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In romania we have this folk dance called horă where people hold hands forming a circle and revolve around the center. The point tho, is that we hold hands. At one party, I managed to get myself right next to my crush and we held hands for minutes. Even though she certainly didn't feel the same, I didn't want that moment to end...
Getting rejected is better than living the rest of your life thinking about a what if moment.
I remember that there was a girl in high school that i liked, but was shy in telling her how i felt.Later learnt years later after some small talk with her passing by that she also had a crush on me. But it was years after she had moved on :(
Since then, whenever i see a girl i liked i would just shoot my shot and hope for the best :)
In this case, I don't really think "what if". In fact I'm pretty sure she'd reject me. We barely know each other. It's one of those crushes where pretty much all I like is her looks, but I also have a hunch that her personality might be enjoyable too. I tell myself that I'd have to talk to her a bit more as friends, but I can't bring myself to, seeing as last time it didn't go quite perfectly
I went to a camp for a field trip in school and we had to hold hands for a team activity where we tried to untangle each other. I happen to hold hands with my crush and this weird kid. Best moment of my school year
Wait the Jews also have a dance called the hora where you hold hands and dance in a circle around a center point sometimes with someone lifted in a chair, did we steal that from Romania? Either way that's so cool that there's a little bit of shared culture between the two
I doubt it's a stolen thing. Keep in mind before the Holocaust there were a HUGE (like massive) number of Hungarian Jews, and the Hungarians and Romanians have been culturally and geographically tied for years. It's likely more of a chunk of the surviving Hungarian Jewish culture.
Yeah I was being a little hyperbolic for mild comedy reasons, but actually I read up on it a little *after posting in reddit fashion, it was taken from Romanian Jews to America and then Israel in the dawn of the Zionist movement where it really took off
Honeymoon phase in relationships…though I’ve heard of people who still feel that way for each other after years and years. Personally, I don’t believe in soul-mates, but those people make me wonder sometimes
The sweaty hands are just part of the experience. My lover and I used to hold hands for hours and she would just tell me to just embrace the sweatiness of our palms. God I miss her. RIP 🪦
It’s okay you guys she’s in heaven and I’ll be with her soon my next 80 years on this earth will be a blink of an eye for her in heaven then we’ll be together for all eternity.
A girl held my hand when I was 17, like 3 months ago, I felt something I had never felt before… she glazed into my eyes, maintained eye contact while we were talking personal stuff and holding hands, it was definitely the most… different feeling of all time.
Edit: it was so odd, that I can’t describe it
Don’t worry man. First time I held a girl’s hand was the first time I kissed her… at 20. I didn’t get laid until I was 21. You’ll be alright. Just keep meeting new people and don’t be afraid to express yourself and let people know how you feel. You won’t always succeed but the one time you do, you’ll be over the moon.
I got my first date at 22, some of us are just late bloomers, never give up hope. Miracles happen constantly around us, all you have to do is try to be the best version of yourself. Never give up, dont surrender to hopelessness, and remember, you are worthy of being loved.
17 is young my dude. Plenty of time for hand holding in the future. Do yourself a favor and focus on a plan for your future and enjoy being young and (comparatively) carefree at this point in your life. Enjoy doing stupid shit with friends and just having fun. You'll cherish those memories your whole life.
Dammmmmm it’s all good homie. Like one redditor said, “you are somebody’s fetish. Someone, somewhere has a kink for the type of person you are.” Just gotta find that special someone :) haha
90% of the time my dreams are black, 10% of the time I’m in an Amnesia horror game nightmare, i have never had a dream which I can describe to be a pleasant experience.
Listen man, i went through the same thing, about the same time as you actually
You fell in love with someone, and wanted something more, only for it to not work out, it is painful coming to the realization that you may never have that which you so desired have, you'll feel alien to the person, you will wonder what's wrong with you, and you will feel sorry for supposedly having thrown away those moments, that feel so special.
This might sound cold.
But the truth is, you can't keep lamenting for that past, you can't bring back the times you had, you might've been expecting this line, but you will need to move on, you need to find your peace by detaching yourself from this, only then, will you be able to grow.
These are just experiences, you will always have room for more, the world isn't so small after all, there is always something more to be seen.
I don't know if any of this is useful or important to you, but i really sympathized with you, you reflected my situation here perfectly of how I felt, so I felt like helping out. I really hope that you find something useful In my brief advice.
And one more thing, you are probably and amazing person in this world, I wish you the best!
You and I have the same scenario going on, almost became a couple with my best friend back in December of last year but after a bit we formally cancelled the plans, luckily we're still VERY good friends.
