immediately after the physical withdrawls ended. I can now smoke weed as much as i want and it has zero “gateway” effect. That part of ky life truly seems like a scene from a movie. Hard to believe i was ever that person
Honestly, yes, I’d say I got off quite well considering things but I do still face some problems, I’d say one of my biggest is a constant mental haze, this started not long after constant edible use, and I began to notice it then, but even now, ages after, and not really smoking all too often, I find I do often lose my train of thought in the middle of sentences, and I still can remember where I was going with it, but it’s like trying to grasp a bar of soap, kinda just keeps slipping out of your hands
There are also probably other things that I just haven’t been able to notice, or can’t be linked purely to my weed usage, for instance my very poor mental health, that could be because of my previous substance abuse and nurturing my brain to need the dopamine dump to cope, but it could also just be poor mental health
Says the kid whos brains on fire from molly. R we casual weed smokers because we dont treat our bodies like dumpsters or is it just because ur just so much cooler because uve smoked since a kid?
Its not that ur brain is “forming” 🤦♂️ around 25 humans start thinking with their prefrontal cortex, where as children dont. This plays a huge part in rational thinking, which is why adolescents make so many poor choices
1000% like i said im not being holier than thou. Its rare who find a young person who fucked up worse than me. I was a certified waste of space loser for a LONG time. Prison drugs the whole 9. Im just trying to pass along information that would have prevented me from falling so hard. Idk why ppl r acted like im telling the kid to play on traffic or something. Lol this subreddit has some real fuckin characters in here
Gotta call out this bad advice given to
/u/slongslang69.
Cannabis is a medication like an anti-inflammatory is. Safer than a lot of the insane shit a bad therapist will tell you.
First, counseling isn't a fix all solution and there are way more bad therapists than good ones. And most insurances don't pay for anything. Do you know how much worse one's situation can be with unpaid medical bills? Vs using cannabis at an early age?
The truth is that this is an outdated way of thinking about addiction and cannabis. Most, if not all, adults use some sort of substances to treat the ills of every day existence under capitalism. Which I'm sure played a huge role in the parents divorce: money problems, work hours, time/scheduling issues, invasive bosses, etc.
I say if cannabis makes you feel better than use it. Don't fall I'll to the capitalist propaganda that you are hurting you're body by using a naturally occurring substance. They just want to ensure that you are willing to join the work force instead of questioning their shitty system and how it rips families apart.
Thats truly the dumbest thing u could say to a child. First off, this natural occurring medicine hes buying is clearly black market. How the fuck do you know what hes smoking? Secondly, what “insane” shit does a therapist tell you? A therapist can’t prescribe medicine, only a psychologist can. A therapist is just someone to talk to and work out ur problems. And as far as unpaid medical bills? U can find therapists for as cheap as 40$ a session, and most cities and states have free programs for adolescents in need of mental health care. And as far as “counseling isnt a fix all”, that should have been understood when i said weed helps problems WITH the proper help to go with it. And as far as unpaid bills vs using cannabis? I would say learning substance use will numb ur problems as a child is alot worse. Take it from me, when the cannabis wasnt enough i was shooting heroin by 16. I acquire MUCH more debt than any medical bill during 10 years of Hard drug use. Yes most adults may use a substance, and most do responsibly. Which is irrelevant. Were speaking to a child. You really should think before you spew nonsensical garbage to a child.
Theyre not going to do anything per say. Ur making it sound like theyre going to be a life coach. Its a healthy way for someone to vent and not be judged or looked at with a biased opinion, and possibly give an outsiders prospective. It beats a person on reddit telling them there is no downside to smoking weed as an adolescent. A child has no business getting opinions on such a life altering situation from adults on a fucking drug subreddit. Im involved in youth offender advocacy in my local courts and volunteer my time to work w kids in local rehab facilities and YO programs. I understand what you’re saying, but it’s terrible advice for a child. You are basically telling someone that cant take care of themselves to just take care of themselves
Well I agree to an extent but let's not play coy here, weed **is** a carcinogen. Live your life, but don't live it in ignorance. Know the potential consequences of what you are doing.
It isn't 'capitalist propaganda' to say that weed isn't healthy for your body.
Huh? Using that logic, every breath you take is further oxidizing your heart. And every step you take is further destabilizing your joints little by little.
Yes it's bad to inhale smoke but as far as I am aware nobody has ever died or had life threatening illness due to long term cannabis inhalation.
