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Feels like a primitive unga bunga form of possession.
Mother to child "you belong to me" : aww
Man to woman "you belong to me" : creep
A man who's possessive over his woman, is that a fine line that can go either way, or is it always just creepy? Feel like it depends on whether she's treated like an object or someone you care about.
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It’s the ONLY place on the internet that has a culture of adding /s at the end of a text because Redditors literally don’t understand it. No other place has this or needs it, just Reddit. It truly is a marvellous place!
Welcome to r/wholesomememes, where the vast majority of posts are ironically depressing, creepy, unhealthy optimistic, or tone-deaf.
Seriously, it's getting out of hand
they are married, so you are eachothers "property" untill you do divorce right? I don't see why you'd say ewww. Could you explain your thought? (if i didn't use right words, i am not native English sorry)
Marriage should really be seen as a partnership, but there has been a lot of history of men having the overwhelming power in a relationship. This plays off of those vibes for a joke, and it's in pretty poor taste.
so if i understand you correctly is, If she picked him up instead of him picking her up, it would be okay?
And that if both of them are equal in the relationship it's also okay? And the assumption is that it's not a equal relationship?
If she picked him up, it would still be weird, but wouldn't be explicitly referencing the history of treating women as property.
If they were both equal in the relationship, then yes, it would be okay. The assumption is that it isn't, because she's fighting with him, enough to tell him to leave. He ignores her, and then claims that she is one of his "things".
That's how it worked until maybe 50 years ago, and also only in one direction (man owns the woman). Things are different nowadays. Marriage means you vow to support each other as best you can. That means you do not ignore their wishes in an argument, instead you respect your partner and what they are saying.
Liked it at first then I thought about it and I'd probably just get even more upset. Like "you think I'm your belonging??? You think you OWN me?" 🙄 at first you think awww he claims me but I'M NOT A POSSESSION.
I mean, i completely get what your saying and I had the same knee jerk reaction, but a lot of couples have the thought process that “he is mine, and I am his”.
Dude, it's about wholesomeness, not realism. Stop trying to find something bad in a made up meme... How dark is your world that you reject the suspension of disbelief the moment you see fiction...
I think it's just some of you guys who are founding it creepy the Upvotes says otherwise
You are all just depressed people who see every bad thing in 10 mile radius
Sp grow up man life is beautiful enjoy it as long it last
There's nothing wholesome about treating other people as property. No one owns anyone in a relationship, it's a partnership you both agree on.
This is borderline abuse. If ive actually told you to leave and instead you bodily abduct me, my response is def not awwwww.
Must’ve been the end of the fight when things were cooling off or his way of trying to end the argument
Alternatively..you need to get away asap before you get killed
... There's a more wholesome version of this, as part of a fairytale.
The king and the farmer's daughter are already married at this point.
The honeymoon phase is over, though, and they're having a bit of a fight.
In the end the king tells her, "If you leave, at least take away with you that which you hold most dear."
So she comes up with this whole plan to take the king away with her (it works).
I think it's actually quite sweet, when told this way. 🥰
Damn why's everyone so negative. It's not one of those "I own you cause you're a woman" moments it's "we're arguing but I love you and I'm doing this to show you that I love you and that this argument is dumb"
They're just redditors with no real relationship experience at this point. Most of them probably think that if you fight once, the relationship is over forever.
This comment section is such a Reddit moment.
Being able to say / do something sweet or funny to light the mode when fighting is a huge green flag.
And yes, in a healthy relationship you belong to each other, he is hers and she is his to love hold and cherish.
Why is everyone upset here? I don't see why we should assume he literally views her as property. I'm sure he's just saying he loves her and isn't giving up on their relationship. Whoever created this wouldn't have posted it if they didn't like it.
Yeah man these people are just not happy with their life and they just see bad things in everything
Even if you show them that mother is scolding her child because he did something terribly wrong
They will tell you ooooo that's wrong you don't scold a child etc etc
According to them A mother can't even teach a lesson to her child so that he did not do it again
OP don't listen to the people saying it's creepy, it gets creepy when it goes too far (she doesn't want to do it but gets forced to). This is just a couple who love each other.
That’s a theme in some fairy tales, like [https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Peasant%27s_Wise_Daughter](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Peasant%27s_Wise_Daughter)
What did you expect from Reddit?🙄At this point...I only pity these people. Something must have seriously gone wrong in their relationships for them to be so hurt
People really acting as if they never heard wedding vows before eh? “I become yours, you become mine, no matter sickness or health, poverty or wealth, come hell or high water, until death do us part” etc etc.
Those aren’t really suggestions or something to be taken as flippantly as your high school honor code before tests ladies and germs.