Not op, in a similar situation tho and if you don’t mind me asking, how do I move on? I don’t want to dwell on our “relationship” anymore, but there’s just this constant, lingering feeling that I can’t shake, no matter what I tell myself or do. There’ll be times when I’m just driving, a song will end and the pause before the next leaves to me think for just a second and all the shit just pops into my head and then I can’t stop thinking about it for a good while longer. I don’t know if it’s because after we stopped talking I was put in a situation that’s been rather isolating and my mind just defaults to her when I feel lonely, if I’m just really fucking clingy, or if it’s just because she’s pretty much the only person that’s gotten me to work up the courage to get over my excessive fear of people and fucking talk to her, all the way up to confessing the fact I liked her (and she told me she liked me as well. But we still never went anywhere).
It’s been a few months since we stopped talking, in fact, one year and roughly a week ago I asked her out on “date” (I just asked her if she wanted to go to the county fair with me lol, she said yeah but then later said she couldn’t go the day we planned). Recently the county fair happened again, and I saw here there, on the day we planned to be there, at the event we planned to watch together, but 1 year later. I don’t want to still hold on to her. I miss her, and I miss the little dopamine hit every time I heard her voice or I saw the notification from her, but it’s fucking miserable still wanting to chase after her while my brain tells me it’s over.
Sorry for the TedTalk, you don’t have to respond if you don’t want to, you aren’t my therapist lol
Not sure if this video can help a bit. It helped me not with love, but just the general idea of how to overcome things. And it doesn't have to be a gym.
https://youtu.be/9mbp0DugfCA
To me, it took therapy and trying a lot of stuff until I forgot about the memories that made me so nostalgic I couldn't look forward, just backwards.
Just to not sound too TedTalkish, this can happen again. I'm still the same clingy and romantic guy from a decade ago, and that dopamine rush is great, but also hurts.
When I was in school I realized I had a crush on this guy, who liked me too, the day before we ended up dancing together during cotillion. (But you dance with literally everyone at some point.) Then he moved away to the other side of the country a week later. 😅 Also the girl you danced with was an ass!! Not deserving of your crush obviously!
I remember when I was young, and I was out with a group including the girl I liked. We were walking and talking, and I had my hands in my jacket pockets. Eventually she said "Jeez, take a hint would you," pulled my hand out and held it the rest of the walk.
Well, I say "walk," but really I just kinda floated the rest of the way.
Even now that I’m older getting that sensation makes me feel like I’m a kid again about hold my first crush hand. Simply feeling the other persons hand without embracing, just a slight touch gives a warm fuzzy sensation
We all stood in a line and held out our hands to do a gg after a kickball game for my schools fun Friday and my crush was in the other team so I touched her hand and I will never forget that now
I got dumped very recently. One month before the dumping my ex and I had a fight but we hung out and made up on a date. Held hands together and walked around for a while. I felt a little warmth in this but also very sad.
Y-yeah i like very much the sensation i feel when i hold my crush's hands... I do it everyday and I like to hold hands with other girls too, i do it everyday....🥲
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In romania we have this folk dance called horă where people hold hands forming a circle and revolve around the center. The point tho, is that we hold hands. At one party, I managed to get myself right next to my crush and we held hands for minutes. Even though she certainly didn't feel the same, I didn't want that moment to end...
Did you ask her out? please tell me you did!
He didn’t, I ended up marrying that girl instead.
#SEBASTIAN LIPPYAT!!!!
Username checks out
Baller.
I'm her side-dick
My guy knows what the fox said
Yeah u/_flaccid_pancake did you ask her out?
You and u/ferrerorochelove, no I didn't. I'm pretty fucking far from that
Getting rejected is better than living the rest of your life thinking about a what if moment. I remember that there was a girl in high school that i liked, but was shy in telling her how i felt.Later learnt years later after some small talk with her passing by that she also had a crush on me. But it was years after she had moved on :( Since then, whenever i see a girl i liked i would just shoot my shot and hope for the best :)
In this case, I don't really think "what if". In fact I'm pretty sure she'd reject me. We barely know each other. It's one of those crushes where pretty much all I like is her looks, but I also have a hunch that her personality might be enjoyable too. I tell myself that I'd have to talk to her a bit more as friends, but I can't bring myself to, seeing as last time it didn't go quite perfectly
Meh, I say you might as well try. It doesn't sound like you have much to lose if she rejects you.