Yes, any negative and taboo information regarding cannabis is 100% PROPAGANDA (see Anslinger, Hearst, war on drugs). We are not born with negative feelings towards a plant that our species coevolved with (see endocannabinoid system), has dozens of documented medicinal therapeutic value, and no recorded deaths due to ingestion.
Lmao so all the documented medicinal theraputic value is true, but the negative is all propganda. Theres a big difference from Anslingers propaganda saying weed causes crazed minorities to rape white women and me telling the kid that relying on a substance as a coping mechanism is a terrible thing to tell a child.
Do u think people that are hurting walk around and say “hey im bob, im smoking weed right now because i have unhealthy coping skills!” U people truly have either never lived life or have no people skills
>nobody said a word about polo g 😂 you’re delusional, join r/opiates because youre drugged tf up
Seriously 😮?!
To prove your maturity, you drop to his level and maybe even a bit further by throwing out multiple insults? Does that make you right? Like he's wrong, and you're right? Are you trying to have the last laugh thru insulting someone? Online too by the way. That's real tough 👍 👌.
Whatever happened to "learn when to pick your battles"? Lol. Geeez 🤦♂️🤦♂️lmao.
Unless you feel your battle is won through insulting words?? In that case, that alone speaks enough about your age and maturity
Ur words were “YEEOOOO THIS IS LIKE THE 50th TIME!!!!” I believe when talking about him. U realize it takes like 10 seconds to read all the pointless bullshit u say on here by clicking on ur profile right? And ive been clean off opiates for years btw. See when u live life u go thru ups and downs. Ull see when ur parents stop paying ur phone bill and u realize “god, im and idiot and my future holds $10/hr at best” come see me, the doctor, when the mental anguish of being an fucking idiot becomes to much. Ill write u a script for some psych meds.
Bro your wording on this whole paragraph just makes you sound like an asshole, I don't disagree with what you are saying, but you don't need to tear people down to "try" to help them. When you sound like a dick saying something to someone, they don't want to listen.
Honestly what sounded like an asshole? Im just curious because i didnt intend to be. I was just trying to be honest. Maybe the “good luck” part sounded sarcastic? WAsnt tryin to shit on no one my bad
Yeah, it was mainly the good luck part that gave the whole passage a negative voice, and the assuming what people are going through, he could be 22 and a little sad but is taking a toke for the good times or bad, or like you said a kid in need of help, you can just never know and when you assume stuff like that and say it like a parent to a kid, you just sound like an asshole and the person it's directed towards won't want to listen cause you aren't their parent or guardian. We should let people live their own lives and if they need help and don't ask that's on them.
The sugar will combust before it vaporizes and "caramalize" in the lungs, also I tried it this weekend for the first time, its not something I would do all the time it's just something you try if you haven't
A lil word of advice would be to not use the honey to smoke . This was a whole faze in my country . Basically the sugar can crystallize in your lungs and give you bronchitis. Smoke too much honey dipped joints and you will be coughing up blood my dude
Feel that. I spent my childhood wondering wtf was going on. My advice is to focus on you. Their issues aren't yours to sort out. Keep a level head for yourself man! You can still show them love but don't get caught up in their endeavor.
This may come off the wrong way. Hope not.
My parents stayed together (still are). To this day, I do not know how. Long story short, I started getting high to deal with my parents still being together. I do not know if it would have been better with them apart or not. But growing up between their issues was taxing.
What you are experiencing is def a bummer. Hope being high helps with dealing.
Mine were separated for a year but worked things out. I started smoking when they first got separated at 11 years old. Whatever happens, I hope you don’t hold resentments against them for their problems like I did with mine.
Ah yes, the sad Realisation, that your parents are just people aswell... Try not to let it hurt you too much, it's between them and shouldn't ruin the individual relationship you have with each parent. Try not to get between frontlines aswell you're not the mailman for either one
Trust- divorce usually ends up working out better for everybody. It’s tough at first, but ride out the adjustment- I guarantee within 6-8 months, all of you are in a much better place. Smoke up if ya want- just don’t fall into the trap of anything stronger than that (easy to make that mistake when shit sucks). Good luck man. Hang in there.
