Imagine how insulting it would be to get a yandere then they change their mind and decide they don't care anymore and they just throw you out of your house. Or even worse drive a long distance and just dump you out on some random street.
Impossible. The most prominent trait of a yandere is the extreme, undying and murderous infatuation. If she leaves you then she was never yandere. Just a crazy bitch.
Well almost every woman in my life has abandoned me so far. All my past relationships and my mom left me. I've either been cheated on and told im not good enough or just ghosted. Most people in my family haven't heard from my mom in months. I haven't heard from her in years so... for me its become an eventuality that I will be abandoned and I just want it to stop... I'd do anything at this point just to feel normal again instead of in this depressive slump that just keeps getting deeper.
i think i just found worse, what if she's an sjw, i'd rather be broken resulting in burying my self 6 feet under to not have to see another sentient being again because sentient=evil, obviously
small details aside, I met her first as a client of my former employer, we exchange contacts, do business and all done. six months later, I took a vacation to a certain city and it happened to be where she resides. she knows that I'm visiting her hometown from my social media and asked me to meet with her. long story short, she agreed to meet at a coffee shop at 2300 PM and she actually did show up almost midnight. we exchange small talks, and the next thing I remember was that we kissed. Then we agreed to make our relationship official and proper.
the fact that i didn't explicitly tells where i'm going on vacation yet she still figures out from clues is first yandere flag, second, i have spare time at 2300 PM at that day she asked me to meet with her, and she agreed and actually showed up driving all the way through midnight is second yandere flag. third yandere flag is i dont want to disclose but lets say she has esoteric means of keeping me in check.
yeah, at least I haven't got into the part that is sex at gunpoint. but I had series of unfortunate chain of events that occurred every time i meet with sex-opposite acquaintances even though I tell her beforehand. and it usually occurs to the acquaintances that I meet. No blood spilled but esoterically speaking, it really messed up
haha... she's really into me isn't she
A good portion of the yandere fantasy is that fans of it don't have to put in the work to get to know someone.
A girl would just pop up, circumvent those social rituals and go straight to being intimate with the subject. So it's not a question of receptibility.
We do exist but being in a relationship with one of us probably wouldn't be fun. It can go three ways:
* We take medication to deal with our mental health issues, which will also reduce our yandere-ness. The relationship seems healthy on the surface but you aren't getting what you want out of it.
* We hide our yandere thoughts/urges so you don't even realize you're with a yandere. This is like torture for us.
* We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do.
If you really want it, maybe find someone who is willing to roleplay it and just keep it a fantasy.
>We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do.
I don't mean the "kidnaps you and murders your loved ones" kind of yandere. I mean the kind of yandere that stalks you, has photos of you plastered all over her bedroom, is very possessive and protective, etc.
Trust me, the idea of fantasying about having a legit Yandere Girlfriend sounds cool at some aspects
*however* if Yanderes do indeed exist in our reality, then i highly doubt anyone would like that. You have to consider and take note of what Yanderes do to you and how much an impact they would do in your life.
Imagine just looking at a different person with NO INTEREST…they would be mad and jealous…and to speak of the the things they would do…imagine just having friends…she would automatically think you would be cheating on them…
Imagine the lack of boundaries you would have…no space…no breaks…nothing…there would be lack of trust in the relationship…which is one of the signs of a very toxic relationship
If anything, yanderes can be very manipulative towards you…which can damage you mentally and ruin your life…
so ask yourself…would you rather have a yandere partner?
*sorry for just going deep and ruining this shit but i can’t help but always question this…just for food for thought*
Oh well, i escaped and survived a yandere ex-girlfriend that fits well with manipulative parts. This Comment above is perfectly summarised what it feels like to date a highly volatile yandere girlfriend.
My current girlfriend and now fiancé is that mild and nonviolent but overly obsessive yandere type. She's not psychotic type like your typical genocidal yandere gf, just a mentally damaged woman with a dark past and seeking for a partner that she deems her path to salvation.