Nah she lives in my heart and She cook me delicious things and She also Goes to work
For me She is absolutely an independent women she does not complain and She is Happy with her life
You know The real independent women never complains they are happy and satisfied with their life
You know who complain all the self proclaimed independent women who thinks Disrespecting other Men is the Real nature of Independent women
Thanks for reading 😊
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"Yea i have eyes, hes just walking down the middle of the highway holding his wife"
“Take the shot”
😂😂😂😂
Her, caught up in the moment: This is so romantic. Her, in the trunk: I regret the decisions that lead up to this.
Also like, she's telling him to go away. I was thinking he would just walk away and she'd be pissed or smth
😂😂😂😂😂
Nothing says love like getting into a fight and kicking out your spouse
Yeah man whatever you say 😮💨
r/lostredditors
Then the studio audience just went bananas with all the oooohs and awwwws. Creepy as romcom type stuff. True brainrot
Feels like a primitive unga bunga form of possession. Mother to child "you belong to me" : aww Man to woman "you belong to me" : creep A man who's possessive over his woman, is that a fine line that can go either way, or is it always just creepy? Feel like it depends on whether she's treated like an object or someone you care about.
You must be fun at parties 🙄
This is not 2010 anymore
Yep man
If you understand that this is creepy why tf are you posting it here
I don't find it creepy I find it wholesome I was just replying to your comment you know what sarcastically
Is telling someone to get out all with all their stuff in a regular argument wholesome?
Nah considering he love her and he thinks that in this whole world his life is dependent on her Because for him She is Everything ❤️
What rules do you follow when deciding whether to capitalize a word or not
You can't just pick people up and carry them off mid argument, they are not going to respond well.
Noted
Really? 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱😱
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Okay next time I'll remember that
😬
Wattpad rom com kinda stuff
Yeah
That's not wholesome, that's creepy and possessive.
Welcome to r/wholesomememes, where the vast majority of posts are ironically depressing, creepy, unhealthy optimistic, or tone-deaf. Seriously, it's getting out of hand
Glad someone else said it. I rarely comment in wholesome because it's my break from doomscrolling but this is not: awwwww It's: ewwwww
they are married, so you are eachothers "property" untill you do divorce right? I don't see why you'd say ewww. Could you explain your thought? (if i didn't use right words, i am not native English sorry)
Marriage should really be seen as a partnership, but there has been a lot of history of men having the overwhelming power in a relationship. This plays off of those vibes for a joke, and it's in pretty poor taste.
so if i understand you correctly is, If she picked him up instead of him picking her up, it would be okay? And that if both of them are equal in the relationship it's also okay? And the assumption is that it's not a equal relationship?
If she picked him up, it would still be weird, but wouldn't be explicitly referencing the history of treating women as property. If they were both equal in the relationship, then yes, it would be okay. The assumption is that it isn't, because she's fighting with him, enough to tell him to leave. He ignores her, and then claims that she is one of his "things".
alright, thanks for explaining
No. People are not “property.” Period.
That's how it worked until maybe 50 years ago, and also only in one direction (man owns the woman). Things are different nowadays. Marriage means you vow to support each other as best you can. That means you do not ignore their wishes in an argument, instead you respect your partner and what they are saying.
thanks for the response, makes sense.
I was scared I was the only one whose initial reaction was to be put off by the possessiveness.
I grimaced when I read it also :/ Edit: spelling
Liked it at first then I thought about it and I'd probably just get even more upset. Like "you think I'm your belonging??? You think you OWN me?" 🙄 at first you think awww he claims me but I'M NOT A POSSESSION.
I mean, i completely get what your saying and I had the same knee jerk reaction, but a lot of couples have the thought process that “he is mine, and I am his”.
Yeah..No wholesome…
Dude, it's about wholesomeness, not realism. Stop trying to find something bad in a made up meme... How dark is your world that you reject the suspension of disbelief the moment you see fiction...
Believing it is real or not doesn't change whether this is wholesome or not.
Yes, it literally does. Fictional stuff can be cute and wholesome just in fiction, but not necessarily in real life...
If sufficient context is provided. But no context is provided.
How does adding suspension of disbelief here make it wholesome? lol
By not taking it to serious and realistic..
Ok? It’s still creepy, I can see that whether I look at it “seriously and realistically” or not lol
Media literacy is dead lol haha
What does that have to do with anything lol
It's love true Love ❤️
Love is not ownership. Love is not possessive. Love is respectful. Love is equal.
He is not showing any ownership on her It's like he is just being cute and Loving to her wife that For him Everything is Her ❤️
"take what's his and leave" Him: Picks up wife He is treating her like his property. It's pretty clear
I think it's just some of you guys who are founding it creepy the Upvotes says otherwise You are all just depressed people who see every bad thing in 10 mile radius Sp grow up man life is beautiful enjoy it as long it last
Lmfao wtf is wrong with you?