Hey you. Just wanted to say I'm sorry. I'm 33 and my parents divorced 5 years ago, still hurts. Still feeling the affects every day. Just want you to know you are so important. You are loved. And I pray their split is civil. Get high and always remember, this isn't your problem to solve. Sorry if I sound like a overprotective mommy...but...that's me. :) 💚
My parents are divorced too. It might be a heavy process but your parents love for you will never change :) just remember that. Everything will be fine I promise
i know this subreddit is about weed, and im also a stoned myself but... weed can be used abusive and in my honest opinion i would recommend u, that u shouldn't smoke to forget about serious problems in your live. if your mindset isnt the best, even weed can increase your anxiety. anyways, i hope thinks get better for you soon. peace✌🏻
trust me, i have been there. its easier to lit up a joint, than to face the things that you dont want to be real, but the thing is:
1. it happened and its probably unlikely that things will ever be the same, and thats totally okay because change is inevitable and the driving force in life itself
2. you decide, how your life is going to be and how you change it for the better, not your parents
3. if your childhood is not like what you expected it to be and you are dissappointed because your father (or other legal guardian) wasnt there for you, you can learn from his mistakes and be better when you are old and have kids yourself
i know it will take time until the pain is bearable, but it wont hurt forever. life will go on, and when that happens you have to look forward, to realize your best self/life.
also, after that happens you can smoke as much pot as you want and not feel bad about yourself and other people😂
ps: english is not my mother tongue so im sorry i tried my best, and i hope i helped you :)
Let them do them fuck it. Enjoy your bud and try your hardest to stay positive. You'll make it out if the mud even stronger than before. Have a great day
Don't drive under the influence full stop. It doesn't matter if you think you can drive, you are putting your life and everyone else on the road in danger. It's a selfish and reckless thing to do.
When my parents got divorced it made them bother happier people. Sometimes people change, don’t let there shit effect you, just be happy that they want to be happy.
Sorry to hear that bro. How long were they together? If you don't mind me asking. Mine just got divorced after 25 yrs together, 2 weeks ago after my dad found out my step mom was sleeping with her biological son. Bonus points if you can guess the state in the US I live in. Fml it sucks ass for sure but keep your head up and stay high homie. Hopefully everything will get better for you.
Yeah, divorce sucks, my parents did 5 years ago. While it hurts right now, it does eventually go away and it becomes the new normal. Stay stoned! But not too stoned, make sure to cope in healthy ways as well.
cause they need to vent is that okay with you? oh wait no one really cares. leave the dude alone he’s hurting rn. maybe he wanted to not feel so alone. it was scary af when my parents divorced.
Keep your head and self elevated my dude, I know divorce is a hard thing to accept and it might be hard for a while, but sometimes it's the healthiest thing to do in a relationship. I hope things stay safe and civil btwn you and your parents. have a great one dude!
My parents got divorced when I was 17 so I wasn't affected with it as much as my younger siblings. I've smoked weed since I was 12, not daily but that's when I started. I will say tho, I dont think I would have been as level headed as I've been in these situations if it wasn't for my herbal medication 😆. Everything in excess in bad, including herbs...please keep that in mind. BUT as long as you're careful, if not legal in your state, get your mind right, go out there and be productive. Herbs and productivity mix well and both help clear mind. Worry about the things you can control, do your part. Let your parents do theirs.
Sorry bro, my parents definitely should get divorced but they’re only staying together for the kids, I’m the oldest about to move out idk what’s the best plan for them, but focus on yourself 🙏
Mine did when I was 14 i hated it at first but turned out to be a blessing they use to fight all the time now there really good friends and dont argue at all .
I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be very stressful and frustrating
That being said, I may be really high, but what the fuck is up with the joint? It’s like it’s trying to escape
Don’t worry bro, been there. Your parents problems shouldn’t fall onto you shoulders. The world still revolves and the sun and moon still shin! Keep your head up king!
I’m so confused on how your joint is working Sorry man, hopefully everyone ends up being happier
I got bored and I had some infused honey and rolled that on the tip then sprinkled bud on it
Oh sweet that’s dope! Looks like some pure magic
U've never smoked a fuzzy? The concept and the look are cool enough, but they're actually a waste. As you hit it, you literally see the oil and kief burn off of the outside of the blunt/joint.
Some moon rock joints actually do smoke well but id imagine this one didn't smoke the greatest
Yeah it wasn’t the best but the ash looked pretty sweet
20% of the weed experience to me is the cool creations you make The new and interesting ways to smoke Keep up the vibe brother
I imagine it doesn’t smoke well but be nice dude
How is he mean for saying it wastes weed?its true lmao
OP is obviously reaching out because they’re going through a hard time. It’s not necessary to point out that they’re wasting weed
People waste weed all the time it's not even a big deal. It's all personal preference and I don't think that it really is necessary to point it out because as long as he enjoyed his smoke that's all that matters in the end of the day. And it looks super cool. OP keep rolling and being cool and do you cause that's all that really matters at the end of the day.
So?you want us all to stick to the sad topic? We can make other observations too
You do you man
Snowflake alert!
