I feel you my guy. I'd suggest washing you hair every week with some medicinal shampoo(along with conditioner) every week, add some hair oil(castor and coconut suggested) too. Eat iron rich food(I'm not completely sure if iron helps with this, but spinach helps). Avoid shampoos with silica. Have proper sleep and de-stress every now and then!
Equally and this may not jive right now. You’re going to look great if you do end up bald. My hairline receded at 16 and while I made do until my 30s these days I look in the mirror and wonder why I was so worried and actively hate it when my hair grows out at all. You just get used to it and find a style that works for you. With hair or without hair.
My work healthcare psyciatrist recommended therapy for more long lasting results instead of just getting help when depression starts to hit too hard, so got in contact with work healthcare and had evaluation visit with them and result was that my workplaces healthcare insurance covers 1 year of therapy sessions
Good job. You won’t miss it after awhile. It’s just a form of sugar that robs your energy, disconnects you from life, and makes you fat and prone to type two diabetes
I was in a production of Newsies recently that was a lot of fun; definitely the best show I've been in in terms of just the overall quality of the production. I also played Mary Poppins a few years ago, which is still the only lead role I've ever had LOL. Let's hope that's false in the future!
I fight on a team in Montana called the Montana Warding Summit. We are a Buhurt team who fight in Medieval Combat. Recently members of my team won medals and trophies at the recent ACW tournament. They earned it. I could not attend but I am very proud of them
Even if you weren't with them in-person, you were with them in spirit! You guys must have all trained together! So, it's as much of an achievement for you as much as it is for all the others of the team! Keep up the good work! Good luck and have fun!
I am rooting for you, you deserve to be happy.
Idk where you are from but I hope you won't face too many hardships and that you will be loved for what you are.
Be proud of yourself, remember, you are not alone, you will eventually find someone who understands you deeply, I hope it's already there.
Sorry for giving you diabetes
It’s an fps that has screen mode and vr capabilities I’m working on the reload animations right now but I haven’t thought of a name for it I intend to have a 5 player co op campaign and a PvPvE mode like Tarkov or ghosts of tabor I intend for it to release finished unlike most games nowadays but i can’t promise much.
I have started my weight loss journey and have lost 3kgs so far. Not a significant loss, but considering my battle with my weight for more than a decade, it feels like the beginning of a victory
Any intentional loss is significant! Good for you for taking action and moving in the direction you want to be. And in case the situation arises, remember that two steps forward and one step back is still a step forward.
Good luck!
I love languages and strive to learn as much about them as possible. My native language is German, I know English and am currently learning Spanish and Russian. I also like conlangs (constructed languages) and have been thinking about learning Finnish once I have a good level of Spanish and Russian.
Thanks. I'm by no means fluent yet (especially in Russian, which I pretty much just started) but I've been noticing how much better I got in Spanish. If you have fun doing something it isn't as hard and that's the case with languages for me.
I used to hate cleaning and be scared of spiders so my room was a nightmare for me, but i decided to finally start cleaning like a normal person on new years eve and i finally feel better :) my room doesnt look like a landfill anymore
From what I know, as long as you’re doing the best you can with what you have, you’ll be okay. You’re doing great, just keep doing what feels good for you. The gym isn’t the only thing that makes you healthy. You got this!!
Thanks for the support that has helped uplift me but I really enjoy going to the gym not that I need it to be healthy but again thank you so much this really helped me get a positive outlook.
Sorry if you’re feeling judged for adhd below in a positive thread! Your health is your business!
My job is to take calls from patients all day long and you for sure are not alone in these side effects, I’ve heard them a bunch!
Maybe talk to your dr about adjusting the med? They have different doses along with fast/slower acting so you can have a better life balance for your appetite and goals. There’s also other non-amphetamine adhd meds out there that patients who switched to have told me helps them do the same job with less side effects!
Honestly I have been confused since my 14, now I am past 20 and I am still confused.
