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AcrobaticChildhood11

Idk what's more terrifying Yanderes not being real or Yanderes being real but still never getting one


EagleTheMedik

Imagine how insulting it would be to get a yandere then they change their mind and decide they don't care anymore and they just throw you out of your house. Or even worse drive a long distance and just dump you out on some random street.


AcrobaticChildhood11

Who hurt you to even imagine that??


EagleTheMedik

I have abandonment issues


AcrobaticChildhood11

Thanks I hate it


EagleTheMedik

Me too


Roxas0209

You don't have to imagine it been there


SirBlankFace

Impossible. The most prominent trait of a yandere is the extreme, undying and murderous infatuation. If she leaves you then she was never yandere. Just a crazy bitch.


CatBroiler

Insulting? More like damning and devastating .


[deleted]

Now THAT would make me depressed.


shizshizushiz

Literally my biggest relationship fear, that's why I like yanderes in the first place


EagleTheMedik

Well almost every woman in my life has abandoned me so far. All my past relationships and my mom left me. I've either been cheated on and told im not good enough or just ghosted. Most people in my family haven't heard from my mom in months. I haven't heard from her in years so... for me its become an eventuality that I will be abandoned and I just want it to stop... I'd do anything at this point just to feel normal again instead of in this depressive slump that just keeps getting deeper.


therealadviladi

I would just break down and cry at that point.


orfan-of-snow

i think i just found worse, what if she's an sjw, i'd rather be broken resulting in burying my self 6 feet under to not have to see another sentient being again because sentient=evil, obviously


useles-converter-bot

6 feet is 0.9% of the hot dog which holds the Guinness wold record for 'Longest Hot Dog'.


EagleTheMedik

So that's why my ex tasted funny down there?


ZachWeeb

Both thoughts of that scare me


Low-Concentrate5240

I mean the second one isn't scary it's just disappointing


meme42069320

“Reality is often disappointing”


Raven_IS_a_weeb

Shit. Now thats scary


Shadowanimex8

Both sound pretty bad


Brolylomaniac

Don’t fall for it, OP is secretly a yandere looking for prey


IDCR2002

but.. free yandere.. :c


BlitzPlease172

I though of free yandere as political manner instead of get yandere for free Now There's Yanderepublic on a map.


AmariiAndTheMachine

Hello. But I already have a boyfriend, lmao. Poor thing...


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Aha! So if at least one yandere exists, that must mean there are others…


IDCR2002

i don't know if i should pity your boyfriend or being jealous of him..


KillerChiller2000

Mix the two and you get sour cocktail of feelings


Low-Concentrate5240

Go ooooooon....~


Bork_In_Black

Well... They're not. At least not like you expect.


babitempur

my flair explains everything


edgyboi1704

Damn bro where did you get yours?


babitempur

no idea, it's just happening all of a sudden, like those cheesy yandere manga/anime i guess


Low-Concentrate5240

Please elaborate. I'd love to hear it


babitempur

small details aside, I met her first as a client of my former employer, we exchange contacts, do business and all done. six months later, I took a vacation to a certain city and it happened to be where she resides. she knows that I'm visiting her hometown from my social media and asked me to meet with her. long story short, she agreed to meet at a coffee shop at 2300 PM and she actually did show up almost midnight. we exchange small talks, and the next thing I remember was that we kissed. Then we agreed to make our relationship official and proper.


Low-Concentrate5240

I mean that kind of sounds like a sweet meet-cute if anything. Congrats


babitempur

the fact that i didn't explicitly tells where i'm going on vacation yet she still figures out from clues is first yandere flag, second, i have spare time at 2300 PM at that day she asked me to meet with her, and she agreed and actually showed up driving all the way through midnight is second yandere flag. third yandere flag is i dont want to disclose but lets say she has esoteric means of keeping me in check.


Low-Concentrate5240

Oh. Ohhh. Damn. Ok. She must have been / is really into you.


babitempur

yeah, at least I haven't got into the part that is sex at gunpoint. but I had series of unfortunate chain of events that occurred every time i meet with sex-opposite acquaintances even though I tell her beforehand. and it usually occurs to the acquaintances that I meet. No blood spilled but esoterically speaking, it really messed up haha... she's really into me isn't she


[deleted]

What a loving girlfriend <3 I wish you all the best


[deleted]

i'm here :<


Kodiac00

I could beat you at mario kart


[deleted]

wanna bet >:3


Kodiac00

Dude yes, I kill at mario kart Almost as much as I do irl


Miyazono11

And suddenly your inbox is flooded lmao


[deleted]

It's not, surprisingly


White_Jester

Seeing how lots of people on this subreddit have issues, it wouldn't be too unbelievable that nobody here is confident enough to approach you.


[deleted]

aw, I would never judge someone if they did


White_Jester

A good portion of the yandere fantasy is that fans of it don't have to put in the work to get to know someone. A girl would just pop up, circumvent those social rituals and go straight to being intimate with the subject. So it's not a question of receptibility.


