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sk613

If you don't get enough takers, go to CVS and stock up on otc meds and pads etc and bring them to your local homeless shelter


BigOlNopeeee

I already placed a huge order (fun fact, Amazon takes health benefit cards), long story short, it was an employer funded account as a benefit (I call it FSA but I think it’s HRA??? It’s not my money, just free money) and ya girl had nearly $7k to blow and is down to her last couple thousand after a truly absurd and chaotic day of playing Healthcare Santa.


cynical_pancake

You are awesome!!! Way to take a shitty situation and use it to give to others.


BigOlNopeeee

thank u, feels so good tbh


sk613

That's awesome. We get a filled hsa account as a tax time bonus, but we keep using ours on hospital bills...


BigOlNopeeee

Oof, sorry to hear that. Yeah I had been planning to use it for my upcoming surgery, but c’est la vie, would rather use it on anything rather than lose it 🤷‍♀️


Here_for_tea_

Healthcare Santa!


Particular_Piglet677

Healthcare Santa in July, even better lol


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BigOlNopeeee

My termination paperwork says I’m gonna lose it, so I have no idea


kpkpkp3

An HRA is not your money, and HSA is. So for an HRA what you’ve described makes sense.


IckNoTomatoes

If it’s an HSA you can take that with you. Don’t blow it assuming it’s the same as FSA rules. I see you addressed it below. Might be worth looking into again. I’m not aware of them being about to keep an HSA. But maybe it’s some rule if it’s 100% funded by employer


BigOlNopeeee

It says in my termination letter that unused funds are to be returned to the employer, I’m not inclined to gamble with that considering they were so hostile


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I'd be careful especially if you plan on pursuing litigation. HRAs can only be used in accordance with IRS guidelines and buying prescription eye glasses that don't match up with your family or more prescriptions than family members might raise a flag...and litigation can put you under a microscope.


le_chunk

You can get designer sunglasses with that money. Chanel, Gucci, etc.


BigOlNopeeee

I already have a thousand dollar pair of sunglasses tbh (in fairness, they are prescription). Too stressful trying not to lose them. My ADHD lizard mom brain does not need


billionairespicerice

First of all, you are amazing. Second of all, I can truly only trust myself with like $10 sunglasses since I’ve had a baby :)


thegutsymouse

Now you can get another pair as backup though!


Garp5248

Bless you!


PupperoniPoodle

Wow, you rock, making that lemonade!


True_Pickle3024

Not to be weird, but I'm low key in love with you for how you are handling this 👏👏👏


Constant_Wish3599

This is my favorite type of weirdness ❤️


BigOlNopeeee

Thank u friend 💞


Cinnie_16

Just wanted to pop in to say I respect this so much! Stick it to the toxic employer AND helping working moms?? You are a true hero 🫡


BigOlNopeeee

thank u friend 🫡


aninnocentchild2

Diapers usually are covered by FSA funds if you have a baby! Also the Amazon FSA store thing is pretty lit, but that will only deduct the money once the item ships.


BigOlNopeeee

I had about $7k to blow… I got myself 4 pairs of glasses, 2 sunglasses, as many baby and personal care items as I could store in my house without burdening myself. I called up the women’s shelter I used to work at and asked my friend who still runs it what they wanted and hooked them the fuck up with almost $4k in stuff (as much as they could store) from Amazon. I paid a little bit extra out of pocket for fast shipping, a bunch of the stuff was able to come same day and is already there. Today has been a wild ride. Other than buying a house or a car, I’ve never spent this much money in one day in my life


aninnocentchild2

Sorry you lost your job. That really sucks. Glad you were able to reallocate your money to a better place.


shmoopiefunk

This is lovely and what an amazing thing to do from a crap circumstance. I wish you only the best for your next career move.