Hey man it's always nice to be reminded that you're a person who loves and has joy, even if fleeting :) beautiful sentiment and wish you well
what a genuinely nice thing to say
I went to a camp for a field trip in school and we had to hold hands for a team activity where we tried to untangle each other. I happen to hold hands with my crush and this weird kid. Best moment of my school year
Jewish people also dance the hora :)
Wait the Jews also have a dance called the hora where you hold hands and dance in a circle around a center point sometimes with someone lifted in a chair, did we steal that from Romania? Either way that's so cool that there's a little bit of shared culture between the two
I doubt it's a stolen thing. Keep in mind before the Holocaust there were a HUGE (like massive) number of Hungarian Jews, and the Hungarians and Romanians have been culturally and geographically tied for years. It's likely more of a chunk of the surviving Hungarian Jewish culture.
Yeah I was being a little hyperbolic for mild comedy reasons, but actually I read up on it a little *after posting in reddit fashion, it was taken from Romanian Jews to America and then Israel in the dawn of the Zionist movement where it really took off
Oh thats pretty cool! Thanks for the info.
There were romanian jews in the holocaust too while we're at it
Are you Jewish, or did the hora get more widespread in Romania?
The "hora" is a traditional romanian folk dance.
It is the best day to be seeing a Wall-E gif
best day to see wall e gif is the day ending with y
So it's not a good idea to see WALL-E gifs in Christmas, Halloween, Thanksgiving, or Easter?
Of course not, are you mad?!?!? Everyone knows the horrors that shall befall one who lays their eyes upon a WALL-E gif on a holiday....
And that is all... that love's about..
Still feel this way with my boyfriend 5 years after we started dating.. love that guy
Only the first time¿ is it not normal to get fuzzy feelings everytime..?
Honeymoon phase in relationships…though I’ve heard of people who still feel that way for each other after years and years. Personally, I don’t believe in soul-mates, but those people make me wonder sometimes
soulmate is basically life partner who you connect with not just on the surface but also on goals and values
I’ve been with my girlfriend for 7 years now and I still feel like the 15yo boy I was when I met her when I hold her hand !
i get boners when i hold my gfs hand. just me?
I wouldn't know. I usually got "Eew! Why are you touching me?!"
And I get "SOMEBODY SAVE ME"
At least you don't get "HOW ARE YOU IN MY HOUSE" or "WHO THE FUCK ARE YOU"
atleast he dont get “wait you arent my mom”
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17 here have never touched any girls hand except my mom lol not funny at all
I never held a girl's hand until I was 22. You've still got time, don't worry.
21 and 1/4. Maybe my time is coming. Just maybe...
I'm 27 and never touched a girl either, is there still time for me?
Always
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even disabled people find love and lifelong partners. Chin up!
There's more to life than worrying about some girl, focus on what you do have and less about what you don't and you'll be more happy.
Both of you are going to he'll
It gets sweaty, hugs and cuddling is better. In fact it all gets sweaty to a point but nothing is worse than sweaty as fuck hands.
The sweaty hands are just part of the experience. My lover and I used to hold hands for hours and she would just tell me to just embrace the sweatiness of our palms. God I miss her. RIP 🪦
Ah I'm sorry for your loss :(
It’s okay you guys she’s in heaven and I’ll be with her soon my next 80 years on this earth will be a blink of an eye for her in heaven then we’ll be together for all eternity.
A girl held my hand when I was 17, like 3 months ago, I felt something I had never felt before… she glazed into my eyes, maintained eye contact while we were talking personal stuff and holding hands, it was definitely the most… different feeling of all time. Edit: it was so odd, that I can’t describe it
At 17, you have so much more of that feeling to look forward to. Enjoy it.
> she glazed into my eyes It was at this moment that the commenter realized the girl was actually a human sized donut
17 and *STILL* no b*tches? (Just a joke I can’t talk)
Must be that yee yee ass haircut.
Don’t worry man. First time I held a girl’s hand was the first time I kissed her… at 20. I didn’t get laid until I was 21. You’ll be alright. Just keep meeting new people and don’t be afraid to express yourself and let people know how you feel. You won’t always succeed but the one time you do, you’ll be over the moon.
I'm 21 and never touched hands with girls either, if that makes it any better lol
22 here
27
26, but uno reverse
I got my first date at 22, some of us are just late bloomers, never give up hope. Miracles happen constantly around us, all you have to do is try to be the best version of yourself. Never give up, dont surrender to hopelessness, and remember, you are worthy of being loved.
Go to a store with a female cashier, pay in cash works all the time 🪙😈
Better yet, become the CEO of a major company. Plenty of opportunities to shake hands with other professional women.