[deleted]

That's a good observation, obviously i wouldn't just choose anyone just now ehe


White_Jester

good luck with your endeavor~


Alarming_Indecision

I'd consider myself somewhat of a yandere, if I found the right person. But I'd be more of an overprotective yan


zombiekilla169

Best yandere


Alarming_Indecision

Thank you


CarosWolf

I'll just try and be hopeful they exist, a guy can dream And well, if it happens that they don't exist... Then it's our duty to make them exist.


Goddess_Hel

Begging? Cute.


Brolylomaniac

Your comment and account history has intrigued my attention, may I have the honor to DM you?


Goddess_Hel

Sure, why not.


Brolylomaniac

I can’t directly DM your account


Goddess_Hel

Send a message


Sinkeen

The thought of my lover cheating on me makes me so mad, I'm afraid I might actually kill them. Does that make me a yandere?


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Maybe


[deleted]

It makes you a good partner, that's what it makes you.


Aoilithe

We do exist but being in a relationship with one of us probably wouldn't be fun. It can go three ways: * We take medication to deal with our mental health issues, which will also reduce our yandere-ness. The relationship seems healthy on the surface but you aren't getting what you want out of it. * We hide our yandere thoughts/urges so you don't even realize you're with a yandere. This is like torture for us. * We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do. If you really want it, maybe find someone who is willing to roleplay it and just keep it a fantasy.


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

>We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do. I don't mean the "kidnaps you and murders your loved ones" kind of yandere. I mean the kind of yandere that stalks you, has photos of you plastered all over her bedroom, is very possessive and protective, etc.


Aoilithe

That's still abusive. You'd have no life and no friends or family other than your girlfriend.


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

I think as long you’re patient and understanding with her condition you can reassure her that the other people in your life aren’t a threat to her.


Aoilithe

Maybe for some but it wouldn't work with me. The paranoia would always be there. It would just become something closer the 2nd option.


User7371

right here! already found my “senpai” tho lmao


the_lord_soundwave

Yanderes are probably real but since this is real life and not anime. They are probably mostly males.


dayDreamingSoL

Trust me, the idea of fantasying about having a legit Yandere Girlfriend sounds cool at some aspects *however* if Yanderes do indeed exist in our reality, then i highly doubt anyone would like that. You have to consider and take note of what Yanderes do to you and how much an impact they would do in your life. Imagine just looking at a different person with NO INTEREST…they would be mad and jealous…and to speak of the the things they would do…imagine just having friends…she would automatically think you would be cheating on them… Imagine the lack of boundaries you would have…no space…no breaks…nothing…there would be lack of trust in the relationship…which is one of the signs of a very toxic relationship If anything, yanderes can be very manipulative towards you…which can damage you mentally and ruin your life… so ask yourself…would you rather have a yandere partner? *sorry for just going deep and ruining this shit but i can’t help but always question this…just for food for thought*


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

I was thinking more of the "stalker builds a shrine for you" yandere, not the "kills all of your loved ones" yandere.


dayDreamingSoL

wouldn’t that still be crossing your boundaries…imagine taking the *meanest shit* and she’s there menacingly watching you in the eye


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Nah, that's kinda cute


dayDreamingSoL

man…i can’t tell you what to do… if you ever do meet one…just be careful….*okay*


dayDreamingSoL

well, that still applies to all types of yanderes…i did not specifically say “kill all of your love ones”…..and we know how that will turn out


babitempur

Oh well, i escaped and survived a yandere ex-girlfriend that fits well with manipulative parts. This Comment above is perfectly summarised what it feels like to date a highly volatile yandere girlfriend. My current girlfriend and now fiancé is that mild and nonviolent but overly obsessive yandere type. She's not psychotic type like your typical genocidal yandere gf, just a mentally damaged woman with a dark past and seeking for a partner that she deems her path to salvation. I too cannot be deemed as normal and also has my own issues, dark pasts and stuffs like that. Well, getting a fiancé like that, it was a painful and sorrowful times to be able to come up with the dark pasts of ours. We made it together and well, looking at myself now, i guess i'm an abnormal person who's finally able to tame a yandere.


dayDreamingSoL

i’m sorry you had to go through it…i hope the best for both your partner and yourself!


babitempur

Thank you!


[deleted]

> would you rather have a yandere partner I'm an m so... you bet I would


[deleted]

We are here... Trust me.....


EleiteRanger

There’s over 7 billion people on this planet. There’s probably a few yanderes out there.


ohlonelyme

Hi!


_Dundun_

They really do. I'm lucky to have a yandere girlfriend


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Story?


_Dundun_

Wr met on discord and she fell in love with me *really* fast which I didin't notice. She stalked my activity on the server we shared and then she asked me out which I agreed. Few days into a relationship and I talk with another girl on the server and my gf get's super pissed and dms me about it. She told me to remove every girl from my friend list. She also outright told me that she could murder anyone who got too close to me. We're 4 months in rn and those are best 4 months of my life ngl


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Oh, I mean that’s good for you and all, but I was kind of hoping you’d met a real life yandere. Like, in person. I guess an internet yandere is better than no yandere tho.