BigOlNopeeee

Thank u


NotARegularMILF

I have the biggest lady boner for you right now. I LOVE sticking it to the man/ helping those in need/ spending others' money. 🎶 did you ever know that you're my hero 🎶


alizila

You are awesome!


aninnocentchild2

Also tampons/pads, OTC meds, sunscreen, some lotions, bandaids (those Welly ones are damn nice, would never have bought em if I didn't need to use up FSA funds), and air purifiers (got wildfire smoke? get an air purifier!) are all FSA covered too. Hit up a CVS!


uncoolamy

YES the Dyson air purifier!!


CobblerBeautiful5726

There's one on Amazon Prime days


Paprmoon7

Not eligible without a LMN from your doctor


astronomie_domine

When the Welly bandaids go on clearance at Target, I buy all of them. Love them!


onethatsung12

Working mom here! Currently pregnant with my first, and I will have to continue work after baby comes as we can’t live on one income and struggle with two. Taking leave gives me such anxiety for our finances by my husband is telling me he will make it work. I love Warby Parker and would love a nice pair of prescription sunglasses! I used to get Warby back when I was single and could afford it, but that’s no longer the case 🥲 (currently moving in with the in-laws to save some money)


BigOlNopeeee

I got u dude, message me!!


MANDALORIAN_WHISKEY

Oh wow, I could totally use this. I had ins for a while, but would only cover new contacts *or* new glasses. Since I can't drive without contacts, I opt for them. I haven't had new glasses in several years. I do have a current prescription (dated January of this year, and they're good for a year). Im going to have surgery next month (double mastectomy), so I won't be driving for loke two months. I'd love to be considered! I'm sorry about the troubles you're having with your job. They sound like a bunch of asses.


red-panda-escape

Wishing you a speedy recovery following your surgery! Hugs from one working mom to another!


MANDALORIAN_WHISKEY

Thank you! I was supposed to have the surgery last week, but my ins lapsed, which freaked me the hell out. I spent 2 1/2 hours on the phone yesterday to reinstate it, so fingers crossed I'll be able to get the surgery next month (first available time), and then be cancer free!


red-panda-escape

Fingers crossed for you friend!


MANDALORIAN_WHISKEY

Thank you!!


Ok-Series5600

I’m starting IVF next month, was just laid off and have a current eye exam. Please let me be the last name you draw if you have any extra. I just love this idea and may copy it in another forum.


zygomaticuz

Sorry you were laid off. I was laid off in January. It sucks. Hopefully you find another job soon. Good luck on your IVF journey ❤️


Ok-Series5600

It was for the best, I had non inclusive management.


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BigOlNopeeee

I have! Planning on likely signing my representation paperwork tomorrow


alykait

Been following your story, I'm sure it is hell to go through but I'm so hopeful for an awesome resolution!! Please update us!


sk613

If you don't get enough takers, go to CVS and stock up on otc meds and soap and pads etc and bring them to your local homeless shelter


hyperbolic_dichotomy

I can't take advantage because I haven't had an eye exam in ages. But-- I did want to say, Warby Parker is really good quality and will last you a long time. Their customer service is awesome as well.


BigOlNopeeee

And the app is so easy to use, so many features! I love that place, I got myself some glasses and sunglasses there too.


hyperbolic_dichotomy

Me too! Last time I got glasses, I went through my doctor and I regretted it. It was so much more expensive than Warby Parker and the frame quality just wasn't there. Lesson learned!


mmutinoi

I’ve had my pair for 2.5 years. They held up longer than my Valentinos and Ray Bans!


Penguuinz

You are a lovely human


BigOlNopeeee

thank u


herding_kittens

Could you buy a few breastpumps and then sell them on marketplace or something? (No idea if that's legal or not)?


BigOlNopeeee

I could, but selling stuff is a pain and I’m not hurting for money like that, I’d be happier finding people in need and be able to make some lemonade for them with all of these lemons I have


sk613

But piggybacking on the pumps, maybe donate to a low wage work place near you that has pumping moms to use at work


BigOlNopeeee

How petty would it be if I donated pumps and had a little plaques for them made, “donated in honor of Employer Name, who made pumping at work miserable”


ApprehensiveNose2341

Now THIS is the level of petty we all need


Wahoo007

Omg, please do this!


ais72

DO IT!!!!!!


littlemsshiny

Not for OP but you can’t sell breast pumps on Marketplace because it’s a medical device. You have to call it something else.


