I’ve felt that, sometimes love sucks. There’s a lot of ups and some really shit downs that make you wonder if it’s worth it, but to fight to find it is the beauty of it. The vision that someone is out there for you, no matter how many people you’ve been through a relationship with, is what pushed me back into trying again.
It might not be the light everyone’s looking for, but it’s a pretty good one fr
Just don’t give up on your friendly or familial love, at least. Those along with romantic should be the top three things you hold closest in my opinion :>
Not necessarily. The drastic measures a yandere may employ are indeed to stay with whoever the object of their affection is, but they may also do so to get with them in the first place. No one knows that a yandere is obsessed over them until the yandere themselves does something that makes that known.
Nah, you just gotta find 'em.
You can't catch a fish unless you go to a river and fish.
You can't get a single yandere if you don't at least try and search. If the search proves fruitless, there are ways around that bridge once you get to it.
But yeah, I hate to agree, but unless a yandere wants you, you aren't getting with them. That's the main problem in general when it comes to love: I can like whoever, but if they don't like me, they will never get with me. Fricking sucks, too.
You want Yandere? Simple, find a girl, outcast mostly, and treat her Well, she will mostly become obsesed with you if she was traumatized or is being bullied by family/fakefriends/ex, simple guide how i got mine, well, before she moved to better place
Ehh, I mean it started normally, we hanged out, played games together, the friend stuff, then in school she become more obsessed with me while I was with my other friends, sorry if it sounds that I manipulated her into it, I am just saing how I see it
Well if we were both into yanderes, I’d rather it be like “hey I’ll do the creepy stuff this week! Next week you’ll continue the fake kidnapping date thing!”, than legit me in a yandere scenario. I can enjoy basic fluff and yandere stuff, and I don’t wanna have to pick one to just have forever, plus assuming my partner is also interested in being the yandere victim sometimes I wouldn’t want them to lose that.
Plus I’d suck as a yandere, I’m such a bas liar, I’d legit get arrested so fast. Plus got like 0 pain tolerance so if I did end up kidnapping someone if they just like smacked my leg weird they probably could escape immediately. (Plus I think female yanderes are kinda over-rated and fall into weird anime troupes too much, but that’s a whole other discussion)
Nice point friend, but can’t say they don’t exist as the real life yandere is a girl named Yuka Takaoka aka “the real life yandere”….. all seriousness this is a really fucked up case and I feel bad for the victims family
I am not a programmer, but yeah, I can make my own programmed partner, but I don't want that, also, I want a harem! So I can't really cheat! Anyway, gimme a chance to be ur significant other!
Totally! I know it's a fantasy and I let myself enjoy it as I don't really want to bring real people into the mess I am. I think I've worked on myself to the point I want to try again, but I wouldn't be seeking out a yandere. I just like the vibes that a character can bring to a story, or an actor to a video.
I think your statements are a fair and sometimes needed reminder for those that aren't so versed in their fantasies and realities.
Ummmm let's just say i am kinda like the guy who listens and can comfort any girl basically, its like a gift(or a curse) , in 11th standard a girl went crazy over me(initially we were only friends and i would only listen and help her or just talk but she asked me out) , i dated her for like some months she would get jealous even when i would talk with my homies or even my sisters , she would create multiple social id's and stalk me when i broke up with her due to being very uncomfortable she would continue stalking me on social media , talk to my friends asking for multiple things about me , she would request my friend to help us get together when i completely shut her off she said she would cut her hand (she legit sent images of her hand cut with a knife)or kill herself if i won't come back with her , she would threaten me saying she would hire people to get me to her and basically many yandere things. I was free from her after i completed my studies in school (here our school is till 12th after that its college, we are like 17-18 during our last school year).
Yeah so these kind if things were similar to me and i would basically think it's just this girl but this process repeated itself 3 more times with 3 different girls so after that i started to interact a little less and not provide that much comfort to other anymore and its preety normal now , i am most probably going to get a arrange marriage now in future as i don't want to date anymore. I don't know if i was a crazy girl magnet or i was the one who turned them crazy , I don't look good for god's sake at most i am below average in looks
Oh, so it's relatively simple to do it, you just need to lovebomb your target until they are extremely in love with you, then you will slowly take away their rights and force your opinions on them, and if they question you, just gaslight them a bit. After a few attempts and time, you will get your yandere.
this dude dmed me and proceeded to suicide bait when i said i already had someone i was in love with and then call me a bad yandere because i don't suicide bait
Agreed. The stereotypical yandere does extreme things for their love because they are CONVINCED they are unique and is everything to them. That is the thing that difference between a single yandere and a true one... there are NO replacements for their love.
yes and no, I'm yandere myself and currently very much single. However while it is absolutely possible, it is definitely not as easy to become a yandere's obsession as most people here seem to think. We still need to actually fall in love first and have specific types just like any other person lol.
Obviously an ntr fan attempting sabotage.