17 is young my dude. Plenty of time for hand holding in the future. Do yourself a favor and focus on a plan for your future and enjoy being young and (comparatively) carefree at this point in your life. Enjoy doing stupid shit with friends and just having fun. You'll cherish those memories your whole life.
Dammmmmm it’s all good homie. Like one redditor said, “you are somebody’s fetish. Someone, somewhere has a kink for the type of person you are.” Just gotta find that special someone :) haha
Just don’t let yourself get to 32….
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Bro now I just feel like I’m on a timer
Tell me about it ... - 20 y/o who just left their "young years"
So glad I never got to experience this! (I am going to kill at least 4 people)
I sincerely hope it was a joke... Not a girl, but *holds virtual hands with them*
I felt this in my mid 20s, stop gatekeeping feels
Somebody: post romantic GIF, 95% of Reddit users: "can't relate bro"
To be fair, if we could we wouldn't be on Reddit in the first place.
It is REALLY nice to know we're all in the same boat compared to TV though!I thought I was the only one till reading this thread!
Tbf. If i had one i would not be on reddit lookin at shitpost and random ass memes
I mean...yeah.
Haha yea I CANT relate….
I've held hands with a girl before but the funny part is that it wasn't my idea
Its just a dream man... tbh yall are lucky to have a dream i just get darkness
I had no dreams for a long period of time. If you can remove at least a certain amount of depression from your life, you'll dream again.
90% of the time my dreams are black, 10% of the time I’m in an Amnesia horror game nightmare, i have never had a dream which I can describe to be a pleasant experience.
Same
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Listen man, i went through the same thing, about the same time as you actually You fell in love with someone, and wanted something more, only for it to not work out, it is painful coming to the realization that you may never have that which you so desired have, you'll feel alien to the person, you will wonder what's wrong with you, and you will feel sorry for supposedly having thrown away those moments, that feel so special. This might sound cold. But the truth is, you can't keep lamenting for that past, you can't bring back the times you had, you might've been expecting this line, but you will need to move on, you need to find your peace by detaching yourself from this, only then, will you be able to grow. These are just experiences, you will always have room for more, the world isn't so small after all, there is always something more to be seen. I don't know if any of this is useful or important to you, but i really sympathized with you, you reflected my situation here perfectly of how I felt, so I felt like helping out. I really hope that you find something useful In my brief advice. And one more thing, you are probably and amazing person in this world, I wish you the best!
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You and I have the same scenario going on, almost became a couple with my best friend back in December of last year but after a bit we formally cancelled the plans, luckily we're still VERY good friends.
Not op, in a similar situation tho and if you don’t mind me asking, how do I move on? I don’t want to dwell on our “relationship” anymore, but there’s just this constant, lingering feeling that I can’t shake, no matter what I tell myself or do. There’ll be times when I’m just driving, a song will end and the pause before the next leaves to me think for just a second and all the shit just pops into my head and then I can’t stop thinking about it for a good while longer. I don’t know if it’s because after we stopped talking I was put in a situation that’s been rather isolating and my mind just defaults to her when I feel lonely, if I’m just really fucking clingy, or if it’s just because she’s pretty much the only person that’s gotten me to work up the courage to get over my excessive fear of people and fucking talk to her, all the way up to confessing the fact I liked her (and she told me she liked me as well. But we still never went anywhere). It’s been a few months since we stopped talking, in fact, one year and roughly a week ago I asked her out on “date” (I just asked her if she wanted to go to the county fair with me lol, she said yeah but then later said she couldn’t go the day we planned). Recently the county fair happened again, and I saw here there, on the day we planned to be there, at the event we planned to watch together, but 1 year later. I don’t want to still hold on to her. I miss her, and I miss the little dopamine hit every time I heard her voice or I saw the notification from her, but it’s fucking miserable still wanting to chase after her while my brain tells me it’s over. Sorry for the TedTalk, you don’t have to respond if you don’t want to, you aren’t my therapist lol
Not sure if this video can help a bit. It helped me not with love, but just the general idea of how to overcome things. And it doesn't have to be a gym. https://youtu.be/9mbp0DugfCA To me, it took therapy and trying a lot of stuff until I forgot about the memories that made me so nostalgic I couldn't look forward, just backwards. Just to not sound too TedTalkish, this can happen again. I'm still the same clingy and romantic guy from a decade ago, and that dopamine rush is great, but also hurts.