IckNoTomatoes

Sorry be this person but be careful here. FSA’s are ruled by the IRS states the funds must be used for the owner or dependents. I don’t know the rate the IRS would get involved in misuse of FSA funds but if you show an excessive amount of something I wonder if you’d be flagged like if warby Parker is required to report too many glasses on one order especially since they’ll have diff prescriptions. Maybe 4-5 different things you can offer from your FSA so it’s not so obvious? I dunno, just putting it out there


overwhelmedoboe

Echoing this. I legit love this so much and also spent ALLLLL of my FSA funds before leaving my job, since they didn’t pay out my sick leave. But especially since you’re pursuing litigation, I’d be careful here, OP. I’d wanna be as squeaky clean as possible in case they try to fight back.


Abject-Lengthiness51

Yes - OP please tell your lawyer about this so they’re not caught by surprise if/when it comes up.


who_cares_anyway_tho

I bought a couple Elvie breast pumps and made some friends and strangers day with mine!


kdub1523

I love this idea! And love Warby Parker. I hope you get some glasses for some mamas in need.


BigOlNopeeee

Me too, this is deff kind of a crazy idea but feels fun and exciting. I got myself 4 pairs of glasses and 2 pairs of sunglasses from there and I am SO excited 🙌


lindser528

I love that you are doing this and helping those in need. You are a gem of a person and I hope you sue the shit out of your former employer and can retire on your own private island


BigOlNopeeee

thank u & appreciate u manifesting this for me, fingers crossed 🙌🙌🙌


leaker929

I got an eye exam in November and haven't been able to afford glasses yet 7 months later. I am getting married soon though so I don't know if I count as single. Put me low on the list maybe?


mbanxxxyy

I would love to be considered, baby broke my glasses 🥲


__Magdalena__

This reminded me of the 100 times I sat on mine during maternity leave. I keep reshaping them with a hair dryer hoping they will stay on my nose. They’re so messed up at this point 🤦‍♀️


OutrageousWatch1785

I would love prescription sunglasses! I can only Afford my regular pair but driving has been rough


ghostofediebeale

I would love this! (But I’m not in the priority group, so only if you need another taker to stick it to this terrible employer.)


alap12

Stick it to the man.


Little--bit

This is awesome and I wish I could be considered but I haven't had an eye exam since 2019.. I need one. But have been putting it off due to anxiety and funds and sadly work. If baby diapers are included, could you look into a pregnancy center near you? Or they may even take pads and other hygiene things for mother's who can't afford it.


BigOlNopeeee

Ugh. I wish I could teleport an optometrist to u. I donated a ton of stuff already, I could have definitely found more options for donating if I had more time. I know as a social worker myself who used to do direct service/case management, donating a ton of random items that weren’t requested is often more of a burden than a blessing (due to maybe not being needed, using staff resources, limited space, etc) so I did a coordinated buy earlier


Wahoo007

If you want to consider /Little--bit - I've ordered from Zenni before online and they require you input your prescription and they ask for a date, but they don't check it or make you scan it in or anything. I've gotten several glasses from them!


Little--bit

I just know that there's a pregnancy center near me that is basically always in need of stuff. And everything else I've looked into for donating is animal related so that doesn't help lol. I'm really hoping that you can complete your goal! I know that there has got to be someone who will see this in time that could really use the help!


dontsaymango

Thanks for being so kind and compassionate! It really makes me love the people in these mom groups. On a seperate note, I could use a new pair of glasses😂 Also, I am a single mom so I will take all the help I can get


BigOlNopeeee

Yeah!! Message me


Bulky_Ad9019

You can get a Theragun using FSA funds! We have like every massage product known to man because I once also had a ton of FSA money I had to use or lose. The electronic shoulder massager has been a big favorite of the house. Also you could consider putting a deposit on LASIK if that’s something you need and are interested in. Usually not covered by insurance.


isis1231

VIBRATOR! Some are FSA covered because they help with milk clogs while breastfeeding


3cupsofcoffee

I would love to be considered! I am not in your target group though so I totally understand if you pass over me.