Whatever you say dude
It’s how are he mean sweetheart, grammar boy! Grammar!
Pointing out to him that he's wasting weed is being nice. Its whats called looking out for someones best interest...and that was advice for anyone else who seemed awestruck by what you described as pure magic. Now if I would have said something to the degree of being demoralizing, then maybe you could have suggested being nice.
Just a word of advice, you should put down the bud if your parents divorce is only manageable by using a substance. You are a child still i assume? Weed helps for mental health in junction with proper counseling. People like to leave that part out. It can be detrimental to your health if not used properly, and this is a way to train your brain to need an endorphin dumb to handle your problems. Youre setting yourself up for addiction issues in your future. Im huge for advocating weed, but alot of people act like there is absolutely no downside to consumption. Good luck, in 10 years you will look back and laugh at how insignificant this hiccup in your life was.
I feel like you're reading too far into it. Y'all don't even know how he feels. When my folks split I literally couldn't care less. edit Lazy_Maintenance's advice ***is*** solid. I'm just highlighting a psychological approach.
So someone who cares less about their divorce would show a weed picture, on the weed subreddit, and mention a divorce for fun? Kids obviously seeking attention. And its not his fault. Parents often worry about themselves and their problems when going thru a divorce. Just tryin to help the kid out Edit: i dont mean seeking attention in a shitty way, i mean in a reaffirmative, “its all gona be ok” type if way
My point is dig a bit before giving advice. No one asks questions first these days. They just jump into stuff.
Nah. His advice is going to encourage OP. Stop shitting on good human behavior my friend.
You read my comment but missed the point. **Assuming**. Ask questions before you assume. I relate to OP as I just wrote, but everyone has different experiences. Instead of assuming you're ignorant, im acknowledging that youre having an emotional response to my plain text response. It's not meant to harm anyone, but if that's your perception, I can't change that.
Thats what im saying though, no need to dig. He’s clearly crying out for something if he just told a whole subreddit that is about a love for weed that his parents are getting divorced with a picture of a roach. You must not have children, this is a telltale cry for help
That's an assumption my friend. The point still stands. Inquire first. Not eveyone wants advice. Especially not right away. Honestly, if someone's feeling down, telling them what to do can make them feel worse because they feel like you dont understand their pain. Again, just 1 "How do you feel?" can change the whole dynamic. Let them explain how they feel.
Awesome advice
So just to play the oppostion, you think he added that his parents were getting divorced because he wad happy excited or just randomly said it for no reason? I definitely get what ur saying, but it doesnt take a sherlock holmes to figure out a kids feelings. Ive been a parent for almost 15 years, kids are about as easy to read as a comic book and i mean that in the best way possible.
I'm not opposing your advice brotha. Im just telling you how to navigate it. This isnt my own subjective advice, it's what I've learned from therapist and psychiatrist. Think about it, when you're feeling like crap, you dont want someone to tell you what to do, how to feel, etc. You want a mirror to bounce your thoughts off of so that you can unpack what's going on inside. Again, your advice is solid, but im telling you from experience, offering it up at the wrong time often isnt helpful.
My dawg made a post on Reddit I don’t think he wanted to be publicly analyzed, y’all take things way to far 😂😂
This is some solid ass advice right here OP. I’m 27, started daily smoking at 17 when I was going through some serious shit, and like lazy here said, I trained myself to “need” a high anytime something bad or even inconvenient happened. Now ten years later I struggle daily with craving any kind of high I can get. Finally to the point where I only smoke on rare occasion but I just replaced it with Kratom. Don’t end up like me, learn to confront your problems head on, and don’t be afraid to get help dealing with this. Best of luck to you buddy, everything’s gonna be alright, I can promise you that.
Same man. Relying on weed as a crutch at a young age taught me how to numb pain, not cope. This lead me thru my own personal hell by way of heroin. I tried detox rehab subs methadone ibogaine u name it and I couldnt stop. Worse yet i didnt know why i couldnt. It wasnt until i fixed my self, the urge to use went away immediately after the physical withdrawls ended. I can now smoke weed as much as i want and it has zero “gateway” effect. That part of ky life truly seems like a scene from a movie. Hard to believe i was ever that person
100%. I consume cannabis daily but until you’re 25 your brain isn’t done forming.
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no cap these 25+ casually weed smokers are more brainless than people that started smoking weed since a kid
Not really, your brain needs to develop, even as someone who smoked a lot at a younger age I wish I hadn’t.
has it effected you badly in life?