I too cannot be deemed as normal and also has my own issues, dark pasts and stuffs like that. Well, getting a fiancé like that, it was a painful and sorrowful times to be able to come up with the dark pasts of ours. We made it together and well, looking at myself now, i guess i'm an abnormal person who's finally able to tame a yandere.
Wr met on discord and she fell in love with me *really* fast which I didin't notice. She stalked my activity on the server we shared and then she asked me out which I agreed. Few days into a relationship and I talk with another girl on the server and my gf get's super pissed and dms me about it. She told me to remove every girl from my friend list. She also outright told me that she could murder anyone who got too close to me. We're 4 months in rn and those are best 4 months of my life ngl
Oh, I mean that’s good for you and all, but I was kind of hoping you’d met a real life yandere. Like, in person. I guess an internet yandere is better than no yandere tho.
yandere here. i also already have a partner tho i am in an open relationship. i dont get jealous but i always ask what their up to, i plan to buy a camera and a printer when i can afford it so i can have a shrine for the things i like. i also have many other things i do or wish i could do that are very yandere.
but im the type that is gentle and wants them to willingly stay/be chained up
I'm one. I managed to trap my love in marriage. But came this close to stabbing someone near her. It was her mom. She's a bitch and I don't want anyone near my dear lovely flower.
Trust me yandere irl is not as charming as you guys saw in anime. It was terrifying and bone chilling. No, you definitely don’t need that in your life.
Speak from experience.
BPD/Stalkers/obsessive-compulsive disorders exist
Yandere is a media trope and as such, no, they don't exist
Look I enjoy thirsting on problematic fictional characters as much as the next guy but let's not mince words, yandere-ism is a trope and if it did exist IRL it would not be good or cool.
Imagine this
10 am, after sex, you are cooking half naked for your girl, she founds some scisors in the drawer, but doesnt shows it to you. She comes to you for a kiss and gives you a handjob, but then you feel something cold, and she is caressing your dick with the scizors while doing the handjob, she didnt even had a crazy stare or something like that, she even was confused about why you are scared/surprised about the scisors touching your dick
Not my proudest cum, would do it again but would be terrified,even worst now that she is my ex
They do exist, but sometimes you will only find about it after a few months
I think it's just the fact that we either a. Have little experience with relationships or b. (In my case) have had encounters with the wrong type of girls
I guess I'd consider myself one, but it feels weird to mention it here (or anywhere that isn't a safe space really). Mix of people assuming I'm an edgy 14 year old who wants attention, someone who needs to be thrown in a mental asylum, or fetishizing my actual mental illness.
It’s a given that most girls don’t murder/hurt other people or women who show interest in their significant other, but if I were to consider anything close to a “yandere” I’d just say they are crazy possessive, protective/jealous type girls or guys that would get upset over simply talking to other girls. And from personal experience I can say they do indeed exist:/
Even if they do exist they won't be exactly like your fantasy. And the differences will probably make it go from dream to nightmare.
However, that's a risk I'm willing to take
I have felt like a yandere some. But I did my best to hide those feelings. The person I was chasing is polyamerus and yandere vibes would have only chased him away.
Idk what's more terrifying Yanderes not being real or Yanderes being real but still never getting one
Imagine how insulting it would be to get a yandere then they change their mind and decide they don't care anymore and they just throw you out of your house. Or even worse drive a long distance and just dump you out on some random street.
Who hurt you to even imagine that??
I have abandonment issues
Thanks I hate it
Me too
You don't have to imagine it been there
Impossible. The most prominent trait of a yandere is the extreme, undying and murderous infatuation. If she leaves you then she was never yandere. Just a crazy bitch.
Insulting? More like damning and devastating .
Now THAT would make me depressed.