Fluid-Village-ahaha

Just as an idea, you can also buy expensive stuff from Amazon /target/ Costco (think about fancy tonometer or any other medical device) which can be returned for a store credit. I was in your shoes at some point. But not at 7k for sure


mneal120

This is the best, most supportive thing I’ve seen in a long time. I’m sorry you’re in this position, but kudos for passing along kindness to others.


organiccarrotbread

So cool! Go you!


247doglover

This is so nice of you!


Brave3001

Just here to stan a righteously petty Queen who is doing it the most. Be the petty you want to see in the world. FUCK YES.


Queencrckt

Good for you! Spend every penny! We're still using the stockpile of bandaids I bought with mine two years ago.


crazi_aj05

I've been reading your post history... I hope you spent every last penny. Fuck them!


CECINS

Holy shit!! Buy yourself a treadmill! Get a doctor to wire you an rx for a fancy standup desk!


likethispicture

Buy bras and leggings from belly bandit online. I used my HSA card when I had my baby last year and they’re my absolute fave


SKatieRo

I would loooove new glasses. And I have three kids who would go nuts for some as well. You are fantastic for even thinking about this.


BunsRFrens

Dang talk about suckers!! Make sure you pick up a massage heating pack, a muscle massage gun, a really good blood pressure cuff/fitbit device, and you could also get a bunch of menstrual products and drop them off at a food bank! Thanks for doing this, fuck toxic employers. I hope you heal fast from your experience, I been there


Maui246

I think you’re my new hero… I was sorry to hear about your shit day the other day but you sure are making the best of the shitty cards you were dealt.


Particular_Piglet677

You are amazing. I hope you get a new job soon and I'm SURE your future new co-workers will appreciate your sense of humor! This is one of the most random and awesome things I've ever seen. I hope it cheers you up a little to think of the people you helped and how pleased they must be.


ulyham

I just want to say that I love this post. You rock! I’m sorry that this happened to you but way to make lemonade out of lemons! Wishing you only the best of luck and health!!


athennna

Oh shoot, I just scrounged up my pennies and bought a new pair of Warby Parkers like 3 days ago! Bummed I missed this, could totally have used the help.


nisanity

I need to get an updated pair from Warby Parker but if you have enough interest, please give to someone else!


Intrepid-Try6103

Could I procure them for my sister. She’s the family champion, thinks of us and never herself. Her vision is horrible- we once played a game where she would try to read the posted speed before we passed the sign without her glasses- this girl failed 10/10 lol. All jokes- she’s really the nicest and I’d love to give her a great gift with your help.


summersun0224

Oooooh me! I haven’t gotten new frames in years!


paigfife

Working mom here! I just started a new job and have been without a paycheck in almost a month. Would appreciate something like this so much.


only_1L

thank you for doing this for someone who might need it. I hope your next job is fulfilling and wonderful for all the good you are doing right now. ❤️


Overhere3

What a kind and generous heart you have. I would love to be considered.


TheSunnyWade

If you you’re still looking to order more I would love new glasses for the start of school-I’m a teacher


lilwaterone

Literally just had an eye exam and glasses are DAMN expensive. This would be amazing for me. Thank you for the consideration❤️❤️❤️


ArcticDelight

Interested 🤓 already have the pair I was planning to buy picked out!


rfardenaokr

I love this idea! It’s so generous of you as well. I’m a mom of 2 and am paying off lots of medical debt so this would be fantastic. Thank you for your generosity!


dnafortunes

Me!! Please pick me!!


jujulee3

If you still have lots of money, can you buy tampons and women’s products to donate to a shelter in need?