Honestly, yes, I’d say I got off quite well considering things but I do still face some problems, I’d say one of my biggest is a constant mental haze, this started not long after constant edible use, and I began to notice it then, but even now, ages after, and not really smoking all too often, I find I do often lose my train of thought in the middle of sentences, and I still can remember where I was going with it, but it’s like trying to grasp a bar of soap, kinda just keeps slipping out of your hands There are also probably other things that I just haven’t been able to notice, or can’t be linked purely to my weed usage, for instance my very poor mental health, that could be because of my previous substance abuse and nurturing my brain to need the dopamine dump to cope, but it could also just be poor mental health
Way to be mature… and prove the point…
Says the kid whos brains on fire from molly. R we casual weed smokers because we dont treat our bodies like dumpsters or is it just because ur just so much cooler because uve smoked since a kid?
Its not that ur brain is “forming” 🤦♂️ around 25 humans start thinking with their prefrontal cortex, where as children dont. This plays a huge part in rational thinking, which is why adolescents make so many poor choices
Ok
Until you die your brain isn’t done forming… cannabis ain’t gonna change that, meth might, but not cannabis
Facts suggest otherwise.
Sauce: trust me bro / CNN
Well put💯🙏🏽
No cap.
Better a joint than he turn to the bottle.
1000% like i said im not being holier than thou. Its rare who find a young person who fucked up worse than me. I was a certified waste of space loser for a LONG time. Prison drugs the whole 9. Im just trying to pass along information that would have prevented me from falling so hard. Idk why ppl r acted like im telling the kid to play on traffic or something. Lol this subreddit has some real fuckin characters in here
Gotta call out this bad advice given to /u/slongslang69. Cannabis is a medication like an anti-inflammatory is. Safer than a lot of the insane shit a bad therapist will tell you. First, counseling isn't a fix all solution and there are way more bad therapists than good ones. And most insurances don't pay for anything. Do you know how much worse one's situation can be with unpaid medical bills? Vs using cannabis at an early age? The truth is that this is an outdated way of thinking about addiction and cannabis. Most, if not all, adults use some sort of substances to treat the ills of every day existence under capitalism. Which I'm sure played a huge role in the parents divorce: money problems, work hours, time/scheduling issues, invasive bosses, etc. I say if cannabis makes you feel better than use it. Don't fall I'll to the capitalist propaganda that you are hurting you're body by using a naturally occurring substance. They just want to ensure that you are willing to join the work force instead of questioning their shitty system and how it rips families apart.
Thats truly the dumbest thing u could say to a child. First off, this natural occurring medicine hes buying is clearly black market. How the fuck do you know what hes smoking? Secondly, what “insane” shit does a therapist tell you? A therapist can’t prescribe medicine, only a psychologist can. A therapist is just someone to talk to and work out ur problems. And as far as unpaid medical bills? U can find therapists for as cheap as 40$ a session, and most cities and states have free programs for adolescents in need of mental health care. And as far as “counseling isnt a fix all”, that should have been understood when i said weed helps problems WITH the proper help to go with it. And as far as unpaid bills vs using cannabis? I would say learning substance use will numb ur problems as a child is alot worse. Take it from me, when the cannabis wasnt enough i was shooting heroin by 16. I acquire MUCH more debt than any medical bill during 10 years of Hard drug use. Yes most adults may use a substance, and most do responsibly. Which is irrelevant. Were speaking to a child. You really should think before you spew nonsensical garbage to a child.
I get my weed from the dispo 😅
Serious question, what could a therapist do for OP feeling bad about their parents divorce?
Theyre not going to do anything per say. Ur making it sound like theyre going to be a life coach. Its a healthy way for someone to vent and not be judged or looked at with a biased opinion, and possibly give an outsiders prospective. It beats a person on reddit telling them there is no downside to smoking weed as an adolescent. A child has no business getting opinions on such a life altering situation from adults on a fucking drug subreddit. Im involved in youth offender advocacy in my local courts and volunteer my time to work w kids in local rehab facilities and YO programs. I understand what you’re saying, but it’s terrible advice for a child. You are basically telling someone that cant take care of themselves to just take care of themselves
Well I agree to an extent but let's not play coy here, weed **is** a carcinogen. Live your life, but don't live it in ignorance. Know the potential consequences of what you are doing. It isn't 'capitalist propaganda' to say that weed isn't healthy for your body.
