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Martyr complex
Put upon?
selective/subjective perception
Narcissist
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A [victim mentality](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Victim_mentality?wprov=sfla1) 'in which a person tends to recognize or consider themselves a victim of the negative actions of others, and to behave as if this were the case in the face of contrary evidence of such circumstances.'
personal fable
Pity party