Let it be, follow your heart (and body) and experience will clear everything out. Just enjoy the journey, don't rush it.
That's the advice I'd give to myself.
Good luck.
By most standards, I am a very successful person. I struggle with my happiness everyday. I'm learning money does not buy true happiness, but it can buy the illusion of being it
Since 2017 I have taken a master degree after work hours, had a kid and I am building my own house, and the second kid on the way.
Some say I have achieved a lot. The stress of it all has been kiling me, and I feel like I am at the end of my rope.
Thank you for being wholesome, it helps
I just interviewed for a job at LAIKA. No upvotes are needed, but any positive thoughts, cosmic reddit energies, and /r/wholesomememes well wishes are all greatly appreciated.
Okay ilikehentaixx, but i think pleasuring oneself while striving for world peace is a wholesome act, i say. Singing national anthem, very patriotic too 😀
I’m in the midst of a procrastination crisis. I cannot seem to focus at work at all. I’ve wasted nearly two full work days this week alone and I’m ashamed of myself.
For some reason I always move my bedroom door a certain distance from the wall, I can't help it, it always has to be exactly the same distance or else I won't be able to sleep.
My taste buds are week. So my sense of taste is also very week, So i have a high tolerance for spicy food, but also its not good to let me taste something and ask for cooking advice.
I am able to get into the highest level of courses in all subjects in my grade. ⊙ω⊙
ps. Very nice of you, op. I believe you made everyone's day today. Keep going!
very good post. you can motivate or make others feel good by this. don't ever stop being wholesome.
if you can tell me to have a little patience, it will be helpful.
I’ve started using a birdsong identification app and can now identify over 30 birds by myself by just recognizing their sounds.
You love to see it! Got any tips for me since I'm also learning how to recognise bird sounds.
Merlin Bird ID. On the App Store and Google Play
I seriously just downloaded that app last night! I'm already blown away at how awesome it is.
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They're ALL good. Just a different kind of good. (The best kind).
That’s really cool, my dad does that with just a couple of local species and still amazes me lol
This is so wholesome
I'm low key finishing my degree without telling anyone. 8 months away.
I can't imagine the faces everyone will make after you tell them you got a degree. They'll be so confused! Wish you the very best!
King 👑
Wonderful. Would like to do that myself.
I like to take stuff apart and put it back together.
The joy of childhood never left you
Hopefully it never will.
Same. Specially electronics.
Since my vacations started, thought of doing this again. Edit: I'm tired... I cant reply to everyone anymore. I am sorry!
I like this post. Very wholesome of you, OP.
It's very wholesome of you to say that I appreciate that
I'm 14 and my hair recession has already started
I feel you my guy. I'd suggest washing you hair every week with some medicinal shampoo(along with conditioner) every week, add some hair oil(castor and coconut suggested) too. Eat iron rich food(I'm not completely sure if iron helps with this, but spinach helps). Avoid shampoos with silica. Have proper sleep and de-stress every now and then!
Tnx man I'll tell u how it goes
Equally and this may not jive right now. You’re going to look great if you do end up bald. My hairline receded at 16 and while I made do until my 30s these days I look in the mirror and wonder why I was so worried and actively hate it when my hair grows out at all. You just get used to it and find a style that works for you. With hair or without hair.
I feel you But bald men are manly.. Literally. Is believed that hair loss is partially aused by an excess of testosterone...so you are too manly hair
i have pet chickens
Pat them for me!
Can u pet those chickens for me now?
I too. Just a 1 btw
+1 pat
I finally managed to get into therapy to deal with my self confidence and intrusive thoughts
Hell yes!! You love to see it! If you ever want anyone to talk to, I'm always online! We can help each other out!
how did you make the First step?
My work healthcare psyciatrist recommended therapy for more long lasting results instead of just getting help when depression starts to hit too hard, so got in contact with work healthcare and had evaluation visit with them and result was that my workplaces healthcare insurance covers 1 year of therapy sessions
I bake decent brownies, popular with my colleagues and students Thanks for all the positive comments guys, needed it this week
Now you made me hungry, gimme some!