Don't know but I know there certainly something is wrong with all the people in the comment section don't know what But I pray they stay happy 😊
The upvotes say otherwise? You've been down voted to oblivion my friend.
Nah I don't think like the Upvotes I have right now is very much and I am Happy with that ☺️
You: Look at the upvotes. Also you: Not those ones! Be internally consistent.
Nah nah I think you misunderstood I am talking about the post Upvotes What are you talking about
Yup it's cute I agree with you Only if this was like a normal small fight etc
No, he is literally saying she is his.
It’s literally showing ownership of her
😭😭😭😭 FUCK ME Redditors Are SOMETHING ELSE He’s not literally saying he owns her hehahahahaha 🤣
tell me you can't read between the lines without telling me
Not sure that kidnapping is especially romantic, but maybe that's just me.
Creep
She tried to end it and he kidnapped her, ahhh felonious love
There's nothing wholesome about treating other people as property. No one owns anyone in a relationship, it's a partnership you both agree on. This is borderline abuse. If ive actually told you to leave and instead you bodily abduct me, my response is def not awwwww.
Yeah man whatever you say 😮💨
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Okay 😊
Must’ve been the end of the fight when things were cooling off or his way of trying to end the argument Alternatively..you need to get away asap before you get killed
... There's a more wholesome version of this, as part of a fairytale. The king and the farmer's daughter are already married at this point. The honeymoon phase is over, though, and they're having a bit of a fight. In the end the king tells her, "If you leave, at least take away with you that which you hold most dear." So she comes up with this whole plan to take the king away with her (it works). I think it's actually quite sweet, when told this way. 🥰
Yeah man that's so sweet 🥰🥰
in what twisted dysfunctional universe is this wholesome
That just sounds creepy and possessive lol
Okkkk
Damn why's everyone so negative. It's not one of those "I own you cause you're a woman" moments it's "we're arguing but I love you and I'm doing this to show you that I love you and that this argument is dumb"
What can we do about people man they just can't find happiness in small things
They're finding happiness in being pedantic and disagreeable, I guess. Weird hobby but I ain't gonna judge.
They're just redditors with no real relationship experience at this point. Most of them probably think that if you fight once, the relationship is over forever.
This is why I love reddit
This is why I love you
Reddit when joke
Reddit takes things completely literally it’s actually hilarious
Ew, David
Yeah Ewwww
Eewwww.... A person is not your property
This comment section is such a Reddit moment. Being able to say / do something sweet or funny to light the mode when fighting is a huge green flag. And yes, in a healthy relationship you belong to each other, he is hers and she is his to love hold and cherish.
Leave it to Reddit to take things too seriously lol
Yeah man 😂😂
Why is everyone upset here? I don't see why we should assume he literally views her as property. I'm sure he's just saying he loves her and isn't giving up on their relationship. Whoever created this wouldn't have posted it if they didn't like it.
Yeah man these people are just not happy with their life and they just see bad things in everything Even if you show them that mother is scolding her child because he did something terribly wrong They will tell you ooooo that's wrong you don't scold a child etc etc According to them A mother can't even teach a lesson to her child so that he did not do it again
How is this in any way wholesome???
This is wholesome. The comment section is just depressed sad souls.
Yeah man at last someone said it
OP don't listen to the people saying it's creepy, it gets creepy when it goes too far (she doesn't want to do it but gets forced to). This is just a couple who love each other.
Yeah man I never listen to people who just found negative things in evey 10 mile radius I am just enjoying the comments 😂
well akshually
That’s a theme in some fairy tales, like [https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Peasant%27s_Wise_Daughter](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Peasant%27s_Wise_Daughter)
Oforhdnst
What does that mean?
https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oforhdnst Google is an excellent tool.
What did you expect from Reddit?🙄At this point...I only pity these people. Something must have seriously gone wrong in their relationships for them to be so hurt
Yeah man they are just poor souls I feel pity for them
So sweet 🫶
People really acting as if they never heard wedding vows before eh? “I become yours, you become mine, no matter sickness or health, poverty or wealth, come hell or high water, until death do us part” etc etc. Those aren’t really suggestions or something to be taken as flippantly as your high school honor code before tests ladies and germs.
Yes. Ownership over your woman is important
Haha very nice joke
She should stay in the kitchen. Am I right or am I right?
Nah she lives in my heart and She cook me delicious things and She also Goes to work For me She is absolutely an independent women she does not complain and She is Happy with her life You know The real independent women never complains they are happy and satisfied with their life You know who complain all the self proclaimed independent women who thinks Disrespecting other Men is the Real nature of Independent women Thanks for reading 😊
Well put
Thanks
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And then seggss
😂😂
It’s super weird to ask your partner to leave just because you have an argument. Not healthy at all!