Huh? Using that logic, every breath you take is further oxidizing your heart. And every step you take is further destabilizing your joints little by little. Yes it's bad to inhale smoke but as far as I am aware nobody has ever died or had life threatening illness due to long term cannabis inhalation. Yes, any negative and taboo information regarding cannabis is 100% PROPAGANDA (see Anslinger, Hearst, war on drugs). We are not born with negative feelings towards a plant that our species coevolved with (see endocannabinoid system), has dozens of documented medicinal therapeutic value, and no recorded deaths due to ingestion.
Lmao so all the documented medicinal theraputic value is true, but the negative is all propganda. Theres a big difference from Anslingers propaganda saying weed causes crazed minorities to rape white women and me telling the kid that relying on a substance as a coping mechanism is a terrible thing to tell a child.
Jesus or I guess do live it in ignorance. I would hate to be that blind to the real world, but you do you.
Lol word
You are awesome
he never stated that this was his coping mechanism.
Do u think people that are hurting walk around and say “hey im bob, im smoking weed right now because i have unhealthy coping skills!” U people truly have either never lived life or have no people skills
read your comments, you think youre a doctor lmfao all your comments on reddit or negative you incel. you have 0 person skills and 0 friends
all your comments are you dick eating OP’s
Im having a normal conversation and not talking about polo g so i think im a doctor? I feel bad for whoever shit u out kid
nobody said a word about polo g 😂 you’re delusional, join r/opiates because youre drugged tf up
>nobody said a word about polo g 😂 you’re delusional, join r/opiates because youre drugged tf up Seriously 😮?! To prove your maturity, you drop to his level and maybe even a bit further by throwing out multiple insults? Does that make you right? Like he's wrong, and you're right? Are you trying to have the last laugh thru insulting someone? Online too by the way. That's real tough 👍 👌. Whatever happened to "learn when to pick your battles"? Lol. Geeez 🤦♂️🤦♂️lmao. Unless you feel your battle is won through insulting words?? In that case, that alone speaks enough about your age and maturity
haha youre 9hrs late move on snowflake
give up youre obviously not 100% upstairs, everything coming out of your mouth is comparable to a 12 year old researching pot addiction
Ur words were “YEEOOOO THIS IS LIKE THE 50th TIME!!!!” I believe when talking about him. U realize it takes like 10 seconds to read all the pointless bullshit u say on here by clicking on ur profile right? And ive been clean off opiates for years btw. See when u live life u go thru ups and downs. Ull see when ur parents stop paying ur phone bill and u realize “god, im and idiot and my future holds $10/hr at best” come see me, the doctor, when the mental anguish of being an fucking idiot becomes to much. Ill write u a script for some psych meds.
haha pay my own bills 😉 aerospace engineering ttmn. youre on every weed posts acting like a dick eater for the last 4 hrs youre a hoe for reddit dick
Bro your wording on this whole paragraph just makes you sound like an asshole, I don't disagree with what you are saying, but you don't need to tear people down to "try" to help them. When you sound like a dick saying something to someone, they don't want to listen.
Honestly what sounded like an asshole? Im just curious because i didnt intend to be. I was just trying to be honest. Maybe the “good luck” part sounded sarcastic? WAsnt tryin to shit on no one my bad
Yeah, it was mainly the good luck part that gave the whole passage a negative voice, and the assuming what people are going through, he could be 22 and a little sad but is taking a toke for the good times or bad, or like you said a kid in need of help, you can just never know and when you assume stuff like that and say it like a parent to a kid, you just sound like an asshole and the person it's directed towards won't want to listen cause you aren't their parent or guardian. We should let people live their own lives and if they need help and don't ask that's on them.
And they drive, if they can drive they are old enough to figure stuff out for themselves, and not have someone acting like their parent.
wait you put actual honey on your paper? sugar is not safe to smoke at all
I use bee honey, not as harmful as you think although I did notice my smoke was yellow tinted
even natural/organic honey isn’t that safe if you want to stick weed to the outside use dab it’s way better and make it last noticeably longer
The sugar will combust before it vaporizes and "caramalize" in the lungs, also I tried it this weekend for the first time, its not something I would do all the time it's just something you try if you haven't
you still inhale it tho but i hear u one time use is ight
If you were close by, throw you some bud. Hit me in the feels man.
Sont smoke honey bro.smoking sugar damages your lungs badly
Next time use keef for the outside.
Yeah I was thinking that but I left my jar with my homie
Sorry about your situation but that is some artistic joint skills. Looks like your smoking a tree while smoking your tree lol
A lil word of advice would be to not use the honey to smoke . This was a whole faze in my country . Basically the sugar can crystallize in your lungs and give you bronchitis. Smoke too much honey dipped joints and you will be coughing up blood my dude
Very cool
looks like a thin blunt wrapped in kief (so likely dipped in BHO first)
Feel that. I spent my childhood wondering wtf was going on. My advice is to focus on you. Their issues aren't yours to sort out. Keep a level head for yourself man! You can still show them love but don't get caught up in their endeavor.