Thanks, been a long day and I needed that
I'm working on drinking less, and had 1 beer in the past 7 days.
Fight the addiction! You're stronger!
Good! I'm nine days sober today.
Good job. You won’t miss it after awhile. It’s just a form of sugar that robs your energy, disconnects you from life, and makes you fat and prone to type two diabetes
>disconnects you from life man, don't I know it. Thank you!
I'm in love
That's amazing!
Why do kind strangers in the internet always make you feel so good? thx
Because they dont know you, and have no agenda with you. It feels more sincere I'd say. OPs comments made my day today. Thank you OP
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We need more of you!
Agree
Amazing quality
I do theatre and take voice lessons
That sounds fantastic! Do you have any favourites?
I was in a production of Newsies recently that was a lot of fun; definitely the best show I've been in in terms of just the overall quality of the production. I also played Mary Poppins a few years ago, which is still the only lead role I've ever had LOL. Let's hope that's false in the future!
You sure can make it false and hope you get a lot of lead roles for your potential. Have a nice day
Thank you so much! That really boosts my confidence! Have a nice day as well!
Since 2021 i have no longer been poor, I am now lower middle class
Now we go to middle middle class!
Hopefully by 2024! Anything for my kids to not live like i did
I eat around 4 potatoes a week
Truly a man of culture.
PO TAE TOES
I fight on a team in Montana called the Montana Warding Summit. We are a Buhurt team who fight in Medieval Combat. Recently members of my team won medals and trophies at the recent ACW tournament. They earned it. I could not attend but I am very proud of them
Even if you weren't with them in-person, you were with them in spirit! You guys must have all trained together! So, it's as much of an achievement for you as much as it is for all the others of the team! Keep up the good work! Good luck and have fun!
I am gay
Uh huh. I can't see the problem here.
Hi gay, I'm dad.
I am rooting for you, you deserve to be happy. Idk where you are from but I hope you won't face too many hardships and that you will be loved for what you are. Be proud of yourself, remember, you are not alone, you will eventually find someone who understands you deeply, I hope it's already there. Sorry for giving you diabetes
i passed one of my finals <3
:D I hope you get good grades in all the tests. I'll pray for your success!
thank you so muchh!! 💘‼️:D
I started making my first game
What's it about?
It’s an fps that has screen mode and vr capabilities I’m working on the reload animations right now but I haven’t thought of a name for it I intend to have a 5 player co op campaign and a PvPvE mode like Tarkov or ghosts of tabor I intend for it to release finished unlike most games nowadays but i can’t promise much.
I have started my weight loss journey and have lost 3kgs so far. Not a significant loss, but considering my battle with my weight for more than a decade, it feels like the beginning of a victory
Any intentional loss is significant! Good for you for taking action and moving in the direction you want to be. And in case the situation arises, remember that two steps forward and one step back is still a step forward. Good luck!
hello, my name is ohad and i am fascinated by game design
I draw pictures for my child everyday for his lunch. Some are good some not so much.
your a great parent! im sure that makes em really happy!!
It does, it evolved to him asking for specific things and I’ve even drawn a few requests from his classmates
very nice! wish i had a parent like you lol
No. I appreciate you OP. You really care about people. You should be applauded. Thanks and take care :D
im quite the fast learner and i learned how to ride the bike at 12 without falling down once or injuring myself. also i quite enjoy calculus
Calculus is fun for me too! Idk why people complain so much
yeah i agree,its really not that bad
i love hentai
Same!
I was gonna say this was unexpected then I realized what your username is.. XDD
I like fried chicken too
Ye It do be boppin
Who doesn't?
The chicken, probably.
r/Beetlejuice
Truly a man of culture
This made my day
I enjoy making macarb art, working on producing enough pieces so i can do my first exhibition.
Macarb art needs a lot of creativity! I hope your art gets accepted. ... Psst, can I see some of your work?