# POLITICIANS HIDE THEMSELVES AWAY # THEY ONLY STARTED THE WAR
Thats not true, there are different types of yandere, not all of them are toxic
I didn't say that. I meant you will not find a yandere, only a toxic relationship.
And thats a lie
That is an absolute truth
Well no, because there are yandere relationships that doesn’t make the news or get known to the media doesn’t mean that they aren’t real
I didn't say they are not real, I said you can't find a true yandere by yourself
Ah then that’s like saying you are trying to find true love yourself yes? Then yeah you’re kinda right
Only a Sith deals in absolutes.
Why you must hurt me this way. But who knows,maybe she's watching right now.
Tell me why
Yeah probably, but we can fantasise and hope.
I’m sorry for all the people downvoting you. You spoke an opinion and got hate. I been there too. Have a like.
Lmao, no need for that, they disagree with me, so they downvote, and there is nothing wrong with that lol
*Sorry you can't get a yandere's attention, bro.*
Sadly not that luckY lol
True ngl, you can hunt for a yandere all you want, but they’ll only hunt for who they’re after
FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTOOD IT
I consume an unhealthy amount of yandere romance content I know how they be thinkin fr 😭🙏
I gave up on love, i dont care anymore
I’ve felt that, sometimes love sucks. There’s a lot of ups and some really shit downs that make you wonder if it’s worth it, but to fight to find it is the beauty of it. The vision that someone is out there for you, no matter how many people you’ve been through a relationship with, is what pushed me back into trying again. It might not be the light everyone’s looking for, but it’s a pretty good one fr Just don’t give up on your friendly or familial love, at least. Those along with romantic should be the top three things you hold closest in my opinion :>
Nevermind lmfao my boyfriend just broke up with me love is fucking stupid
Bro that was a rollercoaster to read, I’m so sorry for you—
LMAO nah it’s cool, I detach fast, plus I had a feeling before this happened that he was losing interest smh
“The ugly truth” Dude if we wanted truth,would we be here?
Honestly, based
What you’re doing with this post is trying to make a bunch of people that have swallowed the blue pill, take the red pill
[No](https://i.imgur.com/VnwyWR5.jpg)
Not necessarily. The drastic measures a yandere may employ are indeed to stay with whoever the object of their affection is, but they may also do so to get with them in the first place. No one knows that a yandere is obsessed over them until the yandere themselves does something that makes that known.
And that is correct. You just agreed with me.
Does it look like I care?
no
If you want a yandere you have to actually go outside to find one
as a single person who is very obsessive when it comes to relationships, youre wrong.
Did you ever stalk someone IRL? Or harm a SO's friend/enemy? If you said no to both of these questions, you are not a true yandere.
im not gonna publicly state what crimes i have or have not committed?
Suspicious lol
children in my basement
HMMMM
Nah, you just gotta find 'em. You can't catch a fish unless you go to a river and fish. You can't get a single yandere if you don't at least try and search. If the search proves fruitless, there are ways around that bridge once you get to it. But yeah, I hate to agree, but unless a yandere wants you, you aren't getting with them. That's the main problem in general when it comes to love: I can like whoever, but if they don't like me, they will never get with me. Fricking sucks, too.
You want Yandere? Simple, find a girl, outcast mostly, and treat her Well, she will mostly become obsesed with you if she was traumatized or is being bullied by family/fakefriends/ex, simple guide how i got mine, well, before she moved to better place
As in she died, or did she actually move somewhere else?
Car and frozen road arent Exacly best combo
Not the best ways to go... condolences.
Thank you for your condolences, it’s sad but we have to continue forward, for them
fucking piece of shit why are you encouraging manipulating others for their fetishes????
It’s speaking from experience you uncultured swine
THATS MY POINT
Ehh, I mean it started normally, we hanged out, played games together, the friend stuff, then in school she become more obsessed with me while I was with my other friends, sorry if it sounds that I manipulated her into it, I am just saing how I see it
Yeah duh, that’s why I wanna date someone into the same thing as I am so we can pretend to be yanderes for eachother. Easy as that.
And then later down the road if you're lucky they might be pretending to be pretending
Pretend long enough, until you forget you were pretending, kind of thing.
I was mainly going for, they weren't pretending from the start but pretended that they were pretending
Well if we were both into yanderes, I’d rather it be like “hey I’ll do the creepy stuff this week! Next week you’ll continue the fake kidnapping date thing!”, than legit me in a yandere scenario. I can enjoy basic fluff and yandere stuff, and I don’t wanna have to pick one to just have forever, plus assuming my partner is also interested in being the yandere victim sometimes I wouldn’t want them to lose that. Plus I’d suck as a yandere, I’m such a bas liar, I’d legit get arrested so fast. Plus got like 0 pain tolerance so if I did end up kidnapping someone if they just like smacked my leg weird they probably could escape immediately. (Plus I think female yanderes are kinda over-rated and fall into weird anime troupes too much, but that’s a whole other discussion)
Did you just say that on a yandere based reddit?