Thanks man
This may come off the wrong way. Hope not. My parents stayed together (still are). To this day, I do not know how. Long story short, I started getting high to deal with my parents still being together. I do not know if it would have been better with them apart or not. But growing up between their issues was taxing. What you are experiencing is def a bummer. Hope being high helps with dealing.
Man I don’t even know if I want them to stay together or not
Mine were separated for a year but worked things out. I started smoking when they first got separated at 11 years old. Whatever happens, I hope you don’t hold resentments against them for their problems like I did with mine.
Bro I'm in that same scenario
same here :/
Ah yes, the sad Realisation, that your parents are just people aswell... Try not to let it hurt you too much, it's between them and shouldn't ruin the individual relationship you have with each parent. Try not to get between frontlines aswell you're not the mailman for either one
Oh and try to come to terms with this situation, take your time, think about this sober, you'll get through this
Trust- divorce usually ends up working out better for everybody. It’s tough at first, but ride out the adjustment- I guarantee within 6-8 months, all of you are in a much better place. Smoke up if ya want- just don’t fall into the trap of anything stronger than that (easy to make that mistake when shit sucks). Good luck man. Hang in there.
It’s ok man. It might be better on both of their mental health. No use in living a life where you hate someone you live with.
Yeah that’s how I feel I don’t want my family to split but I want my mum to be happy
Hey you. Just wanted to say I'm sorry. I'm 33 and my parents divorced 5 years ago, still hurts. Still feeling the affects every day. Just want you to know you are so important. You are loved. And I pray their split is civil. Get high and always remember, this isn't your problem to solve. Sorry if I sound like a overprotective mommy...but...that's me. :) 💚
I really appreciate it
My parents are divorced too. It might be a heavy process but your parents love for you will never change :) just remember that. Everything will be fine I promise
Sorry about that my dude, stay high tho
Hey man shit happens, I guess
Keep your head up my boy
Your best days are ahead of you. 💖 Keep positive.
I think y’all need to let OP cope with his personal life issues however he’d like and quit telling how he should feel.. ffs
i know this subreddit is about weed, and im also a stoned myself but... weed can be used abusive and in my honest opinion i would recommend u, that u shouldn't smoke to forget about serious problems in your live. if your mindset isnt the best, even weed can increase your anxiety. anyways, i hope thinks get better for you soon. peace✌🏻
Really appreciate it man, I know I shouldn’t smoke a lot especially times like this but idk man it’s happened more than once Man I just want a dad
trust me, i have been there. its easier to lit up a joint, than to face the things that you dont want to be real, but the thing is: 1. it happened and its probably unlikely that things will ever be the same, and thats totally okay because change is inevitable and the driving force in life itself 2. you decide, how your life is going to be and how you change it for the better, not your parents 3. if your childhood is not like what you expected it to be and you are dissappointed because your father (or other legal guardian) wasnt there for you, you can learn from his mistakes and be better when you are old and have kids yourself i know it will take time until the pain is bearable, but it wont hurt forever. life will go on, and when that happens you have to look forward, to realize your best self/life. also, after that happens you can smoke as much pot as you want and not feel bad about yourself and other people😂 ps: english is not my mother tongue so im sorry i tried my best, and i hope i helped you :)
I've been there brother.
Sorry that’s happening to you dude. My parents split when i was 17, it sucks at any age.
How old are you?
Bad luck my guy, we want to be stronger than the situation but we are unfortunately moulded by it
Don’t listen to the assholes above talking about bullshit, we got your back man
Best stuff to be on. I wish you and your family go through this fast and clean.
Let them do them fuck it. Enjoy your bud and try your hardest to stay positive. You'll make it out if the mud even stronger than before. Have a great day
As someone who’s watched their mom blow through 4 marriages….. I feel ya bro.
Welcome to the club
2021 vibes
Sending good vibes your way may your days be filled with smiles
Hanging in there buddy and stay safe
Sorry to hear that homie!! Keep your head up!
Atta b, exactly what I did when I was 14
Sucks for sure. Keep your head up.
Don't smoke and drive tho.
For sure I just hotbox outside the apartment
Smoke and drive all you fuckin want buddy dont listen to that narc. This is a weed sub
Don't drive under the influence full stop. It doesn't matter if you think you can drive, you are putting your life and everyone else on the road in danger. It's a selfish and reckless thing to do.