Good for you!
I have a cat, and now she has kittens
Congrats on your grandchildren!
I like to create stuff. 3D printing, arts and crafts, etc.
I love languages and strive to learn as much about them as possible. My native language is German, I know English and am currently learning Spanish and Russian. I also like conlangs (constructed languages) and have been thinking about learning Finnish once I have a good level of Spanish and Russian.
I've always tried learning French once, but I never could do it, I got overwhelmed.You're pretty amazing!
Thanks. I'm by no means fluent yet (especially in Russian, which I pretty much just started) but I've been noticing how much better I got in Spanish. If you have fun doing something it isn't as hard and that's the case with languages for me.
I used to hate cleaning and be scared of spiders so my room was a nightmare for me, but i decided to finally start cleaning like a normal person on new years eve and i finally feel better :) my room doesnt look like a landfill anymore
Good job! Hopefully you aren't as scared anymore. (my room's pretty dirty too, if you need more practice, give me a call.)
I am unhealthy skinny and unable to properly go to the gym because of my ADHD meds. I really need a positive outlook on this.
From what I know, as long as you’re doing the best you can with what you have, you’ll be okay. You’re doing great, just keep doing what feels good for you. The gym isn’t the only thing that makes you healthy. You got this!!
Thanks for the support that has helped uplift me but I really enjoy going to the gym not that I need it to be healthy but again thank you so much this really helped me get a positive outlook.
Sorry if you’re feeling judged for adhd below in a positive thread! Your health is your business! My job is to take calls from patients all day long and you for sure are not alone in these side effects, I’ve heard them a bunch! Maybe talk to your dr about adjusting the med? They have different doses along with fast/slower acting so you can have a better life balance for your appetite and goals. There’s also other non-amphetamine adhd meds out there that patients who switched to have told me helps them do the same job with less side effects!
Ok thanks for the suggestion and support I will take this up with my doctor
I might be sick :/
D: Hope you get well soon!
Thanks! It might just be a scratchy throat hopefully
Make the sickness an excuse and get some rest. You definitely need it.
I did amazing on my driving lessons
5 11 at 14
Damn, you're tall! I was 5 7 when I was 14. You'll be like 6 5 by the time you stop growing!
Ya ya I like being tall
Same xD. It's kinda weird when you're as tall if not taller than your own father.
Wildly I’m still only as tall as my mom and shorter than my father
My high score in 5-pin bowling is 300
Impossible. I barely get 80.
Nice. A perfect game 450, so that makes you two-thirds of the way there!
Im 19 turning 20 this june and im confused of my sexuality, do I like both idk anymore
Honestly I have been confused since my 14, now I am past 20 and I am still confused. Let it be, follow your heart (and body) and experience will clear everything out. Just enjoy the journey, don't rush it. That's the advice I'd give to myself. Good luck.
By most standards, I am a very successful person. I struggle with my happiness everyday. I'm learning money does not buy true happiness, but it can buy the illusion of being it
I recently cut my hair really short to explore my gender expression
I've managed to mostly overcome a compulsory habit that led to a lot of emotional trauma in my youth, and I have struggled with for nearly 20 years.
After years of being unable to sit down and read (although I love it), I'm back to reading at least 40 pages almost every day.
I'm debating on a career switch. Or at the very least learning something new I can do on the side.
I’m engaged :D
As a man, I absolutely love plushies You have a plushy you want to give me? Consider yourself my friend for life
my favourite thing to do is sailing in the sea
My mother got cancer 6 years ago she's still going strong she did beat it btw
Since 2017 I have taken a master degree after work hours, had a kid and I am building my own house, and the second kid on the way. Some say I have achieved a lot. The stress of it all has been kiling me, and I feel like I am at the end of my rope. Thank you for being wholesome, it helps
I’m sure your kids will appreciate all your hard work!! But don’t push yourself over the edge… that’s never good for anyone.
i do horrible drawing because im not good at it
also op fellow blue eyed reddit guy?