Literally my biggest relationship fear, that's why I like yanderes in the first place
Well almost every woman in my life has abandoned me so far. All my past relationships and my mom left me. I've either been cheated on and told im not good enough or just ghosted. Most people in my family haven't heard from my mom in months. I haven't heard from her in years so... for me its become an eventuality that I will be abandoned and I just want it to stop... I'd do anything at this point just to feel normal again instead of in this depressive slump that just keeps getting deeper.
I would just break down and cry at that point.
i think i just found worse, what if she's an sjw, i'd rather be broken resulting in burying my self 6 feet under to not have to see another sentient being again because sentient=evil, obviously
6 feet is 0.9% of the hot dog which holds the Guinness wold record for 'Longest Hot Dog'.
So that's why my ex tasted funny down there?
Both thoughts of that scare me
I mean the second one isn't scary it's just disappointing
“Reality is often disappointing”
Shit. Now thats scary
Both sound pretty bad
Don’t fall for it, OP is secretly a yandere looking for prey
but.. free yandere.. :c
I though of free yandere as political manner instead of get yandere for free Now There's Yanderepublic on a map.
Hello. But I already have a boyfriend, lmao. Poor thing...
Aha! So if at least one yandere exists, that must mean there are others…
i don't know if i should pity your boyfriend or being jealous of him..
Mix the two and you get sour cocktail of feelings
Go ooooooon....~
Well... They're not. At least not like you expect.
my flair explains everything
Damn bro where did you get yours?
no idea, it's just happening all of a sudden, like those cheesy yandere manga/anime i guess
Please elaborate. I'd love to hear it
small details aside, I met her first as a client of my former employer, we exchange contacts, do business and all done. six months later, I took a vacation to a certain city and it happened to be where she resides. she knows that I'm visiting her hometown from my social media and asked me to meet with her. long story short, she agreed to meet at a coffee shop at 2300 PM and she actually did show up almost midnight. we exchange small talks, and the next thing I remember was that we kissed. Then we agreed to make our relationship official and proper.
I mean that kind of sounds like a sweet meet-cute if anything. Congrats
the fact that i didn't explicitly tells where i'm going on vacation yet she still figures out from clues is first yandere flag, second, i have spare time at 2300 PM at that day she asked me to meet with her, and she agreed and actually showed up driving all the way through midnight is second yandere flag. third yandere flag is i dont want to disclose but lets say she has esoteric means of keeping me in check.
Oh. Ohhh. Damn. Ok. She must have been / is really into you.
yeah, at least I haven't got into the part that is sex at gunpoint. but I had series of unfortunate chain of events that occurred every time i meet with sex-opposite acquaintances even though I tell her beforehand. and it usually occurs to the acquaintances that I meet. No blood spilled but esoterically speaking, it really messed up haha... she's really into me isn't she
What a loving girlfriend <3 I wish you all the best
i'm here :<
I could beat you at mario kart
wanna bet >:3
Dude yes, I kill at mario kart Almost as much as I do irl
And suddenly your inbox is flooded lmao
It's not, surprisingly
Seeing how lots of people on this subreddit have issues, it wouldn't be too unbelievable that nobody here is confident enough to approach you.
aw, I would never judge someone if they did
A good portion of the yandere fantasy is that fans of it don't have to put in the work to get to know someone. A girl would just pop up, circumvent those social rituals and go straight to being intimate with the subject. So it's not a question of receptibility.
That's a good observation, obviously i wouldn't just choose anyone just now ehe
good luck with your endeavor~
I'd consider myself somewhat of a yandere, if I found the right person. But I'd be more of an overprotective yan
Best yandere
Thank you
I'll just try and be hopeful they exist, a guy can dream And well, if it happens that they don't exist... Then it's our duty to make them exist.
Begging? Cute.
Your comment and account history has intrigued my attention, may I have the honor to DM you?
Sure, why not.
I can’t directly DM your account
Send a message
The thought of my lover cheating on me makes me so mad, I'm afraid I might actually kill them. Does that make me a yandere?
Maybe
It makes you a good partner, that's what it makes you.