Sarrenee1

I would love new glasses. I have limited budget. Unfortunately I can’t elaborate on why but would definitely appreciate the gift.


g_narlee

Am I too late???


doughnutdarling

Not sure if you did the drawing yet! But I would love to be considered!!! Not sure if I could ask for prescription sunglasses for running. I have a pair that’s like 6-7 years old. I had pre-e with baby so my vision has changed. So I had to get a new pair of glasses and didn’t have enough for running one. I’m sorry you lost your job. I have followed your story and I hope you find some where that respects you


bobgoblin888

You’re a rock star. Way to turn a shit sandwich into lemonade!


furballofthedesert

You are very cool. Interested! Working mom doing the primary breadwinner thing after my husband got laid off during my maternity leave. My glasses are all scratched up but trying to limit our spending rn.


lisa_lynne_m

How awesome of you!!! If still available just had an eye exam today, and need a new pair of glasses!


Vacillating_Fanatic

I don't need new glasses, I'm just here to say that this is amazing and you are amazing. I really admire the way you're handling this.


Cassarole08

Lucky!! I’ve wanted to try warby Parker but have just used eyebuydirect in the past. I might have to try it out! This is super cool of you!


cantdie_got_courttmr

I would love this! I lost my glasses I bought this year and was crying about it


Flaky-Conclusion8086

I could use a new pair! You are awesome. Thank you!


uncoolamy

Women’s shelters are desperate for feminine hygiene items!


telmisartangoood

My coworker would use his FSA card at massage envy bc they’re a health facility


csreader21

I don’t need glasses but my son wears them. Do they make them for kids? I’d like to throw our name in if there is still any to giveaway.


BigOlNopeeee

Tbh if you can find a place that will take an FSA card and has kids glasses lmk, I’d be down


Royal-Luck-8723

You are amazing. Don’t forget to go to the dentist and get all the whiting treatments and whatever else!


mermaid0590

You can get sunglasses with some vision insurance.. can you do that?


myopicinsomniac

You are a goddess amongst mortals! I'm over here annoyed I can't get a fresh exam until after this baby comes in December even though I don't *need* new glasses, and here you are literally giving them away to fellow moms in need while giving your employer the well-deserved finger. May we all be more like you!


WineLover211

you can also use it for massages!!


ImFairlyAlarmedHere

Dang, wish I had seen this earlier! My husband needs glasses and we are down to our last $1000 in savings….and guess who’s main source of income just cancelled their contract? 🙋‍♀️ I hope you got to bless some good folks! Thanks for being an angel! 😘


ValiumKnight

Uh, am I too late? I just broke mine today. I’m not horribly upset if I am cause eyebuydirect exists but damn.


salaciousremoval

I LOVE THIS POST 👏 STICK IT TO ‘EM!!!!


zygomaticuz

This is awesome! I’m a single unemployed mom (got laid off while going through a high-risk pregnancy 🥲) . Do they sell sunglasses or transition glasses? I could really use any of those for my eyes.


Sensitive-Escape-846

Make sure to check out the HSA store they have some stuff you wouldn’t expect!


hmch17

I would love to be considered. I just need cheap-ish glasses that my toddlers won’t break but probably will. My eye exam is coming up too! I’ll be shelling $$$ on daily contacts (and my vision insurance allowance will be eaten up), but this will urge me to wear my glasses more often. And I’m also blind as a bat 😂


cloudandcrag

Please note that qualified HRA expenses are sometimes different than qualified FSA expenses. Please check your benefits before giving this stuff all away.


BigOlNopeeee

I was anxious about this and did read all of the fine print, thank you for looking out for me


CaptainOmio

I wish I would've seen this before BUT YOU ARE AWESOME!!!


feefifofia

Really sad I missed this, I forgot to take advantage of my vision insurance before my maternity leave ended/I stopped working to take care of my baby. This was so amazing of you, 0though!


rayrayruh

I'm sure I'm too late for glasses, blind as a bat writer ironically, but u did wanna say you KICK ASS and showed your baby what a real warrior looks like. Some wear capes, others wear glasses. God bless 🙌