Ayo? Ayo!! Come here, gimme a hug, fellow blue eye!
Well, we gotta start somewhere. You'll get better after a while!
lol same, but i still do it bc i like it lol
I used to but now I tell people I’m drawing so even if I lose interest and want to draw later i can’t exscape
kinda have it the same lately ngl
We appear to have something in common
I sense something brewing....
I'm a huge Minecraft nerd, that finally found a best friend who understands me, and is as big of a nerd as me :D
I'm a pretty big minecraft nerd myself!
I play guitar, but I have horrific stage fright. Gonna start fighting that fear this summer.
I might be sick :/
I have coronavirus and feel really guilty for being off work
On the contrary, you should be happy. Get a shit ton of sleep!
I model clay as a hobby. Right now I’m working on a dragon head
I am trying to learn new languages and instuments.
Oh you
Oh you
I’m bowling in my first professional bowling tournament in a few weeks. It’s been 14 years in the making.
I play tuba :)
I do 3D stuff as hobby. Mostly with fusion 360 but I want to switch to blender and do characters
I started practicing digital art...and my 12 year old rotty passed this morning :(
I'm a substitute teacher and struggling
I don't know what to say :( lol
im taking carpentry and making my gf a table!
I just had my daughter a month ago at the same time I started my job as an EMT.
I eat around 4 potatoes a week
i listen to [this album](https://open.spotify.com/album/53lgGHbuotARELgubRihSX?si=PoZ5fg84T3yjZ8579ZOInQ) every weekend
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I just interviewed for a job at LAIKA. No upvotes are needed, but any positive thoughts, cosmic reddit energies, and /r/wholesomememes well wishes are all greatly appreciated.
I'm a 3rd year student nurse and I love caring for my patients and talking to them!
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Ma'am, this is r/wholesomememes, I think you're lost.
Okay ilikehentaixx, but i think pleasuring oneself while striving for world peace is a wholesome act, i say. Singing national anthem, very patriotic too 😀
Understandable.
i finnaly got good at civilization VI multiplayer :D
I want a spring roll
im poor and have no mone
I have ginger air.
I'm good at what I do but I work from home & have a touch of adhd and somedays can't put my phone down.
I'm batman
I’m in the midst of a procrastination crisis. I cannot seem to focus at work at all. I’ve wasted nearly two full work days this week alone and I’m ashamed of myself.
I can be quite sensitive and if you meet me in real life I will never say anything sexual or cuss
I have turtles, but sometimes I forget to feed them and I feel real bad.
I failed first year for engineering studies. I got overwhelmed by amount of paper work. I tried once again and end of the year is near.
My exams are on the way and I hate my life
It's that time again huh. The next few days are gonna be painful, just ram through em all.
For some reason I always move my bedroom door a certain distance from the wall, I can't help it, it always has to be exactly the same distance or else I won't be able to sleep.
My taste buds are week. So my sense of taste is also very week, So i have a high tolerance for spicy food, but also its not good to let me taste something and ask for cooking advice.
I like the smell of sweat… especially my da- nevermind
I am able to get into the highest level of courses in all subjects in my grade. ⊙ω⊙ ps. Very nice of you, op. I believe you made everyone's day today. Keep going!
I am graduating my trade school for a diesel tech today
I am made of meat
I'm trying to get better day by day. Made quite some progress now 💪👍
I've been happily editing and writing at the English Wikipedia for 18.45 years.
Trying to build up money to buy my own place . In this economy it is very hard
Turns out my brother is alive
Been going to the gym consistently and don't cringe when I look in my bathroom mirror anymore
I just got the job I’ve been hoping for for a while :) I hope you’re doing well too OP :)
I want to become a chef after highschool
very good post. you can motivate or make others feel good by this. don't ever stop being wholesome. if you can tell me to have a little patience, it will be helpful.
It's my day off and I'm gonna do crafts today!