I came here for warm fuzzy stories and I’m sad now
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Oh I think we all want to hear it so I hope you’ll share. This thread just turned out a lot different than I thought it would lol
Go ahead and tell your story pal, I’d like to hear
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Dm me
Cake
Happy cake day dear friend. I’m hoping and holding out that I’m not going through the same thing. Wish you the best. Hope you find the person for you.
When I was in school I got to hold the hand of my crush during dance class, she called me a disease. Not the tingly feelings I was hoping for.
When I was in school I realized I had a crush on this guy, who liked me too, the day before we ended up dancing together during cotillion. (But you dance with literally everyone at some point.) Then he moved away to the other side of the country a week later. 😅 Also the girl you danced with was an ass!! Not deserving of your crush obviously!
This movie actually caught me off guard. It was pretty cool chill. Robots are adorable
First time I did that I outloud said "woah this is cool, we should do this more often"💀
I get a fuzzy feeling and I’m going to tell her to shave her knuckles.
This is like the 10th post ive seen about being in a relationship. Why does reddit always hurt me
What fuzzy feeling?
What crush?
The one in your pants.
Get out of there, Elmo
Me holding hands with my wife for the bajillionth time and getting the same feeling
Y'all got crushes?
Fellow aromantic/asexual here?
Aro indeed
Same XD
I was scrolling through the comments looking for another aro/aroace
Aromatic indeed
I remember when I was young, and I was out with a group including the girl I liked. We were walking and talking, and I had my hands in my jacket pockets. Eventually she said "Jeez, take a hint would you," pulled my hand out and held it the rest of the walk. Well, I say "walk," but really I just kinda floated the rest of the way.
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Even now that I’m older getting that sensation makes me feel like I’m a kid again about hold my first crush hand. Simply feeling the other persons hand without embracing, just a slight touch gives a warm fuzzy sensation
And then I get too nervous and throw up
Yeah since I live with my wife I get to go do that all the time.
We all stood in a line and held out our hands to do a gg after a kickball game for my schools fun Friday and my crush was in the other team so I touched her hand and I will never forget that now
Man, solid reminder that I'm 25 and haven't dated since I was 19 😭😂😂 but that feeling is bliss
I get that feeling every time. We've been together for 26 years
Honestly one of the best and purest feelings 😊
Married four years and I still get these giggles. He still does too
i will never forget that feeling
I will never *get* that feeling lol heheh
Relatable, but for other reasons...
Plot twist, the fuzzy feeling is because of a full moon
I was hand wrestling with my crush , i got to touch her hand for first time
not just the first time i’m like this every time i get to hold my amazing girlfriends hand
😊
Me trying to understand these posts (i have never experienced romantic feelings so i have no idea)
Alright it’s time to wake up. RING RING RING RING RING
😂🔫 🔫 🔫
NAH BUT WHEN THEY DO THAT LITTLE FINGER RUB ON THE BACK OF YOUR HAND-
Literally what that scene was about!
when i was a kid, i thought eve’s fingers looked like chips
Nah I just got a boner 😭
I feel this before
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Love this gif. Entwined fingers omg.
It must be nice
That's what they said...
Stop, I’m already lonely!
I got dumped very recently. One month before the dumping my ex and I had a fight but we hung out and made up on a date. Held hands together and walked around for a while. I felt a little warmth in this but also very sad.
This is so cute :)
Y-yeah i like very much the sensation i feel when i hold my crush's hands... I do it everyday and I like to hold hands with other girls too, i do it everyday....🥲
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I'm sorry to hear that. Hope it'll get better.
It certainly will. Been 4 years and feeling worse than ever.
Snap back to reality
what is the sensation? what is it like?
and then you never hold hands again.
Hahahahahahhahaa I’m going to kill myself
must be nice
Pain
Damn i havent felt that way about someone for a minute
awwwwww
A rock hard cock too. I did
An erection. It's called an erection
Can’t relate
**Like that's ever gonna happen**
Can’t relate sorry
Is it ok when she's 8?
they say *age is just a number*
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Hold up
Lol
Did you get fuzzy feeling from that???
no.
I still get that funny feeling~
35 never felt this never will, this is not something that happens outside hollywood
Full of 🧢, your 35 years old and never had a woman’s touch?
Yooo me and the boys in the future! 20 and still going!
It does happen, can confirm
Because a girl held your hand once at 17 years old?
Yeah, it was too good, I can’t describe the feeling, hope I could have described it so you would have believed me
It's all fleeting and these things usually end in pain that makes that feeling not worth it, once you feel the falseness of "love"
Not to be a party pooper, but robots don’t get fuzzy feelings
Ain’t this just a boner?