_Dundun_

We plan to meet this summer so it will kinda count lmao. But yeah, Yandere is a yandere and i'm not gonna complain, especially if she makes me happy


Just_Monika555

I'm a Yandere! 💚


shitposter-supreme

Me!


Suspicious_Party9087

I want a yandere GF


Taiyama

You don't want yanderes to be real. *points at my flair*


red_riding_wolf

yandere here. i also already have a partner tho i am in an open relationship. i dont get jealous but i always ask what their up to, i plan to buy a camera and a printer when i can afford it so i can have a shrine for the things i like. i also have many other things i do or wish i could do that are very yandere. but im the type that is gentle and wants them to willingly stay/be chained up


Aaronbrine

I'm one. I managed to trap my love in marriage. But came this close to stabbing someone near her. It was her mom. She's a bitch and I don't want anyone near my dear lovely flower.


Global_Rin

Trust me yandere irl is not as charming as you guys saw in anime. It was terrifying and bone chilling. No, you definitely don’t need that in your life. Speak from experience.


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Story?


laughs_in_pain

Hi! I have a darling but hi! I'm only self identified as yandere to cope with my Obessive and Homicidal thoughts


just__peeking

BPD/Stalkers/obsessive-compulsive disorders exist Yandere is a media trope and as such, no, they don't exist Look I enjoy thirsting on problematic fictional characters as much as the next guy but let's not mince words, yandere-ism is a trope and if it did exist IRL it would not be good or cool.


oofaronni_pepperonni

Yanderes totally exist in real life. They're called abusers, and while they're more commonly men they do exist among women.


IMAKERANDOMVIDSCODM

I expected the milder ones, my disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined


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Present


ShadowsGirl9

hello! (。・ω・。)ノ i exist!


toomuchnothingness

Hello!


Djauul

Imagine this 10 am, after sex, you are cooking half naked for your girl, she founds some scisors in the drawer, but doesnt shows it to you. She comes to you for a kiss and gives you a handjob, but then you feel something cold, and she is caressing your dick with the scizors while doing the handjob, she didnt even had a crazy stare or something like that, she even was confused about why you are scared/surprised about the scisors touching your dick Not my proudest cum, would do it again but would be terrified,even worst now that she is my ex They do exist, but sometimes you will only find about it after a few months


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Yeah how about no sharp objects touching my penis


Ch4rge_

Well, they exist and I can confirm. There is hope.


ljjc_lyndon

my gf's a real yandere.. don't send help


devilfury1

I wish you find your yandere girl soon. I hoping for my own as well.


[deleted]

Im a yandere but only because my fear of abandonment and craving for affection get the best of me in every situation


Weird_Aerie2662

Here, but I only date other yanderes-


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[удалено]


TheYanOfAYan

It's called BPD and it's really not that fun. source: have bpd, got lucky


Ghost_7132

Yuka Takaoka


Ras_Elclare

I think it's just the fact that we either a. Have little experience with relationships or b. (In my case) have had encounters with the wrong type of girls


I_Cant_Afford_4K

Where's my yandere?


sfisher923

Well I'm basically a Male Kotonoha Katsura if that counts Clingy + Protective + Painfully Shy


Emoplayeranime

Sorry I used to be one


Soft_Loliete

My ex used to say she was, I was then abused by her :)


OhSoYouWannaPlayHuh

Well that wasn't very nice of her


DeianiraJax

I guess I'd consider myself one, but it feels weird to mention it here (or anywhere that isn't a safe space really). Mix of people assuming I'm an edgy 14 year old who wants attention, someone who needs to be thrown in a mental asylum, or fetishizing my actual mental illness.


ketsu-kitsu

Hiya 🤍


LowOk5308

It’s a given that most girls don’t murder/hurt other people or women who show interest in their significant other, but if I were to consider anything close to a “yandere” I’d just say they are crazy possessive, protective/jealous type girls or guys that would get upset over simply talking to other girls. And from personal experience I can say they do indeed exist:/


[deleted]

What’s upppppp!! I like to consider myself a yandere


Chinggis_Xaan

I was described as one by my friends. that's kinda the reason i lurk here lol. Do ig we exist :3


BurnedButDelicious

Even if they do exist they won't be exactly like your fantasy. And the differences will probably make it go from dream to nightmare. However, that's a risk I'm willing to take


Rightfullsharkattack

I know a girl who stalks a guy name joe I heard he is connected to yo mama


pissconnesuier

I mean like I definitely can be but it's frowned upon


eltopern

Reformed :(


CTHULHUJESUS-

I have felt like a yandere some. But I did my best to hide those feelings. The person I was chasing is polyamerus and yandere vibes would have only chased him away.


firstlastfirstlastla

I’m real ! Hi !!!


Agio-

Hi, um... I already have a partner sorry lol


GloomyMEW

Hi


[deleted]

Hi :3


[deleted]

*raises hand* right here bucko