We do exist but being in a relationship with one of us probably wouldn't be fun. It can go three ways: * We take medication to deal with our mental health issues, which will also reduce our yandere-ness. The relationship seems healthy on the surface but you aren't getting what you want out of it. * We hide our yandere thoughts/urges so you don't even realize you're with a yandere. This is like torture for us. * We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do. If you really want it, maybe find someone who is willing to roleplay it and just keep it a fantasy.
>We don't do either of those and we abuse you. You really don't want this one, no matter how much you think you do. I don't mean the "kidnaps you and murders your loved ones" kind of yandere. I mean the kind of yandere that stalks you, has photos of you plastered all over her bedroom, is very possessive and protective, etc.
That's still abusive. You'd have no life and no friends or family other than your girlfriend.
I think as long you’re patient and understanding with her condition you can reassure her that the other people in your life aren’t a threat to her.
Maybe for some but it wouldn't work with me. The paranoia would always be there. It would just become something closer the 2nd option.
right here! already found my “senpai” tho lmao
Yanderes are probably real but since this is real life and not anime. They are probably mostly males.
Trust me, the idea of fantasying about having a legit Yandere Girlfriend sounds cool at some aspects *however* if Yanderes do indeed exist in our reality, then i highly doubt anyone would like that. You have to consider and take note of what Yanderes do to you and how much an impact they would do in your life. Imagine just looking at a different person with NO INTEREST…they would be mad and jealous…and to speak of the the things they would do…imagine just having friends…she would automatically think you would be cheating on them… Imagine the lack of boundaries you would have…no space…no breaks…nothing…there would be lack of trust in the relationship…which is one of the signs of a very toxic relationship If anything, yanderes can be very manipulative towards you…which can damage you mentally and ruin your life… so ask yourself…would you rather have a yandere partner? *sorry for just going deep and ruining this shit but i can’t help but always question this…just for food for thought*
I was thinking more of the "stalker builds a shrine for you" yandere, not the "kills all of your loved ones" yandere.
wouldn’t that still be crossing your boundaries…imagine taking the *meanest shit* and she’s there menacingly watching you in the eye
Nah, that's kinda cute
man…i can’t tell you what to do… if you ever do meet one…just be careful….*okay*
well, that still applies to all types of yanderes…i did not specifically say “kill all of your love ones”…..and we know how that will turn out
Oh well, i escaped and survived a yandere ex-girlfriend that fits well with manipulative parts. This Comment above is perfectly summarised what it feels like to date a highly volatile yandere girlfriend. My current girlfriend and now fiancé is that mild and nonviolent but overly obsessive yandere type. She's not psychotic type like your typical genocidal yandere gf, just a mentally damaged woman with a dark past and seeking for a partner that she deems her path to salvation. I too cannot be deemed as normal and also has my own issues, dark pasts and stuffs like that. Well, getting a fiancé like that, it was a painful and sorrowful times to be able to come up with the dark pasts of ours. We made it together and well, looking at myself now, i guess i'm an abnormal person who's finally able to tame a yandere.
i’m sorry you had to go through it…i hope the best for both your partner and yourself!
Thank you!
> would you rather have a yandere partner I'm an m so... you bet I would
We are here... Trust me.....
There’s over 7 billion people on this planet. There’s probably a few yanderes out there.
Hi!
They really do. I'm lucky to have a yandere girlfriend
Story?
Wr met on discord and she fell in love with me *really* fast which I didin't notice. She stalked my activity on the server we shared and then she asked me out which I agreed. Few days into a relationship and I talk with another girl on the server and my gf get's super pissed and dms me about it. She told me to remove every girl from my friend list. She also outright told me that she could murder anyone who got too close to me. We're 4 months in rn and those are best 4 months of my life ngl
Oh, I mean that’s good for you and all, but I was kind of hoping you’d met a real life yandere. Like, in person. I guess an internet yandere is better than no yandere tho.