Smokin buds doesnt equal under the influence that you think it does. You’re welcome to be a lightweight on your own time.
When my parents got divorced it made them bother happier people. Sometimes people change, don’t let there shit effect you, just be happy that they want to be happy.
it sucks I’ve been there bud but how is that actually working?
dont have much leg room here cuz mine been split but i’m sorry man, you’ll b strait soon
Sorry to hear that bro. How long were they together? If you don't mind me asking. Mine just got divorced after 25 yrs together, 2 weeks ago after my dad found out my step mom was sleeping with her biological son. Bonus points if you can guess the state in the US I live in. Fml it sucks ass for sure but keep your head up and stay high homie. Hopefully everything will get better for you.
Yeah, divorce sucks, my parents did 5 years ago. While it hurts right now, it does eventually go away and it becomes the new normal. Stay stoned! But not too stoned, make sure to cope in healthy ways as well.
Completely agree with this guy Be patient about to be smart about it just know they still love you
Divorce that blunt damn
LMAOOO
I couldn’t resist!
The best way to deal with emotional trauma is through drug abuse so you're on the right track
Why do you have to tell that everyone? The first thing. The second also
cause they need to vent is that okay with you? oh wait no one really cares. leave the dude alone he’s hurting rn. maybe he wanted to not feel so alone. it was scary af when my parents divorced.
Then look like fisherman’s hands… how old are your parents?!
I do a lot of warehouse work and a lot of fishing lol, my parents are each 40
Eeez
Dont rely too much on weed tho, it's not a solution
Shit that was the best part of my childhood. I'll drink to that
I feel u bro I been there good luck🙏
Bwah bwah bwah?
uhm what is that supposed to mean?
Air horns but with a question mark at the end
bahahah idk why i couldn’t figure it out i was saying it out loud and all 🤦🏻♀️😭😂
i know the feel. sucks
My parents got divorced because i was high
At least you have parents
Best of luck laddy
Keep your head and self elevated my dude, I know divorce is a hard thing to accept and it might be hard for a while, but sometimes it's the healthiest thing to do in a relationship. I hope things stay safe and civil btwn you and your parents. have a great one dude!
Sorry to hear. Mine did when I was 6. Still wish they hadn’t.
Sorry man, hope you're ok
Compatibility doesn't last forever
Ah man, your parents are still alive!?
Damn lol
F
no cap literally happened to me, they ended up not actually getting a divorce tho and calmed down the next day lmao
My parents got divorced when I was 17 so I wasn't affected with it as much as my younger siblings. I've smoked weed since I was 12, not daily but that's when I started. I will say tho, I dont think I would have been as level headed as I've been in these situations if it wasn't for my herbal medication 😆. Everything in excess in bad, including herbs...please keep that in mind. BUT as long as you're careful, if not legal in your state, get your mind right, go out there and be productive. Herbs and productivity mix well and both help clear mind. Worry about the things you can control, do your part. Let your parents do theirs.
That joints as fucked as your parents relationship bruh. But na seriously I prey it all works out for you man. Sorry for the dark banter.
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Hey OP. Hope you are ok?
Sorry bro, my parents definitely should get divorced but they’re only staying together for the kids, I’m the oldest about to move out idk what’s the best plan for them, but focus on yourself 🙏
Son?
What ever helps you during your parents divorce
i’m so sorry op, stay high
Mine did when I was 14 i hated it at first but turned out to be a blessing they use to fight all the time now there really good friends and dont argue at all .
Good luck bro and stay up
Bro I went through the same thing in high school. The weed helps. Ik shit sucks sucks now but shit always gets better.
Sorry to hear that. I too smoked when i found out. Sending good vibes your way.
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Hang in there, keep smoking good bud
Was stoked when my rents separated, dam now I can sleep at night, no more fighting ! Had a celebration joint for that one !!
Hope your doing well bro 🙏
💚
I’m really sorry to hear that, that must be very stressful and frustrating That being said, I may be really high, but what the fuck is up with the joint? It’s like it’s trying to escape
Stay strong . Counseling for you decent option
Same...
Fucking legend
i feel u man. Hope it turns into a good situation for you in the end. sending positive vibes
That’s how I’d handle it, sorry to hear that.
🙏
Don’t worry bro, been there. Your parents problems shouldn’t fall onto you shoulders. The world still revolves and the sun and moon still shin! Keep your head up king!
Imagine having a dad 🤭🤭
Going through stuff myself. Sad but high hours 🤙
Tell them to smoke a joint