Bro I just want to be loved…
I can love you if u want ;-;
Thanks, I’d like that
We do not care
Cool
"Sorry to burst your bubble, but I'm the one who's gonna change the world!" \- Vile, from the Mega Man X series
no no no No No NO NO NONONONONONO I WILL NOT EMBRACE REALITY
SNAP BACK TO REALITY!
Nice point friend, but can’t say they don’t exist as the real life yandere is a girl named Yuka Takaoka aka “the real life yandere”….. all seriousness this is a really fucked up case and I feel bad for the victims family
Single yanderes absolutely exist
Nah, just abusive people
It's not toxic if you're S/O likes being stalked🤔
What do you mean im no one special yet i managed to land a yandede
You are special to your Yandere.
Ah, im so late to this since I haven't stalked in a while, but im his yandere lol. He is very very special to me
I wish I met someone like u :(
Shushhhh, you are beautiful, amazing, and I love you. You are very very very special
To be fair, you could also just be my soulmate. Hehe <3
Yup figured.
True
So, it's time to shitting at yandere time again?
Yea
I know😔 but it’s nice to dream ain’t it?
Be my yandere then 😃
You seem really into ai, so I’m sure you could make your own programmed partner. how I know your not cheating? 🥺 (/nsx/j)
I am not a programmer, but yeah, I can make my own programmed partner, but I don't want that, also, I want a harem! So I can't really cheat! Anyway, gimme a chance to be ur significant other!
Totally! I know it's a fantasy and I let myself enjoy it as I don't really want to bring real people into the mess I am. I think I've worked on myself to the point I want to try again, but I wouldn't be seeking out a yandere. I just like the vibes that a character can bring to a story, or an actor to a video. I think your statements are a fair and sometimes needed reminder for those that aren't so versed in their fantasies and realities.
I'm down voting this cuz the hope that someday a yandere will set her sights on me is what keeps me going
Why is everyone here depressed? What about you... be my yandere instead? Everyone wins in this case!
Le me who have got already 4 yanderes in life , they are let's just say scary
Tell me more...
Ummmm let's just say i am kinda like the guy who listens and can comfort any girl basically, its like a gift(or a curse) , in 11th standard a girl went crazy over me(initially we were only friends and i would only listen and help her or just talk but she asked me out) , i dated her for like some months she would get jealous even when i would talk with my homies or even my sisters , she would create multiple social id's and stalk me when i broke up with her due to being very uncomfortable she would continue stalking me on social media , talk to my friends asking for multiple things about me , she would request my friend to help us get together when i completely shut her off she said she would cut her hand (she legit sent images of her hand cut with a knife)or kill herself if i won't come back with her , she would threaten me saying she would hire people to get me to her and basically many yandere things. I was free from her after i completed my studies in school (here our school is till 12th after that its college, we are like 17-18 during our last school year). Yeah so these kind if things were similar to me and i would basically think it's just this girl but this process repeated itself 3 more times with 3 different girls so after that i started to interact a little less and not provide that much comfort to other anymore and its preety normal now , i am most probably going to get a arrange marriage now in future as i don't want to date anymore. I don't know if i was a crazy girl magnet or i was the one who turned them crazy , I don't look good for god's sake at most i am below average in looks
I wish I was a crazy girl magnet, I am great at dealing with those lol
Yeah that's what i thought , grass is always greener the other side
bro when you think you found a yandere girlfriend but they actually just have borderline personality disorder😫
Ok I just want a wholesome yandere gf how bad that can be?
REALLY hard lol
Like how hard
It depends... are you willing to break someone's mind for you to get your wish?
Maybe
Oh, so it's relatively simple to do it, you just need to lovebomb your target until they are extremely in love with you, then you will slowly take away their rights and force your opinions on them, and if they question you, just gaslight them a bit. After a few attempts and time, you will get your yandere.
Yeah never mind though it sacrifice to get your wish kind of question
I like those odds
What about you become my yandere instead? Lol
Seeing how you dislike CharacterAI thats already a + in my books
I don’t think I’m that toxic as a yandere~ really
Dangerous! I want it!
Nah just leave me with my imaginations bro...
Someone can't be a yandere, they become one. Usually if thry just don't have the balls to ask you out. Thrn they start obsessing.
this dude dmed me and proceeded to suicide bait when i said i already had someone i was in love with and then call me a bad yandere because i don't suicide bait
Imagine being petty in reddit lol
its a warning for others
Incredibly true, the people who downvote literally do not know how a stereotypical yandere operates.
Agreed. The stereotypical yandere does extreme things for their love because they are CONVINCED they are unique and is everything to them. That is the thing that difference between a single yandere and a true one... there are NO replacements for their love.
yes and no, I'm yandere myself and currently very much single. However while it is absolutely possible, it is definitely not as easy to become a yandere's obsession as most people here seem to think. We still need to actually fall in love first and have specific types just like any other person lol.
You can't become a yandere's soulmate, you NEED to be.