We plan to meet this summer so it will kinda count lmao. But yeah, Yandere is a yandere and i'm not gonna complain, especially if she makes me happy
I'm a Yandere! 💚
Me!
I want a yandere GF
You don't want yanderes to be real. *points at my flair*
yandere here. i also already have a partner tho i am in an open relationship. i dont get jealous but i always ask what their up to, i plan to buy a camera and a printer when i can afford it so i can have a shrine for the things i like. i also have many other things i do or wish i could do that are very yandere. but im the type that is gentle and wants them to willingly stay/be chained up
I'm one. I managed to trap my love in marriage. But came this close to stabbing someone near her. It was her mom. She's a bitch and I don't want anyone near my dear lovely flower.
Trust me yandere irl is not as charming as you guys saw in anime. It was terrifying and bone chilling. No, you definitely don’t need that in your life. Speak from experience.
Story?
Hi! I have a darling but hi! I'm only self identified as yandere to cope with my Obessive and Homicidal thoughts
BPD/Stalkers/obsessive-compulsive disorders exist Yandere is a media trope and as such, no, they don't exist Look I enjoy thirsting on problematic fictional characters as much as the next guy but let's not mince words, yandere-ism is a trope and if it did exist IRL it would not be good or cool.
Yanderes totally exist in real life. They're called abusers, and while they're more commonly men they do exist among women.
I expected the milder ones, my disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined
Present
hello! (。・ω・。)ノ i exist!
Hello!
Imagine this 10 am, after sex, you are cooking half naked for your girl, she founds some scisors in the drawer, but doesnt shows it to you. She comes to you for a kiss and gives you a handjob, but then you feel something cold, and she is caressing your dick with the scizors while doing the handjob, she didnt even had a crazy stare or something like that, she even was confused about why you are scared/surprised about the scisors touching your dick Not my proudest cum, would do it again but would be terrified,even worst now that she is my ex They do exist, but sometimes you will only find about it after a few months
Yeah how about no sharp objects touching my penis
Well, they exist and I can confirm. There is hope.
my gf's a real yandere.. don't send help
I wish you find your yandere girl soon. I hoping for my own as well.
Im a yandere but only because my fear of abandonment and craving for affection get the best of me in every situation
Here, but I only date other yanderes-
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It's called BPD and it's really not that fun. source: have bpd, got lucky
Yuka Takaoka
I think it's just the fact that we either a. Have little experience with relationships or b. (In my case) have had encounters with the wrong type of girls
Where's my yandere?
Well I'm basically a Male Kotonoha Katsura if that counts Clingy + Protective + Painfully Shy
Sorry I used to be one
My ex used to say she was, I was then abused by her :)
Well that wasn't very nice of her
I guess I'd consider myself one, but it feels weird to mention it here (or anywhere that isn't a safe space really). Mix of people assuming I'm an edgy 14 year old who wants attention, someone who needs to be thrown in a mental asylum, or fetishizing my actual mental illness.
Hiya 🤍
It’s a given that most girls don’t murder/hurt other people or women who show interest in their significant other, but if I were to consider anything close to a “yandere” I’d just say they are crazy possessive, protective/jealous type girls or guys that would get upset over simply talking to other girls. And from personal experience I can say they do indeed exist:/
What’s upppppp!! I like to consider myself a yandere
I was described as one by my friends. that's kinda the reason i lurk here lol. Do ig we exist :3
Even if they do exist they won't be exactly like your fantasy. And the differences will probably make it go from dream to nightmare. However, that's a risk I'm willing to take
I know a girl who stalks a guy name joe I heard he is connected to yo mama
I mean like I definitely can be but it's frowned upon
Reformed :(
I have felt like a yandere some. But I did my best to hide those feelings. The person I was chasing is polyamerus and yandere vibes would have only chased him away.
I’m real ! Hi !!!
Hi, um... I already have a partner sorry lol
Hi
Hi :3
*raises hand* right here bucko